Are you a girl or a woman? Guys, are you dating a girl or a woman?
Girls leave their schedule wide-open and wait for a guy to call and make plans. Grown women make their own plans and nicely tell the guy to get in where he fits in.
Girls want to control the man in their life. Grown women know that if he’s truly hers, he doesn’t need controlling.
Girls check you for not calling them. Grown women are too busy to realize you hadn’t.
Girls try to put a man ‘on lock’ by using sex mental games. Grown women know that it’s mind blowing sex that makes a man want to ‘lock’ you down.
Girls are afraid to be alone. Grown women revel in it– using it as a time for personal growth.
Girls ignore the good guys. Grown women ignore the bad guys.
Girls worry about not being pretty and/or good enough for their man. Grown women know that they are pretty and/or good enough for any man.
Girls try to monopolize all their man’s time (i.e., don’t want him hanging out with his friends). Grown women understand that a lil’ bit of space makes the ‘together time’ even more special — and goes to kick it with her own friends!
Girls think a guy crying is weak. Grown women offer their shoulder and a tissue.
Girls want to be spoiled and ‘tell’ their man they want to be treated like a “princess”. Grown women show him how to be comfortable with a queen, without fear of losing his ‘manhood’.
Girls get hurt by one man and make all men pay for it. Grown women know that that was just one man.
Girls fall in love, chase aimlessly after the object of their affection, ignoring all ‘signs’. Grown women know that sometimes the one you love doesn’t always love you back — and move on, without bitterness.
Girls will read this and get an attitude. Grown women will read this and share it with other Grown women!!
Watch this… so predictable… LOL
A boy will read this and use it to bash girls, or as a reason to dump the girl he is currently dating. A grown man will read this, nod his head, smile, think of why he loves his GROWN woman… and text or call her just to say “I love you for being you.”
Also see: Dating A Boy Vs. Dating A Man