Whether you should try to get her back or leave …

Comment on Does Your Relationship Have A Future? by Love Doctor, Yangki Christine Akiteng.

Whether you should try to get her back or leave her alone is ALL up to you. It’s your life — and your heart on the line.

If you do try to get her back, keep in mind that it might not happen until after the one year she’s giving herself to be single. Also you’ll have to accept that you will be sharing her attention with other guys. If you are okay with that, then set a realistic plan in action; one that that takes those two factors into consideration.

If on the other hand, it’s too much for you to wait for 1 year and also share her attentions with other guys, then in that case, it’s best to move on.

I hope this helps making your decision a little easier.

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In simple words… A response is action you take from a conscious level — with emotional composure, confidence and deliberate intention. A reaction is action driven from a sub-conscious level, usually from a place of panic, fear, anger, neediness etc.

Here is a link that might help: Are You Responding Or Reacting To Your Ex?

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I am happy for you, Jackie… 🙂

My hope is that someone reads this inspiring success story and sees how acting ‘too independent” hurts relationships.

Thank you!

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You didn’t ask me a question, so I’m assuming you are really not looking for my advice, but I’ll give it anyway. Disregard it if you think you don’t need it…(:

Talking about the old relationship in the very initial stages can seem like a good idea short-term, but is not something that I’d advice. You run the risk of not only dragging back all the issues of the past into the present, it also makes “starting over” impossible. You may even get back together, but it’ the same old relationship because you just continued from where things ended. Soon or later, you’ll break-up again.

You may actually have a good shot, just try to do it right.

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