10 Emotions That Make Your Ex Attracted To You (Laughter)

The No.9 emotion that makes your ex feel attracted to you is amusement or laughter

Many studies show a direct link between laugher and the ability to create and sustain attraction.

Laughter or amusement as an emotion has the power to override other emotions, at least temporarily. In day-to-day interactions with your ex; laughter, humour and amusement can be very effective in defusing the feelings of hurt, resentment and even anger.

Laughter and humour is also a powerful emotion for re-establishing a bond with your ex. So if you want to create or increase your ex’s attraction, create moments where you both can laugh. Sharing videos, memes, clips etc., is one way to trigger the emotion of amusement and laughter.

If things have moved to a place where you both can talk about the past without it triggering either of you relieving funny and silly moments and experiences and sharing inside jokes creates attraction, and re-establishes the bond you had.

However, moments where you are both laughing together at the same time forms more meaningful connections and stronger a bond. In my experience, bonding happens faster and is stronger during in-person interaction, followed by video chat, audio chat and IM; in that order.

Always try to use the 3-1 positivity ratio. The 3-1 positivity ratio simply means it takes three positive experiences to offset one negative experience. For every negative emotional experience, you need to experience at least three heartfelt positive emotional experiences that uplift you.

This means that for every tense interaction with your ex, you need at least three heartfelt positive light-hearted experiences with laughter to make your ex forget the bad experience, even if it’s temporarily.

If you need help with making interactions with your ex less emotionally intense and heated, and/or creating light-hearted conversations, or the other 9 emotions that make your ex feel attracted to you,  I’m happy to work with you 1-on-1 to make sure the targeted emotion is coming across right; and creating the desired impact.

The No.10 emotion that makes your ex feel attracted to you is inspiration