You ignored his attempts to contact you many times, so …

Comment on 5 Reasons Your Ex Is Contacting You by Love Doctor, Yangki Christine Akiteng.

You ignored his attempts to contact you many times, so why do you care about what he thinks?

This is the problem with most people using no contact… you want it both ways. Either you admit that you want your ex back and try to get him back, or move on.

Love Doctor, Yangki Christine Akiteng Also Commented

5 Reasons Your Ex Is Contacting You
You shouldn’t worry about where his head is at, his actions speak volumes. Focus on your new relationship.


5 Reasons Your Ex Is Contacting You
You know he didn’t call because he cares about how you’re doing. He called to see if you miss him and to see if you’d jump to get back together. If he is the self-absorbed narcissist you say he is, he’ll contact you again, I’m sure of it.


5 Reasons Your Ex Is Contacting You
Be upfront and direct with her and tell her you want to help her get closure, but you’ve reached a point where you feel there is nothing you can do to help her. You’re exhausted and just want to move on but can’t with her keeping you stuck in the past. You strongly feel that you need to take care of you. Then encourage her to see a local counsellor. She’ll probably feel more betrayed, but what else can you do? If she continues to contact you and you don’t respond, she will know why.


Recent Comments by Love Doctor, Yangki Christine Akiteng

Why Someone You Love Doesn’t Want You
Sometimes life does give us second chances…

Until someone makes it so clear that it is indeed “O-V-E-R” (not swinging back and forth) or is happy in a new relationship, there is always a chance to do it right the second time round.

The catch is that you have to be well positioned to take that chance — or you’ll blow it!


Contact and How Not to Pressure Your Ex
Sad and neglected was probably how he felt when you didn’t respond until after 3 weeks. He may be giving you a taste of your own medicine, or may he decided it’s best to move on.

After 3 attempts with no response, it may be best to wait and see if he contacts you. Then decide if you want to re-establish contact or not.


5 Reasons To Maintain Contact With Your Ex
I’m happy for you! That’s a big step forward.

I’ve said it elsewhere, if you are the one who wants the other person back, you have to be willing to do most of the heavy lifting and “dirty jobs” in the initial stages. If you do it right, it will pay off and things will even out.

Keep us updated!


How to Make Your Ex Feel Loved
I’m glad you’re finding the eBook helpful. Also glad that you saw your own thinking and self-corrected. I wish you all the best.


How To Show A Guy You’re Attracted To Him
Have you tried flirting back or actually going up to the woman and chatting her up? It’s no use if they are giving you the signals and you’re not acting on them.


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