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Comment on My Boyfriend Doesn’t Want To Break-Up? by Yangki Akiteng, Love Doctor.

“Everyone loves being in the company of someone who does not reject or resist them.”

How so true!!! The exception to the rule are people who feel alive when they are struggling, in perpetual anxiety, suffering and in pain — i.e. trying to make someone love them.

Other than that, it’s human nature to want people who want us. Problem is, many of us say we want to be in a relationship with someone but at the same time keep telling the person they are not this or that, or that because they are this and not the other, they are making us unhappy. What we don’t realize is that, what we’re actually saying is “I don’t accept you”. And we wonder why the other person wants out (a.k.a. “I don’t know if I want a relationship right now”).

I really hope the two of you can work things out, eventually.

Recent Comments by Yangki Akiteng, Love Doctor

How To Get Back Someone Who’s “Lost Feelings” For You
I sincerely hope things go the way you hope they will. But sometimes it helps to be realistic about these things. You do realize that things could go the opposite direction too — he realizes he could live without you forever. Walking away is NOT the path I would have advised you to take, but since you’re already on it, I suggest that you don’t just spend your days “waiting”. Fill up your life with things that make you happy and positive and whatever happens, happens.

The alternative is to swallow your pride, go back and try to work things from the inside. Get to understand why he says he may never get married, and see if you can help him move past whatever is making him feel that way.


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I don’t think this is about feelings. It’s possible that he still has feelings for you and even still wants all the benefits of being in a relationship, but doesn’t want a “relationship” with you. Depending on how long you’ve been trying and what you have been ding to try to get him back , these words mentioned more than once should not just be brushed off.

I say ask him. If asking him drives him away, he wasn’t going to hang around for too long anyways. You do want to know if it’s worth putting in any more of your time or effort into trying to get him ex back.


How To Show A Guy You’re Attracted To Him
If you know what you’re doing, he’s not going to think you’re desperate. If you don’t on the other hand… you risk coming cross as desperate.


Does My Ex Still Love Me But Afraid To Admit It?
It simply means he is not happy that you didn’t return his calls/emails. Calling that “caring” is stretching it; angry and caring are two different things. People get angry with people they don’t care about all the time. Anger is not about the other person, it’s about the person who is angry.


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