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Psychological Reasons People Use No Contact

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Do Exes Really Ever Come Back?
Thanks, I do the best I can.

Yes, it’s a good idea… 🙂 There is enough momentum to propel you forward. I too believe that you will get back together, it’s only a matter of time (if you don’t screw it up).


Do Exes Really Ever Come Back?
You are right. It’s not much to go by, but it’s enough to show that things are moving in the right direction. What you’re doing is working, so don’t change it or get needy and try to move things faster.

I believe with you!


Do Exes Really Ever Come Back?
If things are exactly the same as they were last month or last week, you don’t have momentum. You are not messing up, but you are not moving forward either.


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3 Reasons Staying Friends With Your Ex Is Good For Getting Back Together
That’s a very legitimate concern that’s handled in Dating Your Ex
1) how not to get locked in the “just friends” zone (page 300 )
2) physical contact when trying to get back together (page 308)


10 Signs Your Ex Does NOT WANT You Back
If this is a one time thing and there are no other problems in the relationship, she’s probably still processing what happened and needs time to resolve it within her mind.

If this has happened before (you texting other women), or if there are other issues in the relationship, she might be rethinking if she really wants you back.

Either way, keep lines of communication open, and see where things go.


Tips On Creating A (Good) Plan For Getting Back Your Ex
You are just ¼ into the book. It’s best to read the whole book first to determine where in the process you are in then make a decision based on how much momentum you have built/progress made. In fact, if you read further, you will get to where I talk about going out on dates.


10 Signs Your Ex Does NOT WANT You Back
You are right that talking about the old relationship may have caused him to pull back. As advised in the book, you can’t completely avoid making mistakes. Almost everyone makes at least one or two. It’s how you course correct that makes the difference.You should be able to get back on track using the advice in the book. It’s not completely lost, yet!


What To Do When Your Ex Is Playing Mind Games
I don’t mean to add insult to your situation, but your ex didn’t “come back”.

This is one of the problems I have with NC. Too many people hanging their hopes on an ex contacting them. At some point your ex may contact, but just because he or she contacts you doesn’t mean they want you back. Until you are back together, your ex has not ‘come back”.

Please see this articles: 5 Reasons Your Ex Is Contacting You and Why Does My Ex Contact Me Then Disappears?


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