‘Sex and Intimacy’ Archives
Erectile Problem: Having Trouble Getting It UP?
Ditch your shared friends or ditch the "overly friendly" girlfriend/spouse! Yes, you read it right. Your so-called "shared friends" may have something to do with your erectile problem - that's if you believe in "scientific studies." According to a study published on August 8 in the current issue of the American Journal of Sociology, a man whose [...]
Rape Fantasies, Violent Sex – Is She Asking For It?
Question: I really liked your answer to the sexually invisible Nice Guy. No, I do not carry my girlfriend's purse and I do not write her friends little cute cards, but I am definitely a Nice Guy. This may be the reason I'm in this sexual rut. My girlfriend is a great person but we just have no sex life. She says all I think about is sex and that [...]
The 10 Biggest Sex Turn-Ons For Women
Women are different one from another. For a particular woman to be sexually attracted to you and want to be sexually intimate in a deep and meaningful way, she has to feel (often intuitively) that her individual sexual needs will be met by the sexual experience. She may even be attracted to you in all other areas but if her sexual instincts [...]
The 10 Biggest Sex Turn-Ons For Men
A good majority of women have been programmed to think that men are self-regulated sex machines on stand-by mode. They’ve been told that a woman does not need to say or do anything to turn him on because he’s just waiting to pounce at the slightest provocation. Some women live with this erroneous thinking for the rest of their lives [...]
Do African Women Have Orgasms?
When we study sexuality, our own cultural concepts and expression of sexuality influence who we study and what we find. Our cultural lenses also influence which forms of sexual attitudes, behaviours, communication and expressions are true, real and acceptable to us. For many people, other interpretations and expressions of sexuality that are not [...]
Is Your Aloof Type Demeanor Blocking True Intimacy?
Question: I am the aloof type through and through. I know this about myself, but then I don’t see it as some sort of game. I truly just enjoy my ‘me’ time and have become quite a bit more introverted as I’ve aged. Some people cannot handle that and attempt to cling or get jealous of such things as my wanting to stay in and read a [...]
How Do I Make My Clueless Unromantic Boyfriend Romantic?
Question: Interesting tips ] but I can't see me doing it with my boyfriend. Besides the fact that we see each other only on weekends, my boyfriend has no romantic bone in him. I don't know if I am doing things the wrong way or that he just doesn’t get it. I’ve tried subtle ways to teach him but it's like he has no clue! I love him so much and [...]
Cheating Men: Sex Addiction Or High Sex Drive?
I mentioned to one of my girlfriends that I read it somewhere that Tiger Woods was going to rehab for sexual addiction, and she said, “Where? Are we allowed to visit? I want to believe that there are more of us so beyond bored with “Tiger predator, Tiger victim” 24/7 narrative. I am especially so up to here with self-righteous suits using [...]
How Do I Show Men I’m Available But Not Easy?
Question: I write to you because I was very impressed by your e-book that I found very well-written and informative. I am well educated, Ph.D., intelligent, blonde petite and I’ve been told I’m quite attractive. I take excellent care of myself and always look good when I go out especially to the beach with my bikini. I also enjoy the [...]
The Key To How Many Orgasms A Woman Has Had
Have you heard this one? ... LOL. People actually get paid to do studies like this! According to a recent study, simply walking across the road could be enough to give away a woman's sexual prowess. Belgian scientists believe they've found the key to guessing how many orgasms a woman has had - and apparently it's all in her gait. The [...]













