How Do I Give My Avoidant Ex Space? (And How Much Space)
byQuestion: Yangki, your site has kept me sane these past few weeks. I’ve learned so much about my attachment style and my fearful avoidant…
10 Emotions That Make Your Ex Feel Attracted To You – No.2
Emotions That Make Your Ex Feel Attracted To You – No.2 Calm Serenity or calm is feeling relaxed, peaceful, drama-free, no emotional stress and…
Help! I Found My Ex’s Profile On A Dating Site
Question: Yangki, I’ve been on your site everyday since my ex of 18 years left me. I also have your book and both have…
4 Ways Past Relationship Abuse Is Ruining Your New Relationship
How do you move forward after leaving an abusive relationship and what does that look like? Noelle St. Vil, an assistant professor in University…
What Makes A Fearful Avoidant Ex Feel Overwhelmed?
How long it takes a fearful avoidant ex to come back or even if they come back depends a lot on if they feel pressured or feel overwhelmed by the whole process of getting back together.
Stop Pushing Your Ex Into The Arms Of The Rebound
There are four common ways many men and woman try to attract back an ex who wants to keep the lines of communication open…
I Reached Out To My Ex – Should I Reach Out Again?
Question: We didn’t talk for 4 months 1 week. I then sent him a long email telling him I still love him and have…
Do Dismissive Avoidant Exes Ever Think About You?
Yes, they do. Once in a while they allow themselves to feel and that’s when you see them reach out randomly out of the blue, but the reach out is stripped off all emotion or feeling. They may send a joke…
Is My Ex Honest About Not Seeing Someone Else?
Question: I don’t know if my ex is honest about seeing someone else. When I ask her if she’s dating someone new she gets really…
I Was Dismissive Avoidant But I’m Now Ready To Commit
I was dismissive avoidant with my ex of 3 years, couldn’t commit and eventually lost feelings but now I’m ready to to commit to my girlfriend of 4 months.
5 Reasons Fearful Avoidant Exes Take Too Long To Come Back
byIt takes a fearful avoidant longer to come back if you make them more confused or conflicted, if they feel pressured and overwhelmed, you haven’t changed enough or they’re keeping their options open.
10 Emotions That Make Your Ex Feel Attracted To You – No.2
Emotions That Make Your Ex Feel Attracted To You – No.2 Calm Serenity or calm is feeling relaxed, peaceful, drama-free, no emotional stress and…
10 Emotions That Make Your Ex Feel Attracted To You – No.8
10 Emotions That Make Your Ex Feel Attracted To You – No.8 Pride Pride used to be a good thing until narcissism multiplied in…
Using AI Applications To Craft Texts To Your Ex (Study)
A study was published recently in the Journal of Social and Personal Relationships found that using artificial intelligence applications to help craft a message…
10 Things Securely Attached Exes Do To Deal With Rejection
These 10 things that people with a secure attachment style do to deal with rejection can help you deal better with the fear of abandonment, and even help you get your ex back.
Am I Crazy To Want My Dismissive Avoidant Ex Back?
Question: My question is, given all the things said about dismissive avoidants, am I crazy to want my dismissive avoidant ex back? I read…
Cheater Alert: That Friend Isn’t Just A Friend
New research by Albright College associate professor of psychology Susan Hughes, Ph.D., has found that men and women alter their voices when speaking to…
Is My Ex Honest About Not Seeing Someone Else?
Question: I don’t know if my ex is honest about seeing someone else. When I ask her if she’s dating someone new she gets really…
4 Ways Past Relationship Abuse Is Ruining Your New Relationship
How do you move forward after leaving an abusive relationship and what does that look like? Noelle St. Vil, an assistant professor in University…
How To Deal With A Fearful Avoidant Ex’s Inconsistent Contact
Set boundaries that make contact safe and respectful for you and for your fearful avoidant ex at the same time. E.g. “I’m okay with reaching out first, however, I need to know that you want contact as well.
How To Heal Hurt Feelings And Animosity
Scientists studying the physical nature of hate found that some of the nervous circuits in the brain responsible for hate are the same as…
10 Things Securely Attached Exes Do To Deal With Rejection
These 10 things that people with a secure attachment style do to deal with rejection can help you deal better with the fear of abandonment, and even help you get your ex back.
How To Deal With A Fearful Avoidant Ex’s Inconsistent Contact
Set boundaries that make contact safe and respectful for you and for your fearful avoidant ex at the same time. E.g. “I’m okay with reaching out first, however, I need to know that you want contact as well.
10 Steps For Setting Boundaries An Avoidant Ex Will Respect
Transparently discussed, mutually defined, and mutually set boundaries create safety, trust and respect for each other and bridge the gap between expectations and reality.
Public Displays Of Affection – Indicator That Your Relationship Is Solid?
Public Displays of Affection (PDAs) is here to stay – and it’s not just moonstruck teens who are indulging in bouts of public passion….
Using AI Applications To Craft Texts To Your Ex (Study)
A study was published recently in the Journal of Social and Personal Relationships found that using artificial intelligence applications to help craft a message…
Lower Class People Wiser About Relationships
New research from the University of Waterloo finds that lower class populations are wiser than their middle-class counterparts in their ability to reason about…
What Makes A Fearful Avoidant Ex Feel Overwhelmed?
How long it takes a fearful avoidant ex to come back or even if they come back depends a lot on if they feel pressured or feel overwhelmed by the whole process of getting back together.
Cheater Alert: That Friend Isn’t Just A Friend
New research by Albright College associate professor of psychology Susan Hughes, Ph.D., has found that men and women alter their voices when speaking to…
7 FACTS About Being FRIENDS With An Ex You Want Back
One of the questions people who read my advice on being friends with an ex ask is “How do you be friends with an ex you want back?”. Here are 7 facts you need to know about being friends with an ex.
Help! I Found My Ex’s Profile On A Dating Site
Question: Yangki, I’ve been on your site everyday since my ex of 18 years left me. I also have your book and both have…
Stop Pushing Your Ex Into The Arms Of The Rebound
There are four common ways many men and woman try to attract back an ex who wants to keep the lines of communication open…
Should I Tell My Ex I’m Ready to Commit Or Let Her Go?
Question: Should I tell my ex I’m ready to commit or let her go? I was getting ready to propose but she broke up…
10 Emotions That Make Your Ex Feel Attracted To You – No.8
10 Emotions That Make Your Ex Feel Attracted To You – No.8 Pride Pride used to be a good thing until narcissism multiplied in…
6 Signs That Cute Co-Worker Digs You
The workplace is a pretty good place to meet a potential life partner if you can keep romance and work separate. Unlike bars where…
The Land Where Women Rule!
In the Xiaolianghshan Mountains, Yunnan province (South East China), live the Mosuo people, one of the last living matriarchal societies today. They are closely…
8 Tips On How to Deal With Differences In Interracial Relationships
Question: I don’t know if you address this sort of thing or even answer questions related to interracial and intercultural dating but I thought…
Help! I Found My Ex’s Profile On A Dating Site
Question: Yangki, I’ve been on your site everyday since my ex of 18 years left me. I also have your book and both have…
Stop Pushing Your Ex Into The Arms Of The Rebound
There are four common ways many men and woman try to attract back an ex who wants to keep the lines of communication open…
Should I Tell My Ex I’m Ready to Commit Or Let Her Go?
Question: Should I tell my ex I’m ready to commit or let her go? I was getting ready to propose but she broke up…
How to Get An Ex Who Lost Feelings For You To Fall Back In Love
Feelings of love just like all other feelings go and come back again. This means that you can get an ex who lost feelings to feel those feelings and fall back in love with you
This Is Why It’s Hard To Reconnect Emotionally With Your Ex
Some of you have left me comments and others have contacted me directly saying you’re finding it hard to reconnect emotionally with your ex….
If You Love Someone Should You Tell Them?
If you love someone should you tell them you love them; and how to tell someone you love them without coming across as needy…
Get Back With A Dismissive Avoidant – Are You Crazy? (VIDEO)
The question I am answering in this video is one that almost everyone who had dated or is in a relationship with a dismissive…
Attract Back An Avoidant – Be The Safe Secure Base (VIDEO)
I try as much as time allows to be the secure base support that is consistently available to you in a meaningful and authentic…
Do Fearful Avoidants Regret Losing You? (VIDEO)
A fearful avoidant ex may regret losing you but be relieved that the break-up happened. They may also not regret losing you but regret…