Do you think she’s a different person from the one …

Comment on How Do I Tell My Ex I Moved On? by Love Doctor, Yangki Christine Akiteng.

Do you think she’s a different person from the one who said and did all those things? I’m not talking just different because she has apologized but different in that she’s done some real deep inner work to get to the root of why she reacts that way to feeling rejected. Her telling you she’s been thinking and realizing stuff is NOT enough. Anyone can think and realize what they’ve done, very few actually do something meaningful to make sure it doesn’t happen again.

If you decide to give it another try, don’t rush back in. Chances are if she doesn’t like you “taking your time” and not responding how she wants you to, she’ll blow up again. If that happens, you know, the apologies and all that, were just so that she can get you back.

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Sometimes life does give us second chances…

Until someone makes it so clear that it is indeed “O-V-E-R” (not swinging back and forth) or is happy in a new relationship, there is always a chance to do it right the second time round.

The catch is that you have to be well positioned to take that chance — or you’ll blow it!


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Sad and neglected was probably how he felt when you didn’t respond until after 3 weeks. He may be giving you a taste of your own medicine, or may he decided it’s best to move on.

After 3 attempts with no response, it may be best to wait and see if he contacts you. Then decide if you want to re-establish contact or not.


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I’m happy for you! That’s a big step forward.

I’ve said it elsewhere, if you are the one who wants the other person back, you have to be willing to do most of the heavy lifting and “dirty jobs” in the initial stages. If you do it right, it will pay off and things will even out.

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I’m glad you’re finding the eBook helpful. Also glad that you saw your own thinking and self-corrected. I wish you all the best.


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