8 Times An Ex Came Back Too Late

8 Times An Ex Came Back Too Late

Sometimes they come back when you’re over them. After you’ve suffered years from their absence. After it took you years to move on. After it took all the strength you…

My Ex Was Unhappy Will He Come Back?

My Ex Was Unhappy Will He Come Back?

Question: Yangki, I’ve read all of your site and love your advice. I was with my ex for 2.5 years. It was a troubled relationship mainly because we didn’t see…

Why Everyone Is Telling You To Move On

Why Everyone Is Telling You To Move On

Whenever someone tells me “everyone is telling me to move on…”, I hear “I don’t want to move on, but should I?” Many people asking this question are often genuinely…

Why Do Men Emotionally Pull Away?

Why Do Men Emotionally Pull Away?

Question: Yangki, my situation is similar to Jillian’s. My ex also initiates contact but avoids emotionally difficult conversations. It hurts that he shuts me out of his life. He was…

Does Sex With Your Ex Hurt Your Chances?

Does Sex With Your Ex Hurt Your Chances?

Admit it, sex with one’s ex can be tempting whether you are male or female.  The idea that your ex still finds you sexually irresistible is flattering to say the…

5 Signs Your Ex Is Emotionally Toxic

5 Signs Your Ex Is Emotionally Toxic

Why did my ex do this and doing that are questions almost everyone who leaves a comment on my blog, or signs up for coaching wants the answer to. But…

Why Do Men Emotionally Pull Away?

Why Do Men Emotionally Pull Away?

Question: Yangki, my situation is similar to Jillian’s. My ex also initiates contact but avoids emotionally difficult conversations. It hurts that he shuts me out of his life. He was…

How Do I Know Someone Is Right For Me?

How Do I Know Someone Is Right For Me?

Question: First of all let me say, I’ve been through almost every post on your blog and every article on your website and I have to say, you really know…

How Do You Know A Guy Is Into You?

How Do You Know A Guy Is Into You?

Question: I’m 28 and he’s 37. We met at a bar. The chemistry was instant. I felt that we made a strong emotional connection and really saw into each other’s soul….

World’s Worst and Best Lovers (Men By Country)

World’s Worst and Best Lovers (Men By Country)

A poll carried out by onepoll.com and reported by Telegraph, Daily Mail  asked 15,000 women to rate the world’s best and worst lovers by country, the results are interesting. WORLD’S WORST…

Sending and Picking Up Sexual Signals

Sending and Picking Up Sexual Signals

Have you ever had a friend describe a really “hot” blind date to you, and you get all excited and eager to meet this wonder person only to come face…

Sex Addiction Or High Sex Drive?

Sex Addiction Or High Sex Drive?

While there really is no excuse for infidelity, the growing trend of labeling every man (or woman) who has a sexual libido that is higher than what society has decided…

Blindsided, Emotional Cues Study Findings

Blindsided, Emotional Cues Study Findings

Even the happiest couples in exclusive relationships are sometimes clueless when it comes to reading signs that their partner is not happy, is hiding dissatisfaction, disappointment, frustration anger etc. New…

Facebook More Irresistible Than Sex?

Facebook More Irresistible Than Sex?

Facebook and email trump sex in terms of sheer irresponsibility, a German study says. For one week the phones, provided by the researchers, buzzed seven times daily, alerting study subjects to…

Women Want Sex Men Want To Cuddle

Women Want Sex Men Want To Cuddle

Just when we thought we had the sexual preferences of male and female all figured out and tacked away in little neat stereotypes, someone comes up and messes it all…

The Top Three Most Common Sexual Regrets

The Top Three Most Common Sexual Regrets

According to a new study, men are more likely to regret not taking action on a potential liaison, and women are more remorseful for engaging in one-time liaisons. “Prior sex…

If You Love Someone Should You Tell Them?

If You Love Someone Should You Tell Them?

If you love someone should you tell him or her? Some of you will say “Yes. absolutely”. But most of you will probably say, “No! It’ll scare them way.” That’s…

I Will Always Try To Be Ugly

I Will Always Try To Be Ugly

Every now and then we all need to hear words of encouragement to give us that extra push; words of support when we’re passing through a difficult period; words of…

Can A Dismissive-Avoidant Ex Want You Back? (Pt. 1)

Can A Dismissive-Avoidant Ex Want You Back? (Pt. 1)

Word out there is that dismissive-avoidants are love-avoidant, selfish and narcissistic and therefore must be avoided at all costs. I have been studying anxiously-preoccupied and dismissive-avoidants attachment dynamics for years,…

How To Stop The Silent Treatment

How To Stop The Silent Treatment

Question: We got in a heated argument but after realizing that it was about nothing important, I apologized. We had sex afterwards. Next morning, I woke up and found him…