Comment on 3 STRONG Reasons NOT To Do “NO CONTACT” by Gaz.
There are several reasons why No Contact has been appropriated by narcissists. For one, it’s easier using No Contact if you never attached in the first place. If you were never emotionally invested in the relationship, it’s easier to walk away. Narcissists also have a desire to punish those who fail them, criticize them, trigger their shame. On the surface, No Contact may appear to be warranted and people support narcissist’s convincing claims; but beneath their pretense of self-protection is hostility, aggression, and varying degrees of sadism.