What Do I Do If I Run Into My Ex?

What Do I Do If I Run Into My Ex?

Question: Yangki, I know you talked about this in your eBook but i just want to be sure I understood you. This weekend my ex and I will both be attending…

Communicating Vs. Emotional Connection (Pt 2)

Communicating Vs. Emotional Connection (Pt 2)

Building a strong emotional bond goes beyond “good communication skills”. Building a strong emotional bond is about emotional intimacy. Intimacy! Now, that’s a word that scares many of us, including…

5 Signs Of A Strong Emotional Bond

5 Signs Of A Strong Emotional Bond

When someone comes to me asking for help getting their ex back, one of the things I look for is if there was strong enough emotional attraction and if enough time…

Why Exes Give Up Pursuing You And Move On

Why Exes Give Up Pursuing You And Move On

Healthy relationships that last develop and thrive on “want him/her as much as he/she wants me”. Except for a few men and women who chase after people who show no…

Does Your Relationship Have A Future?

Does Your Relationship Have A Future?

Question: We’ve been going out for 2 years now. About six weeks ago I told him I wanted more out of the relationship. He got upset and said he needed…

5 Signs Your Ex Is Emotionally Toxic

5 Signs Your Ex Is Emotionally Toxic

Why did my ex do this and doing that are questions almost everyone who leaves a comment on my blog, or signs up for coaching wants the answer to. But…

Do You Fall In Love Too Much Too Soon?

Do You Fall In Love Too Much Too Soon?

“My problem is that I love him too much!” “What do you mean?” “He’s taking my love for granted because I’m always there. May be I should play hard to…

Communicating Vs. Emotional Connection (Pt 2)

Communicating Vs. Emotional Connection (Pt 2)

Building a strong emotional bond goes beyond “good communication skills”. Building a strong emotional bond is about emotional intimacy. Intimacy! Now, that’s a word that scares many of us, including…

My Ex Wants To Meet, Is It Too Soon?

My Ex Wants To Meet, Is It Too Soon?

Question: I’ve been a silent reader of your blog for couple of months and have re-read many of your articles multiple times. My story is long, but I’ll try to…

Is It Too Late To Try To Get Back My Ex?

Is It Too Late To Try To Get Back My Ex?

Question: It’s been at least 8 months since the breakup. We have contacts, sometimes he seems happy and other times he just ignores me. He used to initiate contact, but…

Sex Addiction Or High Sex Drive?

Sex Addiction Or High Sex Drive?

While there really is no excuse for infidelity, the growing trend of labeling every man (or woman) who has a sexual libido that is higher than what society has decided…

I’m Angry No Woman Wants Me

I’m Angry No Woman Wants Me

Question: I read your article 10 Types of Men Women Don’t Find Attractive and the “Angry Reject” accurately describes my current state of mind and experience with women. After 20…

Attractive, Smart and Unlucky In Love?

Attractive, Smart and Unlucky In Love?

Are you attractive, smart and unlucky in love? Well, according to new research published in the Personality and Social Psychology Bulletin, you are not unlucky in love, you are turning…

Over 40, Men Become Pickier Than Women

Over 40, Men Become Pickier Than Women

Women under 40 looking for a partner online are more selective than men when it comes to a potential mate’s education level but over 40, men are pickier than women…

Lower Class People Wiser About Relationships

Lower Class People Wiser About Relationships

New research from the University of Waterloo finds that lower class populations are wiser than their middle-class counterparts in their ability to reason about interpersonal matters. The study measures wisdom…

I Will Always Try To Be Ugly

I Will Always Try To Be Ugly

Every now and then we all need to hear words of encouragement to give us that extra push; words of support when we’re passing through a difficult period; words of…

How Do I Love Someone Who’s Mean To Me?

How Do I Love Someone Who’s Mean To Me?

Question: Yangki, I’ve read your articles and absolutely love everything you have to say about love. I’m trying to be a more loving person in my romantic relationship and in…

Is Your Love Life Dead Or Alive?

Is Your Love Life Dead Or Alive?

Science says that because we breathe, we think, we feel, we grow, metabolize, can move, and are capable of reproduction that we are living beings, but our lives (especially our love…

Why Exes Give Up Pursuing You And Move On

Why Exes Give Up Pursuing You And Move On

Healthy relationships that last develop and thrive on “want him/her as much as he/she wants me”. Except for a few men and women who chase after people who show no…

Why Does My Ex Say She Missed Me?

Why Does My Ex Say She Missed Me?

Question: My ex broke up with me three months ago but every once in a while she calls me, tells me how much she loves me, misses me and acts…

Do I Tell My Ex I Want Him Back?

Do I Tell My Ex I Want Him Back?

Question: Yangki, I like the rest of your advice but disagree on continuing contact if your ex does not want to try the relationship again. I did 90-day no contact…