10 Emotions That Make Your Ex Attracted To You (Interest)

The No.6 emotion that makes your ex feel attracted to you is interest

Interest is the emotion we all want to feel from and ex. If an ex doesn’t show any interest, it’s hard even to reach out. Interest is also an emotion your ex wants to feel to want continue talking to you, want to see you; or want to get back together.

Interest as an emotion is felt as a need to know more, hear more, see more and learn more about something or someone. It’s triggered when something new or different draws and focuses our attention. This is why trying to recreate the old relationship and go back to how things used to be, relying on old memories to try to create new attraction, refusing to accept things changed, doing the same activities and going to the same places you went without introducing something new into the mix  isn’t the best way to get your ex’s interest.

To make your ex feel interested in you again, they must feel that they’re exploring a new relationship, one filled with possibility, adventure and excitement. Every interaction and every conversation must leave your ex feeling “This is new, I’ve not felt this way in a long time, I want more”. This has to be consistent, not just once in a while.

Make sure you use the 3-1 positivity ratio to create interest in your ex. The 3-1 positivity ratio simply means it takes three positive experiences to offset one negative experience. This means that for every experience that made your ex lose interest, you need at least three heartfelt positive experiences to see any interest from your ex.

If you need help with making your ex feel like they’re exploring a new relationship, or the other 9 emotions that make your ex feel attracted to you, I’m happy to work with you 1-on-1 to make sure the targeted emotion is coming across right and creating the desired impact.

The No.7 emotion that makes your ex feel attracted to you is hope