Older Women Younger Men: Should They Date?

cougar-town-older-women-younger-menThe sitcom Cougar Town starring Courtney Cox is meant to empower women or at least that’s what the show is said to do. It stars Courtney Cox’s character (Jules Cobb) a recently divorced forty-something single mother who upon discovering that all the men her age are either married, emotionally unavailable, gay or dating younger women reluctantly agrees to test the dating scene at a nightclub filed with much younger guys. She quickly finds herself a bit out of her element. Her old-fashioned dating skills and rules no longer apply.

Desperately trying to cling onto youth, Jules re-asserts herself through unrelenting sexuality. She sexually hunts and pursues younger men and finds herself in excruciating awkward situations. It’s only after Jules stops trying so hard to please the younger guys that she starts to make progress in the older women younger men dating world.

Jules’ best friend and neighbor Elle, tries to prevent her from going out while her 17-year old son is constantly being embarrassed by both of his parents (his father is also dating younger women). In one scene, Jules lectures middle school kids about how hard it is to date when you’re a forty-something woman.

After some wild nights out, Jules discovers that she can’t and doesn’t really want to party every night like a 20-year-old anymore.

I’m not sure what to make of the show so far and so I thought I’d ask you fine folks what you think about older women dating younger men.  What are some of the pro and cons of dating someone of a significantly different age? What are some of your best and worst experiences dating someone significantly older or younger? Should there be an age limit on who you date?

Any thoughts or questions on the subject?

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Like few others have mentioned already, anything beyond 15 years is really pushing.

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The older a woman gets the less she wants a man she can depend on. She want a partner, someone who simply loves her, enjoys her company, and supports her dreams and hopes. Not someone who feels insecure if she doesn’t “need” him and wants to control her.

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I’m 55, dating a 37 year old. I haven’t really been attracted to a man close to my age since my divorce a couple of years ago. When dating younger men, though, you have to weed out the ones that are just after sex with an older woman or want kids. Also, my boyfriend has 3 daughters. I love them, but it does put limits on our time together since he has custody of them. He’s a full-time dad AND MOM. Because of that, I realize I’m not high on his priority list and that hurts.

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I’m 40 dating a 31 one year old man and I’ve never been happier in my life the attraction and emotions between us are stronger than ever before !!:)

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I’m 38 and dating a 21, together for 1 month. We enjoyed each other company. Please tell me if this is wrong?

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