Tuesday August 4th 2015

‘Playing Hard To Get’ Archives

Why She Left You For Another Guy [Pt. 3]

Why She Left You For Another Guy [Pt. 3]

Continued from Pt. 2. What has sexual energy got to do with being an interesting guy (or woman for that matter?) Everything. Sexual energy as I mentioned in part 2 of the article, is that creative force that moves us to participate in the co-creation of reality. The reality is that many things in life are repetitive -- work, bills, gym, [...]

Who Should Initiate Contact – Dumper Or Dumpee?

Who Should Initiate Contact – Dumper Or Dumpee?

Shouldn't the dumper be the one to initiate contact? I get asked this question quite a lot, and thought a longer response might help clarify a few things. Although I've often used the words "dumper" and "dumpee" myself, I'm convinced that "dumper" and "dumpee" labels oversimplify the break-up and reconciliation process. "Dumper" and [...]

Why Experts Are Wrong About Giving Your Ex Space

Why Experts Are Wrong About Giving Your Ex Space

Question: Yangki, I've read many of your articles and you seem to advocate not giving your ex space. Why is that? Almost all experts say giving someone space is healthy for all relationships. I just wonder what you base your advice on? The Love Doctor's Answer: If you read my articles more carefully, you will actually see that I'm all for [...]

How Soon Is Too Soon To Say “I Love You!”

How Soon Is Too Soon To Say “I Love You!”

The exchange of the words "I love you" mark a big milestones in any relationship.  But both men and women sometimes find it difficult to say "I love you" because they are afraid of what the other might say. A client told me he had tried many times to say the words but somehow could not bring himself to say them. When he finally said "I love [...]

Do Guys Lose Interest If You Reveal Too Much?

Do Guys Lose Interest If You Reveal Too Much?

Question: I read your blog: The "Rules" and Playing Dating Mind Games. While I agree with some things you say, I do not think that women should be open and forthcoming in the first few dates. I’ve been out on great first few dates with a number of great guys but nothing that lasted for more than 3- 4 dates. The last guy I went out with was [...]

Why Men Overestimate Women’s Interest

Why Men Overestimate Women’s Interest

The more attracted you are, the more likely you are to be wrong about a man or woman's interest, says a new study that will appear in an upcoming issue of Psychological Science, a journal published by the Association for Psychological Science. The study involved 96 male 103 female undergraduates, who were put through a "speed-meeting" exercise [...]

Is There Still a Chance With An Ex Who’s Distant?

Is There Still a Chance With An Ex Who’s Distant?

Question: Yangki, I have been reading your site for the past couple of weeks. As you can tell, I obviously still want my ex back. We had a wonderful relationship but I started to get jealous and needy and he pulled back, which made me even more needy and clingy leading to him breaking up with me. It's been 5 months since we broke up. The first [...]

Why Does My Ex Text When I Stop Texting Her?

Why Does My Ex Text When I Stop Texting Her?

Question: My ex dumped me almost a year to the day, but we continued to be friends. Two weeks ago, she stopped responding to my texts. I called her and she called back 2 days later. I asked if we were okay and she said we were okay. But when I texted her later she did not respond. I sent another text the next day and no response. I assumed she [...]

What All The Greatest Lovers Know and Do!

What All The Greatest Lovers Know and Do!

The phone rings and I say "Hi", and this person says, "Hi Yangki. I really want to learn some great techniques on how to flirt, act confident, and attractive. I've tried everything, and here I am, still single. I am ready to settle down and want someone who is also ready to commit to a lasting relationship". "I do not teach flirting, acting [...]

Are Women Too Picky Or Choosing More Carefully?

Are Women Too Picky Or Choosing More Carefully?

A friend sent me a link to Lori Gottlieb article in wowowow.com. Just in case you’re wondering what all the wowos mean, it’s a women on the Web website. The article is a recap of her new book which reveals why you may be wrong about Mr. Right. Ms. Gottlieb writes, “You can’t just order up the perfect husband á la carte. I’ll take a [...]

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