Wednesday July 29th 2015

‘Sex and Intimacy’ Archives

How Do I Show I’m Interested But Not Be Too Available?

How Do I Show I’m Interested But Not Be Too Available?

Question: I write to you because I was very impressed by your e-book that I found very well-written and informative. I am well educated, Ph.D., intelligent, blonde petite and I’ve been told I’m quite attractive. I take excellent care of myself and always look good when I go out especially to the beach with my bikini. I also enjoy the [...]

Why You Still Can’t Get Over Your Ex – Pt. 1

Why You Still Can’t Get Over Your Ex – Pt. 1

Does contact with an ex you still have feelings for prevent you from moving on? Most people will say, YES! Being too close or spending time with an ex prevents you from moving on. The best thing to do if you want to move on is completely disconnect yourself from your ex and have nothing to do with him/her. But as many of you have found [...]

5 Bad Boy Traits Women Find Irresistible – Pt 3

5 Bad Boy Traits Women Find Irresistible – Pt 3

Continued from Part 2 That was the bad news. Now, here is the GOOD NEWS for the nice guys (only). Believe it or not, that overgrown Boy Scout approach to women that everybody tells you is a liability... Nice Guys Finish Last... hmm, remember that?. That can actually be a mega advantage for you Mr. Nice Guy. You see, a jerk has the [...]

The 10 Biggest Sex Turn-Ons For Men

The 10 Biggest Sex Turn-Ons For Men

A good majority of women have been programmed to think that men are self-regulated sex machines on stand-by mode. They’ve been told that a woman does not need to say or do anything to turn him on because he’s just waiting to pounce at the slightest provocation. Some women live with this erroneous thinking for the rest of their lives [...]

Cheating Men: Sex Addiction Or High Sex Drive?

Cheating Men: Sex Addiction Or High Sex Drive?

I mentioned to one of my girlfriends that I read it somewhere that Tiger Woods was going to rehab for sexual addiction, and she said, “Where? Are we allowed to visit? I want to believe that there are more of us so beyond bored with “Tiger predator, Tiger victim” 24/7 narrative. I am especially so up to here with self-righteous suits using [...]

Rape Fantasies, Violent Sex – Is She Asking For It?

Rape Fantasies, Violent Sex – Is She Asking For It?

Question: I really liked your answer to the sexually invisible Nice Guy. No, I do not carry my girlfriend's purse and I do not write her friends little cute cards, but I am definitely a Nice Guy. This may be the reason I'm in this sexual rut.  My girlfriend is a great person but we just have no sex life. She says all I think about is sex and that [...]

8 Tips For Instant Natural Sexual Confidence – Pt 1

8 Tips For Instant Natural Sexual Confidence – Pt 1

It's interesting to see how much emphasis is placed on looking sexy, feeling sexy and of course delivering “power performances” in the bedroom. We spend so much money on plastic surgery, designer clothes and the gym. We also spend so much time peering though sex manuals, mastering seduction techniques and on pornographic scavenger hunts. [...]

Sex Sucks! Is It You or Is It Him or Her?

Sex Sucks! Is It You or Is It Him or Her?

It is unusual these days to find marriages that have lasted more than 10 years, let alone find couples who have been together this long and are still romantically and sexually interested in each other. Okay, may be ten years is stretching it. Recent studies show that sexual passion -- in most relationships -- doesn't last longer than 18 [...]

How Often Do Women Think About Sex?

How Often Do Women Think About Sex?

And all this time you thought there is something wrong with you. It turns out the "experts" don't even have this sex thing all figured out. A new study says our comfort with sexuality is the best predictor of how frequetnly we think about sex. "If you had to know one thing about a person to best predict how often they would be thinking [...]

American Men Threatened By Sexual Infidelity

American Men Threatened By Sexual Infidelity

A poll of nearly 64,000 Americans showed that heterosexual men were more likely than heterosexual women to be most upset by sexual infidelity (54 percent of men vs. 35 percent of women) and less likely than heterosexual women to be most upset by emotional infidelity (46 percent of men vs. 65 percent of women). Participants imagined what would [...]

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