Emotions That Make Your Ex Feel Attracted To You – No.2 Calm
Serenity or calm is feeling relaxed, peaceful, drama-free, no emotional stress and no pressure.
How do you trigger calm in your ex? First and foremost by not acting like two people in one body. It’s very confusing, and scary for your ex when one moment you are all loving and caring; the next moment you angry and cut off all contact. Then you are back again reaching out and acting loving and caring. It’s confusing and off-putting when an ex does it; it is confusing and off-putting when you do it.
Next, by making sure that interactions with your ex are pressure free, drama free and stress free. To make your ex feel attracted to you again, keep out the drama; and stop pressuring your ex to get back together. Focus on making your interactions as relaxed and tension free as possible.
Your are trying to attract back an ex, there will be moments of tension here and there. To make sure your ex feels attracted to you; remain as calm as possible and not let your emotions get in the way.
Make sure you use the 3-1 positivity ratio to make your ex feels you being calm and centered. The 3-1 positivity ratio simply means it takes three positive experiences to offset one negative experience. For every heart-wrenching negative emotional experience you endure you need to experience at least three heartfelt positive emotional experiences that uplift you.
For every experience that made your ex feel pressured or overwhelmed; you need at least three heartfelt positive emotional experiences to make your ex feel that things have changed for the better.
If you need help with emotion No.2, or the other 9 emotions that make your ex feel attracted to you; I’m happy to work with you 1-on-1 to make sure the targeted emotion is coming across right; and is creating the desired impact.