First time he did it, I’d give him the benefit …

Comment on 5 Reasons Your Ex Is Contacting You by Love Doctor, Yangki Christine Akiteng.

First time he did it, I’d give him the benefit of the doubt. It’s possible he genuinely thought he had a missed blocked call. It’s also possible that he has a good explanation for not calling or texting back.

Remember, he’s your ex, he doesn’t have to call you back or respond to your texts immediately, or even ever.

If he did it again or did something similar, I’d know he’s playing mind games and completely ignore him.

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5 Reasons Your Ex Is Contacting You
This site is THE alternative to ‘no contact’ sites out there. I also have an eBook that offers an alternative to ‘no contact’, and I offer coaching for those looking for an alternative to ‘no contact’. Gosh! I am THE alternative to no-contact coach!

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5 Reasons Your Ex Is Contacting You
Whether to maintain contact or not is up to how you feel about him coming back into your life after 2 years of no contact.

In case you decide to continue contact, proceed very cautiously. It’s so easy to go with your emotions but you don’t know why he’s back after so long, or if he’s changed at all.


5 Reasons Your Ex Is Contacting You
I don’t know if he still loves you or not, but from his actions it does seem like his contacting you was all about sex. First he agrees to being friends, then he’s all over you as soon as he sees you, then later in the night he makes a booty call and when you turn him down he disappears!

Whether you keep contact or not is up to you but if you do, don’t do so with the false hope that the reason he made contact was because he wants you back. Someone who wants you back does not act the way your ex is acting.


Recent Comments by Love Doctor, Yangki Christine Akiteng

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I sincerely hope things go the way you hope they will. But sometimes it helps to be realistic about these things. You do realize that things could go the opposite direction too — he realizes he could live without you forever. Walking away is NOT the path I would have advised you to take, but since you’re already on it, I suggest that you don’t just spend your days “waiting”. Fill up your life with things that make you happy and positive and whatever happens, happens.

The alternative is to swallow your pride, go back and try to work things from the inside. Get to understand why he says he may never get married, and see if you can help him move past whatever is making him feel that way.


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I don’t think this is about feelings. It’s possible that he still has feelings for you and even still wants all the benefits of being in a relationship, but doesn’t want a “relationship” with you. Depending on how long you’ve been trying and what you have been ding to try to get him back , these words mentioned more than once should not just be brushed off.

I say ask him. If asking him drives him away, he wasn’t going to hang around for too long anyways. You do want to know if it’s worth putting in any more of your time or effort into trying to get him ex back.


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If you know what you’re doing, he’s not going to think you’re desperate. If you don’t on the other hand… you risk coming cross as desperate.


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It simply means he is not happy that you didn’t return his calls/emails. Calling that “caring” is stretching it; angry and caring are two different things. People get angry with people they don’t care about all the time. Anger is not about the other person, it’s about the person who is angry.


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