What Does An Avoidant Ex Mean By Taking Things Slow? (VIDEO)
One of the most difficult things about attracting back an avoidant is trying to figure out the right balance between moving things forward and…
A Break From Your Ex Vs. A Break From Trying to Get Back Together
I hate, hate, hate it when all the advice I can give a client is “maybe you should take a break from actively trying…
What Your Ex Means By A Relationship With You Can’t Work
Almost everyone trying to attract back their ex knows that it is best to “let things happen organically”. But even for the most laid…
My Ex Is Not Interested Should I Leave Him Alone For Now?
Question: I did no contact on my ex (who dumped me) not because I was trying to play games, but because I had to….
How Long Should I Text My Ex Before Asking To Meet Face-To-Face?
Question: Yangki, my ex and I have only recently reestablished contact. She broke up with me and asked for one months of no contact….
Attract Back An Avoidant Ex – Contact, Connect and Attract Back – 12
A dismissive-avoidant is willing to put in the work to make a relationship work if they can somehow be guaranteed that they can still…
No Progress Attracting Back Your Ex – Time to CHANGE STRATEGY
byMany of you have asked me “Yangki, should I keep hoping that I can get my ex back? or “How do I know I…
Help! My Family Hates My Boyfriend
Question: We have been together for 5 years and have our own problems which we have been seeing a counselor about. I’m optimistic about…
Break-Up Closure – A Good, Good Bye (Attachment Styles And Closure)
There’s nothing worse than a relationship fading away into oblivion. And if you are the type who needs closure, stop wondering and waiting, instead take action
Fearful Avoidant Ex Will Not Give Me Closure – How Do I Move On?
Question: Me and my ex boyfriend of 2 years are both fearful avoidants. He leans avoidant and I lean anxious. For the first year…
Why Do I Find It Hard to Accept My Ex Has Moved On?
Question: My ex and I broke up almost 4 months ago. Well, I broke up with him first because he just wasn’t there for me…
How to Make An Avoidant Ex Miss You: Bad Advice? (VIDEO)
I have worked with men and women who are very much attracted to each other but in the end they end up not being…
Boyfriend Has Doubts About Marrying Me
Question: Very early on in our relationship we discussed marriage many times. I told him I would not date anyone for more than three…
Will My Ex Commit If He Thinks He’s Losing Me Forever?
Question: He wanted to get married within a month of our first date. I did not feel it was right to rush things. 18…
Rush to Marry – Waiting Until Early 30s Is A Thing
Over the last five decades, Canadians have been getting married later and later. From 1981 to 2011, the percentage of 25 to 29-year-old Canadians…
7 Ways to Make A Long Distance Relationship Work
“Everything would have been fine if we lived in the same town/state/country,” is the common reason many men and women give for a long…
Why Is There No Momentum With Your Ex? What Is Missing? (VIDEO)
If you are lucky, you get a few responses here and there, but after a while, you start getting the feeling you are bothering…
How Do You Know You’re Sexually Compatibility?
How do you know if you’re sexually compatibility? One obvious way to find out if you are sexually compatible is to sleep with the…
I Became Needy And My Ex Has Stopped Responding – Do I Still Have A Chance?
byQuestion: My ex broke up with me because I was needy and he needed space. I did no contact for 3 weeks but after…
4 Myths About Soul Mates – BUSTED!
I was one of those people who believed with everything in me that the day I met my soul mate, the ground I was…
Can Someone Love Two People At The Same Time?
Yes. You can love two or more people at the same time. What we call love (sometimes it’ just chemistry, attraction or lust) happens…
How Do You Know Someone Is Interested In You?
It’s in the way they look at you, want to be around you and want you to know they find your interesting. They make…
(Best Kept ) Secret to Arguing With Your Partner or Spouse
Disagreements and arguing with a loved one is healthy and normal. Even the happiest couples argue. In fact many studies show that happily married…
Women Want Sex Men Want To Cuddle
Just when we thought we had the sexual preferences of male and female all figured out and tacked away in little neat stereotypes, someone…
Why The End Of A Relationship Hurts So Much
Are you hurting because of a break-up? Do you feel like your world has come to an end? Can’t get over an old love?…
How Do I Attract A Good Woman?
Question: I read your article “How To Spot A Good Woman” but have found it hard to find or attract one. That’s not because I…
12 Hot Places to Meet 30 Plus Cool Singles
Many single men and women think that going up to a complete stranger and risk rejection takes guts, I think what it takes is…
How To Tell How Many Orgasms A Woman Has Had
Have you heard about this one? LOL. People actually get paid to do studies like this! According to a recent study, simply walking across…
Without That Sexual Spark You’re Just Friends
Everyone loves a good kiss – or at lease most men and women do. Guilty! I will not deny that I’ve dumped a guy…
How Do You Know You’re Sexually Compatibility?
How do you know if you’re sexually compatibility? One obvious way to find out if you are sexually compatible is to sleep with the…
Do African Women Have Orgasms?
When we study sexuality, our own cultural concepts and expression of sexuality influence who we study and what we find. Our cultural lenses also…
Is Your Ex Indecisive – That May Be A Good Thing
I was talking to a client about how his ex thinks he is the most indecisive person she’s ever met and complains about how…
Older Women Younger Men: Should They Date?
The sitcom Cougar Town starring Courtney Cox is meant to empower women or at least that’s what the show is said to do. It stars Courtney…
How To Deal With A Control Freak In Your Life
Question: Yangki, I love your website and all your advice. I have a question different from the usual relationship questions you get because my situation…
Is Your Love Life Dead Or Alive?
Science says that because we breathe, we think, we feel, we grow, metabolize, can move, and are capable of reproduction that we are living…
Chasing After Love – You Need To Read THIS
A fable about a young pup and a very old dog conveys a lesson on love worth learning. Every day the pup chased his…
Without That Sexual Spark You’re Just Friends
Everyone loves a good kiss – or at lease most men and women do. Guilty! I will not deny that I’ve dumped a guy…
Texting Negative Emojis To Your Ex Creates A Negative Perception
Emojis are cute little things that many of us add in a text message most of the time without thinking about their interpretation or…
What Reverse Psychology Tricks Do To Your Ex’s Mind And Heart
Question: Yangki, I think that No Contact works if you wait long enough for both you and your ex to remember the good times…