It’s a good sign that he’s leaving it open for …

Comment on Why Someone You Love Doesn’t Want You by LOVE DOCTOR, YANGKI AKITENG.

It’s a good sign that he’s leaving it open for anything to happen in the future. It’s also a good sign that he feels conflicted about the break-up because it means there are still strong feelings there.

My concern is the “not sexually attracted to me” part. If this is due to something that neither of you can do anything about, then you might end up as just good friends.

But if it’s something that can be changed or fixed, then there can be a future for the two of you.

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You are not going to get a second chance just wishing for it, that’s for sure. If you want her back, you have to try to get her back.


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I can’t say for sure that it definitely means this or that. A lot depends on the link she sent you… what the article says.

My guess is, if you are doing ‘no contact” she wants you t know she doesn’t think 1) it’s a good idea and 2) it’ll not work to get her back.

If you are in contact, she may be communicating what you are doing wrong, what you should be doing, what’s holding her back, the changes she wants to see, etc.

But it could also mean something completely different… like, she doesn’t like me… 😉


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You acted needy and he pulled away. You panicked and offered him a way out and he took it. I honestly don’t think it matters either way. You can contact him or do NC, it isn’t going to make much of a difference.


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