I still don’t think it’ll make a difference, but give …

Comment on Absence Does Not Make Your Ex’s Heart Grow Fonder by Love Doctor, Yangki Christine Akiteng.

I still don’t think it’ll make a difference, but give it a try. You seem to strongly believe that “giving it time” (no contact) is the magic solution. I’m not going to try to convince you otherwise. You either get it, or you don’t.

As for making your ex believe you moved on, be careful what you wish for. He might actually believe it.

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Absence Does Not Make Your Ex’s Heart Grow Fonder
You could try to contact him again at some point, but I don’t think any “more time” is going to make a difference.

From the sounds of it, this was not exactly an easy relationship. You both thought that a little “time and space” would fix things, but all you had to do was get in contact again, and it’s same old.

If all you are doing is “giving it time”, you will get the same result.


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3 Reasons Staying Friends With Your Ex Is Good For Getting Back Together
That’s a very legitimate concern that’s handled in Dating Your Ex
1) how not to get locked in the “just friends” zone (page 300 )
2) physical contact when trying to get back together (page 308)


10 Signs Your Ex Does NOT WANT You Back
If this is a one time thing and there are no other problems in the relationship, she’s probably still processing what happened and needs time to resolve it within her mind.

If this has happened before (you texting other women), or if there are other issues in the relationship, she might be rethinking if she really wants you back.

Either way, keep lines of communication open, and see where things go.


Tips On Creating A (Good) Plan For Getting Back Your Ex
You are just ¼ into the book. It’s best to read the whole book first to determine where in the process you are in then make a decision based on how much momentum you have built/progress made. In fact, if you read further, you will get to where I talk about going out on dates.


10 Signs Your Ex Does NOT WANT You Back
You are right that talking about the old relationship may have caused him to pull back. As advised in the book, you can’t completely avoid making mistakes. Almost everyone makes at least one or two. It’s how you course correct that makes the difference.You should be able to get back on track using the advice in the book. It’s not completely lost, yet!


Do Exes Really Ever Come Back?
Thanks, I do the best I can.

Yes, it’s a good idea… 🙂 There is enough momentum to propel you forward. I too believe that you will get back together, it’s only a matter of time (if you don’t screw it up).


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