How Long Does It Take For My Ex’s Feelings To Come Back?
Question: Yangki, I like that you are not offering the usual one-size fits all N/C advice, but instead asking each couple to choose what’s best for them. My ex is…
Should You Invite Your Ex to Your Place?
Question: Yangki, I read your Dating Your Ex eBook and one of the things you said is that it’s the moments when you both encounter something new and surprising about…
How To Get Positive Responses From Your Ex
If you are wondering if by continuing to talk to your ex you are making things better or making them worse, or if you are wondering if you are making…
Is It Too Late To Tell Your Ex You Love Them?
The email response to my post “If You Love Someone Should You Tell Them?” has prompted me to write another post on this particular topic. For all of you who sent…
Why Isn’t My Ex Trying to Get Me Back?
We haven’t spoken since. I’m hurt because I really thought there was something special between us. My question is, why is he not trying to get me back?
My Ex Wanted To Stay In Contact But Now He’s Pulling Away
Question: My ex broke up with me about 5 weeks ago because he needed space. I did no contact but after reading your articles, I contacted him and told him…
4 Ways to Deal With A Narcissist
Have you noticed how some men and women think that the only reason anyone could ever dislike them or their behaviour is because that person is insecure or jealous? For…
10 Easy Ways To Develop Emotional Resilience
What is resilience? Resilience is the process of adapting well in the face of adversity, trauma, tragedy, threats or significant sources of stress and the ability to bounce back from…
6 Guidelines – How to Communicate Your Feelings Without Being Needy
1. Be honest about your feelings It’s important to be honest and communicate your feelings to others. Keeping your feelings to yourself leads to miscommunication, unmet needs, and unhealthy relationships….
My Ex Is Not Responding Should I Move On?
Question: Yangki, what I hear you saying is, to have a relationship, you must communicate. What if the other person is not communicating, how can there be a relationship? Yangki’s…
My Ex Cheated But I Still Love Her. Help?
Question: My ex of 4 years cheated with another man. I tried to forgive her but, in the end, broke it off. She was angry with me because she said…
Signs You’re Making Progress With Your Ex
Many of you have asked me “Yangki, how do I know I am making progress?” or “How do I know I am doing the right thing?” The simple answer is:…
What Your Ex Is Thinking – You’ll Be Surprised
When you’ve dated someone before, it’s almost natural to assume that you already know the person and can tell what they’re thinking about. But sometimes thinking you “know” someone so…
How Do I Stop Myself From Texting My Ex?
Question: I can’t stop talking or texting my ex. We stop for a day or two and then one of us will send a text with “I miss you” and…
How Do I Tell My Ex I Moved On?
Question: My ex and I grew apart over the course of a 4-year relationship. We both could see how the other was changing and wanted different things but despite all…
Holding Resentment Towards Your Ex Is Keeping You Stuck
Are you stuck in some kind of limbo where you are angry with your ex but at the same time still very much in love the him/her?
Stability For the Kids During Temporary Separation
Question: Yangki, I love your site so much. My ex and I were in the jaws of divorce and your advice and books have helped me convince her that we…
7 Ways to Make A Long Distance Relationship Work
“Everything would have been fine if we lived in the same town/state/country,” is the common reason many men and women give for a long distance relationship not working out. Admitted,…
6 Guidelines – How to Communicate Your Feelings Without Being Needy
1. Be honest about your feelings It’s important to be honest and communicate your feelings to others. Keeping your feelings to yourself leads to miscommunication, unmet needs, and unhealthy relationships….
7 Wrong Reasons To “Fall In” Love
When you are hopelessly in love, you don’t really care whether someone is right or wrong for you. You’re so in love with the idea of being in love that…
Why Your Ex Is Being Too Nice All Of A Sudden
Have you had someone say very nice things about you and instead of it making you feel “good’, you feel really uncomfortable and even feel like throwing up? There’s a…
What Does Slowing Down Mean In A Relationship?
You met someone you wish, dream and pray is the person you’ll spend the rest of your days on earth with, then for some reason something happens inside of you and…
Why Do Women Want Men to Play Hard To Get?
Question: Women complain that men do not contact them after a date because they’re playing hard to get. But when they find a guy who shows them his true feelings…
How Long Does It Take For My Ex’s Feelings To Come Back?
Question: Yangki, I like that you are not offering the usual one-size fits all N/C advice, but instead asking each couple to choose what’s best for them. My ex is…
Should You Invite Your Ex to Your Place?
Question: Yangki, I read your Dating Your Ex eBook and one of the things you said is that it’s the moments when you both encounter something new and surprising about…
How Do I Stop Myself From Texting My Ex?
Question: I can’t stop talking or texting my ex. We stop for a day or two and then one of us will send a text with “I miss you” and…
Fear Of Commitment: Relationship Is Not Hopeless
In an attempt to understand a partner’s fear of commitment, we seek information to help us stay hopeful, but in the process of information seeking, it’s too easy to be…
She Wants A Commitment – Should I Let Her Go?
Question: She wanted to get married about 4 months into our relationship but I wanted to wait a while. She broke up with me but a week later she came back….
Why Getting Back Together Is Harder If A Relationship Moved Quickly
How long you’ve been together in a relationship is a very strong indicator of whether or not you will get back together. People who have been together longer usually have…
Read This Before You Dump A Commitment Phobe
Having personally suffered from severe commitment phobia for many years, I know that being in love with someone who is afraid of commitment is not fun at all. But does…
I’m Married But I’m Still In Love With My Ex
Question: I was with my ex for 4 yrs and then i left him he was just going out and having fun and i guess he was not ready to…
How Do I Stop My Ex From Leaving Again?
Question: My ex went back to the woman he broke up with to be with me but we continued to text and call each other. Everyone told me to do…
Will Making My Ex Jealous Make Them More Attracted – Pt 2
Some couples can rebuild a sense of safety in the relationship when the person who took away the sense of safety from the relationship works hard at helping their partner…
Sexy Nerd Can’t Get A Date?
Question: I agree with everything said in this post (#1 Most Attractive Trait Men and Women Look for). I’m an intellectual with a very high IQ, but I find that real…
Dating Wiser and Bolder After A Bad Break-Up
It’s very common for men and women trying to break a pattern of bad relationships to think that they’ve completely broken the cycle and jump in too fast and too…
Study Says 23- 33% Of Women Engaged In A “Foodie Call”
A recent study found that 23 — 33% of women in an online study say they’ve engaged in a “foodie call.” “Foodie call” is a new phenomena where a person…
Confident Masculinity – What It Means to Be “A Man”
“All of us have to recognize that being a man is first and foremost being a good human. That means being responsible, working hard, being kind, respectful, compassionate,” Obama said…
Help! I’ve Never Been In Love
“I don’t know why I am doing this. I’ve never done this until now”, he begun. “That’s okay”, I said. “That’s why I am here. How can I be of…
How Do You Know You’re Sexually Compatibility?
How do you know if you’re sexually compatibility? One obvious way to find out if you are sexually compatible is to sleep with the person, that you way you know…
Synchronizing Increases Social Bonding
Uh-Oh! You got to try this one…. If you haven’t been following the research on synchronization and social bonding, the gist of it is that when people synchronize their movements together they seem…
The Surprising Reason People Stay in an Unsatisfying Relationship
The more dependent people believed their partner was on the relationship, the less likely they were to initiate a breakup according to a study to be published in the November…
Curvy Women Like A Drug To Men’s Brains
Men like curvaceous women. No news there, right? Wrong. Daily Mail reported a study that reveals that women with curvy hips and smaller waists are to men as beer is…
Study: Short-Term Vs Long-Term Relationship Potential
We all know that some people are marriage material and others are good just for sex. Right? Researchers at the University of California, Davis say, it’s not that easy. More…
Are You Really In Love – How Invested Are You?
In today’s culture, and especially in these hard economic times, many of us are paying more attention to our bank accounts than we’re paying to our love accounts. We all…
7 Reasons It Feels Like Nothing Is Going Right
The “Wrong Bus Syndrome” is commonly associated with Wangari Maathai Wangari, 2004 Nobel Peace Prize Winner. She used this analogy to draw attention to how too often we head in…
How To Deal With A Control Freak In Your Life
Question: Yangki, I love your website and all your advice. I have a question different from the usual relationship questions you get because my situation is not related to a romantic…
My Ex Wanted To Stay In Contact But Now He’s Pulling Away
Question: My ex broke up with me about 5 weeks ago because he needed space. I did no contact but after reading your articles, I contacted him and told him…
My Ex Is Not Responding Should I Move On?
Question: Yangki, what I hear you saying is, to have a relationship, you must communicate. What if the other person is not communicating, how can there be a relationship? Yangki’s…
My Ex Cheated But I Still Love Her. Help?
Question: My ex of 4 years cheated with another man. I tried to forgive her but, in the end, broke it off. She was angry with me because she said…
Do Avoidants Get Angry When You Don’t Respond? (Pt. 2)
What you need to remember first and foremost is that WHY an anxious-avoidant distances, WHEN they emotionally shut down, HOW they pull away, WHO they emotionally distance from and WHAT…
Signs You’re Making Progress With Your Ex
Many of you have asked me “Yangki, how do I know I am making progress?” or “How do I know I am doing the right thing?” The simple answer is:…
What Your Ex Is Thinking – You’ll Be Surprised
When you’ve dated someone before, it’s almost natural to assume that you already know the person and can tell what they’re thinking about. But sometimes thinking you “know” someone so…
Can I Get My Ex Back If She Only Wants To Text Message?
Question: Yangki, You confirm many of the things I have learned about relationships over the years and continue to learn everyday from people like you. This is why I am…
Why Your Ex Is Being Too Nice All Of A Sudden
Have you had someone say very nice things about you and instead of it making you feel “good’, you feel really uncomfortable and even feel like throwing up? There’s a…
She Wants A Commitment – Should I Let Her Go?
Question: She wanted to get married about 4 months into our relationship but I wanted to wait a while. She broke up with me but a week later she came back….