Emotions That Make Your Ex Feel Attracted To You – No.1 Love
Love is the first emotion you should make your ex feel because love drives attraction. Even an ex who still loves you; and knows you love them needs to feel love through your words and actions.
What does love feel like?
Love as an emotion is felt-love. It’s what we feel or experience as “in love”, “feeling love” or “feel loved”; and is measured by passion, closeness, and commitment. When one partner does not feel love or feel loved, the relationship struggles.
While love itself doesn’t require any effort, felt-love requires work; you have to grow and nurture it.
Researchers find that people who experience high levels of ‘felt love’ also have significantly higher feelings of purpose and optimism, compared to those who had lower felt love levels.
Identify which measurement of felt-love (passion, closeness, and commitment) caused the relationship to end; and work on creating experiences of felt-love in your interactions with your ex. Sometimes you need to work on all the three. And when it comes to making your ex feel love, every emotion counts. So use every emotion listed in the 10 emotions that make your ex feel attracted to you.
Make sure you use the 3-1 positivity ratio to make your ex feel love. The 3-1 positivity ratio simply means it takes three positive experiences to offset one negative experience. For every heart-wrenching negative emotional experience you endure; you need to experience at least three heartfelt positive emotional experiences that uplift you.
This means that for every experience that made your ex lose the love feeling; you need at least three heartfelt positive emotional experiences to make your ex start feeling love again.
If you need help with emotion No.1, or the other 9 emotions that make your ex feel attracted to you; I’m happy to work with you 1-on-1 to make sure the targeted emotion is coming across right; and is creating the desired impact.