‘Compatibility’ Archives
She Loves Me But She’s Not Over Her Ex
Question: I'm 54 and she’s 42. We had an immediate attraction and talked on the phone a few times, hang out with each other and after a month or so ended up in a physical relationship. At the time she was separated from her long time boyfriend so we had no expectations and no strings attached. Four months into the relationship she told me she [...]
#2 Reason She Broke Up With You – Pt. 2
Continued from Part 1 Bottom line, if you suspect that she finds you boring or she comes outright and says, you are boring, don't get upset, just dismiss it or try to get her to take it back. That's how she feels. At the end of the day, that's all that matters. You can get all defensive, rationalize and argue all you want. One thing you can't [...]
Erectile Problem: Having Trouble Getting It UP?
Ditch your shared friends or ditch the "overly friendly" girlfriend/spouse! Yes, you read it right. Your so-called "shared friends" may have something to do with your erectile problem - that's if you believe in "scientific studies." According to a study published on August 8 in the current issue of the American Journal of Sociology, a man whose [...]
Is He Into Me Or Is It Too Early To Tell?
Question: I'm 28 and he's 37. We met at a bar. The chemistry was instant and before long we were talking about things we've never told anyone else. I felt that we made a strong emotional connection and really saw into each other's soul. By the end of the night we were kissing and making out with some heavy petting. We exchanged phone numbers and [...]
Why We Love Them: Shy Men and Women Are Sexy
Count me in... I also think that confident (I-know-who- I-am type) men and women who are a little shy (not anxiety type shy, but "modest" shy)... and easily get embarrassed are so cool. A September 2011 study published on the online issue of the Journal of Personality and Social Psychology has it that time and again, results showed people who [...]
I’m Not High On My Girlfriend’s List Of Priorities
Question: I broke it off with my gf because she I feel like I'm at the bottom of my her priority list. When we're together just the two of us everything is great but the moment someone calls it's like I'm not there. She's stood me up on dates more than I can count. The incident that caused the breakup is when she failed to turn up at my mom's [...]
Strange Bedfellows – Why Are You With Him or Her?
There are some relationships that make you think, "why are you even together?" As an outsider, it seems so obvious to you that the relationship is toxic and each person is better of with someone else. But it's not so obvious to the person in the relationship - and may have not been so obvious to you when you were in a relationship that others [...]
Let Go To Hold On [Save Your Relationship!]
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Letting go to hold on?! What the... I know... reads like an oxymoron. But this is probably the only thing that'll save your struggling relationship, so please read on... A bird flies and rests on the shoulder of a girl playing in a field. It sings a lovely song. The girl likes the song very much and decides she wants to keep the bird for [...]
Do You Know How Your Ex Feels? (Pt. 1)
You may have read this many times in my writings: people want to be with us because of the way we make them feel about themselves. Selfish, you might think and that's understandable. We all like to think that someone is with us because of who we are and what we bring to the relationship, and to a larger degree that's so true. Who we are and [...]
Why Men Overestimate Women’s Interest
The more attracted you are, the more likely you are to be wrong about a man or woman's interest, says a new study that will appear in an upcoming issue of Psychological Science, a journal published by the Association for Psychological Science. The study involved 96 male 103 female undergraduates, who were put through a "speed-meeting" exercise [...]
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