I can’t say for sure that it definitely means this …

Comment on Why Someone You Love Doesn’t Want You by Love Doctor, Yangki Akiteng.

I can’t say for sure that it definitely means this or that. A lot depends on the link she sent you… what the article says.

My guess is, if you are doing ‘no contact” she wants you t know she doesn’t think 1) it’s a good idea and 2) it’ll not work to get her back.

If you are in contact, she may be communicating what you are doing wrong, what you should be doing, what’s holding her back, the changes she wants to see, etc.

But it could also mean something completely different… like, she doesn’t like me… 😉

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Why Someone You Love Doesn’t Want You
You are not going to get a second chance just wishing for it, that’s for sure. If you want her back, you have to try to get her back.


Why Someone You Love Doesn’t Want You
You acted needy and he pulled away. You panicked and offered him a way out and he took it. I honestly don’t think it matters either way. You can contact him or do NC, it isn’t going to make much of a difference.


Why Someone You Love Doesn’t Want You
It’s a good sign that he’s leaving it open for anything to happen in the future. It’s also a good sign that he feels conflicted about the break-up because it means there are still strong feelings there.

My concern is the “not sexually attracted to me” part. If this is due to something that neither of you can do anything about, then you might end up as just good friends.

But if it’s something that can be changed or fixed, then there can be a future for the two of you.


Recent Comments by Love Doctor, Yangki Akiteng

How Can I Change My Ex’s Mind?
I am humbled by your kind words, and happy to have been of some help in your healing and growth.

Whether it is worth putting in more effort or not is a decision only you can make. I don’t think it’s a good idea to outsource to me or anyone a decision that is about your heart and/or life because the only person who’ll have to live with the decision is YOU.


Why Women Are Not Interested In You
Fell in love? Just like that???

Baby boy needs serious help! Does anyone know the number to call 911?


I Don’t Want To Do ‘No Contact’ But I Have No Choice
I like your question, but it does not fit under this article. I have responded to it as a separate post. You can find the answer here.


The TRUTH About No Contact No One Tells You
I hope you understand that all I can do is give advice. I can’t stop you from doing ‘no contact”… I do not have the desire to even try.

As we Africans say: Wear your rags to your funeral. Who am I to stop you.

I just hope for your sake, she is “waiting” for you to contact her. Some exes are not that “patient”.


How To Stop The Silent Treatment
“I ignore her… makes me feel wanted and valued” is not just about control, it’s worse. It’s manipulation.

Hurting someone else so as to feel wanted and valued is a sign of low self-esteem, emotional dysfunction and/or immaturity.

One day she’s going to catch up on it… and you’ll be here looking for advice on “how to get back my ex”…

Just saying…

I think you’ll find my article helpful (if you are willing to be helped): Is Playing Mind Games Normal In Relationships?


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