Comment on Why Someone You Love Doesn’t Want You by Shen.
Yangki, I know that you do not encourage NC but just wanted your opinion on my situation. I was with a guy for almost a year, it was great except for the last 4 months when he started distancing from me. I asked why and he said he could not spend as much time with me as I required of him. I tried to be understanding and gave him space but he continued being cold and distant, not returning calls or texts etc. I called him and asked him if he wanted to breakup with me and he basically said yes. He said he cared about me very much but can’t give me what I want. He also still wants to be friends. I was so upset and hang up. Two hours later I called to apologize, he did not pick up the phone. We have not had any contact for 10 days. Do you think it’s a good idea to contact him again or do NC?