Is A Scarcity Mentality Making You Needy?
A scarcity mentality is when you believe/think/see something as existing in limited supply. In the world of relationships, a person with a scarcity mentality…
Signs From The Universe And Gut Feeling Your Ex Will Come Back
Question: He left 11 days ago, too many old patterns and negative energies being brought in. I’ve stayed in contact meanwhile clearing energy from…
Why Can’t My Ex Let Me Go If They Don’t Love Me Anymore?
I had a brief but interesting chat with a gentleman who approached me after hearing me introduced as a Love Doctor. “I wonder if…
10 Mistakes To Avoid If You Want Your Ex Back
If you still have strong feelings for your ex, it’s only natural to want to fight to get him or her back. But contrary…
What Reverse Psychology Tricks Do To Your Ex’s Mind And Heart
Question: Yangki, I think that No Contact works if you wait long enough for both you and your ex to remember the good times…
7 Reasons Why Fearful Avoidants Do ‘No Contact’
There are many reasons someone would use “No Contact” after a break-up. If one has to use “No Contact” (not everybody wants to, or…
Attracting Back An Ex Who “Lost Feelings” And Not In Love Anymore
by“I love you but I am not in love with you anymore” and “I have lost feelings for you” are different words with the…
Is A Scarcity Mentality Making You Needy?
A scarcity mentality is when you believe/think/see something as existing in limited supply. In the world of relationships, a person with a scarcity mentality…
Signs Your Ex Is Moving On (Moved On) But Still Responding to Texts
The process of getting back your ex takes time. It’s also a process filled with uncertainty and frustration. Many of my clients tell me…
Help! My Family Hates My Boyfriend
Question: We have been together for 5 years and have our own problems which we have been seeing a counselor about. I’m optimistic about…
Signs You Or Your Partner Is Emotionally Immature
Emotional maturity is not something most of us consciously look for in a partner. For many of us, it’s not even a priority in…
My Ex Can’t Stop Talking About His Ex- Am I The Rebound?
Question: We broke up because my ex would not stop talking about his ex-wife. I‘m not bothered by the fact that he mentions her,…
I Think My Ex Is Having Sex With Me And Someone Else
Question: Yangki, my ex is trying to get me back but I have a gut feeling he is sleeping with me and having sex…
5 Things You Must Have Before You Commit
Question: I want to start by thanking you for all the free advice that you provide. I’m in a relationship that is fairly stable….
5 Signs Your Ex’s Children And Family Are Not The Problem
It’s hard enough to try and get back with an ex, but even harder if one of the reasons you broke up is because…
What “You Teach People How to Treat You” Means
Question: You write in one of your articles that “we teach people how they treat us”. I somehow get what it means but do…
Do This to Make Your Ex Feel Safe, Valued And Loved
Break-ups bring up all kinds of emotions and many of us intuitively know that if we want to try to make things work again…
Struggling to Hold On to Your Ex – This Might Help
Lately, I’ve been getting more and more emails from men and women who say my advice has helped them move things to a point…
What “You Teach People How to Treat You” Means
byQuestion: You write in one of your articles that “we teach people how they treat us”. I somehow get what it means but do…
Can Someone Love Two People At The Same Time?
Yes. You can love two or more people at the same time. What we call love (sometimes it’ just chemistry, attraction or lust) happens…
How Do You Know Someone Is Interested In You?
It’s in the way they look at you, want to be around you and want you to know they find your interesting. They make…
Can Dating More Than One Person At The Same Time Make You Less Needy?
Some people find it better to date one person at a time, and when that doesn’t work out, find another one to date. Others…
Why Is Space So Important In A Relationship?
Having enough space or privacy in a relationship is more important for a couple’s happiness than having a good sex life, says a resent…
How Each Attachment Style Deals With Lying And Betrayal
There is a link between attachment styles and why some people stay and others leave following a discovery of a romantic partner’s deception according…
Facebook More Irresistible Than Sex?
Facebook and email trump sex in terms of sheer irresponsibility, a German study says. For one week the phones, provided by the researchers, buzzed seven…
Why You Love People Who Can’t Love You Back
Question: I respect your advice but I believe that “you can’t love another person until you love yourself” mumbo jumbo is misguided and I…
Sexy Nerd Can’t Get A Date?
Question: I agree with everything said in this post (#1 Most Attractive Trait Men and Women Look for). I’m an intellectual with a very high…
Sexual Energy and Body Language
Did you know that you can predict with 90% accuracy if a man or woman is good or lousy in the bedroom even before…
Masculine And Feminine Balance – Part 1
“She bosses me around. Where is my respect?” “He’s cold, insensitive and emotionally unavailable” “I just wish she was more feisty in bed”. “He…
5 Bad Boy Traits Women Find Irresistible – Pt 3
That was the bad news. Now, here is the GOOD NEWS for the nice guys (only). Believe it or not, that overgrown Boy Scout…
Do African Women Have Orgasms?
When we study sexuality, our own cultural concepts and expression of sexuality influence who we study and what we find. Our cultural lenses also…
Is Your Ex Indecisive – That May Be A Good Thing
I was talking to a client about how his ex thinks he is the most indecisive person she’s ever met and complains about how…
Older Women Younger Men: Should They Date?
The sitcom Cougar Town starring Courtney Cox is meant to empower women or at least that’s what the show is said to do. It stars Courtney…
Are You Really In Love – How Invested Are You?
In today’s culture, and especially in these hard economic times, many of us are paying more attention to our bank accounts than we’re paying…
It’s OK to Fall In Love With Ugly (But Try Not to Cry)
Every now and then we all need to hear words of encouragement to give us that extra push; words of support when we’re passing…
7 Reasons It Feels Like Nothing Is Going Right
The “Wrong Bus Syndrome” is commonly associated with Wangari Maathai Wangari, 2004 Nobel Peace Prize Winner. She used this analogy to draw attention to…
Attracting Back An Ex Who “Lost Feelings” And Not In Love Anymore
“I love you but I am not in love with you anymore” and “I have lost feelings for you” are different words with the…
The Strong Feeling To Text Your Ex – Attachment Anxiety Vs. Gut Feeling
Trying to show an ex that you still care about them, still love them and want them back and doing so without coming across…
Can An Avoidant Ex Miss You And Want You Back?
Deep inside we all want to be loved. We may understand “romantic love” differently based our family/upbringing dynamics, social, cultural and religious background, but…