‘Playing Hard To Get’ Archives
#2 Reason She Broke Up With You – Pt. 3
Continued from Pt. 2. What has sexual energy got to do with being an interesting guy (or woman for that matter?) Everything. Sexual energy as I mentioned in part 2 of the article, is that creative force that moves us to participate in the co-creation of reality. The reality is that many things in life are repetitive -- work, bills, gym, [...]
Why Someone Thinks You’re Needy And Clingy
If the person you are in a relationship with says "I need some space" or "I need time to find myself" or "Let's just be friends" or "We should see other people" or "Don't call me, I'll call you" or anything that suggests they are trying to pull away, it doesn't always mean they no longer love you. It usually means you're acting needy and being [...]
How Long Do You Wait For Someone To Commit?
If someone asked, "What is the truest expression of love", my answer would be "commitment". Of course the perfect answer would be "dying for another" but the reality is that there aren't that many opportunities for each of us to die for another to demonstrate our love. In terms of love between a woman and man, what defines [...]
Find Out If He Or She Wants To Be Exclusive
It’s a well known fact that if things are moving along nicely and you are comfortable with each other, you both should know if you want to be exclusive without having to say it. But what if you are ready to move into exclusivity and he doesn't make a move or she doesn't seem to be thinking about it even after you've dated for at least a year, [...]
Make A Commitment Phobe Want Commitment
Many relationships today end because one person wants commitment and the other is afraid to commit. The one who wants commitment is left feeling unwanted while the one who is afraid of commitment goes from one relationship to another and even keeps on leaving and returning to relationships with an ex because he or she won't commit to a long-term [...]
Don’t Dump A Commitment Phobe Before You Read This!
Having personally suffered from severe commitment phobia for many years, I know that being in love with someone who is afraid of commitment is not fun at all. But does someone's fear of commitment always have to be the end of a relationship? In real life, some people are not really meant to be together, and sometimes when you've tried [...]
Don’t Ignore Relationship Doubts, Experts Warn
"If you are having doubts about the relationship, just ignoring them may make a difference years down the road," said Matthew Johnson, assistant professor in the U of A Department of Human Ecology. The study, published Novermber 2, 2012 in the journal Family Process, showed that couples who were more confident as they exchanged vows also spent [...]
Women Incapable Of Recognizing High-Quality Men
Females incapable of recognizing high-quality male can alter the behavior of mates of either sex and disrupt overall social structure, according to research published May 1, 2013 in the open access journal PLOS ONE. Actually the study talks about tone deaf "female cowbirds" incapable of recognizing high-quality "male songs" altering the [...]
Toxic Niceness — Are You Are Being Played?
Have you had someone say very nice things about you and instead of it making you feel "good', you feel really uncomfortable and even feel like throwing up? There's a name for it. Toxic nicenesss. It starts with a flattering compliment, usually telling you what a great individual you are, how different you are from anyone else and how much [...]
Does Acting Aloof Make You More Attractive?
Question: I’ve been involved with a guy for a year and a few months. He’s very physically attractive, charming, witty and shares my interests and values. He's also one of the few people not afraid to point out my mistakes, which I really do value. But the relationship has its problems. I don’t want to call it toxic but there is definitely [...]
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