How A Fearful Avoidant Ex Comes Back – Explained In Detail
byThis explains in detail how a fearful avoidant ex comes back after the breakup; all the break-up stages from how a fearful avoidant ex…
My Ex Is Pulling Away Is There Someone Else?
Question: Yangki, may be you can help me figure out what’s going on with my ex. She and I broke up in May. Two weeks…
What Makes Someone Want To Invest More In A Relationship?
Certainty. According to a study published in Computers in Human Behavior, people are more likely to invest in a relationship in which the future…
Does Secure Attachment Make You Boring And Unexciting?
Are people with a secure attachment boring? The simple answer is at first, yes. A relationship with someone secure will feel boring because it lacks the pull-push dynamic of anxious-avoidant relationships.
10 Silly Mind Games Your Ex Is Playing To Get You Back
Before we get to the 10 silly mind games your ex is playing, it helps to understand what is a “silly mind game” and…
6.3 How Long Does It Take Most Exes To Fully Open Up?
In the initial stages of contact, most exes want to keep some distance. Texts only, or social media may be the only way you can have any conversations with them.
4 Things That Make A Fearful Avoidant Feel Safe And Secure (VIDEO)
Remember that fearful-avoidants want and desire contact but fear getting no response or feeling rejected. When they pull away, “giving them space” only helps…
Why Do Avoidants Stop Viewing Your Instagram Stories?
byAvoidant ex stopped viewing or liking your Instagram posts or stories or simply looks at them but does not engage with your content, is this a sign they’re not interested?
Feeling Stuck – Why You’re Not Getting Back Together Anytime Soon
It hurts deeply when you thought your relationship meant a lot to both of you and then from what seems like from nowhere, it’s…
Are You Trying So Hard And Chasing After An Ex? (Do Different)
Love is not supposed to hurt, and relationships were never designed for us to suffer or struggle. But why do many of us struggle…
7 Ways To Make Yourself Emotionally Attractive To Your Ex
We all want to think we can get our ex back — and I wish that was possible for everyone. But it isn’t. There…
It’s OK to Fall In Love With Ugly (But Try Not to Cry)
Every now and then we all need to hear words of encouragement to give us that extra push; words of support when we’re passing…
Moving Beyond Co-Dependency – Learning A New Way
Co-dependency is a learned behaviour. This is good news because it means we can learn a new way, a different way of interacting with…
Does Secure Attachment Make You Boring And Unexciting?
Are people with a secure attachment boring? The simple answer is at first, yes. A relationship with someone secure will feel boring because it lacks the pull-push dynamic of anxious-avoidant relationships.
Are You Trying So Hard And Chasing After An Ex? (Do Different)
Love is not supposed to hurt, and relationships were never designed for us to suffer or struggle. But why do many of us struggle…
Will An Avoidant Commit? 12 Signs They’re Ready To Commit
Will an avoidant ever commit? The answer is yes. Here are 12 signs that an avoidant is ready to commit or at least thinking of committing.
My Dismissive Avoidant Ex Cheated, Will She Cheat Again?
Question: Yangki, it’s been almost 3 months since my ex and I got back together. I found out my dismissive avoidant ex cheated and…
The Dominant – Submissive Relationship Dynamic
Question: Yangki, this is my first time on your blog and I’ve really resonated with your approach on relationships. I believe every relationship needs…
10 Things You Can Do to Attract Back An Ex With Depression
There are certain challenges with trying to get back an ex with depression that many other relationships do not have. One of those challenges…
Men With Anxious Attachment See A Decline In Sexual Desire
Men with an anxiously attachment tend to have a steeper drop in their sexual desire over the course of a relationship, according to new…
Can Dating More Than One Person At The Same Time Make You Less Needy?
Some people find it better to date one person at a time, and when that doesn’t work out, find another one to date. Others…
Relationship Red Flags – Dating A Manipulator (Pt 3)
The fear of being played or used by your ex is real. It’s always a possibility especially if when you were together your ex…
What Does “I’m Committed” To This Relationship Mean?
What does being committed to a relationship really mean and what is involved when you’re commitment to someone? “When people say, ‘I’m committed to…
Being “Supportive” Can Hurt Your Relationship
There is a real difference between “being supportive” and “emotionally connecting”. Now there is a study to prove it. New research from Binghamton University,…
FaceBook or Online Affair Is Just As Devastating
Researchers at Texas Tech University have found that although the stages of coping with online infidelity are unique, the infidelity itself creates similar emotional…
Why’s It That When I Ask A Guy Out He’s Less Interested?
Question: I have an impression that whenever I am the one that asks a man out he is less interested or in the moment…
Does Sex Too Soon Doom A Relationship?
On a regular basis, I meet women — young and old — who say they are happy being single and not looking for “anyone”,…
My Ex And I Are Talking Again But He Isn’t Sure What He Wants
Question: Let me first say, your advice in on point. I am really happy my ex and I are talking again. My only concern…
Why Doesn’t My Ex Text Back On Weekends?
Question: We had a phone session last week and I feel I really learned a lot about myself and about my ex’s attachment styles….
Is My Ex Scared To Get Back Together Or Not Ready?
Question: Is my ex scared to get back together or not ready to come back? She has told me that sometimes she thinks about…
2 Main Reasons Why Getting Back Your Ex Is Harder For You
Being present in the moment is key to making an emotional connection. But when you are trying to get back with your ex, being…
Why’s It That When I Ask A Guy Out He’s Less Interested?
Question: I have an impression that whenever I am the one that asks a man out he is less interested or in the moment…
Does Secure Attachment Make You Boring And Unexciting?
Are people with a secure attachment boring? The simple answer is at first, yes. A relationship with someone secure will feel boring because it lacks the pull-push dynamic of anxious-avoidant relationships.
I’m Angry Because No Woman Is Attracted Or Wants Me
Question: After 20 years in a miserable marriage, I was really hoping to meet someone real and honest. But instead I’ve found that women…
The Land Where Women Rule!
In the Xiaolianghshan Mountains, Yunnan province (South East China), live the Mosuo people, one of the last living matriarchal societies today. They are closely…
8 Tips On How to Deal With Differences In Interracial Relationships
Question: I don’t know if you address this sort of thing or even answer questions related to interracial and intercultural dating but I thought…
It’s OK to Fall In Love With Ugly (But Try Not to Cry)
Every now and then we all need to hear words of encouragement to give us that extra push; words of support when we’re passing…
7 Reasons It Feels Like Nothing Is Going Right
The “Wrong Bus Syndrome” is commonly associated with Wangari Maathai Wangari, 2004 Nobel Peace Prize Winner. She used this analogy to draw attention to…
Will An Avoidant Commit? 12 Signs They’re Ready To Commit
Will an avoidant ever commit? The answer is yes. Here are 12 signs that an avoidant is ready to commit or at least thinking of committing.
10 Things You Can Do to Attract Back An Ex With Depression
There are certain challenges with trying to get back an ex with depression that many other relationships do not have. One of those challenges…
Are You Trying So Hard And Chasing After An Ex? (Do Different)
Love is not supposed to hurt, and relationships were never designed for us to suffer or struggle. But why do many of us struggle…