Thursday July 24th 2014

‘Playing Hard To Get’ Archives

It’s Your Body That Is The Giveaway

It’s Your Body That Is The Giveaway

It's not facial expression that gives away what you're thinking, it's your body, says a new research. Yes, your body is talking -- and saying things about you that you may not want others to know! "Much like speakers blaring at maximum volume, the quality of the facial signal becomes degraded and noisy," says Dr Aviezer. In the study, [...]

Why Men Overestimate Women’s Interest

Why Men Overestimate Women’s Interest

The more attracted you are, the more likely you are to be wrong about a man or woman's interest, says a new study that will appear in an upcoming issue of Psychological Science, a journal published by the Association for Psychological Science. The study involved 96 male 103 female undergraduates, who were put through a "speed-meeting" exercise [...]

Dating A Girl Vs. Dating A Woman [So Spot On]

Dating A Girl Vs. Dating A Woman [So Spot On]

Are you a girl or a woman? Guys, are you dating a girl or a woman? Find Out... so spot on! Girls leave their schedule wide-open and wait for a guy to call and make plans. Grown women make their own plans and nicely tell the guy to get in where he fits in. Girls want to control the man in their life. Grown women know that if he's [...]

How To Get Closer To Someone You Love

How To Get Closer To Someone You Love

“My problem is that I love him too much!” “What do you mean?” "He’s taking my love for granted because I’m always there. May be I should play hard to get”. This mindset is based on the notion that if two people love each other, they should want to spend every breathing moment with each other. If one person does not desire [...]

Working On Communication After A Break-Up – Pt 1

Working On Communication After A Break-Up – Pt 1

"Communication problems" seems to be the catch-all phrase for every relationship problem, and is often sighted as the main cause of the collapse of many relationships. I'm the first to admit that we relationship counselors, therapists and coaches are partly responsible for this. Many of us become "experts" with no or very little training in [...]

My Ex Is Not Responding To Texts What Do I Do?

My Ex Is Not Responding To Texts What Do I Do?

Question: My ex dumped me almost a year to the day but we continued to be friends until I stopped hearing from her. I texted her a couple of times with no response so I just assumed she wasn’t interested in keeping contact. She’d always told me she could not imagine a life without me, so I was both surprised and hurt that she just stopped [...]

Does My Ex Still Have Feelings For Me?

Does My Ex Still Have Feelings For Me?

Question: Three weeks ago I contacted my ex about some important documents. I went to pick up the documents and we ended up going out for dinner. A month ago she wouldn't return any of my calls. We have had many phone conversation mostly about business, family and mutual friends. When we talk I’m cheerful, confident and relaxed because I want [...]

How Much Contact Is Too Much Contact?

How Much Contact Is Too Much Contact?

Question: She’s 46, I’m 33. We’ve been having really great dates and getting closer slowly.  I’m falling for her an she said she was very  attracted to me. But I think I may have also started acting a little needy and contacted her too much because on one date she said her ex-husband was too insecure and needy and she’s not looking [...]

How To Get Your Ex To Start Initiating Contact

How To Get Your Ex To Start Initiating Contact

After receiving many comments and email questions asking if "limited contact" is the same as "pressure-free contact" (which I advocate in my eBook Dating Your Ex), I thought it best to write a brief post to explain the difference. First of all the two are not the same. 1. Quantity vs. Quality Limited Contact (LC) is about quantity. [...]

4 Myths About How To Make Your Ex Miss You

4 Myths About How To Make Your Ex Miss You

Comment: Yangki, I think that No Contact works if you wait long enough for both you and your ex to remember the good times at the beginning of your relationship, more easily than you remember the bad times at the end. Like John, I acted very needy and desperate at the end and she threatened to report me to the authorities if I didn't stop [...]

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