I agree, it’s good manners. But trying to teach your …

Comment on How Do I Get Closure After A Breakup? by Love Doctor, Yangki Christine Akiteng.

I agree, it’s good manners. But trying to teach your ex husband good manners when you failed all those years is beating a dead horse, don’t you think?

He may feel that he’s explained all he needs to or can explain but you just will not accept it. In my opinion, him “refusing to give you closure” should be closure enough. It’s not like you are his wife anymore. He doesn’t want to talk to you or see you, that’s his right.

If you seriously can’t move on, it might help to talk to a therapist.

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