Emotions That Make Your Ex Feel Attracted To You – No.4 Awe
Awe, wonderment or fascination as an emotion generates intense interest and a strong feeling of excitement. In terms of attraction, something or someone who fascinates or intrigues us is very attractive. They’re attractive because fascination and love both originate in the limbic area of the brain. This means that if you’re making your ex feel fascination; you’re also triggering felt-love or the feeling of being in love..
When you fascinate your ex, you have their complete attention. This is where dating someone you dated before has some benefits. You know what fascinates your ex and makes them feel intrigued. You can use this knowledge of your ex to make them feel intense interest and excitement.
Part of being fascinating is also being fascinated. Just as much you want your ex’s complete emotional focus to be on you; you also need to give your ex your complete emotional focus for your ex to feel attracted to you.
You can use awe, wonderment or fascination at any any stage of trying to attract back your ex. Make sure to use the 3-1 positivity ratio to create emotions that make your ex feel attracted to you. The 3-1 positivity ratio simply means it takes three positive experiences to offset one negative experience. For every heart-wrenching negative emotional experience you endure; you need to experience at least three heartfelt positive emotional experiences that uplift you.
This means that for every experience that made your ex felt that the relationship had lost it’s amazement factor; you need at least three heartfelt positive emotional experiences to make your ex feel awed and fascinated again.
If you need help with emotion No.4, or the other 9 emotions that make your ex feel attracted to you; I’m happy to work with you 1-on-1 to make sure the targeted emotion is coming across right; and is creating the desired impact.