You acted needy and he pulled away. You panicked and …

Comment on Why Someone You Love Doesn’t Want You by Love Doctor, Yangki Christine Akiteng.

You acted needy and he pulled away. You panicked and offered him a way out and he took it. I honestly don’t think it matters either way. You can contact him or do NC, it isn’t going to make much of a difference.

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You are not going to get a second chance just wishing for it, that’s for sure. If you want her back, you have to try to get her back.


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I can’t say for sure that it definitely means this or that. A lot depends on the link she sent you… what the article says.

My guess is, if you are doing ‘no contact” she wants you t know she doesn’t think 1) it’s a good idea and 2) it’ll not work to get her back.

If you are in contact, she may be communicating what you are doing wrong, what you should be doing, what’s holding her back, the changes she wants to see, etc.

But it could also mean something completely different… like, she doesn’t like me… 😉


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It’s a good sign that he’s leaving it open for anything to happen in the future. It’s also a good sign that he feels conflicted about the break-up because it means there are still strong feelings there.

My concern is the “not sexually attracted to me” part. If this is due to something that neither of you can do anything about, then you might end up as just good friends.

But if it’s something that can be changed or fixed, then there can be a future for the two of you.


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Please get help regardless of whether he takes you back or not.


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If you want your ex back, no contact is a very bad idea whatever your reasons for doing it are. All you can do now is respect her wish and let her try out the new relationship.

Next time, don’t do no contact. Your ex is not going to be waiting around while you “heal” yourself.


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You have been separated for a year, I need a little more information about your situation to be able to give the best advice. Please consider signing up for one-on-one phone coaching.


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I am humbled by your kind words, and happy to have been of some help in your healing and growth.

Whether it is worth putting in more effort or not is a decision only you can make. I don’t think it’s a good idea to outsource to me or anyone a decision that is about your heart and/or life because the only person who’ll have to live with the decision is YOU.


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Fell in love? Just like that???

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