A client called me in tears. She had sent her ex one of those “I need some time and space to heal and I would appreciate it if you don’t contact me for awhile. Thanks for understanding” texts that “no contact” experts tell you to send your ex. He wrote back “I completely agree. This relationship is so toxic that any kind of contact now or ever will pull us back to what we both don’t want. I’ll work on myself as you continue to work on yourself. We will both attract better people as a result. I wish you all the best in life”.

She desperately tried to explain that she only wanted some time to heal. His response, “I respected your wish when you said not to contact you, now please respect mine and do not contact me again. I am moving on. Thanks for your understanding.”

That’s not what she expected — and definitely NOT what she wanted. Her intentions were good, but things had suddenly gone from bad to worse.


Everyday I work with men and women who had the right intentions but made things worse… you’ve probably done a few yourself.

Gone to your ex way too early asking to get back together. Begged, pleaded, told your ex how much you love him/her. Written your ex an email and letter apologizing or telling your ex what you think went wrong with the relationship. Told your ex you want to start over, want a new relationship and even told your ex you have changed. None of it has worked. Some of it may have made things worse.

Stop all of that! It’s time to start reprogramming your relationship with love.


Reprogramming your relationship with love is what makes Dating Your Ex so different from all the other books, programs and advice.

Dating Your does not encourage creating “distance” between you and your ex. Dating Your Ex encourages closing the distance between you and your ex.

Dating your ex does not advice “giving your ex space”. Dating Your Ex advises creating a safe space for the new relationship to grow.

Dating your ex does not encourage mind games, trickery and manipulation. Dating Your Ex is about honesty and openness.

Your ex will know from the start that:

  • You accept that the relationship has ended, but you still love and care about him/her.
  • You don’t want to be “just friends”, you want him/her back.
  • You’re willing to take things slow, and build a better and stronger relationship.
  • You have truly and genuinely changed, and things will be different this time around.

Dating Your Ex is all about being proactive in getting what you want, and creating the relationship you deserve.


Above all, Dating Your Ex is about LOVE and not power-play.

When you start a new relationship based on “power-plays”, you set it up for failure.

When you use manipulation to try to break down the walls your ex has build to protect him or herself from getting hurt again, you create resistance.

This is why many people don’t get back their ex. They are using approaches that promote power-play and resistance.

Dating Your Ex gives you the best chance of success because it’s based on the principle that the only thing that attracts love is love.



You will learn:

  • How best to open the lines of communication
  • What to do and what to avoid in the initial stages of contact.
  • How to communicate clearly and assertively.
  • Safe topics to talk about and avoid over-contacting your ex.
  • How to use emotional bids for connection to create strong emotional attraction
  • What to do when your ex is resistant/or does not want contact
  • How to approach long a distance situation
  • What to do to avoid being friend-zoned
  • How to handle yourself when there is someone new in your ex’s life
  • How to show your ex you have changed without coming across as ‘selling’ yourself.
  • How to deal with your ex’s push-and-pull in a way that pulls your ex closer.
  • When and how to bring up getting back together
  • How to press forward when your ex says ‘no’, is undecided or wants more time
  • How to ask for a ‘trial period’ and what to do in the trial period.
  • What to do to make sure your ex doesn’t break-up with you after you get back together… and much, much more.


The worth of a book is to be measured by what you can carry away from it. ~James Bryce

If you are looking for a book that balances rational thinking with emotional feeling; the head and the heart.

A book that doesn’t tell you do this and do that, without telling you why…

A book that does not pit one gender over the other, and does not generalize all men as this and all women as that, but treats each relationship situation as unique…

A book that’s not about immature mind games and manipulation, but about truly loving someone and having them love you back…

A book that elevates you and your relationship to a higher level of consciousness and fulfillment…

A book with advice that feels right to who you are, and your core values with regards to love …

This is it!


Remember, you only have limited time to prove you are worth another chance.

You shouldn’t be wasting that time on mind games, power plays, egg-shell walking, and stalling on taking action. Put your limited time and energy into behaviours that show the relationship can be better – and make your ex want to get back together..

Take advantage of the best tried-and-tested steps that showcase the new and improved you in the best possible way – and in the fastest time.

Even if you’ve been married for years, been dating for only a few months, are in a long distance relationship, struggling to make a connection or put back passion (that “in love” feeling) in your relationship, this step by step guide will break through a lot of negativity, rebuild trust, re-awaken feelings of love and transform distance into connection, no matter how hopeless the situation seems at the moment.

get-ex-back-changesYou may be asking yourself, why should I believe YOU?

#1: The first really good reason why you can believe me is: I’m living proof that whatever you find in my e-Book works. For many years — because of my fear of commitment — I was the Queen of On-And-Off Again Relationships. I worked on my own issues and managed to turn things around for myself, get back someone I had driven away several times and had given up on me.

So yes, I know how it is to be away from the one that you do not want to be without. But more importantly for you – I also found out that reconnecting with an old love is not just another date. The dynamics are a whole lot different — and I mean like a whole LOT. I don’t want you to make the mistakes I made!

#2: The second really good reason why you can believe me is: This is an e-Book written by a real practicing successful full-time Relationships Coach with astounding success in love reunions.

#3: The third really good reason why you can believe me is: Many men and women who put the knowledge and wisdom in this e-Book into action are back with their ex and realizing their dreams of the relationship they’ve always wanted!

You’re not just working with a theory, you are working with proven strategies, tools and knowledge gathered from years of hard work, one-on-one consultations with real people going through what you are going through, scientific research — and refining what works, how and when.


I receive so MANY comments and emails from readers who say, “I wish I had found your site earlier” or “I wish I had your eBook a week ago.”

Well… you found my website, and now you can get my eBook.

It’ll only be too late if you don’t start now.

Don’t wait for your ex to come to you — your ex could also be waiting for you to make the first move. At the end of the day, it really doesn’t matter whether you are the dumped or dumpee, if you want a relationship, you’ve got to make the first move.

It doesn’t matter that you haven’t contacted your ex in a while; it doesn’t matter if you’ve done so many of the things you are not supposed to do to get back you ex; it doesn’t matter if right now your ex thinks the relationship can’t work; it doesn’t even matter if you don’t believe you can actually get back your ex— Dating Your Ex will walk you through all you need to know – and do to get back your ex.

You have no excuse for not at least trying. You can’t again say, “But I don’t know what to to to get my ex back”. Everything you need to get started, and keep making progress until you and your ex are back together is at your fingertips.


Price: US$37

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Save it as you would any PDF file and use the program (adobe) you use to open PDF files to open and read. If you are unable to open the eBook, please contact us using the email address or telephone number provided with your purchase.


My reputation speaks for itself and I stand 100% behind all my e-books and my money back guarantee. Using the steps outlined in the eBook, I am 100% confident you will see progressive POSITIVE CHANGES in your ex; changes that’ll get your ex back into your life! You have 45 days to apply the steps offered in the eBook and if you don’t see a change in your ex’s behaviour, send us an email via the contact page and we’ll advice you on how to get a refund for HALF the price of the eBook. Please make sure you send us your purchase ID for verification.




Many people who do no contact say they do it to get their emotions together. They are rightfully afraid that their emotions will get in the way. But we’ve already seen the almost irreparable damage cutting off contact does to a relationship, even if done with the best of intentions.

That’s why I wrote It’s Just A Break-Up to help you work through your emotions even as you try to get back your ex. Used together with Dating Your Ex, your chances with no doubt DOUBLE. You’ll be in complete control of your emotions, but more importantly, be in a better position to build up that very important EMOTIONAL MOMENTUM you need to get back your ex.

It’s Just A Break-Up can be ORDERED HERE