I can’t say for sure that it definitely means this …

Comment on Why Someone You Love Doesn’t Want You by Love Doctor, Yangki Akiteng.

I can’t say for sure that it definitely means this or that. A lot depends on the link she sent you… what the article says.

My guess is, if you are doing ‘no contact” she wants you t know she doesn’t think 1) it’s a good idea and 2) it’ll not work to get her back.

If you are in contact, she may be communicating what you are doing wrong, what you should be doing, what’s holding her back, the changes she wants to see, etc.

But it could also mean something completely different… like, she doesn’t like me… 😉

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You are not going to get a second chance just wishing for it, that’s for sure. If you want her back, you have to try to get her back.


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You acted needy and he pulled away. You panicked and offered him a way out and he took it. I honestly don’t think it matters either way. You can contact him or do NC, it isn’t going to make much of a difference.


Why Someone You Love Doesn’t Want You
It’s a good sign that he’s leaving it open for anything to happen in the future. It’s also a good sign that he feels conflicted about the break-up because it means there are still strong feelings there.

My concern is the “not sexually attracted to me” part. If this is due to something that neither of you can do anything about, then you might end up as just good friends.

But if it’s something that can be changed or fixed, then there can be a future for the two of you.


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Manipulation, pressure, fear… those are topics I have written so many articles about. Without the quote I am unable to point you to the article you are looking for. Sorry!


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The article does not say you should express that you still have feelings for your ex by the second date. It clearly says “By the second date, it should be clear to your ex that you want him/her back”. Very different from “expressing that you still have feelings” on a second date.


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I am glad to be of some sort of help.
All the best!


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Spend a little more time on the site. There is a lot of advice on how to approach getting back someone who says one thing and does another. Read the comments as well, I have responded to many questions with a similar situation as yours.


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All that is addressed in the book… which you just started reading… 😉


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