It Worries Me My Ex Rebounded So Fast And Now Wants Me Back
Question: My ex recently contacted me after 3 months of NC. We exchanged a few texts mostly catching up on what each of us…
9 Reasons to Ask For Commitment
Back in the days of courtship, there were relatively clear steps in the formation of a long term committed relationship. Both parties entered the…
Why Your Ex Thinks You Have Not Changed
You’ve been trying to get back with your ex for a while now but don’t understand why you don’t seem to make any progress….
Your Ex Says You’re Selfish But Are You Really Selfish?
Extensive research indicates that individuals with fearful and preoccupied styles of attachment have the lowest self-esteem of the attachment style groups. The same research…
10 Most Confusing Ex’s Behaviours And Misread Signals
Some of our ex’s behaviour can be very confusing because of the history we have with them. And it doesn’t help that there are…
Give As Much Attention To Yourself As You Are Giving To Your Ex
Over the years, I have seen that sometimes the difference between men and women who attract back their ex and those who don’t is…
What Is ‘Active No Contact’ – How Does It Work?
Question: Some coaches advocate absolute no contact (which to me does not feel right) and others advocate something known as ‘Active No contact’. Basically,…
How Long After A Break-Up Do You Start Dating Again?
You tried to get back your ex and it didn’t work. So much damage had been inflicted on the relationship that it just could…
My Ex Has A Problem With How I Look – Can I Change His Mind?
Question: My ex and I were in a relationship for three years. He broke up with me for some ‘not clear reason’. After the…
Are Nice Guys Victims Of Women Or Manipulators Of Women?
I have never hidden my disgust and disdain for so-called players or pick-up artists. I find them to be predators of the worst kind,…
Give As Much Attention To Yourself As You Are Giving To Your Ex
Over the years, I have seen that sometimes the difference between men and women who attract back their ex and those who don’t is…
9 Reasons to Ask For Commitment
Back in the days of courtship, there were relatively clear steps in the formation of a long term committed relationship. Both parties entered the…
She Wants A Commitment – Should I Let Her Go?
Question: She wanted to get married about 4 months into our relationship but I wanted to wait a while. She broke up with me but…
Read This Before You Dump A Commitment Phobe
Having personally suffered from severe commitment phobia for many years, I know that being in love with someone who is afraid of commitment is…
Emotionally Connect With A Conflict Avoidant And Get Them To Open Up (VIDEO)
Watch the skillful way to get a fearful avoidant to open up about the problems in the relationship, the break-up and where things are….
Want A Happy Satisfied Romantic Partner? (Study)
The happiest couples are those in which both partners feel that they are able to make major decisions in the relationship according to a…
A Narcissist Vs Someone Who’s Selfish
Question: Yangki, I have read your articles with great interest. My ex and I had a 5 -year tumultuous relationship. We love each other…
Emotionally Connect With A Conflict Avoidant And Get Them To Open Up (VIDEO)
Watch the skillful way to get a fearful avoidant to open up about the problems in the relationship, the break-up and where things are….
Do THIS and You Will NOT Get Back Your Ex (Guaranteed)
Everyone has their reason (or reasons) for doing ‘no contact’ or “giving their ex space”, but if you look deeper into many of the…
Attract Back An Avoidant Ex – Contact, Connect and Attract Back- 11
Part of being a stable, secure and loving base for an avoidant is understanding that when an avoidant withdraws, it’s not necessarily a sign…
How Do You Know Someone Is Interested In You?
It’s in the way they look at you, want to be around you and want you to know they find your interesting. They make…
Can Someone Love Two People At The Same Time?
Yes. You can love two or more people at the same time. What we call love (sometimes it’ just chemistry, attraction or lust) happens…
Can Dating More Than One Person At The Same Time Make You Less Needy?
Some people find it better to date one person at a time, and when that doesn’t work out, find another one to date. Others…
‘I Love You’ May Not Always Mean ‘I, Love You’
Just mere semantics, right? Not so fast. According to relational communication expert Sean Horan, an assistant professor at DePaul University in the College of…
Why Men Overestimate Women’s Interest
The more attracted you are, the more likely you are to be wrong about a man or woman’s interest, says a new study that…
Relationship Security Helps Overcome Anxiety
Fear of rejection and worry that someone might not love you enough is bound to create some level of concern and stress during the…
Are Nice Guys Victims Of Women Or Manipulators Of Women?
I have never hidden my disgust and disdain for so-called players or pick-up artists. I find them to be predators of the worst kind,…
A Narcissist Vs Someone Who’s Selfish
Question: Yangki, I have read your articles with great interest. My ex and I had a 5 -year tumultuous relationship. We love each other…
Are Nice Guys Victims Of Women Or Manipulators Of Women?
I have never hidden my disgust and disdain for so-called players or pick-up artists. I find them to be predators of the worst kind,…
Give As Much Attention To Yourself As You Are Giving To Your Ex
Over the years, I have seen that sometimes the difference between men and women who attract back their ex and those who don’t is…
How Do I Rekindle Sexual Chemistry?
Question: We used to hang out a lot and really had good times, but now every time I ask her to hang out she says…
Is Your Ex Indecisive – That May Be A Good Thing
I was talking to a client about how his ex thinks he is the most indecisive person she’s ever met and complains about how…
Can An Arranged Marriage Work?
They say marriages are made in heaven. But then, there are also those made here on earth. Though an arranged marriage may feel like…
Older Women Younger Men: Should They Date?
The sitcom Cougar Town starring Courtney Cox is meant to empower women or at least that’s what the show is said to do. It stars Courtney…
Are You Really In Love – How Invested Are You?
In today’s culture, and especially in these hard economic times, many of us are paying more attention to our bank accounts than we’re paying…
It’s OK to Fall In Love With Ugly (But Try Not to Cry)
Every now and then we all need to hear words of encouragement to give us that extra push; words of support when we’re passing…
7 Reasons It Feels Like Nothing Is Going Right
The “Wrong Bus Syndrome” is commonly associated with Wangari Maathai Wangari, 2004 Nobel Peace Prize Winner. She used this analogy to draw attention to…
Get Back Vs. Attract Back Your Ex Mentality
A reader left me advice: “Use the words ‘get back your ex’ instead of ‘attract back your ex’. It sounds better and good for search…
My Ex Will Not Talk To Me – What Do I Do?
Question: My ex started responding, cold at first and then she warmed up a little. Our conversations were mostly pleasant. We talked about some…
Hard to Believe Your Ex Will Come Running Back?
In a comment to my article: Why Love Always, Always Comes Back, Kiren wrote: “I find this hard to believe, do they always come…