Comment on 3 STRONG Reasons NOT To Do “NO CONTACT” by MikeY.
I am really grateful for this site and the emotional depth it brings to relationships and breakups. I personally have never understood no contact, many have tried to explain it to me but no matter how they twist it, it still sounds unhealthy to me. The purpose of dating someone is to see if you can actually spend the rest of your life together. If for whatever reason, you find that you can’t be together as a couple or spend the rest of your lives together, well, that’s life. It doesn’t mean you can’t still find value in that person as a friend. He or she probably knows you better than anyone else in the world. Why wouldn’t you want to have someone who has wonderful insight into who you are in your life?