10 Emotions That Make Your Ex Attracted To You (Calm)

The No.2 emotion that makes your ex feel attracted to you is calm 

Calm as an emotion is a state of being relaxed, peaceful, self-restrained, disciplined, easy-going, stress-free and approachable. It’s an emotion that all attachment styles (even fearful avoidants who thrive in chaos) find attractive and desire in themselves. This is because people who are calm are calming to others.

When trying to get back together with an ex, calmness means drama-free, no emotional stress and no pressure interactions. It means being able to process your emotions before they get in the way of connection, being able to see different view points, not overthinking things, not taking everything too seriously and being able to slow down and let things unfold before acting.

To make your ex feel attracted to you, show quiet confidence that comes from feeling confident that you can handle any situation that comes your way, and that when all is said and done, you will be okay. This means avoiding emotional drama, stressful and tension-ridden interactions, stop pressuring your ex to get back together and focusing on making your interactions as relaxed, peaceful and emotionally mature as possible.

The power of being calm when trying to get an ex back is that when you are calm, centered and self-disciplined, you are more able to communicate in ways that accurately reflect who you really are in an authentic way, and also honours and values who your ex is.

Make sure you use the 3-1 positivity ratio to make your ex feels you being calm, centered and approachable. For every experience that made your ex feel pressured or overwhelmed, you need at least three stress-free, relaxed and calming experiences to make your ex feel that things have changed for the better.

If you need help with being calm, centered and approachable, or the other 9 emotions that make your ex feel attracted to you; I’m happy to work with you 1-on-1 to make sure the targeted emotion is coming across right; and is creating the desired impact.

The No.3 emotion that makes your ex feel attracted to you is gratitude