Sunday April 19th 2015

‘Playing Hard To Get’ Archives

Why Love Always, Always Comes Back

Why Love Always, Always Comes Back

A client who had played mind games with her boyfriend was talking about how much she regrets what she had done and how she wishes she could take it back when out of no where she asked me "Do you believe in karma?" I didn't know exactly where she was going with the question, so I said, "Explain karma?" She said "Karma... like in if you do [...]

Why You Love People Who Can’t Love You Back

Why You Love People Who Can’t Love You Back

Question: I respect your advice but I believe that "you can't love another person until you love yourself" mumbo jumbo is misguided and I think creates more problems in relationships than it solves. The whole point of being in a relationship is to love the other person. That love is not supposed to be directed at yourself but toward the person you [...]

No.2 Relationship Mistake Men and Women Make

No.2 Relationship Mistake Men and Women Make

If you've made Love Mistake No 1, chances are that you’re also making Love Mistake No 2. That is, you act out of FEAR - and are controlled by fear - instead of acting out of love and have love direct all your words, actions and behaviours. What’s the difference? The difference is like night and day. Most people don’t even realize [...]

What Does My Ex Mean By He Wants Space?

What Does My Ex Mean By He Wants Space?

If the person you are in a relationship with says "I need some space" or "I need to find myself" or anything that suggests they want to get away from you, it doesn't always mean they no longer love you. It usually means that they feel that the relationship is suffocating them, and they need to get away from you so they can "breath". May be [...]

Why Do Women Want A Man Who Plays Hard To Get?

Why Do Women Want A Man Who Plays Hard To Get?

Question: Women complain that men do not contact them after a date because they're playing hard to get. But when they find a guy who shows them his true feelings and does not play hard to get they complain that he is too nice because he does not play hard to get.  Most women I've dated start playing hard to get which is frustrating to guys like [...]

Are You Misinterpreting Your Ex’s Actions?

Are You Misinterpreting Your Ex’s Actions?

Fear of rejection and worry that someone might not love you enough is bound to create some level of concern and stress during the ups and downs of a relationship says a new study published in the journal Psychological Science. But fear of rejection or worry that someone will leave you does not only affect your mental well-being, it also affects [...]

10 Signs You’re In A Relationship Vs. Casual Dating

10 Signs You’re In A Relationship Vs. Casual Dating

Question: If you are dating someone for 2 months and then she decides to end things, could this be considered a "break up" ?  We had sex, if that makes any difference. The Love Doctor's Answer: Good question. Now... let's get "sex" out of the way first... (; Some 40 or so years ago, the moment you had sex with someone, you were officially [...]

How Can I Make Her Feel Like She’s Chasing Me?

How Can I Make Her Feel Like She’s Chasing Me?

Question: I've been going out with this woman for 3 months now. She told me she wants what she can't have and that she loves to chase. She asked me to make her chase me more. I find this quite hard to do seeing that I already have her and she knows in the end she will still have me. I hope that makes sense. What can I do to make her feel like [...]

The Right And Wrong Way To Play Hard To Get

The Right And Wrong Way To Play Hard To Get

Playing-hard-to-get is -- without any doubt -- one of the most effective ways of being "cool" in the dating ritual. But not everyone knows how to PLAY. Some men and women play naturally, others have taken time to relearn how to play but the majority of men and women JUST DON'T GET IT! More technically it goes like this: 1. Those who think [...]

Communicating With A Long Distance Ex

Communicating With A Long Distance Ex

No question about it, when it comes to getting your ex, being in the same city or country makes things a little easier. Besides it being easier to get your ex to see you and go out on dates, spending time in each other's presence tends to make two people feel more connected to each other than in non-face-to-face communication. While researching [...]

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