How to Make An Avoidant Ex Feel Safe Enough To Come Back
bySome of you reading my articles and watching my YouTube channel have taken this to heart and sent me emails asking me what a…
Break-Up Closure – A Good, Good Bye (Attachment Styles And Closure)
There’s nothing worse than a relationship fading away into oblivion. And if you are the type who needs closure, stop wondering and waiting, instead take action
Feeling The Urge To Contact Your Ex (Intuition Vs. Anxiety)
When you feel the urge to contact your ex, should you follow your institution and contact them, or resist the urge? When you break-up,…
Dismissive Avoidant Attachment And “Longing” For An Ex
Do dismissive avoidants come back if you give them space to begin “longing” for you? Learn how dismissive avoidants process break-ups, and the misconceptions…
Why Dismissive Avoidant Exes Don’t Say “I Miss You”
Question: Why don’t dismissive avoidants ever say “I miss you” Is it because they don’t miss their ex or are they too proud to…
Fearful Avoidant Ex Will Not Give Me Closure – How to Move On?
Question: My fearful avoidant ex will not give me closure. I understand that he has moved on, I just don’t understand why he refuses…
“No Contact” Vs. A “Cool Off” Period After A Break-Up
Question: Yangki, I want to begin by saying this is by far the best relationship blog out there. I had to say that so…
How I Handled Break-Ups As A Dismissive Avoidant Ex
byI’ve written so many articles about how dismissive avoidants deal with break-ups, why they often reach out and why they come back, but how…
Fearful Avoidant Ex Will Not Give Me Closure – How to Move On?
Question: My fearful avoidant ex will not give me closure. I understand that he has moved on, I just don’t understand why he refuses…
Do Exes Remember The Good Memories Or The Bad Memories?
When your ex thinks about you, do they remember the good memories, and miss them? Should you remind your ex of the good times,…
How Do You Know You’re Sexually Compatible?
How do you know if you’re sexually compatibility? One obvious way to find out if you are sexually compatible is to sleep with the…
Why Do I Find It Hard to Accept My Ex Has Moved On?
Question: My ex and I broke up almost 4 months ago. Well, I broke up with him first because he just wasn’t there for me…
Exes Who Like The Chase More Than They Want The Catch (VIDEO)
I have worked with men and women who are very much attracted to each other but in the end they end up not being…
How Do I Stop My Boyfriend From Breaking Up With Me?
Question: Thank you for everything you’re doing. This is by far the best advice site and blog on authentic relationships. My story in brief…
How to Be In Control Without Being Controlling
Whether we admit it or not, we all want to have some degree of control in our relationships. Having control in our relationships makes…
Will My Ex Commit If He Thinks He’s Losing Me Forever?
Question: He wanted to get married within a month of our first date. I did not feel it was right to rush things. 18…
Rush to Marry – Waiting Until Early 30s Is A Thing
Over the last five decades, Canadians have been getting married later and later. From 1981 to 2011, the percentage of 25 to 29-year-old Canadians…
Limited Contact With Your Ex EQUALS No Momentum (VIDEO)
If you are lucky, you get a few responses here and there, but after a while, you start getting the feeling you are bothering…
How Do You Know You’re Sexually Compatible?
How do you know if you’re sexually compatibility? One obvious way to find out if you are sexually compatible is to sleep with the…
Exes Who Like The Chase More Than They Want The Catch (VIDEO)
I have worked with men and women who are very much attracted to each other but in the end they end up not being…
4 Biggest Myths About Soul Mates BUSTED!
This soul mates myth busters will forever change your beliefs about soul mate love and soul-connections. Mine changed forever. I was one of those…
Can Someone Love Two People At The Same Time?
Yes. You can love two or more people at the same time. What we call love (sometimes it’ just chemistry, attraction or lust) happens…
Women Want Sex Men Want To Cuddle
Just when we thought we had the sexual preferences of male and female all figured out and tacked away in little neat stereotypes, someone…
Why The End Of A Relationship Hurts So Much
Are you hurting because of a break-up? Do you feel like your world has come to an end? Can’t get over an old love?…
Facebook Ruining Your Relationship?
As if maintaining a relationship isn’t difficult enough, now, human sexuality researcher and PhD candidate at the University of Guelph in Canada, Amy Muise,…
Help! I’m In Love With A Shy Guy At Work
Question: I’m in love with a shy man at work. I’ve been flirting with him, asked him a lot of questions, offered him gifts…
Rush to Marry – Waiting Until Early 30s Is A Thing
Over the last five decades, Canadians have been getting married later and later. From 1981 to 2011, the percentage of 25 to 29-year-old Canadians…
How Do I Overcome My Ex’s Resistance?
Moat people asking “How do I overcome my ex’s resistance?” are looking at their ex’s resistance as a bad or negative thing. This is the…
Is It Too Late To Get My Ex Back If I Apologized So Late?
Question: Is it too late to get my ex back if i apologized so late? My ex and I broke up for three and…
Is Texting Your Ex XOXO (Hugs And Kisses) Needy?
Is it okay to end a text to your ex with “xoxo” or will that come across as needy? For those of you who…
HELP- She Asked For Space And I Didn’t Give It To Her
Question: Using the advice in your book, my ex and I got close again we were seeing each other every day. Last week she…
How Do You Know You’re Sexually Compatible?
How do you know if you’re sexually compatibility? One obvious way to find out if you are sexually compatible is to sleep with the…
Why Nerds and Geeks Suck At Relationships
If you are here reading this, chances are you spend a great deal of your time on your computer, with your cell phone, and…
What Bad Boys Know And Do That Nice Guys Don’t – Pt 2
The sex appeal of a bad boy is real, so real that once we women go “BAD” it’s really hard for us to go…
Do African Women Have Orgasms?
When we study sexuality, our own cultural concepts and expression of sexuality influence who we study and what we find. Our cultural lenses also…
Is Your Ex Indecisive – That May Be A Good Thing
If your ex is indecisive, frustrating as it may be, maybe it’s actually a good thing that they think through decisions thoroughly. I was…
How To Deal With A Control Freak In Your Life
Question: Yangki, I love your website and all your advice. I have a question different from the usual relationship questions you get because my situation…
Is Your Love Life Dead Or Alive?
Science says that because we breathe, we think, we feel, we grow, metabolize, can move, and are capable of reproduction that we are living…
Do Exes Remember The Good Memories Or The Bad Memories?
When your ex thinks about you, do they remember the good memories, and miss them? Should you remind your ex of the good times,…
Will My Ex Commit If He Thinks He’s Losing Me Forever?
Question: He wanted to get married within a month of our first date. I did not feel it was right to rush things. 18…
