I don’t know if he still loves you or not, …

Comment on 5 Reasons Your Ex Is Contacting You by Love Doctor, Yangki C. Akiteng.

I don’t know if he still loves you or not, but from his actions it does seem like his contacting you was all about sex. First he agrees to being friends, then he’s all over you as soon as he sees you, then later in the night he makes a booty call and when you turn him down he disappears!

Whether you keep contact or not is up to you but if you do, don’t do so with the false hope that the reason he made contact was because he wants you back. Someone who wants you back does not act the way your ex is acting.

Love Doctor, Yangki C. Akiteng Also Commented

5 Reasons Your Ex Is Contacting You
This site is THE alternative to ‘no contact’ sites out there. I also have an eBook that offers an alternative to ‘no contact’, and I offer coaching for those looking for an alternative to ‘no contact’. Gosh! I am THE alternative to no-contact coach!

If you are indeed looking for an alternative to ‘no contact’, it’d help you to spend a little bit more time reading as many articles as you can. I have a feeling you’ll like what you learn… 😉

“Love comes more naturally to the human heart, than it’s opposite”… Nelson Mandela.


5 Reasons Your Ex Is Contacting You
Whether to maintain contact or not is up to how you feel about him coming back into your life after 2 years of no contact.

In case you decide to continue contact, proceed very cautiously. It’s so easy to go with your emotions but you don’t know why he’s back after so long, or if he’s changed at all.


5 Reasons Your Ex Is Contacting You
First time he did it, I’d give him the benefit of the doubt. It’s possible he genuinely thought he had a missed blocked call. It’s also possible that he has a good explanation for not calling or texting back.

Remember, he’s your ex, he doesn’t have to call you back or respond to your texts immediately, or even ever.

If he did it again or did something similar, I’d know he’s playing mind games and completely ignore him.


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“focusing on the positive progress we’ve been making…” That’s key right there!

It does not mean you do not have challenges and setbacks, it just means that you keep moving forward despite of the challenges and setbacks.

Sending you *love energy* reinforcement!!!


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Please get help regardless of whether he takes you back or not.


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If you want your ex back, no contact is a very bad idea whatever your reasons for doing it are. All you can do now is respect her wish and let her try out the new relationship.

Next time, don’t do no contact. Your ex is not going to be waiting around while you “heal” yourself.


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How Can I Change My Ex’s Mind?
I am humbled by your kind words, and happy to have been of some help in your healing and growth.

Whether it is worth putting in more effort or not is a decision only you can make. I don’t think it’s a good idea to outsource to me or anyone a decision that is about your heart and/or life because the only person who’ll have to live with the decision is YOU.


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