May be there is nothing you did wrong. He thought …

Comment on 10 Signs Your Boyfriend Or Girlfriend Is Selfish by Love Doctor, Yangki Christine Akiteng.

May be there is nothing you did wrong. He thought he wanted to be in a relationship and later realized he didn’t want to be in one.

Accept that it ended and you don’t know why. It doesn’t make what he did right, but it helps you move on.

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10 Signs Your Boyfriend Or Girlfriend Is Selfish
To Chris:

It’s VERY common for people to act so selflessly with strangers and people not close to them and act selfishly with people close to them. But it’s those most closest to us that know us better. They spend more time and share a lot more with us…

If more than one person close to you has told you that you are selfish… chances are that you are. There are two things you can do:

You can choose to defend, rationalize or dismiss it as something that “depends on…” and even fault/blame it on the people who point out when you are being selfish OR you can choose to be more self-aware and self-correct when you find that you are acting selfishly.

If you are serious about changing, your wife can be a great source of help. Tell her you are working on changing and ask her to help you by telling you when you are being selfish. Get her to help instead of complain/nag!!!


10 Signs Your Boyfriend Or Girlfriend Is Selfish
It’s not confusing at all. The point of the article is not to justify anything or even explain why someone is behaving the way they do. The point of the article is… after you read the list… make the best decision as to what you want to do FOR YOURSELF. The decision as to what you do after you confirm that he/she is a selfish person is YOURS.

I do not believe in making decisions for others. It does not empower anyone for someone else to make decisions for them that they should be making on their own.

From reading your recent comment, seems to me there is much more going on in your relationship than this article covers. My blog policy is that — to avoid unnecessary clutter and diversion from the topic of the article — I only address to what pertains to the article.


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