How To Reach Out But Not Chase A Dismissive Avoidant Ex
byQuestion: Should I reach out to my dismissive avoidant ex or is it chasing a dismissive avoidant ex if I keep reaching out? I’m…
10 Strong Signs You’re Meant To Be Together
If you are here because you are asking “Are there signs that you’re meant to be together. My ex and I love each other,…
What Does It Mean When Your Ex Replies Quickly To Texts?
Question: My ex replies to my text messages quickly. Sometimes she responds immediately and other times he replies within 30 minutes. 30 minutes may…
Empathetic Responding – The Key to Emotional Connection (VIDEO)
Empathy is when we meet someone at where they are emotionally and feel what they feel without trying to ‘fix’ their perception of the…
How Self-Compassion Can Help You Attract Back Your Ex (VIDEO)
Months have passed but you still find yourself spending every waking moment thinking about what you could have done differently to stop the break-up,…
Why Your Break-Up Does Not Make Any Sense
There are some break-ups that should have never happened, and yours is probably one of them if you’re currently experiencing this, or have had…
8 Simple Rules For Contacting Your Ex (Secure Attachment Model)
These 8 simple rules for contacting your ex based on a secure attachment model work for an avoidant ex as well as an anxious…
What An Anxious Attached MUST DO To Get Back Their Ex
byWhat should someone with an anxious attachment style do to get back their ex? First and foremost they should stop getting in their own…
How Long After A Break-Up Do You Start Dating Again?
You tried to get back your ex and it didn’t work. So much damage had been inflicted on the relationship that it just could…
My Ex Has A Problem With How I Look – Can I Change His Mind?
Question: My ex and I were in a relationship for three years. He broke up with me for some ‘not clear reason’. After the…
Toxic Bonds And On-and-Off Again Relationships
One of the most painful things about a break-up is remembering all the wonderful things your ex said about you. They said you were…
Empathetic Responding – The Key to Emotional Connection (VIDEO)
Empathy is when we meet someone at where they are emotionally and feel what they feel without trying to ‘fix’ their perception of the…
How Self-Compassion Can Help You Attract Back Your Ex (VIDEO)
Months have passed but you still find yourself spending every waking moment thinking about what you could have done differently to stop the break-up,…
My Dismissive Avoidant Ex Cheated, Will She Cheat Again?
Question: Yangki, it’s been almost 3 months since my ex and I got back together. I found out my dismissive avoidant ex cheated and…
10 SIGNS You’re In A Situationship (It’s NOT A Relationship)
A “situationship’ is very much like a relationship. It looks and feels like you are in a relationship and has many of the things…
Empathetic Responding – The Key to Emotional Connection (VIDEO)
Empathy is when we meet someone at where they are emotionally and feel what they feel without trying to ‘fix’ their perception of the…
How Self-Compassion Can Help You Attract Back Your Ex (VIDEO)
Months have passed but you still find yourself spending every waking moment thinking about what you could have done differently to stop the break-up,…
10 Most Confusing Mixed Signals From A Fearful Avoidant Ex
Some things exes do regardless of their attachment style can be very confusing. But nothing compares to the mixed signals from a fearful avoidant…
Can Someone Love Two People At The Same Time?
Yes. You can love two or more people at the same time. What we call love (sometimes it’ just chemistry, attraction or lust) happens…
How Do You Know Someone Is Interested In You?
It’s in the way they look at you, want to be around you and want you to know they find your interesting. They make…
Traits That Make You Difficult To Replace – Ideal Partner
What makes someone want to devote to “keeping you” depends on whether or not you are the best partner available to them based on…
What Makes Someone Want To Invest More In A Relationship?
Certainty. According to a study published in Computers in Human Behavior, people are more likely to invest in a relationship in which the future…
Over 40, Men Become Pickier Than Women
Women under 40 looking for a partner online are more selective than men when it comes to a potential mate’s education level but over…
10 Dating Rules You Shouldn’t Be Following
The dating model that male and female interactions follow today has far too many rules that it’s hard to keep up with the latest…
Are Nice Guys Victims Of Women Or Manipulators Of Women?
I have never hidden my disgust and disdain for so-called players or pick-up artists. I find them to be predators of the worst kind,…
How Much Sex Is Considered Normal ?
While there really is no excuse for infidelity, the growing trend of labeling every man (or woman) who has a sexual libido that is…
Give As Much Attention To Yourself As You Are Giving To Your Ex
Over the years, I have seen that sometimes the difference between men and women who attract back their ex and those who don’t is…
8 Things You Can Tell About A Man From A Kiss
Can we judge a man’s love potential just by the way he kisses? Some women I have spoken to say, yes. They say that…
Does Being Nice To My Ex Make Me Weak?
The response I sometimes get to the advice to cultivate an environment of cooperation is, “If I am too nice to her, don’t you…
My Fearful Avoidant Ex Has Changed But I Still Have Doubts
Question: My fearful avoidant ex has really made attempts to change and make the relationship work and for the past month things have really…
I Told My Ex Not To Contact Me, Did I Make A Mistake?
Question: Yangki, I like the rest of your advice but disagree on continuing contact if your ex does not want to try the relationship…
Is Your Ex Indecisive – That May Be A Good Thing
If your ex is indecisive, frustrating as it may be, maybe it’s actually a good thing that they think through decisions thoroughly. I was…
The Land Where Women Rule!
In the Xiaolianghshan Mountains, Yunnan province (South East China), live the Mosuo people, one of the last living matriarchal societies today. They are closely…
Are You Really In Love – How Invested Are You?
In today’s culture, and especially in these hard economic times, many of us are paying more attention to our bank accounts than we’re paying…
It’s OK to Fall In Love With Ugly (But Try Not to Cry)
Every now and then we all need to hear words of encouragement to give us that extra push; words of support when we’re passing…
7 Reasons It Feels Like Nothing Is Going Right
The “Wrong Bus Syndrome” is commonly associated with Wangari Maathai Wangari, 2004 Nobel Peace Prize Winner. She used this analogy to draw attention to…
Do You Deserve Better Than Your Ex?
If your ex is constantly telling you that you deserve better even after you have told them several times that they are who you…
Give As Much Attention To Yourself As You Are Giving To Your Ex
Over the years, I have seen that sometimes the difference between men and women who attract back their ex and those who don’t is…
Moving To Be Closer To Your Ex – Good Or Bad Idea?
Question: In my case, I feel like the distance is a disadvantage to me and I can’t do anything about it. He wants to…