‘Compatibility’ Archives
Strange Bedfellows – Why Are You With Him or Her?
There are some relationships that make you think, "why are you even together?" As an outsider, it seems so obvious to you that the relationship is toxic and each person is better of with someone else. But it's not so obvious to the person in the relationship - and may have not been so obvious to you when you were in a relationship that others [...]
How Do I Make My Clueless Unromantic Boyfriend Romantic?
Question: Interesting tips ] but I can't see me doing it with my boyfriend. Besides the fact that we see each other only on weekends, my boyfriend has no romantic bone in him. I don't know if I am doing things the wrong way or that he just doesn’t get it. I’ve tried subtle ways to teach him but it's like he has no clue! I love him so much and [...]
Why The Man or Woman You Love Doesn’t Want You: Pt.1
I talk to so many men and women, and receive tons of emails from people saying, I am NOT this or I’m NOT that and that’s why I have this or that dating or relationship problem. If I may be honest here, I’d rather receive these types of emails any day anytime, than those that blame someone else or something else for everything else. [...]
Why The Man or Woman You Love Doesn’t Want You: Pt.2
In Why The Man or Woman You Love Doesn’t Want You: Pt 1 , I explained why it’s important to know and love yourself first before the man or woman you love can love or want you. It’s one thing to love yourself and know that you are lovable and love worthy and it’s another to be able to express that “best in you” in ways that make [...]
Love Mistake No 2. You Acted Out Of Fear And Will Probably Do It Again
If you always find yourself making Love Mistake No 1, chances are you’re also making Love Mistake No 2. That is, you act out of FEAR - and are controlled by fear - instead of acting out of love and have love direct all your words, actions and behaviours. What’s the difference? The difference is like night and day. Most people don’t [...]
The Chemistry Of Attraction: Will It Last Or Fade? Pt. 2
In pt. 1 of the Chemistry of Attraction, I introduced you to Jen and Tom’s opposites attract love match. Now let’s look at Karen and Greg’s likes attract love match. Love Match # 2 - Karen and Greg Karen and Greg are both quick-witted, confident, romantic, adventurers, fun-loving, ambitious, cut-throat lawyers who love their lives and [...]
Why You Care What Others Think Of The Person You’re Dating
Many people like to think they have discriminating tastes when it comes to romantic interests. An Indiana University study, however, found that men and women are greatly influenced not only by what their friends think of their potential fling or relationship partner, but also by the opinions of complete strangers. "Humans don't exist in a [...]
The Chemistry Of Attraction: Will It Last Or Fade? Pt.3
So what do you think after reading about Jen and Tom's opposites attract love match and Karen and Greg's likes attract love match? Is better to be with someone who is our opposite or someone who is like us? The reality is that most of us prefer partners that are very like us in some areas (enough similarities to sustain a relationship long [...]
She Says She Loves Me But She’s Not Over Her Ex
Question: I'm 54 and she’s 42. We had an immediate attraction and talked on the phone a few times, hang out with each other and after a month or so ended up in a physical relationship. At the time she was separated from her long time boyfriend so we had no expectations and no strings attached. Four months into the relationship she told me she [...]
Are Women Becoming Too Picky Or Just Choosing More Carefully?
A friend sent me a link to Lori Gottlieb article in wowowow.com. Just in case you’re wondering what all the wowos mean, it’s a women on the Web website. The article is a recap of her new book which reveals why you may be wrong about Mr. Right. Ms. Gottlieb writes, “You can’t just order up the perfect husband á la carte. I’ll take a [...]
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