Friday July 3rd 2015

‘Playing Hard To Get’ Archives

Don’t React Too Fast – Or Take Too Long To Respond

Don’t React Too Fast – Or Take Too Long To Respond

According to a recent study published in Applied Mathematics and Computation, a certain time range is necessary for compound emotions to form. Reacting too quickly or taking too long to respond can both lead to trouble. Building on a relationship reactivity model first described by Steven Strogatz in 1988, Natalia Bielczyk looked at a more [...]

Are Women Too Picky Or Choosing More Carefully?

Are Women Too Picky Or Choosing More Carefully?

A friend sent me a link to Lori Gottlieb article in wowowow.com. Just in case you’re wondering what all the wowos mean, it’s a women on the Web website. The article is a recap of her new book which reveals why you may be wrong about Mr. Right. Ms. Gottlieb writes, “You can’t just order up the perfect husband á la carte. I’ll take a [...]

5 Signs Your Ex Is Emotionally Challenged

5 Signs Your Ex Is Emotionally Challenged

Some of us get into relationships where we're pretty much destroying our self esteem because we ignored initial warning signs that the person we're attracted to is an emotional train wreck or ticking time bomb. Very often we are swept off our feet by the physical, mental or sexual attraction only to end up heartbroken, angry, bitter, revengeful [...]

Long Distance Relationship – How Not To Act Needy

Long Distance Relationship – How Not To Act Needy

Question: I'm currently in a long distance relationship. We live in different countries. We met on a dating site and kept in contact via email, text and phone for 4 months. We met in person for the first time last month and it was instant fireworks. Since meeting in person, our relationship has changed a lot; some of it is for the better but most [...]

8 Simple Rules For Contacting Your Ex

8 Simple Rules For Contacting Your Ex

When trying to get your ex back, acting aggressive, needy, pushy, angry or irrational, especially at the onset of the process is usually unwise: emotions flare up, problems multiply and smaller problems become much larger problems. What may have been manageable at the beginning becomes much more intractable. Below are 8 rules for contacting [...]

Trigger Emotions That Make Him Want More Of You

Trigger Emotions That Make Him Want More Of You

This may sound like an old wives' tale, but believe me, it works! Traditionally there are two ways to get a man to do something: one way is telling him what you want in clear logical terms and politely asking for his participation. The other way is creating a particular feeling in him that stimulates him into action. You can choose to use [...]

Help! I’m Aloof And Emotionally Unavaillable

Help! I’m Aloof And Emotionally Unavaillable

Question: I am the aloof type through and through. I know this about myself, but then I don’t see it as some sort of game. I truly just enjoy my ‘me’ time and have become quite a bit more introverted as I’ve aged. Some people cannot handle that and attempt to cling or get jealous of such things as my wanting to stay in and read a [...]

Why You Still Can’t Get Over Your Ex – Pt. 1

Why You Still Can’t Get Over Your Ex – Pt. 1

Does contact with an ex you still have feelings for prevent you from moving on? Most people will say, YES! Being too close or spending time with an ex prevents you from moving on. The best thing to do if you want to move on is completely disconnect yourself from your ex and have nothing to do with him/her. But as many of you have found [...]

No.1 Relationship Mistake Men and Women Make

No.1 Relationship Mistake Men and Women Make

I want to say right from the beginning that I’m one of those people who believes that we don’t “look for and find love" but rather, the love already in us attracts the love of another. But for the sake of this article, I’ll go with the common notion that men and women “look for and find love". Other than the flawed approach to [...]

The Right And Wrong Way To Play Hard To Get

The Right And Wrong Way To Play Hard To Get

Playing-hard-to-get is -- without any doubt -- one of the most effective ways of being "cool" in the dating ritual. But not everyone knows how to PLAY. Some men and women play naturally, others have taken time to relearn how to play but the majority of men and women JUST DON'T GET IT! More technically it goes like this: 1. Those who think [...]

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