Comments on: How Do I Know Someone Is “The Right One” For Me? http://torontosnumber1datedoctor.com/blog/how-do-i-know-he-or-she-is-the-%e2%80%9cright-one%e2%80%9d-for-me/ Sun, 20 May 2012 16:25:11 +0000 hourly 1 http://wordpress.org/?v=3.3.2 By: Waylon Filkins http://torontosnumber1datedoctor.com/blog/how-do-i-know-he-or-she-is-the-%e2%80%9cright-one%e2%80%9d-for-me/#comment-1322 Waylon Filkins Mon, 26 Jul 2010 16:31:54 +0000 http://torontosnumber1datedoctor.com/blog/?p=2974#comment-1322 It's such a good resource that you are offering and you give it away for free. I honestly appreciate discovering sites that recognize the importance of offering a helpful resource for absolutely free. I honestly loved reading your article :) Thanks! It’s such a good resource that you are offering and you give it away for free. I honestly appreciate discovering sites that recognize the importance of offering a helpful resource for absolutely free. I honestly loved reading your article :) Thanks!

]]> By: The Love Doctor http://torontosnumber1datedoctor.com/blog/how-do-i-know-he-or-she-is-the-%e2%80%9cright-one%e2%80%9d-for-me/#comment-979 The Love Doctor Thu, 18 Feb 2010 21:04:00 +0000 http://torontosnumber1datedoctor.com/blog/?p=2974#comment-979 If she says she loved you, it’s highly possible she did and may still love you but not want to be in a relationship with you. It happens all the time. Sometimes two people who love each other can have compatibility issues or conflict in personalities, goals, beliefs etc. that make maintaining a relationship impossible. Other times people “outgrow” each other and other times the “timing” just isn’t right. You’re not doing yourself any good questioning whether she loved you or not. Accepting that although we do not consciously choose who our hearts and souls are drawn to, we make conscious choices as to who we get into a romantic or sexual relationship with, will help you let go and move on much faster. If she says she loved you, it’s highly possible she did and may still love you but not want to be in a relationship with you. It happens all the time. Sometimes two people who love each other can have compatibility issues or conflict in personalities, goals, beliefs etc. that make maintaining a relationship impossible. Other times people “outgrow” each other and other times the “timing” just isn’t right.

You’re not doing yourself any good questioning whether she loved you or not. Accepting that although we do not consciously choose who our hearts and souls are drawn to, we make conscious choices as to who we get into a romantic or sexual relationship with, will help you let go and move on much faster.

]]> By: Sage Man http://torontosnumber1datedoctor.com/blog/how-do-i-know-he-or-she-is-the-%e2%80%9cright-one%e2%80%9d-for-me/#comment-978 Sage Man Thu, 18 Feb 2010 19:01:24 +0000 http://torontosnumber1datedoctor.com/blog/?p=2974#comment-978 So did she love me one week and just stopped loving me the next? Did she even love me at all? She told me she did but how can she love me and do what she did? So did she love me one week and just stopped loving me the next? Did she even love me at all? She told me she did but how can she love me and do what she did?

]]> By: The Love Doctor http://torontosnumber1datedoctor.com/blog/how-do-i-know-he-or-she-is-the-%e2%80%9cright-one%e2%80%9d-for-me/#comment-977 The Love Doctor Thu, 18 Feb 2010 18:09:56 +0000 http://torontosnumber1datedoctor.com/blog/?p=2974#comment-977 Yes it’s possible. Maybe she saw/learned something about you that made her realize it would never work out in the long run or she had doubts all a long but was trying to convince herself that it’s what she wanted but finally decided it would only hurt both of you later. Yes it’s possible. Maybe she saw/learned something about you that made her realize it would never work out in the long run or she had doubts all a long but was trying to convince herself that it’s what she wanted but finally decided it would only hurt both of you later.

]]> By: Sage Man http://torontosnumber1datedoctor.com/blog/how-do-i-know-he-or-she-is-the-%e2%80%9cright-one%e2%80%9d-for-me/#comment-976 Sage Man Thu, 18 Feb 2010 17:22:07 +0000 http://torontosnumber1datedoctor.com/blog/?p=2974#comment-976 Is possible for someone to feel like you’re the right one week and the next break up with you? My ex-girlfriend of 2 years told me one day out of nowhere that she didn’t want to be with me anymore. This is after she had told me the week before no one had ever loved her the way I loved her and that she wanted to have my children. I pressed her to tell me what I did wrong and she said she just was not ready for a serious relationship with anyone. It’s been only 6 months since we broke up and she’s in a serious relationship with someone else. She told me this herself when I tried to get her back. I know it’s serious because she always worried she might be getting too old to have children. Is possible for someone to feel like you’re the right one week and the next break up with you? My ex-girlfriend of 2 years told me one day out of nowhere that she didn’t want to be with me anymore. This is after she had told me the week before no one had ever loved her the way I loved her and that she wanted to have my children. I pressed her to tell me what I did wrong and she said she just was not ready for a serious relationship with anyone. It’s been only 6 months since we broke up and she’s in a serious relationship with someone else. She told me this herself when I tried to get her back. I know it’s serious because she always worried she might be getting too old to have children.

]]> By: The Love Doctor http://torontosnumber1datedoctor.com/blog/how-do-i-know-he-or-she-is-the-%e2%80%9cright-one%e2%80%9d-for-me/#comment-966 The Love Doctor Tue, 16 Feb 2010 21:11:09 +0000 http://torontosnumber1datedoctor.com/blog/?p=2974#comment-966 Wow! That's a tall order... I'll have to do a new post... :) In brief, it begins with you relaxing some of your expectations, a genuine desire and genuine effort to explore each other's unique personalities, wants, desires or needs - as a human being and not as a potential “mate.” The following articles will help ... <a href="http://www.torontosnumber1datedoctor.com/NEWSLETTER%20ARTICLES/first_date_no_call_what_to_do.html" rel="nofollow"><strong>-- Are You Screwing Up Your Dates - Too Serious or Playing Too Safe, Perhaps?</strong> </a> <a href="http://www.torontosnumber1datedoctor.com/NEWSLETTER%20ARTICLES/connect_first_date.html" rel="nofollow"><strong>-- Connecting Emotionally On A First Date</strong></a> <a href="http://www.torontosnumber1datedoctor.com/NEWSLETTER%20ARTICLES/beyond%20first%20date%20second.htm" rel="nofollow"><strong>-- Beyond First Date, Second Date To Third Date </strong> </a> Wow! That’s a tall order… I’ll have to do a new post… :)

In brief, it begins with you relaxing some of your expectations, a genuine desire and genuine effort to explore each other’s unique personalities, wants, desires or needs – as a human being and not as a potential “mate.” The following articles will help …

– Are You Screwing Up Your Dates – Too Serious or Playing Too Safe, Perhaps?
– Connecting Emotionally On A First Date
– Beyond First Date, Second Date To Third Date

]]> By: Modwana http://torontosnumber1datedoctor.com/blog/how-do-i-know-he-or-she-is-the-%e2%80%9cright-one%e2%80%9d-for-me/#comment-965 Modwana Tue, 16 Feb 2010 03:07:31 +0000 http://torontosnumber1datedoctor.com/blog/?p=2974#comment-965 Yangki, I’m really loving these posts on “the right one” :) They’ve inspired me not to be too picky and to give the guys I date a fair chance of becoming “the right one”. My question is, if it makes any sense, where do I begin? With my track record of writing guys off too early only to realize what I let slip through my fingers when I see with them happily married, I need to like start from the basics. Yangki, I’m really loving these posts on “the right one” :) They’ve inspired me not to be too picky and to give the guys I date a fair chance of becoming “the right one”. My question is, if it makes any sense, where do I begin? With my track record of writing guys off too early only to realize what I let slip through my fingers when I see with them happily married, I need to like start from the basics.

]]> By: The Love Doctor http://torontosnumber1datedoctor.com/blog/how-do-i-know-he-or-she-is-the-%e2%80%9cright-one%e2%80%9d-for-me/#comment-962 The Love Doctor Mon, 15 Feb 2010 15:01:19 +0000 http://torontosnumber1datedoctor.com/blog/?p=2974#comment-962 I don’t think you’re trying to find a better reason to leave, I think you see things clearly but trying to convince yourself to stay. It seems you’ve pretty much tried everything -- talking and trying to spice things up a little -- but he’s still saying things like “not the right one”, “leave now” and “hurt more in the future”... sounds like someone who has already made up his mind and may have already emotionally checked out of the relationship. You can’t force someone who does not want to work on a relationship to do so. The only person you can “make do” what you want to do is you. I don’t think you’re trying to find a better reason to leave, I think you see things clearly but trying to convince yourself to stay. It seems you’ve pretty much tried everything — talking and trying to spice things up a little — but he’s still saying things like “not the right one”, “leave now” and “hurt more in the future”… sounds like someone who has already made up his mind and may have already emotionally checked out of the relationship. You can’t force someone who does not want to work on a relationship to do so. The only person you can “make do” what you want to do is you.

]]> By: PinkButterfly http://torontosnumber1datedoctor.com/blog/how-do-i-know-he-or-she-is-the-%e2%80%9cright-one%e2%80%9d-for-me/#comment-959 PinkButterfly Sun, 14 Feb 2010 21:00:59 +0000 http://torontosnumber1datedoctor.com/blog/?p=2974#comment-959 He told me he is conflicted because he’s not sure I’m the right one for him and does not want to settle. We constantly fight and I end up apologizing for something I didn't need to apologize for. We’ve talked about this so many times and I even tried different things to spice things up but he says he’d rather leave now or he’ll hurt me more in the future. Is he losing interest in me? Is there something I can do besides just breaking up with him? May be I’m just trying to find a better reason to leave. He told me he is conflicted because he’s not sure I’m the right one for him and does not want to settle. We constantly fight and I end up apologizing for something I didn’t need to apologize for. We’ve talked about this so many times and I even tried different things to spice things up but he says he’d rather leave now or he’ll hurt me more in the future. Is he losing interest in me? Is there something I can do besides just breaking up with him? May be I’m just trying to find a better reason to leave.

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