10 SIGNS You’re Emotionally Connecting With Your Ex
What does it mean to emotionally connect, and how do you know you are emotionally connecting? There are many books, methods and advice on what emotional connection is about. Some…
Why Can’t My Ex Decide If They Want Me Back?- Pt 1
Think your ex is just being stubborn, playing mind games, stringing you along, leading you on? A study by researchers from Florida State University will make you re-think your ex’s mixed…
How Is ‘No Contact’ Selfish If It’s To Protect Myself?
Question: Yangki, cutting off all contact in order to protect and to take care of yourself is not bad. I haven’t contacted my ex for 7 weeks and I feel…
4 SECRETS Of People Who Get Back Their Ex – Pt 5
4- Keep trying for as long as you can do it There is no magic number for how many times you should try to get back your ex or keep…
What Do I Do If I Run Into My Ex?
Question: Yangki, I know you talked about this in your eBook but i just want to be sure I understood you. This weekend my ex and I will both be attending…
10 Ways To Make It Work with An Ex With Anxiety
There are certain challenges with trying to get back someone struggling with anxiety, depression, and/or alcohol that many other relationships do not have, or are not as big an issue as…
Hard to Believe Your Ex Will Come Running Back?
In a comment to my article: Why Love Always, Always Comes Back, Kiren wrote: “I find this hard to believe, do they always come running back?” I responded, “NO. They…
How Long Does It Take For My Ex’s Feelings To Come Back?
Question: Yangki, I like that you are not offering the usual one-size fits all N/C advice, but instead asking each couple to choose what’s best for them. My ex is…
Communicating Vs. Emotional Connection (Pt 2)
Building a strong emotional bond goes beyond “good communication skills”. Building a strong emotional bond is about emotional intimacy. Intimacy! Now, that’s a word that scares many of us, including…
18 Explosive Words You Never Say To Your Ex
Here is a scene you may be familiar with. You and your ex are trying to get back together and all seems to be going well. Then you say or…
5 Signs Of A Strong Emotional Bond
When someone comes to me asking for help getting their ex back, one of the things I look for is if there was strong enough emotional attraction and if enough time…
5 Reasons Your Ex Replies But Ends Conversations Quickly
Question: Yangki, my ex and I have positive text conversations and he is responsive but after three or so exchanges, he just stops. As you say in your ebook, sometimes…
Old Vs. New Relationship With Your Ex – Pt 2
How do you know you’re focusing your attention on the PRESENT? You feel energized, relaxed and optimistic, even when the future is not so certain. How do you know you…
Why Exes Give Up Pursuing You And Move On
Healthy relationships that last develop and thrive on “want him/her as much as he/she wants me”. Except for a few men and women who chase after people who show no…
No. 1 Reason Your Ex Is Suddenly Pulling Back
It’s so easy to jump into trying to get back together head first, especially if you have a tendency of spending too much time together right away. As soon as…
Is It A Break-Up If She Wants to Take A Break?
Question: We’ve been together for more than 3 years. We had miscommunication problems, but I always felt like we understood each other. That’s why I was shocked when she called…
How Do I Stop Missing and Thinking About My Ex?
Question: Yangki, my question is different. I have decided not to try to get my ex back. I am trying to move on but I keep thinking about my ex….
Is My Angry Ex Secretly Still In Love With Me?
Question: I am finding myself in a situation where my ex flies into a rage every time I ask her why we broke up. She just came out from the…
Does Your Relationship Have A Future?
Question: We’ve been going out for 2 years now. About six weeks ago I told him I wanted more out of the relationship. He got upset and said he needed…
10 SIGNS You’re In A Situationship (It’s NOT A Relationship)
A “situationship’ is very much like a relationship. It looks and feels like you are in a relationship and has many of the things that relationships have – love, emotional…
Can A Dismissive-Avoidant Ex Want You Back? (Pt. 2)
They distance to focus on themselves and what they want (space and autonomy) and to avoid getting caught up in the needs and/or emotions of others, especially if a partner…
5 Signs Your Ex Is Emotionally Toxic
Why did my ex do this and doing that are questions almost everyone who leaves a comment on my blog, or signs up for coaching wants the answer to. But…
13 Signs You Are Dating A Needy Man or Woman
We all have our moments when we’re a bit needy and we need some help from others. However, it definitely becomes a problem when someone is needy all of the…
How to Move On From a Crush On a Friend
If like me, you have friends of the opposite sex with whom you are so very close, chances are, you or the other person at one time or another made…
Do You Fall In Love Too Much Too Soon?
“My problem is that I love him too much!” “What do you mean?” “He’s taking my love for granted because I’m always there. May be I should play hard to…
Communicating Vs. Emotional Connection (Pt 2)
Building a strong emotional bond goes beyond “good communication skills”. Building a strong emotional bond is about emotional intimacy. Intimacy! Now, that’s a word that scares many of us, including…
How Is ‘No Contact’ Selfish If It’s To Protect Myself?
Question: Yangki, cutting off all contact in order to protect and to take care of yourself is not bad. I haven’t contacted my ex for 7 weeks and I feel…
18 Explosive Words You Never Say To Your Ex
Here is a scene you may be familiar with. You and your ex are trying to get back together and all seems to be going well. Then you say or…
10 SIGNS You’re In A Situationship (It’s NOT A Relationship)
A “situationship’ is very much like a relationship. It looks and feels like you are in a relationship and has many of the things that relationships have – love, emotional…
Is My Divorced Ex Afraid Of Getting Hurt Again?
Question: Yangki, my ex and I broke up a couple of weeks ago due to an argument about his ex-wife. He says he can’t right now be in a relationship…
Why Do Men Chase Women Who Are Hard To Get?
Question: I’m a man and like it or not, males chase after females who’re hard to get, or hard to get a hold of. SHE becomes his direction, goal, meaning,…
My Ex Started Initiating Contact But I’m Confused
Question: My ex has started initiating contact and has been contacting me almost every other day. He even apologized when he replies the next day. However, he plays hot and…
My Ex Wants To Meet, Is It Too Soon?
Question: I’ve been a silent reader of your blog for couple of months and have re-read many of your articles multiple times. My story is long, but I’ll try to…
Is It Too Late To Try To Get Back My Ex?
Question: It’s been at least 8 months since the breakup. We have contacts, sometimes he seems happy and other times he just ignores me. He used to initiate contact, but…
10 SIGNS You’re In A Situationship (It’s NOT A Relationship)
A “situationship’ is very much like a relationship. It looks and feels like you are in a relationship and has many of the things that relationships have – love, emotional…
10 Dating Rules You Shouldn’t Be Following
The dating model that male and female interactions follow today has far too many rules that it’s hard to keep up with the latest in-thing. Personally, I think the obsession…
Does Sex Too Soon Doom A Relationship?
On a regular basis, I meet women — young and old — who say they are happy being single and not looking for “anyone”, but within a few days or…
Sex Addiction Or High Sex Drive?
While there really is no excuse for infidelity, the growing trend of labeling every man (or woman) who has a sexual libido that is higher than what society has decided…
I’m Angry No Woman Wants Me
Question: I read your article 10 Types of Men Women Don’t Find Attractive and the “Angry Reject” accurately describes my current state of mind and experience with women. After 20…
I’m Not Sexually Attracted To My Boyfriend
Question: I’ m seeing a guy who has almost all the qualities I look in a man but he is too nice and too needy. At first I enjoyed the…
Why The End Of A Relationship Hurts So Much
Are you hurting because of a break-up? Do you feel like your world has come to an end? Can’t get over an old love? You are not weak or a…
Attractive, Smart and Unlucky In Love?
Are you attractive, smart and unlucky in love? Well, according to new research published in the Personality and Social Psychology Bulletin, you are not unlucky in love, you are turning…
Over 40, Men Become Pickier Than Women
Women under 40 looking for a partner online are more selective than men when it comes to a potential mate’s education level but over 40, men are pickier than women…
Lower Class People Wiser About Relationships
New research from the University of Waterloo finds that lower class populations are wiser than their middle-class counterparts in their ability to reason about interpersonal matters. The study measures wisdom…
I Will Always Try To Be Ugly
Every now and then we all need to hear words of encouragement to give us that extra push; words of support when we’re passing through a difficult period; words of…
How Do I Love Someone Who’s Mean To Me?
Question: Yangki, I’ve read your articles and absolutely love everything you have to say about love. I’m trying to be a more loving person in my romantic relationship and in…
Is Your Love Life Dead Or Alive?
Science says that because we breathe, we think, we feel, we grow, metabolize, can move, and are capable of reproduction that we are living beings, but our lives (especially our love…
5 Reasons Your Ex Replies But Ends Conversations Quickly
Question: Yangki, my ex and I have positive text conversations and he is responsive but after three or so exchanges, he just stops. As you say in your ebook, sometimes…
Old Vs. New Relationship With Your Ex – Pt 2
How do you know you’re focusing your attention on the PRESENT? You feel energized, relaxed and optimistic, even when the future is not so certain. How do you know you…
Why Exes Give Up Pursuing You And Move On
Healthy relationships that last develop and thrive on “want him/her as much as he/she wants me”. Except for a few men and women who chase after people who show no…
No. 1 Reason Your Ex Is Suddenly Pulling Back
It’s so easy to jump into trying to get back together head first, especially if you have a tendency of spending too much time together right away. As soon as…
My Ex Responds To Texts Immediately – What Does It Mean?
Question: Yangki, I am confused about my ex’s signals and hope you can clarify things for me. My ex responds fast to my texts but doesn’t seem to want to…
Why Does My Ex Say She Missed Me?
Question: My ex broke up with me three months ago but every once in a while she calls me, tells me how much she loves me, misses me and acts…
Signs You’re Insecure In Your Relationship (Story)
A guy named Roger is attracted to a woman name Elaine. He asks her out to a movie; she accepts; they have a pretty good time. A few nights later he…
Do I Tell My Ex I Want Him Back?
Question: Yangki, I like the rest of your advice but disagree on continuing contact if your ex does not want to try the relationship again. I did 90-day no contact…
Is It A Break-Up If She Wants to Take A Break?
Question: We’ve been together for more than 3 years. We had miscommunication problems, but I always felt like we understood each other. That’s why I was shocked when she called…