‘Sex and Intimacy’ Archives
Rape Fantasies, Violent Sex – Is She Asking For It?
Question: I really liked your answer to the sexually invisible Nice Guy. No, I do not carry my girlfriend's purse and I do not write her friends little cute cards, but I am definitely a Nice Guy. This may be the reason I'm in this sexual rut. My girlfriend is a great person but we just have no sex life. She says all I think about is sex and that [...]
How Do I Show Men I’m Available But Not Easy?
Question: I write to you because I was very impressed by your e-book that I found very well-written and informative. I am well educated, Ph.D., intelligent, blonde petite and I’ve been told I’m quite attractive. I take excellent care of myself and always look good when I go out especially to the beach with my bikini. I also enjoy the [...]
The 10 Biggest Sex Turn-Ons For Women
Women are different one from another. For a particular woman to be sexually attracted to you and want to be sexually intimate in a deep and meaningful way, she has to feel (often intuitively) that her individual sexual needs will be met by the sexual experience. She may even be attracted to you in all other areas but if her sexual instincts [...]
10 Bad-Sex Types – What Is Your Type?
To find or have a partner with whom we can have a real healthy connection with, emotionally, mentally, physically, spiritually, socially and sexually is an incredible gift, in my opinion. To be that partner is however, a challenge for many of us. Most of us still do not know how to celebrate and honour all these parts of the Self, especially our [...]
Sex Sucks! Is It You or Is It Him or Her?
It is unusual these days to find marriages that have lasted more than 10 years, let alone find couples who have been together this long and are still romantically and sexually interested in each other. Okay, may be ten years is stretching it. Recent studies show that sexual passion -- in most relationships -- doesn't last longer than 18 [...]
The 10 Biggest Sex Turn-Ons For Men
A good majority of women have been programmed to think that men are self-regulated sex machines on stand-by mode. They’ve been told that a woman does not need to say or do anything to turn him on because he’s just waiting to pounce at the slightest provocation. Some women live with this erroneous thinking for the rest of their lives [...]
Do Tears Make A Man More Or Less Attractive?
Does crying make you more or less of a man? This is one of those age-old questions which get taken for granted and has never been fully answered, until now... Crying has always been believed to be a sign of femininity and a trait that should be left to women. In cultures where "Macho" or "Alpha Male" are considered a symbol of masculinity [...]
Work Up Sexual Passion In Your Relationship – Pt. 2
Work Up Sexual Passion In Your Relationship - Pt. 1 And there is the "WHAT YOU DO" part: 1. Find out -- by asking -- what makes your man or woman feel loved and special. It's VERY important that you know how your man or woman wants to be loved (not what books and internet articles tell you ALL men or ALL women want). When you know how your [...]
The No. 1 Reason Men And Women Should Be Friends
Following my post: Men Who Can Show Real Emotions Are Sexier, I've gotten a lot of scolding from guys who don't like what I had to say, and from people who don't like that I used a photo of "an emotional President Obama". Nothing new there. I have also gotten a lot of positive feedback -- more positive feedback, in fact. Reading through the [...]
A Lesson On Love Worth Learning
A fable about a young pup and a very old dog conveys a lesson on love worth learning. Every day the pup chased his tail frantically while the old dog watched with lazy amusement. The pup wanted the old dog to be his friend but the wise old dog just told him to come back when he knew who he was and what he wanted. The pup continued to spend so [...]
















