Comment on How Do I Get Closure After A Breakup? by Love Doctor, Yangki Christine Akiteng.
I agree, it’s good manners. But trying to teach your ex husband good manners when you failed all those years is beating a dead horse, don’t you think?
He may feel that he’s explained all he needs to or can explain but you just will not accept it. In my opinion, him “refusing to give you closure” should be closure enough. It’s not like you are his wife anymore. He doesn’t want to talk to you or see you, that’s his right.
If you seriously can’t move on, it might help to talk to a therapist.
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It’s tempting to take credit but we both know advice is only as good as the person using it. YOU did it!
I hope things continue getting better and better. All the VERY best.
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Okay… you went there. You’re braver than I am… 😉
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If there is even a possibility, it’s probably too low because he never fell in love with you in the first place. Since he already tried feeling something and didn’t, it’s very likely that he’s convinced that those feelings will never come. It’d have been different if he felt he didn’t try, or didn’t try hard enough. Then may be he’d want to give it a another chance.
That said, if he’s still open to communicating with you, and you can show him that things can be different, you might have a chance. It’s always better to err on the side of trying than give up before you even try. That way you’ll know for sure.
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She is being passive-aggressive, you are right about that. She perceives your ‘rebellion’ as an ‘attack’ on her need for you to spend time with her and ‘giving you space’ is her way of fighting back. But there may be some manipulation going on as well, especially if after she does ‘gives you space’, you to start staying home with her every single day.
As long as there’s some kind of ‘reward’ in it for her, she’ll keep doing it.
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My very best wishes… and thanks. It means a lot!