And you probably were “special” and she genuinely loved you …

Comment on 10 Sneaky Signs Your Ex Is Manipulating Your Emotions by Yangki Akiteng.

And you probably were “special” and she genuinely loved you back. It’s just that their way of loving and caring can be destructive to you personally and to the relationship, especially if they have been that way for a very long time and manipulation is the only way they know how to love or care about someone (or engage the world at large).

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How to Build A Strong Emotional Connection With Your Ex
You can’t create emotional connection if conversations don’t last for long. There is always a reason why conversations don’t last long, some of it has to do with your ex; some of it with you and some of it with the situation (what is happening). Trying to force emotional connection often pushes an ex further away.

I am happy to talk to you and figure out why your conversations don’t hold for long and get your ex emotionally invested enough to want to connect emotionally.

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No, it is not. I am happy to talk to you about your situation if you think it will help.

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It does. Everything you wrote does… 🙂

It’s best to tell her how much contact you are comfortable with. Most people if you tell them respectfully understand some people need more contact and others need less. Don’t wait until it’s
too much” and pull away or tell her how you feel when you are ‘frustrated” (dismissive way).

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It is good to read feedback like yours. It’s always my hope that in some small way I can contribute to others finding their way to secure attachment.

You are right in your observation. It is more difficult for someone with an insecure attachment style (anxious, fearful, or avoidant) to provide a secure base without first doing their own. Their advice will be influenced by their own attachment style.

All the very best on your journey to secure attachment!

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I am happy to answer any questions you have.

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