Say “Thank You” When Your Ex Says Or Does Something Nice
This might seem obvious, but sometimes emotions get in the way and other times we don’t know whether we should (it’s an ex…
Will Your Ex Reject You, Again?
One reason why some people never reach out to their ex, let alone try to get back their ex is because they are afraid…
Attract Back An Avoidant Ex: 2 – How They Feel And React
When an ex doesn’t respond or is acting hot and cold, exes with attachment anxiety typically get triggered and react with worry and fear….
What Is ‘Active No Contact’ – How Does It Work?
Question: Some coaches advocate absolute no contact (which to me does not feel right) and others advocate something known as ‘Active No contact’. Basically, no…
10 Signs You’re Being Played Vs. He Needs More Time
Question: I am in 10 month relationship that started in unconventional way. I don’t know if I am being played or if he’s taking…
Make Your Ex Realize What They Lost Breaking Up With You
Most, if not all of us, want someone who has rejected us to realize what they lost, and miss us. But is hoping that…
Make Your Ex Realize What They Lost Breaking Up With You
byMost, if not all of us, want someone who has rejected us to realize what they lost, and miss us. But is hoping that…
What Is ‘Active No Contact’ – How Does It Work?
Question: Some coaches advocate absolute no contact (which to me does not feel right) and others advocate something known as ‘Active No contact’. Basically, no…
Are You A Man Who Loves Too Much? (Men Who Love Too Much)
This article is about a man who loves too much; and why men who love too much choose women they love more than the…
Do Fearful Avoidants Regret Losing You (Regret The Break-Up)
Fearful avoidant sometimes regret pushing you away, regret losing you and regret the break-up; but it’s more complex than a simple yes or no…
Is Your Ex Or Boy/Girlfriend Emotionally Closed Off?
Mindy is 31, trim and fit, intelligent and style conscious. Her image is impeccably professional and her physical appearance embodies many a man’s fantasy….
7 Signs You Are Emotionally Attractive To Your Ex
Having emotional value is an incredibly powerful currency when it comes to human relationships in general. But what does emotional value mean? Your emotional…
Why Do Men Chase Women Who Are Hard To Get?
Question: I’m a man and like it or not, males chase after females who’re hard to get, or hard to get a hold of….
20 Signs You Found True Love With the Right Person
How do you know you found love and are with the right person? You feel very comfortable with one another, as if you have…
What Does “I’m Committed” To This Relationship Mean?
What does being committed to a relationship really mean and what is involved when you’re commitment to someone? “When people say, ‘I’m committed to…
How To Heal Hurt Feelings And Animosity
Scientists studying the physical nature of hate found that some of the nervous circuits in the brain responsible for hate are the same as…
Being “Supportive” Can Hurt Your Relationship
There is a real difference between “being supportive” and “emotionally connecting”. Now there is a study to prove it. New research from Binghamton University,…
This Is Why It’s Hard To Reconnect Emotionally With Your Ex
Some of you have left me comments and others have contacted me directly saying you’re finding it hard to reconnect emotionally with your ex….
How Do I Give My Avoidant Ex Space? (And How Much Space)
byQuestion: Yangki, your site has kept me sane these past few weeks. I’ve learned so much about my attachment style and my fearful avoidant…
Are You A Man Who Loves Too Much? (Men Who Love Too Much)
This article is about a man who loves too much; and why men who love too much choose women they love more than the…
2 Types Of Boring Men – Why Women Break-Up With You
What’s the number one reason many women break up with a guy they think is really wonderful, they get along with really well, and…
Your Ex And Why Love Always Comes Back Knocking (Karma?)
Does karma play a role in getting back your ex? If so, does love always come back knocking as karma for the good or…
New Research On Getting A Partner To Open Up And Respond
The common reaction when someone does not emotionally open up to us is to try to talk them into opening up, complain that they…
Narcissists, Social Media And Relationships – Study
Researchers from Swansea University and Milan University say up to a fifth of the population could be at risk of developing narcissistic traits due…
Selfless Men Have A Better Chance With Women
In the new study, researchers found that women reported men as being more attractive when the guys were paired with a scenario showing them…
Why Do Men Chase Women Who Are Hard To Get?
Question: I’m a man and like it or not, males chase after females who’re hard to get, or hard to get a hold of….
Why Do Men Always End Up Dumping Me?
Question: I’m 38, not married but want to be. I’m trying to meet suitable men and I’m successful in the initial stage, but my relationships never…
Why Do Men Chase Women Who Are Hard To Get?
Question: I’m a man and like it or not, males chase after females who’re hard to get, or hard to get a hold of….
Is Sexiness A Part Of Some People’s DNA?
Extensive evidence says that both men and women form a schema of “sexy” according to media and fashion stereotypes about sexiness. They first look…
Why Do Women Think I’m Creepy?
Question: I’ve been looking at your articles and really like your unique and fresh perspective on sexual energy and masculine and feminine confidence. But…
The Land Where Women Rule!
In the Xiaolianghshan Mountains, Yunnan province (South East China), live the Mosuo people, one of the last living matriarchal societies today. They are closely…
8 Tips On How to Deal With Differences In Interracial Relationships
Question: I don’t know if you address this sort of thing or even answer questions related to interracial and intercultural dating but I thought…
Should Religion Be A Relationship Deal-Breaker?
Does religion matter in terms of who you are attracted to, date, love or marry? Before I answer that question, a little background on…
7 Reasons It Feels Like Nothing Is Going Right
The “Wrong Bus Syndrome” is commonly associated with Wangari Maathai Wangari, 2004 Nobel Peace Prize Winner. She used this analogy to draw attention to…
If You Love Someone Should You Tell Them?
If you love someone should you tell them you love them; and how to tell someone you love them without coming across as needy…
How to Be Liked By Almost Everyone
I think it’s safe to say that we’re so interconnected that we need each other to survive. But just how much have we given…
What Makes A Dismissive Avoidant Ex Miss You And Come Back?
Can a dismissive avoidant ex miss you and come back? Yes. How often do dismissive avoidants come back? Not too often, but they come…
Anxious Preoccupied Ex Will Not Talk to Me What Do I Do?
Question: My ex has an anxious preoccupied attachment and despite all my efforts she will not talk to me. I have a fearful avoidant…
Are You Expecting Too Much From Your Ex?
Are you expecting too much from your ex and pushing your ex further away, or worse; completely turning your ex off? Many of my…