Thursday April 17th 2014

‘Sex and Intimacy’ Archives

A Real Man Is Not Afraid To Show Emotion

A Real Man Is Not Afraid To Show Emotion

Does crying make you more or less of a man? This is one of those age-old questions which get taken for granted and has never been fully answered, until now... Crying has always been believed to be a sign of femininity and a trait that should be left to women. In cultures where "Macho" or "Alpha Male" are considered a symbol of masculinity [...]

Sexual Healing — Making Peace With Our Sexed Being

Sexual Healing — Making Peace With Our Sexed Being

Our present obsession with "holy" bonking (ooops... sorry, Sacred Sex) has become yet another obsession that borders the absurd. In our frantic effort to justify why we should have more sex (with some emotion) in our lives, we've managed yet again to climb to another level of hypocrisy. As if it is not enough that many people secretly enjoy [...]

Using Sex To Fix A Bad Relationship

Using Sex To Fix A Bad Relationship

It's been said sex sells, but it's more like sex fixes everything: horniness, loneliness, frustration, sadness, a headache, work stress, boredom, emotional vulnerability, low self esteem, guilt, a fight (especially that one!) etc. Things that have nothing at all to do with sex, let alone making love. For many couples, sex is the "default [...]

How Do I Show Men I’m Available But Not Easy?

How Do I Show Men I’m Available But Not Easy?

Question: I write to you because I was very impressed by your e-book that I found very well-written and informative. I am well educated, Ph.D., intelligent, blonde petite and I’ve been told I’m quite attractive. I take excellent care of myself and always look good when I go out especially to the beach with my bikini. I also enjoy the [...]

Help! I’m Aloof And Emotionally Unavaillable

Help! I’m Aloof And Emotionally Unavaillable

Question: I am the aloof type through and through. I know this about myself, but then I don’t see it as some sort of game. I truly just enjoy my ‘me’ time and have become quite a bit more introverted as I’ve aged. Some people cannot handle that and attempt to cling or get jealous of such things as my wanting to stay in and read a [...]

How To Tell How Many Orgasms A Woman Has Had

How To Tell How Many Orgasms A Woman Has Had

Have you heard about this one? LOL. People actually get paid to do studies like this! According to a recent study, simply walking across the road could be enough to give away a woman's sexual prowess. Belgian scientists believe they've found the key to guessing how many orgasms a woman has had - and apparently it's all in her gait. The [...]

How Soon Is Too Soon To Say “I Love You!”

How Soon Is Too Soon To Say “I Love You!”

The exchange of the words "I love you" mark a big milestones in any relationship.  But both men and women sometimes find it difficult to say "I love you" because they are afraid of what the other might say. A client told me he had tried many times to say the words but somehow could not bring himself to say them. When he finally said "I love [...]

Why You Still Can’t Get Over Your Ex – Pt. 1

Why You Still Can’t Get Over Your Ex – Pt. 1

Does contact with an ex you still have feelings for prevent you from moving on? Most people will say, YES! Being too close or spending time with an ex prevents you from moving on. The best thing to do if you want to move on is completely disconnect yourself from your ex and have nothing to do with him/her. But as many of you have found [...]

Did Your Ex Fall Out Of Love Too Quickly?

Did Your Ex Fall Out Of Love Too Quickly?

He appears out of nowhere and walks right into your life. The attraction is instant, chemistry strong, passion, plenty, sex...wow! Almost immediately you start spending lots of time together, talking on phone for hours without realizing how much time has passed, and sending each other little messages throughout the day. You are in love and it [...]

Why Do Women Always Fall For The Bad Boy? — Pt 1

Why Do Women Always Fall For The Bad Boy? — Pt 1

Why do women always fall for the bad boys and leave the good guys?" This is a puzzle that bugs the hell out of so many guys. The theory out there -- usually advanced by frustrated guys complaining about the "jerks" who get the women they can't have and those who constantly worry that a "bad boy" might steal away the woman they love and they [...]

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