You know he didn’t call because he cares about how …

Comment on 5 Reasons Your Ex Is Contacting You by Yangki Christine Akiteng, Love Doctor.

You know he didn’t call because he cares about how you’re doing. He called to see if you miss him and to see if you’d jump to get back together. If he is the self-absorbed narcissist you say he is, he’ll contact you again, I’m sure of it.

Yangki Christine Akiteng, Love Doctor Also Commented

5 Reasons Your Ex Is Contacting You
You shouldn’t worry about where his head is at, his actions speak volumes. Focus on your new relationship.


5 Reasons Your Ex Is Contacting You
Be upfront and direct with her and tell her you want to help her get closure, but you’ve reached a point where you feel there is nothing you can do to help her. You’re exhausted and just want to move on but can’t with her keeping you stuck in the past. You strongly feel that you need to take care of you. Then encourage her to see a local counsellor. She’ll probably feel more betrayed, but what else can you do? If she continues to contact you and you don’t respond, she will know why.


5 Reasons Your Ex Is Contacting You
You ignored his attempts to contact you many times, so why do you care about what he thinks?

This is the problem with most people using no contact… you want it both ways. Either you admit that you want your ex back and try to get him back, or move on.


Recent Comments by Yangki Christine Akiteng, Love Doctor

Does Someone Doing “No Contact” Love You?
I hear your pain… but you are right, it’s much better than the alternative.

Anyone who makes others want to be more caring (in my book) is a special kind of person. I know it’s not much comfort, but may be that’s what this relationship was about. You were only there in his life to facilitate his growth into a better person. The person for you is waiting for you… and it’s only a matter of time.


Does Someone Doing “No Contact” Love You?
Have you thought of contacting her and trying to slowly work things out instead of going for the “quick fix”?


Why Someone You Love Doesn’t Want You
Sometimes life does give us second chances…

Until someone makes it so clear that it is indeed “O-V-E-R” (not swinging back and forth) or is happy in a new relationship, there is always a chance to do it right the second time round.

The catch is that you have to be well positioned to take that chance — or you’ll blow it!


Contact and How Not to Pressure Your Ex
Sad and neglected was probably how he felt when you didn’t respond until after 3 weeks. He may be giving you a taste of your own medicine, or may he decided it’s best to move on.

After 3 attempts with no response, it may be best to wait and see if he contacts you. Then decide if you want to re-establish contact or not.


5 Reasons To Maintain Contact With Your Ex
I’m happy for you! That’s a big step forward.

I’ve said it elsewhere, if you are the one who wants the other person back, you have to be willing to do most of the heavy lifting and “dirty jobs” in the initial stages. If you do it right, it will pay off and things will even out.

Keep us updated!


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