Emotions That Make Your Ex Feel Attracted To You – No.10 Inspiration
Hearing “you inspire me” from someone you love, more specifically from an ex triggers very strong emotions. This is because when someone is inspiring, we’re moved to be the best possible version of ourselves. They teach us to be better by being better.
Inspiration matters a lot when trying to get back you ex because for your ex to even want to try the relationship again; they must feel that you are in some way ‘better” than the person they broke up with.
They’re looking for any signs that internally move them to want to be with you again. What they are looking for is signs of personal growth.
If you want your ex to feel attracted to you, and you are not inspiring personal growth, you are doing yourself, and your ex a disservice. Make a commitment to inspire the best possible versions of yourselves in your text or in person interaction.
Make sure you use the 3-1 positivity ratio to trigger love in your ex. The 3-1 positivity ratio simply means it takes three positive experiences to offset one negative experience. For every heart-wrenching negative emotional experience you endure; you need to experience at least three heartfelt positive emotional experiences that uplift you.
This means that for every experience that made your ex ; you need at least three heartfelt positive emotional experiences to make your ex start feeling love again.
If you need help with emotion No.10, or the other 9 emotions that make your ex feel attracted to you; I’m happy to work 1-on-1 with you to make sure the targeted emotion is coming across right; and creating the desired impact.