Wednesday October 1st 2014

‘Sex and Intimacy’ Archives

Can I Get Back Someone I Casually Dated?

Can I Get Back Someone I Casually Dated?

Question: If you are dating someone for 2 months and then she decides to end things, could this be considered a "break up" ?  We had sex, if that makes any difference. The Love Doctor's Answer: Good question. Now... let's get "sex" out of the way first... (; Some 40 or so years ago, the moment you had sex with someone, you were officially [...]

Sexual Healing — Making Peace With Our Sexed Being

Sexual Healing — Making Peace With Our Sexed Being

Our present obsession with "holy" bonking (ooops... sorry, Sacred Sex) has become yet another obsession that borders the absurd. In our frantic effort to justify why we should have more sex (with some emotion) in our lives, we've managed yet again to climb to another level of hypocrisy. As if it is not enough that many people secretly enjoy [...]

Does Your Long Distance Relationship Have A Chance?

Does Your Long Distance Relationship Have A Chance?

A man and a woman formed a romantic relationship as pen pals. They fell in love and decided to finally meet in person. The woman said, "I will be wearing a red scarf". When the young man arrived at the meeting place, there she was, in her red scarf, waiting. She was not at all what he had expected. She was much older and much shorter than he [...]

5 Bad Boy Traits Women Find Irresistible – Pt 3

5 Bad Boy Traits Women Find Irresistible – Pt 3

Continued from Part 2 That was the bad news. Now, here is the GOOD NEWS for the nice guys (only). Believe it or not, that overgrown Boy Scout approach to women that everybody tells you is a liability... Nice Guys Finish Last... hmm, remember that?. That can actually be a mega advantage for you Mr. Nice Guy. You see, a jerk has the [...]

Rape Fantasies, Violent Sex – Is She Asking For It?

Rape Fantasies, Violent Sex – Is She Asking For It?

Question: I really liked your answer to the sexually invisible Nice Guy. No, I do not carry my girlfriend's purse and I do not write her friends little cute cards, but I am definitely a Nice Guy. This may be the reason I'm in this sexual rut.  My girlfriend is a great person but we just have no sex life. She says all I think about is sex and that [...]

Sex And Housework Related To Marital Satisfaction

Sex And Housework Related To Marital Satisfaction

Married men and women who divide household chores in traditional ways report having more sex than couples who share so-called men's and women's work, according to a new study co-authored by sociologists at the University of Washington. The new study, published in the February 2013 issue of the journal American Sociological Review, shows that [...]

Work Up Sexual Passion In Your Relationship – Pt. 1

Work Up Sexual Passion In Your Relationship – Pt. 1

Sustainable sexual passion and good sex does doesn't come cheap. If there is no all-round deep satisfaction and fulfillment, there is no sexual passion -- and you are not getting ANY anytime soon. But if you can keep the passion in your relationship alive -- no matter what problems your relationship faces -- almost everything else can be [...]

How To Get Her To Be More Sexually Open

How To Get Her To Be More Sexually Open

"When women feel love, they may feel greater sexual agency because they not only trust their partners but because they feel that it is OK to have sex when love is present," says Beth Montemurro, associate professor of sociology. Montemurro conducted a series of interviews of heterosexual women between the ages of 20 and 68 who lived in [...]

Erectile Problem: Having Trouble Getting It UP?

Erectile Problem: Having Trouble Getting It UP?

Ditch your shared friends or ditch the "overly friendly" girlfriend/spouse! Yes, you read it right. Your so-called "shared friends" may have something to do with your erectile problem - that's if you believe in "scientific studies." According to a study published on August 8 in the current issue of the American Journal of Sociology, a man whose [...]

Without That Sexual Feeling You’re Just Friends

Without That Sexual Feeling You’re Just Friends

Everyone loves a good kiss - or at lease most men and women do. Guilty! I will not deny that I've dumped a guy or two just because I did not like the way he kissed. You might want to read my article: What His Kissing Style Says About Him. But what if someone is so wonderful in all the other areas but when it comes to kissing... well... that's [...]

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