Reaching Out to Your Ex – Needy Or Following Your Gut Feeling? Pt.2
Contrary to what most of us have heard or read, not all gut feelings come with that immediate “Aha Moment”. Sometimes, gut feelings are…
Contrary to what most of us have heard or read, not all gut feelings come with that immediate “Aha Moment”. Sometimes, gut feelings are…
Is your ex twisting something you say into something gross and evil? Accusing you of the most despicable things and of sociopathic lying? Telling…
To emotionally connect, you have to emotionally connect first, then they will emotionally open up and be engaged or involved. Emotionally connected then opening…
No relationship starts without some sort of emotional connection, and no relationship can survive without emotional connection. All the advice, techniques and programs to…
Earned secure attachment (ESA) sometimes also referred to as “felt safety” is the story of moving from: Attachment anxiety (struggling not to call too…
Vulnerable Narcissism? Yes, It’s a thing! Grandiose, in-your-face, loud, aggressive and cold-hearted narcissism is what comes to mind when we think of narcissists. But…
Question: I’m 38, not married but want to be. I’m trying to meet suitable men and I’m successful in the initial stage, but my relationships never…
Question: “I really enjoy reading your advice so what I’m about to say does not in anyway take away from the love and hard…
Question: Some coaches advocate absolute no contact (which to me does not feel right) and others advocate something known as ‘Active No contact’. Basically,…
Co-dependency is a learned behaviour. This is good news because it means we can learn a new way, a different way of interacting with…
Co-dependency is a learned behaviour that can be passed down from one generation to another. It is an emotional and behavioural condition that affects…
Question: Yangki, my ex and I broke up a couple of weeks ago due to an argument about his ex-wife. He says he can’t…
Many relationships described by the individuals in the relationships as “committed relationships” often are, in reality, uncommitted. While there are as many types of…
A “situationship’ is very much like a relationship. It looks and feels like you are in a relationship and has many of the things…
They distance to focus on themselves and what they want (space and autonomy) and to avoid getting caught up in the needs and/or emotions…
Does religion matter in terms of who you are attracted to, date, love or marry? Before I answer that question, a little background on…
The reasons we choose the “wrong people” are varied and complex. One thing doesn’t change though. We choose the “wrong” people hoping that we can…
Question: My ex sent a text with just “How are you?”. How does one respond when an ex asks how you are doing? Yangki’s…
I wrote a long article about how to attract an avoidant ex and many of you have told me you found the series a…
You’ve been trying to get back with your ex for a while now but don’t understand why you don’t seem to make any progress….
Question: My ex broke up with me 8 months ago and refuses to speak to me. She has made it very clear that she’s…
Some people find it better to date one person at a time, and when that doesn’t work out, find another one to date. Others…
I was one of those people who believed with everything in me that the day I met my soul mate, the ground I was…
The average man tells 1,092 lies a year, compared with 728 fibs a year by females, reports Telegraph. This is according to a new…
According to a study published in the Journal of Social and Personal Relationships Americans say controlling or possessive behaviors such as someone wanting to…
Breaking up and getting back together is not always a sign that the relationship is doomed or toxic. In some cases, breaking up can…
Question: I’m 38, not married but want to be. I’m trying to meet suitable men and I’m successful in the initial stage, but my relationships never…
Love is so powerful because it is the closest we ever come to the divine. But if we don’t know what truly makes love…
Question: I recently met a guy on an online dating site. We chatted for three weeks and in all that time not once did…
Question: I am an intelligent and independent woman but I can’t seem to master how to approach men without appearing desperate. All the articles and…
Question: I have an impression that whenever I am the one that asks a man out he is less interested or in the moment…
Does religion matter in terms of who you are attracted to, date, love or marry? Before I answer that question, a little background on…
In the Xiaolianghshan Mountains, Yunnan province (South East China), live the Mosuo people, one of the last living matriarchal societies today. They are closely…
I was talking to a client about how his ex thinks he is the most indecisive person she’s ever met and complains about how…
A fable about a young pup and a very old dog conveys a lesson on love worth learning. Every day the pup chased his…
Do you sometimes wish you knew what you know now when you were younger? I do most of the time. When I was younger,…
In today’s culture, and especially in these hard economic times, many of us are paying more attention to our bank accounts than we’re paying…
11. Tivett’s success story – “Yangki, I want to first of all say thank you. Three months ago, I found your blog and bought your…
Question: My ex is what you describe in as fearful-avoidant type and I regret doing no contact but I did it for 40 days…
Like so many strategies that create distance rather than connection, “No Contact” is not designed to get back your ex, it’s for you to…