

How A Fearful Avoidant Ex Comes Back – Explained In Detail
byThis explains in detail how a fearful avoidant ex comes back after the breakup; everything you need to know from how a fearful avoidant…
5 Ways to Make A Relationship Work When You’re Too Different
These 5 ways to make a relationship work when you’re too different will work whether you just started to date or have been together…
How Often Do Exes Come Back? (Odds By Attachment Styles)
How often do exes come back based on an ex’s attachment style? Attachment styles offers insights into why exes come back, how often and…
How to Emotionally Bond Through Storytelling
A storyteller sits in the center of the village (boma or manyatta) and says, “I’m going to tell you a story,” and the people…
If I Contact My Ex Will They Think I’ll Always Be Around?
Question: Yangki, doesn’t keeping in contact make your ex think that you’ll always be around? Isn’t it better to remove yourself from their life…
How to Make Your Ex Feel You Value Them, Their Feelings And Opinion
Whether you have anxious, fearful, avoidant or have a secure attachment style, we have all at one time or another engaged in behaviour that…
Can Power-Balance Be Restored After A Break-Up?
I had a very interesting conversation with an acquaintance the other day. She and her partner of a year and some months had a…

This Is How An Avoidant Ex Reacts To You After No Contact
byThis articles explains in detail how an avoidant ex reacts when you reach out after no contact. Pay close attention to the research and…
How to Fight For Your Ex When You Feel Like Giving Up
Break-ups are hard, painful, and very emotionally trying. Trying to attract back your ex is probably one of the most emotionally trying experiences of…
Can You Love Someone But Not Want to Be With Them?
Is it possible for someone to love you and not want to be with you? Yes, it is possible for someone to love you…
How Hard Is It to Start Over With An Ex After A Break-Up?
It’s hard according to Matthew Johnson, a U of A relationship researcher and lead author an eight-year study of 554 people in Germany. Although…
Does Acting Aloof Make You More Attractive?
Question: I’ve been with a guy for a year and a few months. He’s very sweet and charming but also acts aloof, cold and…
How Do I Stop Being So Negative That I Push People Away?
Question: I am one of those people who exert negativity, misery, low self esteem, etc. I attract a lot of men because of the…
10 SIGNS You’re In A Situationship (It’s NOT A Relationship)
A “situationship’ is very much like a relationship. It looks and feels like you are in a relationship and has many of the things…
Cheater Alert: That Friend Isn’t Just A Friend
New research by Albright College associate professor of psychology Susan Hughes, Ph.D., has found that men and women alter their voices when speaking to…
5 Ways to Make A Relationship Work When You’re Too Different
These 5 ways to make a relationship work when you’re too different will work whether you just started to date or have been together…
How to Make Your Ex Feel You Value Them, Their Feelings And Opinion
Whether you have anxious, fearful, avoidant or have a secure attachment style, we have all at one time or another engaged in behaviour that…
How Do You Know When Someone Really Loves You?
How do you know when someone really loves you? If someone really loves you, they won’t make you feel like you need to constantly…
Relationship Red Flags – Dating A Manipulator (Pt 3)
The fear of being played or used by your ex is real. It’s always a possibility especially if when you were together your ex…
Are You A Man Who Loves Too Much? (Men Who Love Too Much)
This article is for men who love too much; and why men like you who love too much choose women they love more than…
Couples Remember A Troubled Relationship Differently
“People like to feel that they’re making progress as a couple. If they’re not — if, in fact, the relationship is in trouble —…
Extroverts And Introverts Brains Wired Differently?
Though I consider myself a little bit of both an introvert and extrovert, I found this study that says extroverts and introverts differ strongly…
Why And How Partners And Exes Withdraw
There are two disengagement styles that most couples engage in when dealing with conflict or problems in a relationship. 1. Passive immobility – Acting…
20 Statements And Attitudes You’ve Given Up On Relationships
People who have given up on love and relationships in general have and attitude, and use words and statements that reveal they have given…
I Need Help – I Overthink and Worry Too Much And Drive Men Away
Question: I met a wonderful guy online and after a few chats we met in person. He says he is attracted to me and…
What Does She Mean By She Wants Me To Lead?
Question: My girlfriend of 2 years told me that she loves me but does not want a relationship with me because to her I…
How Do I Make My Boyfriend Romantic?
Question: Yangki, besides the fact that we see each other only on weekends, my boyfriend has no romantic bone in him. I don’t know…
I’m Not Sexually Attracted To My Boyfriend
Question: I’ m seeing a guy who has almost all the qualities I look in a man but he is too nice and too…
I Reached Out To My Ex – Should I Reach Out Again?
Question: We didn’t talk for 4 months 1 week. I then sent him a long email telling him I still love him and have…
Have I Ruined The Chance To Get Back My Ex?
Question: I’m writing to you because I’m worried that I’ve ruined any chance of getting my ex back. My ex broke up with me…
Is It Okay To Ask My Ex To Hang Out At My House?
Question: My ex and I have plans to hang out. I am picking her up from work and going out for dinner. But I…
The Land Where Women Rule!
In the Xiaolianghshan Mountains, Yunnan province (South East China), live the Mosuo people, one of the last living matriarchal societies today. They are closely…
8 Tips On How to Deal With Differences In Interracial Relationships
Question: I don’t know if you address this sort of thing or even answer questions related to interracial and intercultural dating but I thought…
7 Reasons It Feels Like Nothing Is Going Right
The “Wrong Bus Syndrome” is commonly associated with Wangari Maathai Wangari, 2004 Nobel Peace Prize Winner. She used this analogy to draw attention to…
If You Love Someone Should You Tell Them?
If you love someone should you tell them you love them; and how to tell someone you love them without coming across as needy…
How to Be Liked By Almost Everyone
I think it’s safe to say that we’re so interconnected that we need each other to survive. But just how much have we given…
What Do I Do If I Run Into My Ex?
Question: Yangki, I know you talked about this in your eBook but i just want to be sure I understood you. This weekend my ex…
What To Do When Your Ex Triggers Your Anxious Attachment
Does your ex trigger your anxious attachment and cause you to self-sabotage? This simple hack of your emotions will help you stop being triggered…
How Do You Know When Someone Really Loves You?
How do you know when someone really loves you? If someone really loves you, they won’t make you feel like you need to constantly…