Whether you should try to get her back or leave …

Comment on Does Your Relationship Have A Future? by Love Doctor, Yangki Christine Akiteng.

Whether you should try to get her back or leave her alone is ALL up to you. It’s your life — and your heart on the line.

If you do try to get her back, keep in mind that it might not happen until after the one year she’s giving herself to be single. Also you’ll have to accept that you will be sharing her attention with other guys. If you are okay with that, then set a realistic plan in action; one that that takes those two factors into consideration.

If on the other hand, it’s too much for you to wait for 1 year and also share her attentions with other guys, then in that case, it’s best to move on.

I hope this helps making your decision a little easier.

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