‘Compatibility’ Archives
I’m Not High On My Ex’s List Of Priorities
Question: I broke it off with my gf because I felt like I was at the bottom of my her priority list. When we're together just the two of us everything is great but the moment she receives a phone call or text, it's like I'm not there. She's stood me up on dates more than I can count. The incident that caused the breakup is when she failed to turn [...]
How Do I Know Someone Is “The Right One” For Me?
Question: First of all let me say, I’ve been through almost every post on your blog and every article on your website and I have to say, you really know what you’re talking about. Keep up the great work! Now, I’m 32 and she’s 29 and both of us are in the stages of our lives where we’re ready to settle down and have a family. In the [...]
What “I’m Committed To This Relationship” Means
"When people say, 'I'm committed to my relationship,' they can mean two things," said study co-author Benjamin Karney, a professor of psychology and co-director of the Relationship Institute at UCLA. "One thing they can mean is, 'I really like this relationship and want it to continue.' However, commitment is more than just that." A deeper [...]
#2 Reason She Broke Up With You – Pt. 2
Continued from Part 1 Bottom line, if you suspect that she finds you boring or she comes outright and says, you are boring, don't get upset, just dismiss it or try to get her to take it back. That's how she feels. At the end of the day, that's all that matters. You can get all defensive, rationalize and argue all you want. One thing you can't [...]
#2 Reason She Broke Up With You – Pt. 3
Continued from Pt. 2. What has sexual energy got to do with being an interesting guy (or woman for that matter?) Everything. Sexual energy as I mentioned in part 2 of the article, is that creative force that moves us to participate in the co-creation of reality. The reality is that many things in life are repetitive -- work, bills, gym, [...]
Will My Ex-Boyfriend Contact Me?
Question: My boyfriend of 7 years (we’ve been together since college), told me he was breaking up because we do not want the same things. We have had a few break ups in the past but got back together. Looking back, it seems that we just found ourselves back in the relationship but it was really me who made the effort to get him back. This time [...]
Why “Bad Girls” Get The Men “Good Girls” Want
One of the biggest mistakes that many women make with men is WAITING for him to make the first move. But while you are waiting, some other proactive woman has snatched him right from under your watch. Even worse the men who "make the move" on you are those you wish would not -- those who make you feel insulted just because they approached you. But [...]
Have You Dumped This Guy? [Me Too!]
He opened the door to a sparsely furnished one bedroom apartment. It was clean, tidy and smelt good, but it was obvious -- this was a guy of very modest means. I was raised dirt poor and material things have never been an issue with me (owning two pairs of shoes, and eating three meals a day is "living rich" as far as I am concerned), but I was [...]
Will The Attraction Last Or Will It Fade? Pt.1
Jen and Tom, and Karen and Greg are two couples both fascinated by their partners and love them to death. Love Match # 1 - Jen and Tom Jen is emotionally expressive, bubbly, sharp and witty, romantic and lives-in-the moment social butterfly. She is also idealistic and sensitive, and believes that differences are resolved by getting [...]
Let Go To Hold On [Save Your Relationship!]
Letting go to hold on?! What the... I know... reads like an oxymoron. But this is probably the only thing that'll save your struggling relationship, so please read on... A bird flies and rests on the shoulder of a girl playing in a field. It sings a lovely song. The girl likes the song very much and decides she wants to keep the bird for [...]











