I agree, it’s good manners. But trying to teach your …

Comment on How Do I Get Closure After A Breakup? by Love Doctor, Yangki Christine Akiteng.

I agree, it’s good manners. But trying to teach your ex husband good manners when you failed all those years is beating a dead horse, don’t you think?

He may feel that he’s explained all he needs to or can explain but you just will not accept it. In my opinion, him “refusing to give you closure” should be closure enough. It’s not like you are his wife anymore. He doesn’t want to talk to you or see you, that’s his right.

If you seriously can’t move on, it might help to talk to a therapist.

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Unbiased and compassionate…hmmm. I’ll take that! Thank you… 🙂

I think what you need is more a consultation than coaching. Here’s a link to how to set up a consultation call.

We will talk about your situation and see whether you should try to get him back or just move on.


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There is such a thing. It’s very possible and it happens more often than most people realize.

That said, I do admit that it’s quite rare in today’s relationship environment for exes to part ways with little or no animosity. My personal opinion is that too many people become “romantic lovers” without necessarily cultivating “friendship”, and when the romance dies there is nothing else left but hurt feelings, anger and resentment.

People with good relationship skills cultivate and nurture both romance and friendship. Friendship helps them weather the rough patches, navigate hurt emotions, and maintain an emotional connection long after the romance dies out. That ‘friendship’ usually provides a foundation for a new romantic relationship. That’s why people who remain “friends” with their ex end up getting back together more often than people who simply can’t remain friends with their ex.


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