Whether you should try to get her back or leave …

Comment on Does Your Relationship Have A Future? by Love Doctor, Yangki Christine Akiteng.

Whether you should try to get her back or leave her alone is ALL up to you. It’s your life — and your heart on the line.

If you do try to get her back, keep in mind that it might not happen until after the one year she’s giving herself to be single. Also you’ll have to accept that you will be sharing her attention with other guys. If you are okay with that, then set a realistic plan in action; one that that takes those two factors into consideration.

If on the other hand, it’s too much for you to wait for 1 year and also share her attentions with other guys, then in that case, it’s best to move on.

I hope this helps making your decision a little easier.

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3 Reasons Staying Friends With Your Ex Is Good For Getting Back Together
That’s a very legitimate concern that’s handled in Dating Your Ex
1) how not to get locked in the “just friends” zone (page 300 )
2) physical contact when trying to get back together (page 308)


10 Signs Your Ex Does NOT WANT You Back
If this is a one time thing and there are no other problems in the relationship, she’s probably still processing what happened and needs time to resolve it within her mind.

If this has happened before (you texting other women), or if there are other issues in the relationship, she might be rethinking if she really wants you back.

Either way, keep lines of communication open, and see where things go.


Tips On Creating A (Good) Plan For Getting Back Your Ex
You are just ¼ into the book. It’s best to read the whole book first to determine where in the process you are in then make a decision based on how much momentum you have built/progress made. In fact, if you read further, you will get to where I talk about going out on dates.


10 Signs Your Ex Does NOT WANT You Back
You are right that talking about the old relationship may have caused him to pull back. As advised in the book, you can’t completely avoid making mistakes. Almost everyone makes at least one or two. It’s how you course correct that makes the difference.You should be able to get back on track using the advice in the book. It’s not completely lost, yet!


Do Exes Really Ever Come Back?
Thanks, I do the best I can.

Yes, it’s a good idea… 🙂 There is enough momentum to propel you forward. I too believe that you will get back together, it’s only a matter of time (if you don’t screw it up).


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