I don’t know if he still loves you or not, …

Comment on 5 Reasons Your Ex Is Contacting You by Love Doctor, Yangki C. Akiteng.

I don’t know if he still loves you or not, but from his actions it does seem like his contacting you was all about sex. First he agrees to being friends, then he’s all over you as soon as he sees you, then later in the night he makes a booty call and when you turn him down he disappears!

Whether you keep contact or not is up to you but if you do, don’t do so with the false hope that the reason he made contact was because he wants you back. Someone who wants you back does not act the way your ex is acting.

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5 Reasons Your Ex Is Contacting You
This site is THE alternative to ‘no contact’ sites out there. I also have an eBook that offers an alternative to ‘no contact’, and I offer coaching for those looking for an alternative to ‘no contact’. Gosh! I am THE alternative to no-contact coach!

If you are indeed looking for an alternative to ‘no contact’, it’d help you to spend a little bit more time reading as many articles as you can. I have a feeling you’ll like what you learn… 😉

“Love comes more naturally to the human heart, than it’s opposite”… Nelson Mandela.


5 Reasons Your Ex Is Contacting You
Whether to maintain contact or not is up to how you feel about him coming back into your life after 2 years of no contact.

In case you decide to continue contact, proceed very cautiously. It’s so easy to go with your emotions but you don’t know why he’s back after so long, or if he’s changed at all.


5 Reasons Your Ex Is Contacting You
First time he did it, I’d give him the benefit of the doubt. It’s possible he genuinely thought he had a missed blocked call. It’s also possible that he has a good explanation for not calling or texting back.

Remember, he’s your ex, he doesn’t have to call you back or respond to your texts immediately, or even ever.

If he did it again or did something similar, I’d know he’s playing mind games and completely ignore him.


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I hope you understand that all I can do is give advice. I can’t stop you from doing ‘no contact”… I do not have the desire to even try.

As we Africans say: Wear your rags to your funeral. Who am I to stop you.

I just hope for your sake, she is “waiting” for you to contact her. Some exes are not that “patient”.


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“I ignore her… makes me feel wanted and valued” is not just about control, it’s worse. It’s manipulation.

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One day she’s going to catch up on it… and you’ll be here looking for advice on “how to get back my ex”…

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