Friday September 19th 2014

‘Playing Hard To Get’ Archives

The Right And Wrong Way To Play Hard To Get

The Right And Wrong Way To Play Hard To Get

Playing-hard-to-get is -- without any doubt -- one of the most effective ways of being "cool" in the dating ritual. But not everyone knows how to PLAY. Some men and women play naturally, others have taken time to relearn how to play but the majority of men and women JUST DON'T GET IT! More technically it goes like this: 1. Those who think [...]

Why Do Women Want A Man Who Plays Hard To Get?

Why Do Women Want A Man Who Plays Hard To Get?

Question: Women complain that men do not contact them after a date because they're playing hard to get. But when they find a guy who shows them his true feelings and does not play hard to get they complain that he is too nice because he does not play hard to get.  Most women I've dated start playing hard to get which is frustrating to guys like [...]

Why Women Call And Text Men

Why Women Call And Text Men

There was once a time when men were expected to make the first moves in courtship, but research suggests it is now women who take the lead, relentlessly pursuing lovers with phone calls and texts. A study of mobile phone traffic indicates that women are more intent than men on having a romantic relationship. "It's the first really strong [...]

10 Signs He’s Not Committing To You Anytime Soon

10 Signs He’s Not Committing To You Anytime Soon

When you are madly in love with a guy, it is easy to ignore all the hints he is giving you that tell you don't expect commitment anytime soon. Most guys are pretty honest about commitment but many women stay in the relationship hoping that he will come around in time. I've worked with women who have hang in there for several years (on-and-off) [...]

15 Self-Help Practices That’ll Get Back Your Ex – Pt. 3

15 Self-Help Practices That’ll Get Back Your Ex – Pt. 3

Continued from Pt. 2... When you do not trust yourself, you will most likely give up before you're even started, or give up just when your chances are starting to look good. But when you have trust in yourself, you not only act purposefully, you also move forward purposefully, confidently and assuredly. So how does one develop this [...]

Why You Love People Who Can’t Love You Back

Why You Love People Who Can’t Love You Back

Question: I respect your advice but I believe that "you can't love another person until you love yourself" mumbo jumbo is misguided and I think creates more problems in relationships than it solves. The whole point of being in a relationship is to love the other person. That love is not supposed to be directed at yourself but toward the person you [...]

10 Signs Of A Loser Mentality [Relationship Killers]

10 Signs Of A Loser Mentality [Relationship Killers]

I happen to believe that we all are good "enough" just the way we are. Sure, we all have room to improve and be better human beings, partners, lovers, etc. but deep life changing transformation begins with recognizing that we were never meant to be perfect. However, "loser" does describe a certain mentality that men and women bring to a date, [...]

4 Reasons To Maintain Contact With Your Ex

4 Reasons To Maintain Contact With Your Ex

Communication is one of the top causes, if not, "the" top cause of break-ups. It's no surprise that "communicating with your ex" is one of the biggest challenges post break-up-- and also the most polarizing when it comes to how to get one's ex back. Some people believe no communication will make their ex miss them and want to come back. Others, [...]

59 Ways Men And Women Manipulate Their Partners

59 Ways Men And Women Manipulate Their Partners

I had to include this... just had to! A new study published by the European Journal of Personality, and conducted by Researches from the University of Western Sydney and Singapore Management University has found that the old adage -- treat them mean, keep them keen -- is not just a 1920's old wives' tale. The study identified 59 ways in [...]

How To Get Your Ex To Start Initiating Contact

How To Get Your Ex To Start Initiating Contact

After receiving many comments and email questions asking if "limited contact" is the same as "pressure-free contact" (which I advocate in my eBook Dating Your Ex), I thought it best to write a brief post to explain the difference. First of all the two are not the same. 1. Quantity vs. Quality Limited Contact (LC) is about quantity. [...]

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