Sometimes life does give us second chances… Until someone makes it …

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Sometimes life does give us second chances…

Until someone makes it so clear that it is indeed “O-V-E-R” (not swinging back and forth) or is happy in a new relationship, there is always a chance to do it right the second time round.

The catch is that you have to be well positioned to take that chance — or you’ll blow it!

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All those are possibilities. But you are only seeing things from “something is “wrong” with him. There is also the possibility that he felt suffocated, had doubts abut marrying you, or felt the relationship wasn’t right for him.

When you look at things more objectively, you have a better chance of finding the right solution than when you have tunnel vision/or listening only to the advice of your “girlfriends”. They mean well, but it doesn’t help you relationship.

Why Someone You Love Doesn’t Want You
It’s frustrating when you are doing all this changing and growing but if it’s not working. If part of why you broke up in the first place is because your ex thought you were “self -centered” then it’s only natural that she still sees your efforts in that light. It’ll take a lot of selflessly showing – consistently and over a period of time – that you have genuinely changed for her to believe the changes.

This takes time and patience. Anything that feels like putting pressure on her to “see that you’ve changed” is going to backfire. Ultimately, if she’s going to come back to you, it’ll be because SHE WANTS to and not because YOU MADE her do it.

Why Someone You Love Doesn’t Want You
Yes, it’s possible. Sometimes two people in a relationship grow and change together, and sometimes they grow and change, and can no longer be together.

On the surface it may appear that the feeling that you are no longer compatible happened suddenly, but in reality it happened over a period of time. She may have woken up one morning and the realization hit her… “we want different things!”

It doesn’t mean anything is wrong with you (or your ex for that matter). It just means you grew apart.

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Unbiased and compassionate…hmmm. I’ll take that! Thank you… 🙂

I think what you need is more a consultation than coaching. Here’s a link to how to set up a consultation call.

We will talk about your situation and see whether you should try to get him back or just move on.

Do Exes Really Ever Come Back?
I have MANY. Use the site search button and type in different words that reflect your situation. Make sure to read the comments as well. Many answers to many questions are in the comments.

This is just one of the most popular articles that may (or may not) address your situation.

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There is such a thing. It’s very possible and it happens more often than most people realize.

That said, I do admit that it’s quite rare in today’s relationship environment for exes to part ways with little or no animosity. My personal opinion is that too many people become “romantic lovers” without necessarily cultivating “friendship”, and when the romance dies there is nothing else left but hurt feelings, anger and resentment.

People with good relationship skills cultivate and nurture both romance and friendship. Friendship helps them weather the rough patches, navigate hurt emotions, and maintain an emotional connection long after the romance dies out. That ‘friendship’ usually provides a foundation for a new romantic relationship. That’s why people who remain “friends” with their ex end up getting back together more often than people who simply can’t remain friends with their ex.

How To Get Back Someone Who’s “Lost Feelings” For You
Building and strengthening connection is what this site is for. Read as many articles as you can on re-opening the lines of communication, making an emotional connection, and building emotional momentum. If this is not enough and you feel you need more detailed information, consider getting my eBook Dating Your Ex

How to Earn Back Your Ex’s Trust – Pt 3
The article How to Earn Back Your Ex’s Trust tells you what to do. Make sure you read 1 through 3. If you need more help than is in the article, I am happy to work with you one-on-one. Sign up for a phone session and we’ll talk about your situation.

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