Comments on: Signs Your Ex Is Becoming Interested Again http://torontosnumber1datedoctor.com/blog/signs-that-say-your-ex-is-becoming-interested-again/ Sun, 20 May 2012 16:25:11 +0000 hourly 1 http://wordpress.org/?v=3.3.2 By: Love Doctor, Yangki Christine Akiteng http://torontosnumber1datedoctor.com/blog/signs-that-say-your-ex-is-becoming-interested-again/#comment-6674 Love Doctor, Yangki Christine Akiteng Fri, 18 May 2012 15:18:56 +0000 http://torontosnumber1datedoctor.com/blog/?p=2869#comment-6674 That's because you were using "the friends thing" to get her back. People can sometimes sense when you have an agenda, and since your ex is more sensitive to you, agendas usually don't work -- or backfire. That’s because you were using “the friends thing” to get her back. People can sometimes sense when you have an agenda, and since your ex is more sensitive to you, agendas usually don’t work — or backfire.

]]> By: Jamesthe3rd http://torontosnumber1datedoctor.com/blog/signs-that-say-your-ex-is-becoming-interested-again/#comment-6613 Jamesthe3rd Fri, 18 May 2012 10:48:53 +0000 http://torontosnumber1datedoctor.com/blog/?p=2869#comment-6613 Tried to use the friend thing to get her back. It didn't work. Tried to use the friend thing to get her back. It didn’t work.

]]> By: Love Doctor, Yangki Christine Akiteng http://torontosnumber1datedoctor.com/blog/signs-that-say-your-ex-is-becoming-interested-again/#comment-6667 Love Doctor, Yangki Christine Akiteng Sat, 12 May 2012 19:29:54 +0000 http://torontosnumber1datedoctor.com/blog/?p=2869#comment-6667 I don't think you are reading too much into it. She's definitely warming up to you and not just as a friend but as more than "just friends". Don't rush anything, continue building on the friendship but also push the boundaries of the "friends zone" once in a while as explained in the eBook. You don't want her to feel like she's the only one 'showing interest" and you are just being "friendly". That could turn things backwards very fast! All my very best.. lots of positive energy your way. These kind of stories are the fuel that keep me doing this...): I don’t think you are reading too much into it. She’s definitely warming up to you and not just as a friend but as more than “just friends”. Don’t rush anything, continue building on the friendship but also push the boundaries of the “friends zone” once in a while as explained in the eBook. You don’t want her to feel like she’s the only one ‘showing interest” and you are just being “friendly”. That could turn things backwards very fast!

All my very best.. lots of positive energy your way. These kind of stories are the fuel that keep me doing this…):

]]> By: Brian http://torontosnumber1datedoctor.com/blog/signs-that-say-your-ex-is-becoming-interested-again/#comment-6618 Brian Sat, 12 May 2012 16:33:33 +0000 http://torontosnumber1datedoctor.com/blog/?p=2869#comment-6618 I learned reading your ebook that you have to be friends for the relationship to have a solid foundation. If you try to get your ex back without that friendship first it is like building your house on quicksand. For the last 3 months that's exactly what I have done, build on the friendship. I got the first signs of romantic interest a couple of weeks a go. It was my birthday and she called because she had a small gift for me and if I could meet her to get it. She handed me the gift and kissed me on the lips passionately. The second came yesterday, her mother was in town and she asked me to meet her. She told her "this is the guy I've been telling you about". In your opinion, are these signs that she is warming to me? Months ago, she didn't even want me anywhere near her and accused me of trying to make her feel sorry for me. Which I must admit, I did try. But then I came upon your ebook and started building friendship first. I'm definably making progress, but not sure if I'm reading too much into it. I learned reading your ebook that you have to be friends for the relationship to have a solid foundation. If you try to get your ex back without that friendship first it is like building your house on quicksand. For the last 3 months that’s exactly what I have done, build on the friendship. I got the first signs of romantic interest a couple of weeks a go. It was my birthday and she called because she had a small gift for me and if I could meet her to get it. She handed me the gift and kissed me on the lips passionately. The second came yesterday, her mother was in town and she asked me to meet her. She told her “this is the guy I’ve been telling you about”.

In your opinion, are these signs that she is warming to me? Months ago, she didn’t even want me anywhere near her and accused me of trying to make her feel sorry for me. Which I must admit, I did try. But then I came upon your ebook and started building friendship first. I’m definably making progress, but not sure if I’m reading too much into it.

]]> By: Love Doctor, Yangki Christine Akiteng http://torontosnumber1datedoctor.com/blog/signs-that-say-your-ex-is-becoming-interested-again/#comment-6653 Love Doctor, Yangki Christine Akiteng Mon, 07 May 2012 20:14:20 +0000 http://torontosnumber1datedoctor.com/blog/?p=2869#comment-6653 “I don’t understand why we couldn’t be like this before” could mean 3 things. 1) The dynamic between the two of you has changed for the better and that is beginning to make him think... may be this can work. 2) He sees how good what you have right now is, but wondering (aloud) if it can be sustained long-term. 3) There is still strong sexual chemistry and since you haven't been intimate but hangout with each other and hold hands, the sexual tension is up the charts and he likes how it feels. It could explain “like this" and a kiss on the lips. My advice is to continue doing what you are doing without rushing anything. If you do it right, the interest will show itself much more clearly. If the touching and kissing progresses much more quickly than the sharing of experiences, feelings, dreams and wanting to spend more time together, it means all it was is sexual tension. “I don’t understand why we couldn’t be like this before” could mean 3 things.

1) The dynamic between the two of you has changed for the better and that is beginning to make him think… may be this can work.

2) He sees how good what you have right now is, but wondering (aloud) if it can be sustained long-term.

3) There is still strong sexual chemistry and since you haven’t been intimate but hangout with each other and hold hands, the sexual tension is up the charts and he likes how it feels. It could explain “like this” and a kiss on the lips.

My advice is to continue doing what you are doing without rushing anything. If you do it right, the interest will show itself much more clearly. If the touching and kissing progresses much more quickly than the sharing of experiences, feelings, dreams and wanting to spend more time together, it means all it was is sexual tension.

]]> By: Rehema http://torontosnumber1datedoctor.com/blog/signs-that-say-your-ex-is-becoming-interested-again/#comment-6595 Rehema Sun, 06 May 2012 14:50:56 +0000 http://torontosnumber1datedoctor.com/blog/?p=2869#comment-6595 I didn't cut off contact with my ex like a lot of people recommend. We just have so much love for each other but the relationship wasn't working. I still talked to him as if he was my best friend even though I was still romantically interested in him, and he wasn't interest in me in that way. Slowly we started hanging out together and even holding hands occassionally. We both agreed we would not be intimate because it'd spoil what we had. Well, an interesting conversation over the weekend made me think he is reconsidering the breakup. He said "I don't understand why we couldn't be like this before". I asked him "like how?" and he said "like this, and kissed me on the lips". My question is, do you think he is at least thinking of getting back together? I didn’t cut off contact with my ex like a lot of people recommend. We just have so much love for each other but the relationship wasn’t working. I still talked to him as if he was my best friend even though I was still romantically interested in him, and he wasn’t interest in me in that way. Slowly we started hanging out together and even holding hands occassionally. We both agreed we would not be intimate because it’d spoil what we had. Well, an interesting conversation over the weekend made me think he is reconsidering the breakup. He said “I don’t understand why we couldn’t be like this before”. I asked him “like how?” and he said “like this, and kissed me on the lips”. My question is, do you think he is at least thinking of getting back together?

]]> By: Love Doctor, Yangki Christine Akiteng http://torontosnumber1datedoctor.com/blog/signs-that-say-your-ex-is-becoming-interested-again/#comment-6404 Love Doctor, Yangki Christine Akiteng Thu, 19 Apr 2012 14:49:35 +0000 http://torontosnumber1datedoctor.com/blog/?p=2869#comment-6404 Given what you wrote, I'd have hope too... ): Nothing wrong with having some hope... as long as you are realistic about it. Good luck!!!! Given what you wrote, I’d have hope too… ):
Nothing wrong with having some hope… as long as you are realistic about it.
Good luck!!!!

]]> By: Jojii http://torontosnumber1datedoctor.com/blog/signs-that-say-your-ex-is-becoming-interested-again/#comment-6187 Jojii Mon, 16 Apr 2012 22:33:44 +0000 http://torontosnumber1datedoctor.com/blog/?p=2869#comment-6187 I've been on your blog every day for two months and I see progress with my ex. She broke off with me because she was unhappy but asked if we could at least be friends because she didn't want it to end without us knowing about each other's lives. I told her if we can't be gf and bf we could not be anything else. She cried and told me she wished she felt differently. I decided that we should not contact each other. I wanted to give her space and hopefully she will realize she made a mistake. But after finding your blog I broke the no contact rule after only 8 days. I started to contact her and she responded but rather reluctantly. Now we talk on phone 3 times a week and have been out 3 times. I told her I still love her and want her back and she said "we'll see" with a smile. She shows she still cares about me in many ways. I'm trying so hard not to get my hopes up. I’ve been on your blog every day for two months and I see progress with my ex. She broke off with me because she was unhappy but asked if we could at least be friends because she didn’t want it to end without us knowing about each other’s lives. I told her if we can’t be gf and bf we could not be anything else. She cried and told me she wished she felt differently. I decided that we should not contact each other. I wanted to give her space and hopefully she will realize she made a mistake. But after finding your blog I broke the no contact rule after only 8 days. I started to contact her and she responded but rather reluctantly. Now we talk on phone 3 times a week and have been out 3 times. I told her I still love her and want her back and she said “we’ll see” with a smile. She shows she still cares about me in many ways. I’m trying so hard not to get my hopes up.

]]> By: Love Doctor, Yangki Christine Akiteng http://torontosnumber1datedoctor.com/blog/signs-that-say-your-ex-is-becoming-interested-again/#comment-6105 Love Doctor, Yangki Christine Akiteng Thu, 05 Apr 2012 09:26:38 +0000 http://torontosnumber1datedoctor.com/blog/?p=2869#comment-6105 "Have fun" doesn't exactly sound like someone who is excited about hearing from you after 4 weeks of absolutely no contact. But what did you expect... You threw the bait he spat it right back at you. “Have fun” doesn’t exactly sound like someone who is excited about hearing from you after 4 weeks of absolutely no contact. But what did you expect… You threw the bait he spat it right back at you.

]]> By: Dorcark http://torontosnumber1datedoctor.com/blog/signs-that-say-your-ex-is-becoming-interested-again/#comment-5833 Dorcark Wed, 04 Apr 2012 06:35:31 +0000 http://torontosnumber1datedoctor.com/blog/?p=2869#comment-5833 My ex broke up with me after 3 and 1/2 years together. I was heartbroken and used no contact to heal. Yestarday I sent him a text “I’m really excited about the weekend... never mind". After 2 hours he responded "Have fun!" Do I respond and what do I say? Mind you we had 4 weeks of absolutely no contact from either side. Does it look like he is interested? My ex broke up with me after 3 and 1/2 years together. I was heartbroken and used no contact to heal. Yestarday I sent him a text “I’m really excited about the weekend… never mind”. After 2 hours he responded “Have fun!” Do I respond and what do I say? Mind you we had 4 weeks of absolutely no contact from either side. Does it look like he is interested?

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