How to Make An Avoidant Ex Feel Safe Enough To Come Back
bySome of you reading my articles and watching my YouTube channel have taken this to heart and sent me emails asking me what a…
Should You Talk To Your Ex About What Went Wrong – Clear Things Up?
One of those things that many people do that pushes their ex away is trying to talk about what went wrong in the…
How To Ask An Avoidant To Stop The Silent Treatment
Question: How do I tell an avoidant that I feel anxious and abandoned when they put me in silent treatment mode, and how do…
What Does My Ex Mean By ‘If It’s Meant To Be’?
Question: My fiancé broke up with me three weeks before we were to get married. His reasons were that he didn’t think he could…
Limited Contact With Your Ex EQUALS No Momentum (VIDEO)
If you are lucky, you get a few responses here and there, but after a while, you start getting the feeling you are bothering…
How Do You Know You’re Sexually Compatible?
How do you know if you’re sexually compatibility? One obvious way to find out if you are sexually compatible is to sleep with the…
10 Red Flags You Should NOT Get Back Together With Your Ex
Question: My ex has been trying to get me back for 5 months. Because this is our third breakup, it concerns me that just…
Do Dismissive Avoidant Exes Miss You After A Break-Up?
byFind out if a dismissive avoidant ex misses you and is “longing” for you. But you may not like what you’re about to learn…
Should I Send My Ex An Apology Letter? (To Get Them Back)
Question: Should I send my ex an apology letter and apologize for hurting her and own up to my mistakes or is this a bad…
Holding Resentment Towards Your Ex Is Keeping You Stuck
Are you stuck in some kind of limbo where you are angry with your ex but at the same time still very much in love the him/her?
Why Do I Find It Hard to Accept My Ex Has Moved On?
Question: My ex and I broke up almost 4 months ago. Well, I broke up with him first because he just wasn’t there for me…
Why Do I Find It Hard to Accept My Ex Has Moved On?
Question: My ex and I broke up almost 4 months ago. Well, I broke up with him first because he just wasn’t there for me…
Exes Who Like The Chase More Than They Want The Catch (VIDEO)
I have worked with men and women who are very much attracted to each other but in the end they end up not being…
How Do I Stop My Boyfriend From Breaking Up With Me?
Question: Thank you for everything you’re doing. This is by far the best advice site and blog on authentic relationships. My story in brief…
How to Be In Control Without Being Controlling
Whether we admit it or not, we all want to have some degree of control in our relationships. Having control in our relationships makes…
Rush to Marry – Waiting Until Early 30s Is A Thing
Over the last five decades, Canadians have been getting married later and later. From 1981 to 2011, the percentage of 25 to 29-year-old Canadians…
How to Get Your Ex To Trust You Again And Want You Back
Break-ups create suspicion and mistrust even in relationships that did not have trust issues before the break-up. Exes put up emotional barriers and blocks…
Limited Contact With Your Ex EQUALS No Momentum (VIDEO)
If you are lucky, you get a few responses here and there, but after a while, you start getting the feeling you are bothering…
How Do You Know You’re Sexually Compatible?
How do you know if you’re sexually compatibility? One obvious way to find out if you are sexually compatible is to sleep with the…
Exes Who Like The Chase More Than They Want The Catch (VIDEO)
I have worked with men and women who are very much attracted to each other but in the end they end up not being…
4 Biggest Myths About Soul Mates BUSTED!
This soul mates myth busters will forever change your beliefs about soul mate love and soul-connections. Mine changed forever. I was one of those…
Can Someone Love Two People At The Same Time?
Yes. You can love two or more people at the same time. What we call love (sometimes it’ just chemistry, attraction or lust) happens…
Blindsided, Emotional Cues Study Findings
Even the happiest couples in exclusive relationships are sometimes clueless when it comes to reading signs that their partner is not happy, is hiding…
Want A Happy Satisfied Romantic Partner? (Study)
The happiest couples are those in which both partners feel that they are able to make major decisions in the relationship according to a…
Synchronizing Increases Social Bonding
Uh-Oh! You got to try this one…. If you haven’t been following the research on synchronization and social bonding, the gist of it is that when people…
Rush to Marry – Waiting Until Early 30s Is A Thing
Over the last five decades, Canadians have been getting married later and later. From 1981 to 2011, the percentage of 25 to 29-year-old Canadians…
What Is Sexual Confidence And How Do You Get It?
A lack of sexual confidence limits one’s ability to find a romantic partner and can often lead to bad choices when it comes to…
Is It Too Late To Get My Ex Back If I Apologized So Late?
Question: Is it too late to get my ex back if i apologized so late? My ex and I broke up for three and…
Is Texting Your Ex XOXO (Hugs And Kisses) Needy?
Is it okay to end a text to your ex with “xoxo” or will that come across as needy? For those of you who…
HELP- She Asked For Space And I Didn’t Give It To Her
Question: Using the advice in your book, my ex and I got close again we were seeing each other every day. Last week she…
The Words You Use To Communicate With Your Ex Matter – A LOT
All exes not only want to know that you know what you are doing, they also want to be convinced that the relationship will…
How Do You Know You’re Sexually Compatible?
How do you know if you’re sexually compatibility? One obvious way to find out if you are sexually compatible is to sleep with the…
Why Nerds and Geeks Suck At Relationships
If you are here reading this, chances are you spend a great deal of your time on your computer, with your cell phone, and…
What Bad Boys Know And Do That Nice Guys Don’t – Pt 2
The sex appeal of a bad boy is real, so real that once we women go “BAD” it’s really hard for us to go…
Is Your Ex Indecisive – That May Be A Good Thing
If your ex is indecisive, frustrating as it may be, maybe it’s actually a good thing that they think through decisions thoroughly. I was…
The Land Where Women Rule!
In the Xiaolianghshan Mountains, Yunnan province (South East China), live the Mosuo people, one of the last living matriarchal societies today. They are closely…
How To Deal With A Control Freak In Your Life
Question: Yangki, I love your website and all your advice. I have a question different from the usual relationship questions you get because my situation…
Is Your Love Life Dead Or Alive?
Science says that because we breathe, we think, we feel, we grow, metabolize, can move, and are capable of reproduction that we are living…
How to Get Your Ex To Trust You Again And Want You Back
Break-ups create suspicion and mistrust even in relationships that did not have trust issues before the break-up. Exes put up emotional barriers and blocks…
Why Do I Find It Hard to Accept My Ex Has Moved On?
Question: My ex and I broke up almost 4 months ago. Well, I broke up with him first because he just wasn’t there for me…
Don’t Like Your Ex? Don’t Try to Get Back Together (PROBLEM SOLVED)
“May be I should start by telling you about my ex… give a little bit of background on who he/she is…” Experience has taught…