‘Compatibility’ Archives
When Is Revealing Your Love Feelings A Bad Idea?
The email response to my post "If You Love Someone Should You Tell Them?" has prompted me to write another post on this particular topic. For all of you who sent me emails, I appreciate everyone of your emails. I was able to respond to some but there just isn't enough time to respond to all. The general experience of most people is that being [...]
Do You Know How Your Ex Feels? (Pt. 2)
Click here to read (Pt.1) There are people who just feel bad about themselves no matter who they're with. They go from one man or woman to another looking to "feel good" but ultimately fail to find what they are looking for and either continue "looking" or end up bitter and resentful because nobody can make them feel good about [...]
How Can I Make My Boyfriend Physically Attracted To Me?
Question: I know this sounds crazy. My boyfriend is not physically attracted to me. We met on an internet dating site. Our first in person was in a coffee shop and as soon as I drove up to meet him he gave me this terribly disapproving look. I immediately felt unattractive and inadequate although I’m in great shape and dress attractively. I was [...]
Are Women Too Picky Or Choosing More Carefully?
A friend sent me a link to Lori Gottlieb article in wowowow.com. Just in case you’re wondering what all the wowos mean, it’s a women on the Web website. The article is a recap of her new book which reveals why you may be wrong about Mr. Right. Ms. Gottlieb writes, “You can’t just order up the perfect husband á la carte. I’ll take a [...]
Why She Doesn’t Want To Talk To You
One of my very favourite pastimes is watch people interact with each other. The other day, I was at a party and saw this really gorgeous woman flash an enticing smile in the direction on a group of guys looking at her as she walked in. A few minutes later, a well-dressed guy, a drink in hand, sauntered over to the woman and said “Hi”. I was [...]
She Loves Me But She’s Not Over Her Ex
Question: I'm 54 and she’s 42. We had an immediate attraction and talked on the phone a few times, hang out with each other and after a month or so ended up in a physical relationship. At the time she was separated from her long time boyfriend so we had no expectations and no strings attached. Four months into the relationship she told me she [...]
Will Playing Hard Make You More Interesting?
Question: I wanted to buy your eBook but hesitated. I'm a pretty straight forward guy not much for playing games. If I want something I ask for it plain and simple, and I expect that if she wants something from me, she should straight out ask. Don't expect me know what the hell you want if you don't tell me. But may be this is why at 39, good [...]
How Do I Make My Boyfriend More Romantic?
Question: Interesting tips ] but I can't see me doing it with my boyfriend. Besides the fact that we see each other only on weekends, my boyfriend has no romantic bone in him. I don't know if I am doing things the wrong way or that he just doesn’t get it. I’ve tried subtle ways to teach him but it's like he has no clue! I love him so much and [...]
That Special Connection You Had With Your Ex
"We looked into each other's eyes and made a connection" "We had a special connection, it's like we knew each other" "I've never felt anything like this with anyone else" "He/she is like nobody I have ever met" These are some o the words many of my clients use to describe the relationship they had with their ex -- and I believe them [...]
Cougars! Older Women Too Old To Be Girlfriends
No, I didn’t come up with that line, and if you ever hear me say that aloud, do me a favour, smack me! I don’t take offense easily. “Too Old To Be a Girlfriend, Too Young To Be Your Mother” is from a just unveiled New Zealand Airline competition ad that portrays older single (more...)











