Is A Scarcity Mentality Making You Needy?
A scarcity mentality is when you believe/think/see something as existing in limited supply. In the world of relationships, a person with a scarcity mentality…
How Do I Make My Ex Feel Fun and Happy Again?
Question: My ex left nearly 2 weeks ago, because she felt something was “missing”, that we havent really been working through any issues for…
My Ex Says He’s Too Busy – Is He Being Selfish?
Question: Hi, I really have learned a lot from your postings. My ex and I were been best friends and in love for 4…
15 Signs You’re Addicted To Emotional Drama (Crazy Psycho Ex?)
Many of us know at least one person who is in a constant state of emotional crisis and unnecessary drama. Every day there is…
Love Is Not Supposed to Hurt – But Why Are You Hurting?
Love is not supposed to hurt, and relationships were never designed for us to suffer or struggle. But why do many of us struggle…
Great Advice On Attachment Styles and Text Messaging
I found this little gem on Psychology Today, written by Hal Shorey Ph.D. It’s a long article about why attachment styles and texting don’t…
Self-Concept Reorganization Helps You Move On From A Break-Up
Humans are wired to be able to move on after a break-up. The pain will go away with time. We will recover, and we…
Love Is Not Supposed to Hurt – But Why Are You Hurting?
Love is not supposed to hurt, and relationships were never designed for us to suffer or struggle. But why do many of us struggle…
Your Ex Is NOT Going To Respond – STOP Pestering
Don’t you just hate it when despite being the ‘wronged’ party you are the one trying to reach out and the other person is…
My Ex Cheated, Will She Cheat Again?
Question: Yangki, it’s been almost 3 months since my ex and I got back together. I found out she cheated and but after going…
Love Is Not Supposed to Hurt – But Why Are You Hurting?
Love is not supposed to hurt, and relationships were never designed for us to suffer or struggle. But why do many of us struggle…
Why He’s Afraid Of Commitment
Right now our relationship is great. We have a wonderful time and great sex. If we get married we’ll end up just like all…
9 Reasons to Ask For Commitment
Back in the days of courtship, there were relatively clear steps in the formation of a long term committed relationship. Both parties entered the…
Rush to Marry – Waiting Until Early 30s Is A Thing
Over the last five decades, Canadians have been getting married later and later. From 1981 to 2011, the percentage of 25 to 29-year-old Canadians…
10 Signs Your Dating Relationship Is In Deep Trouble
Your relationship may have started out with excitement, passion and great hope. There was lots of love and trust to go around but now,…
If You Love Someone Should You Tell Them?
If you love someone should you tell him or her? Some of you will say “Yes. absolutely”. But most of you will probably say,…
Is Your Ex Indecisive – That May Be A Good Thing
I was talking to a client about how his ex thinks he is the most indecisive person she’s ever met and complains about how…
10 Obvious Signs Your Ex Is Becoming Interested Again
Question: I just wanted to say thanks for all the advice, it is truly a great help. I feel like my ex is warming…
Does Being Nice To My Ex Make Me Weak?
The response I sometimes get to the advice to cultivate an environment of cooperation is, “If I am too nice to her, don’t you…
Should I Ask My Ex If She’s Seeing Someone?
Question: I am inspired by your answers. My question is: Can I ask my ex if she is seeing someone else and if she…
How Do You Know Someone Is Interested In You?
It’s in the way they look at you, want to be around you and want you to know they find your interesting. They make…
Should I Tell Her I’m Not Looking For A Serious Relationship?
Question: My ex broke up with me 8 months ago and refuses to speak to me. She has made it very clear that she’s…
Can Dating More Than One Person At The Same Time Make You Less Needy?
Some people find it better to date one person at a time, and when that doesn’t work out, find another one to date. Others…
Texting Negative Emojis To Your Ex Creates A Negative Perception
Emojis are cute little things that many of us add in a text message most of the time without thinking about their interpretation or…
Do Narcissists Care If Someone Is In a Relationship
Narcissism is marked by selfishness, arrogance, an inflated sense of self and extroversion. Narcissists also do not discriminate between those in relationships and those…
The Niceness Gene – It’s In Your DNA Study Says
The next time someone complains that you are “nice”, tilt your head sideways, and with raised eyebrows and a slight shoulder shrug tell them,…
Rush to Marry – Waiting Until Early 30s Is A Thing
Over the last five decades, Canadians have been getting married later and later. From 1981 to 2011, the percentage of 25 to 29-year-old Canadians…
Should A Woman Make The First Move?
Question: Is it okay for a woman to make the first move? What’s the best time frame between contacts? How do I change things…
Why Men Fall In Love At First Sight More Often
It’s official! Men “fall in love” faster and more times than women. But what’s love got to do with it? There have been numerous…
How Do I Make My Boyfriend Romantic?
Question: Yangki, besides the fact that we see each other only on weekends, my boyfriend has no romantic bone in him. I don’t know…
Can Sexual Incompatibility Be Fixed?
It is scary to be honest about this topic, and sometimes uncomfortable talking about it. If it were that one man is made to…
Is Your Ex Indecisive – That May Be A Good Thing
I was talking to a client about how his ex thinks he is the most indecisive person she’s ever met and complains about how…
8 Tips For A Successful and Fulfilling Interracial Relationship
Question: I don’t know if you address this sort of thing or even answer questions related to interracial and intercultural dating but I thought…
Should Religion Be A Relationship Deal-Breaker?
Does religion matter in terms of who you are attracted to, date, love or marry? Before I answer that question, a little background on…
Is Your Love Life Dead Or Alive?
Science says that because we breathe, we think, we feel, we grow, metabolize, can move, and are capable of reproduction that we are living…
How to Be Liked By Almost Everyone
I think it’s safe to say that we’re so interconnected that we need each other to survive. But just how much have we given…
Why People Discourage Others And How Not To Let Them
Over the years however, I’ve found that sometimes your station in life determines how many lives you can make better. You can do so…
6 Examples Of Exes Meant To Be Let Go
A few years back, a reader wrote me complaining that it was ‘weird’ that the first part of an eBook (Dating Your Ex) that’s…
Is My Ex Eating Her Cake And Having It Too?
Question: My ex ended the relationship because things moved too fast. We dated for 4 months and during the break-up she told me she…
12 Signs Your Ex Is Being Polite – But Doesn’t Want You Back
In the initial stages of trying to get your ex back, you may go through a period where you are not sure if your…