A client called me in tears. She had sent her ex one of those “I need some time and space to heal and I would appreciate it if you don’t contact me for awhile. Thanks for understanding” texts that “no contact” experts tell you to send your ex. He wrote back “I completely agree. This relationship is so toxic that any kind of contact now or ever will pull us back to what we both don’t want. I’ll work on myself as you continue to work on yourself. We will both attract better people as a result. I wish you all the best in life”.

She desperately tried to explain that she only wanted some time to heal. His response, “I respected your wish when you said not to contact you, now please respect mine and do not contact me again. I am moving on. Thanks for your understanding.”

That’s not what she expected — and definitely NOT what she wanted. Her intentions were good, but things had suddenly gone from bad to worse.

Everyday I work with men and women who had the right intentions but made things worse… you’ve probably done a few yourself.

Gone to your ex way too early asking to get back together. Begged, pleaded, told your ex how much you love him/her. Written your ex an email and letter apologizing or telling your ex what you think went wrong with the relationship. Told your ex you want to start over, want a new relationship and even told your ex you have changed. None of this works. Some of it make things worse.


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I tried every trick written about getting an ex back and was basically on my last leg when I came upon your eBook. It changed my whole attitude overnight. I’m implementing the concepts outlined in the eBook and following your no-pressure contact advice. I’m feeling really positive with the way things are moving forward. Thank you — Miguel

Yangki, I realise from reading your dating your ex ebook that I have been reacting with fear instead of responding from a place of love. So this is a new way of thinking to me — Aaron

Yangki, I bought your ebook because of this line “You have been too focused on “ME” and not much energy put into “US”. After reading your ebook and absorbing the insights in your articles, I can honestly say this is indeed a whole different point of reference, at least for me. I think like most people I thought I was working on “us” but all I was doing is being selfish and only thinking of me and what I want. I am learning to think more of “us” and my ex sees the difference. Thank you, my friend I have never met. ? — Katey


You shouldn’t be wasting that time on mind games, power plays, egg-shell walking, and stalling on taking action. Put your limited time and energy into behaviours that show the relationship can be better – and make your ex want to get back together..

Even if you’ve been married for years, been dating for only a few months, are in a long distance relationship, struggling to make a connection or put back passion (that “in love” feeling) in your relationship,  you need a ROAD MAP to walk you through the process, a CLEAR STRATEGY to keep you on the right path and short-term ACTIONS to successfully get back your ex.

It doesn’t matter that you haven’t contacted your ex in a while; it doesn’t matter if you’ve done so many of the things you are not supposed to do to get back you ex; it doesn’t matter if right now your ex thinks the relationship can’t work; it doesn’t even matter if you don’t believe you can actually get back your ex— Dating Your Ex will walk you through all you need to know – and do to get back your ex.


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Yangki, I’m following your dating your ex book and yesterday met up with my ex for the first time since the breakup. We stayed in contact since we run a business together, but avoided each other in person. We both could see that we still have amazing chemistry. She even joked about it feeling like we’re still a couple. We were together for over 4 years. She broke up with me because I became needy and clingy. I am seeing her again next week on a date, but I want to let it happen naturally — Christian

Yangki, I read just about every article you have written and also bought your book. I was drawn to your approach because I did not want to do no contact. We talked about contact on the day of the breakup and chose to remain close. For the first month we didn’t speak much but there was no period of no contact. After a month of texts and phone calls I asked her out and we’ve been spending lots of time together. She has invited me to family events and talks about us being together in the future. I think in general, things are going pretty well. So thank you — WaPare


You’re not just working with a theory, you are working with proven strategies, tools and knowledge gathered from years of hard work, one-on-one consultations with real people going through what you are going through, scientific research — and refining what works, how and when.


I didn’t just write a book or program to make money, I’ve dedicated my life working with men and women one-on-one to understand what works and what doesn’t…

I don’t promise miracles or “sure fire” ways that’ll get you your ex back in “2 days”, or get your ex to come “crawling and begging” etc. I trust you to know the difference between a sales pitch and the real thing.

All I can promise you is that, Dating Your Ex gives you the best chance of not just getting your ex back, but of actually having the kind of relationship you’ve always wanted.

I receive so MANY comments and emails from readers who say, “I wish I had your eBook a week ago.”

It’ll only be too late if you don’t start now.

Don’t wait for your ex to come to you — your ex could also be waiting for you to make the first move. At the end of the day, it really doesn’t matter whether you are the dumped or dumpee, if you want a relationship, you’ve got to make the first move.


If you find my website helpful, you’ll find Dating Your Ex even more helpful. There is more information, more tools and scripts that you don’t get from the site .



Hi Yangki, I just had to tell you what a blessing your book and site are! My ex broke up with me because he didn’t feel the same love for me as I felt for him. I started no contact but I couldn’t completely disconnect myself from him. I contacted him and over the course of 5 weeks things progressed rapidly. We spent a lot of time talking about how to improve the relationship. he was very attentive, holding me tightly and giving me long hugs but I was the one that asked him if he wants to try the relationship again. We are back together but still taking it slow. Your advice was extremely helpful. Thank you — Eliz

My ex was in a rebound relationship two months after we broke up. I found your blog and ebook and followed your advice. Slowly he started spending more time with me and eventually broke it off with her. He said I won back his heart because I acted mature when he was being immature. I still think about what happened and it hurts, but I see how he tries every day to show me he loves me and wants the relationship to work. We have been back 3 weeks and we are closer and happier than we have ever been. Thank you — lorianne.


 You can’t again say, “But I don’t know what to to to get my ex back”. Everything you need to get started, and keep making progress until you and your ex are back together is at your fingertips. You have no excuse for not at least trying.


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