Sounds like mind games for sure. But you are complacent …

Comment on 10 Silly Mind Games Your Ex Is Playing by Love Doctor Yangki Akiteng.

Sounds like mind games for sure. But you are complacent in this, may be even playing mind games yourself.

The man is married… that should be an exit clue for you. What were you doing entertaining the attentions of a married man for 5 years; a man you say was abusive?!

Next time you get into a relationship remember, “you teach people how thy treat you”. If you make it okay for someone to treat you a certain way, they will.

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Don’t be so hard on yourself. You know what they say…. “everybody plays a fool someday or another”.


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Have you seen this? 3 STRONG Reasons NOT to Do ‘No Contact”


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Wanting what you can’t have is the ego’s nature… a struggle mentality.

Turning the tables on your ex the way you describe is like applying for a bank loan and when rejected, sending a letter to the bank telling them you didn’t even want the loan (because that will make the bank feel rejected… Duh!?).


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It’s always heart-warming to read stories like yours, and I accept the thanks. But as they say, any advice is only as good as the person using it. You made it happen for you.

And you’re right, there is no such a thing as a perfect relationship, but there are relationships that are close to perfect.

I am happy for you! All the VERY best.


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Doing right towards each other is a testament to your love and to the level of personal growth you’ve both achieved. I hope that you’ll both attract someone radiating at the same level of maturity. Much respect!


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I see your point, but what if she doesn’t come to you, then what?

Your relationship definitely needs to change, but it’s not going to change just because you change who reaches out first and/or tries to make things work.


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I am glad to be of some help.

I hope all goes well.


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You will not be disrespecting her request because you are not asking her to get back into the relationship/be a couple. Her request was not to stop contacting her but to give her space away from the relationship so she can grow as a person.

So go ahead and initiate contact while keeping her request in mind. The worst thing that can happen to a relationship is that two people take a break with the intention of creating a better relationship, only to regroup and things are the same, or worse, there is no relationship.


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