Trying So Hard And Chasing After An Ex Doesn’t Work Try Something Different
Love is not supposed to hurt, and relationships were never designed for us to suffer or struggle. But why do many of us struggle…
Cool Off Period Vs No Contact (Self-Preservation Vs Relationship)
With cool off period there are no “rules”. The person taking time to cool off is not counting “how many days in no contact” because to them it’s not about “no contact”.
Why Some Men Stop Sexually Desiring Their Partner
Anxiously attached men tend to have a steeper drop in their sexual desire over the course of a relationship, according to new psychology research…
7 Reasons Why Your Ex Does Not Want Contact
Everyone who wants their ex back thinks that they should be able to get their ex back– and they should be. But not everyone…
How Do I Respond When My Ex Asks “How Are You”?
Question: We broke up almost 3 weeks ago, and last night my ex sent me a text at 7 pm with just “How are…
How to Gain Control Of Break-Up Emotions Fast And Permanently
Emotions and feelings play a central role in the break-up experience. One could even say emotions and feelings ARE the break-up experience because break-up…
10 CLEAR SIGNS Your Ex Doesn’t Want You Back
If you still love your ex and there is a possibility that you might get back together, my advice is to do everything within…
10 Signs He’s Not Committing To You Anytime Soon
When you are madly in love with a guy, it is easy to ignore all the hints he is giving you that tell you…
8 Times An Ex Came Back Asking For A Second Chance (Too Late)
1. Sometimes they come back when you’re over them. After you’ve suffered years from their absence. After it took you years to move on….
What Do Dating and Relationship Experts Really Know About Love?
You can be the most educated, the most brilliant, the most beautiful, the hottest, the richest, the nicest, the most charismatic, the most flirtatious,…
How to Trigger Emotions That Make Him Want You More
This may sound like an old wives’ tale, but believe me, it works! Traditionally there are two ways to get a man to do…
10 Signs He’s Not Committing To You Anytime Soon
When you are madly in love with a guy, it is easy to ignore all the hints he is giving you that tell you…
3 Steps – How to Get A Commitment Phobe To Commit
Many relationships today end because one person wants commitment and the other is afraid to commit. The one who wants commitment is left feeling…
How Do I Know Someone Is Right For Me?
Question: First of all let me say, I’ve been through almost every post on your blog and every article on your website and I…
Do Not Turn Down A Chance to Spend Time With Your Ex (VIDEO)
This sends the message that you want to spend time with them but are not so desperate that you will cancel your plans just…
10 Things You Can Do to Attract Back An Ex Struggling With Depression
There are certain challenges with trying to get back someone struggling with anxiety, depression, and/or alcohol use that many other relationships do not have,…
Why Some Men Stop Sexually Desiring Their Partner
Anxiously attached men tend to have a steeper drop in their sexual desire over the course of a relationship, according to new psychology research…
Do Not Turn Down A Chance to Spend Time With Your Ex (VIDEO)
This sends the message that you want to spend time with them but are not so desperate that you will cancel your plans just…
10 Things You Can Do to Attract Back An Ex Struggling With Depression
There are certain challenges with trying to get back someone struggling with anxiety, depression, and/or alcohol use that many other relationships do not have,…
Needy People Do These Things And Don’t Know They’re Doing It – Pt 1 (VIDEO)
If asking for what you want, or need makes you feel uncomfortable, or if you think that it will upset someone and drive them…
How Do You Know Someone Is Interested In You?
It’s in the way they look at you, want to be around you and want you to know they find your interesting. They make…
Can Someone Love Two People At The Same Time?
Yes. You can love two or more people at the same time. What we call love (sometimes it’ just chemistry, attraction or lust) happens…
Can Dating More Than One Person At The Same Time Make You Less Needy?
Some people find it better to date one person at a time, and when that doesn’t work out, find another one to date. Others…
The Pros And Cons Of Text Messaging Your Ex
I came across the results of several studies on the advantages and disadvantages of technology in romantic conflict and thought it might help many…
4 Ways Past Relationship Abuse Is Ruining Your New Relationship
How do you move forward after leaving an abusive relationship and what does that look like? Noelle St. Vil, an assistant professor in University…
The ‘Like Gap’… Shh, Don’t Tell The Narcissist
Word in the relationship research world is that new people we talk to like us and enjoy our company more than we think they…
12 Hot Places to Meet 30 Plus Cool Singles
Many single men and women think that going up to a complete stranger and risk rejection takes guts, I think what it takes is…
Relationship Red Flags – Dating A Manipulator (Pt 1)
Manipulators, liars, users and abusers come in both genders and in all shapes, ages, education backgrounds, social classes, professions, personalities, races… you name it,…
Why Some Men Stop Sexually Desiring Their Partner
Anxiously attached men tend to have a steeper drop in their sexual desire over the course of a relationship, according to new psychology research…
Natural Sexual Confidence – Pt 2
Sexual charisma is like a MAGNET. If you have it, you’ll draw people to you. So how does one get sexual charisma? 1) DEVELOP…
He’s Shy, How Do I Get Him to Make A Move?
Question: I met a guy I’m very attracted to; 38, divorced with no kids. I’m 40 divorced with one son. He and my brother-in-…
Can An Arranged Marriage Work?
They say marriages are made in heaven. But then, there are also those made here on earth. Though an arranged marriage may feel like…
Older Women Younger Men: Should They Date?
The sitcom Cougar Town starring Courtney Cox is meant to empower women or at least that’s what the show is said to do. It stars Courtney…
Is Your Ex Indecisive – That May Be A Good Thing
I was talking to a client about how his ex thinks he is the most indecisive person she’s ever met and complains about how…
7 Reasons It Feels Like Nothing Is Going Right
The “Wrong Bus Syndrome” is commonly associated with Wangari Maathai Wangari, 2004 Nobel Peace Prize Winner. She used this analogy to draw attention to…
If You Love Someone Should You Tell Them?
If you love someone should you tell him or her? Some of you will say “Yes. absolutely”. But most of you will probably say,…
It’s OK to Fall In Love With Ugly (But Try Not to Cry)
Every now and then we all need to hear words of encouragement to give us that extra push; words of support when we’re passing…
What If You Had A 30% Chance Of Getting Back Your Ex?
What if there was a 70% chance you will not get back your ex, would you still try? Many of you will probably say…
Why Does My Ex Say She Missed Me?
Question: My ex broke up with me three months ago but every once in a while she calls me, tells me how much she…
10 Red Flags You Should NOT Take Back Your Ex
Question: I need your help figuring out whether I should go back to my ex or not. I don’t want to go back to…