10 Emotions That Make Your Ex Attracted To You (Admiration)

The No.4 emotion that makes your ex feel attracted to you is admiration

Admiration, awe, wonderment, fascination or respect as an emotion generates intense interest and a strong feeling of excitement. In terms of attraction, something or someone who we admire, fascinates or intrigues us is very attractive. They’re attractive because fascination and love both originate in the limbic area of the brain. This means someone who finds us fascinating and admires us is likely to find us an attractive love interest, and we are likely to fall in love with someone we admire and find fascinating.

This is where dating someone you dated before has some benefits. You already know what your ex admires about you and what is it about you that fascinates or intrigues them. Maybe it’s your self-confidence, maybe it’s your sense of responsibility and how you’re there for others, maybe it’s how hard you work and are successful at what you do, maybe it’s your values and commitment to doing the right thing, maybe it’s your body and gym routine, etc. You can make your ex feel intense attraction again by being the person that they admired and found fascinating enough to fall in love with.

Part of being fascinating is also being fascinated. Your ex needs to feel you admire and are fascinated by them for mutual admiration and fascination to feel exciting and to last. They need to feel the way they felt when you looked at them when you first met, lit up when they walked into the room, stared at them when they were speaking etc.

Make sure to use the 3-1 positivity ratio to create emotions that make your ex feel attracted to you. The 3-1 positivity ratio simply means it takes three positive experiences to offset one negative experience. This means that for every experience that made your ex feel that you stopped being fascinated by them or that the relationship had lost it’s amazement factor, you need at least three experiences to make your ex feel awed and fascinated again.

If you need help with make your ex feel awed and fascinated again, or the other 9 emotions that make your ex feel attracted to you, I’m happy to work with you 1-on-1 to make sure the targeted emotion is coming across right and is creating the desired impact.

The No.5 emotion that makes your ex feel attracted to you is joy