Monday July 28th 2014

Woman On Woman – Why Men Love Girl Catfights

Meow! Catfights are part of the feline charm — or so they say.

Keeping up with the slinky charm, I can be catty when the mood is right. But I’d rather go at it with the guys than with the girls. Why the preference? Guys go for the kill. Girls on the other hand, scratch, slap, pull hair and run away. Then they come back and scratch, slap, pull hair and run away again. All the while making so much noise that you’d think they’re actually winning. In my opinion, too much effort for so little fun. I prefer the guy’s ninja-like “take no prisoners alive” approach to a good fight. It just makes me want to kick more ass (he-he-he).
Enough about me and my love for strength, flexibility, agility and endurance. Let’s talk about guys enjoying a little girl on girl fight a little too much.

Been doing the rounds on a few forums and here are some reasons guys say they’re just so turned on by female catfights.

1. Men love sports, violence, hot women and sweat. A good chick fight is a bit of all.

2. It’s just so easy to get women to fight.

3. It’s empowering for women to learn how to fight. Men have been doing it for centuries.

4. The more woman on woman action, the less strength they have left to fight men.

5. Sometimes we love it, sometimes we hate it. That is what’s so exciting and somewhat addictive.

6. It is just fun seeing a woman getting her ass kicked.

7. It is more interesting than watching two guys pounding each other.

8. We watch to see if one girl is going to tear the other girl’s clothes off.

9. It makes us think of two women eating the forbidden fruit together.

Having fun yet? Eeew! Dirty mind.

I’m not talking about physical catfights. I’m talking about the mental scratching, slapping and hair pulling; the dirty little not-so-secret of women undercutting and sabotaging other women – and some men sitting back and just loving it a little too much.

Don’t believe me?

I challenge you to a catfight. Grrrrr…

Sorry, not today. Today, just say “NO” to girl catfights. I’d rather watch two women actually getting along instead of competing for the title of Homecoming Cat.

It’s called feminine charm!

Don’t mind a good go-for-the-kill fight (for the right reasons), though… ;-)

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23 Responses to “Woman On Woman – Why Men Love Girl Catfights”

  1. Jodi says:

    Meow, I’m a girl! And yes absolutely. Guys love girl catfights :)

  2. Tonyjugmat says:

    You have to admit, girls scratching and pulling each other’s hair are SEXY-HOT.

  3. Rahul says:

    It’s simple. Opposite poles attract and like poles repel, that is why men love women and women hate women.

  4. Andrea says:

    Women can be catty and so can men. But I say MEN are much worse than WOMEN.

  5. MarcusBrig says:

    “It just makes me want to kick more ass” lol. I attended one of ur workshops & u don’t come across as kickass. I think ur really very nice person (shy?). U help so many and ur advice is the best on relationships. I’ve learnt a lot from u.

  6. Okay Marcus, you got me… :-) But shhhhh…please stop saying nice things about me. People might actually believe you. I’ve got a kickass image to protect. Don’t make this much harder than it is already… lol.

  7. Lisa says:

    All catty women live in New York City. I’m an ambitious Medical Doctor and women say awful things about me all the time mostly because they want to be me. People who’re already successful in their own right don’t feel the need to put others down to get one up. Women are women’s own worst enemy.

  8. Sorry you’re having such a hard time. I agree that we should be a little more understanding and kinder to our own sex. Just don’t let other’s cattiness derail or distract you from achieving your goals. The cream always rises to the top of the milk jar. That’s just the way it is… :-)

  9. Bluedog says:

    Andrea, men can be catty, granted, but honestly 9 times out of 10 women are far worse. Hate, jealousy, back biting.

  10. Rocky says:

    “Men are the cause of women not loving one another” – A.W. Hare and J.C. Hare

  11. Musathegentlesoul says:

    As-Salaam-Alaykum. I come in peace.

    I prolly have a dirty mind coz you had me there for a while lol. Consciously, or unconsciously women compete with other women who they feel divert attention away from them. Attractive, intelligent, capable or successful women are mostly a target of other women’s insecurities and disappointment with themselves.

  12. Taxpro72 says:

    I beg to differ with the author of this post. I’m a man and I happen to believe that an ambitious woman with a competitive drive and strong-will is very attractive.

  13. I wholeheartedly agree that some degree of competitiveness in an ambitious strong-willed woman (or man) is not only attractive but also healthy. But there is sneaky, underhanded, backstabbing, covert competitiveness and there is competitiveness that’s not about putting someone else down/wishing them to fail or saying/doing things to undermine their success but about driving oneself to succeed. I think you’ll agree with me that the later is very attractive… ;)

  14. Taxpro72 says:

    Yep! A woman with a drive to succeed without the sneaky, underhanded, backstabbing, covert competitiveness is very attractive. And you’re very attractive ;)

  15. Go a head… pat me on the back because I’m so fabulous… :)

  16. Zulekha says:

    I hate women who smile at you, sabotage you behind your back and then act like they’ve done nothing to harm you. If you want just be yourself and mind your own business, not want to be part of their clicks they gang together to isolate you and try to make you feel like you don’t belong. When you try to speak up they act like you’re the one with a problem.

  17. Gary says:

    Haha, I was having fun until eeew! Reasonably true write. I’ve witnessed women target and undermine other women more often than I’d like. Older single women and plain women are the worst. They take their frustrations on the more attractive younger women.

  18. Aussystud says:

    Competitive women rate themselves as more masculine than do less competitive women. I think it’s because competitiveness is more acceptable for men.

  19. So true. The masculine energy is associated with challenging and expanding our outer world; traits boys are mostly encouraged to develop at an early age. A woman embodying these traits may be threatening to some women — and some men.

    But I do have to add that not all women are sneaky, underhanded and backstabbing. I’ve met and happened to work with some women who were very supportive and acted as mentors. But these were women as Lisa of New York City said, already successful in their own right. We should recognize and give these women credit to encourage other women to do the same.

  20. Aussystud says:

    Does that then mean that men who embody feminine traits are likely to be just as underhanded and backstabbing?

  21. All men have inside them just as much feminine energy as women, just like all women have in them the masculine energy. It’s more about which of the energies is more developed and more frequently expressed. Both energies are equal but not the same. Both energies have the developed and underdeveloped traits or what some call the light/dark or strong/weak sides. If the feminine energy is underdeveloped/weak, a woman or man will most likely express the negative traits of that energy e.g. underhanded and backstabbing etc. I try to explain this in more detail and how it plays out in men/women relationships in my article: The Love Game – Masculine Women Feminine Men (please click on the link).

  22. Beth says:

    I am currently experiencing it at my workplace. They’re all hating on me to make themselves feel better.

  23. Since you already realize that’s what they’re doing, don’t let it bother you.

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