Comments on: How Can I Make My Boyfriend Physically Attracted To Me? http://torontosnumber1datedoctor.com/blog/my-boyfriend-is-not-physically-attracted-to-me-what-can-i-do-to-make-him-want-me/ Sun, 20 May 2012 16:25:11 +0000 hourly 1 http://wordpress.org/?v=3.3.2 By: Love Doctor, Yangki Christine Akiteng http://torontosnumber1datedoctor.com/blog/my-boyfriend-is-not-physically-attracted-to-me-what-can-i-do-to-make-him-want-me/#comment-5123 Love Doctor, Yangki Christine Akiteng Tue, 07 Feb 2012 14:37:28 +0000 http://torontosnumber1datedoctor.com/blog/?p=2757#comment-5123 I understand about the pressure, she might think it's all about sex. It is normal for the "new to wear off" and things to fall into "no intimacy routine". My advice is to talk this over with her. Not just about not having sex but about what's going on in the relationship in general. It's best not to accuse her of anything because she's really not responsible for how you feel. Simply present your thoughts and feelings about the situation and ask her if there is anything the two of you can do make your relationship work the way it used to -- or better. Sometimes working with a professional helps. But make sure it's someone you can trust and know a little bit more about. Some professionals make things worse. I understand about the pressure, she might think it’s all about sex. It is normal for the “new to wear off” and things to fall into “no intimacy routine”. My advice is to talk this over with her. Not just about not having sex but about what’s going on in the relationship in general. It’s best not to accuse her of anything because she’s really not responsible for how you feel. Simply present your thoughts and feelings about the situation and ask her if there is anything the two of you can do make your relationship work the way it used to — or better. Sometimes working with a professional helps. But make sure it’s someone you can trust and know a little bit more about. Some professionals make things worse.

]]> By: Troy http://torontosnumber1datedoctor.com/blog/my-boyfriend-is-not-physically-attracted-to-me-what-can-i-do-to-make-him-want-me/#comment-5006 Troy Tue, 07 Feb 2012 10:48:23 +0000 http://torontosnumber1datedoctor.com/blog/?p=2757#comment-5006 My situation is the opposite. I'm very much physically attracted to her just as I did when we first met 3 years ago but she just isn't that interested in me physically. We do hug and hold hands but that's all. I'm not sure what I can do. I don't want to put pressure on her. My situation is the opposite. I’m very much physically attracted to her just as I did when we first met 3 years ago but she just isn’t that interested in me physically. We do hug and hold hands but that’s all. I’m not sure what I can do. I don’t want to put pressure on her.

]]> By: Yangki Christine Akiteng, Love Doctor http://torontosnumber1datedoctor.com/blog/my-boyfriend-is-not-physically-attracted-to-me-what-can-i-do-to-make-him-want-me/#comment-1900 Yangki Christine Akiteng, Love Doctor Fri, 11 Mar 2011 08:50:41 +0000 http://torontosnumber1datedoctor.com/blog/?p=2757#comment-1900 Sorry, but I don’t see anything “hilarious” about this post or anything that suggests she was expecting or looking for a drool or to conquer the “little guy” and the rest of the world. This was a genuine heartfelt question and deserved an equally heartfelt response. I’ve found that in life, a little more understanding and compassion (for both women and men) goes a long way. That’s what makes this blog different from all the other “vitriol” blogs and forums. We’re here to keep each other real, help, support, and hold each other up through the rough spots of relationships. Please, let's keep it that way! Sorry, but I don’t see anything “hilarious” about this post or anything that suggests she was expecting or looking for a drool or to conquer the “little guy” and the rest of the world.

This was a genuine heartfelt question and deserved an equally heartfelt response. I’ve found that in life, a little more understanding and compassion (for both women and men) goes a long way. That’s what makes this blog different from all the other “vitriol” blogs and forums. We’re here to keep each other real, help, support, and hold each other up through the rough spots of relationships. Please, let’s keep it that way!

]]> By: Enant http://torontosnumber1datedoctor.com/blog/my-boyfriend-is-not-physically-attracted-to-me-what-can-i-do-to-make-him-want-me/#comment-1888 Enant Tue, 08 Mar 2011 05:42:27 +0000 http://torontosnumber1datedoctor.com/blog/?p=2757#comment-1888 This article began in a hilarious way! Sorry for being impertinent...What would have happened if the man immediately drooled at first glance? Would she feel immediately attractive and more than adequate, having this little guy conquered and the rest of the world? This kind of dichotomy (between lack of confidence and over-confidence) does not do any good to both women and men. This article began in a hilarious way! Sorry for being impertinent…What would have happened if the man immediately drooled at first glance? Would she feel immediately attractive and more than adequate, having this little guy conquered and the rest of the world? This kind of dichotomy (between lack of confidence and over-confidence) does not do any good to both women and men.

]]> By: cool http://torontosnumber1datedoctor.com/blog/my-boyfriend-is-not-physically-attracted-to-me-what-can-i-do-to-make-him-want-me/#comment-1030 cool Sun, 07 Mar 2010 11:25:48 +0000 http://torontosnumber1datedoctor.com/blog/?p=2757#comment-1030 that why I never meet any internet guys they always expect a super model to show up or a gal with the most amazing body- they should look at themselves they don't look nothing like a greek god. my advice is dump his ass as he is using u for therapy sessions and as soon as he gets a girl he is attracted to he will dump u like rubbish. sorry to be blunt. that why I never meet any internet guys they always expect a super model to show up or a gal with the most amazing body- they should look at themselves they don’t look nothing like a greek god. my advice is dump his ass as he is using u for therapy sessions and as soon as he gets a girl he is attracted to he will dump u like rubbish. sorry to be blunt.

]]> By: The Love Doctor http://torontosnumber1datedoctor.com/blog/my-boyfriend-is-not-physically-attracted-to-me-what-can-i-do-to-make-him-want-me/#comment-821 The Love Doctor Tue, 19 Jan 2010 05:50:29 +0000 http://torontosnumber1datedoctor.com/blog/?p=2757#comment-821 Jodi, I'm glad you agree with me. Thanks for sharing your own advice. Jodi, I’m glad you agree with me. Thanks for sharing your own advice.

]]> By: The Love Doctor http://torontosnumber1datedoctor.com/blog/my-boyfriend-is-not-physically-attracted-to-me-what-can-i-do-to-make-him-want-me/#comment-820 The Love Doctor Tue, 19 Jan 2010 05:46:00 +0000 http://torontosnumber1datedoctor.com/blog/?p=2757#comment-820 Musa, that hurt my feelings... :(. I'm sensitive like that. I'll pray for you. Next time, please MYOB... lol. Musa, that hurt my feelings… :( . I’m sensitive like that. I’ll pray for you. Next time, please MYOB… lol.

]]> By: Jodi http://torontosnumber1datedoctor.com/blog/my-boyfriend-is-not-physically-attracted-to-me-what-can-i-do-to-make-him-want-me/#comment-819 Jodi Mon, 18 Jan 2010 10:07:53 +0000 http://torontosnumber1datedoctor.com/blog/?p=2757#comment-819 I agree with the Love Doctor. You deserve someone who looks at you admiringly, compliments you and treats you like a queen. A woman needs that from her man. I agree with the Love Doctor. You deserve someone who looks at you admiringly, compliments you and treats you like a queen. A woman needs that from her man.

]]> By: Musathegentlesoul http://torontosnumber1datedoctor.com/blog/my-boyfriend-is-not-physically-attracted-to-me-what-can-i-do-to-make-him-want-me/#comment-818 Musathegentlesoul Mon, 18 Jan 2010 06:42:22 +0000 http://torontosnumber1datedoctor.com/blog/?p=2757#comment-818 No! :) No! :)

]]> By: The Love Doctor http://torontosnumber1datedoctor.com/blog/my-boyfriend-is-not-physically-attracted-to-me-what-can-i-do-to-make-him-want-me/#comment-814 The Love Doctor Sun, 17 Jan 2010 13:25:57 +0000 http://torontosnumber1datedoctor.com/blog/?p=2757#comment-814 No, it’s not a smile. I’m trying to do a Mona Lisa… Lol! Is it working? No, it’s not a smile. I’m trying to do a Mona Lisa… Lol! Is it working?

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