Thursday February 26th 2015

‘Playing Hard To Get’ Archives

How Long Do You Wait For Someone To Commit?

How Long Do You Wait For Someone To Commit?

If someone asked, "What is the truest expression of love", my answer would be "commitment". Of course the perfect answer would be "dying for another" but the reality is that there aren't that many opportunities for each of us to die for another to demonstrate our love. In terms of love between a woman and man, what defines [...]

Why “Bad Girls” Get The Men “Good Girls” Want

Why “Bad Girls” Get The Men “Good Girls” Want

One of the biggest mistakes that many women make with men is WAITING for him to make the first move. But while you are waiting, some other proactive woman has snatched him right from under your watch. Even worse the men who "make the move" on you are those you wish would not -- those who make you feel insulted just because they approached you. But [...]

How to Make A Commitment Phobe Want Commit

How to Make A Commitment Phobe Want Commit

Many relationships today end because one person wants commitment and the other is afraid to commit. The one who wants commitment is left feeling unwanted while the one who is afraid of commitment goes from one relationship to another and even keeps on leaving and returning to relationships with an ex because he or she won't commit to a long-term [...]

Why You Love People Who Can’t Love You Back

Why You Love People Who Can’t Love You Back

Question: I respect your advice but I believe that "you can't love another person until you love yourself" mumbo jumbo is misguided and I think creates more problems in relationships than it solves. The whole point of being in a relationship is to love the other person. That love is not supposed to be directed at yourself but toward the person you [...]

5 Common Signs A Man Or Woman Is Playing You

5 Common Signs A Man Or Woman Is Playing You

Question: I met him on one of my business trips. I’m 43, he’s 34. The chemistry was instant and strong. He asked for my number and he immediately called me. Soon after that we started seeing each other every other every, spending some nights at my place and some nights at his. We both have very busy lives but we always found time to be with [...]

What All The Greatest Lovers Know and Do!

What All The Greatest Lovers Know and Do!

The phone rings and I say "Hi", and this person says, "Hi Yangki. I really want to learn some great techniques on how to flirt, act confident, and attractive. I've tried everything, and here I am, still single. I am ready to settle down and want someone who is also ready to commit to a lasting relationship". "I do not teach flirting, acting [...]

How To Do Contact Without Scaring Off Your Ex Ex (Pt. 2)

How To Do Contact Without Scaring Off Your Ex Ex (Pt. 2)

In Part 1 (I highly recommend you read it before continuing to Pt. 2), I explained that: 1. There is nothing wrong with wanting to contact your ex, or even wanting to spend time with him/her. 2. What scares off an ex who still wants to be in contact with you is NOT that you are contacting him/her. What scares your ex is the unhealthy and [...]

7 Signs Your Relationship Will Last (Long-Term)

7 Signs Your Relationship Will Last (Long-Term)

Having emotional value is an incredibly powerful currency when it comes to human relationships in general. But what does emotional value mean? Your emotional value is the degree that a man or woman perceives you as potentially contributing to their happiness. It is the most important filter by which both men and women determine how much of [...]

Is Limited Or Low Contact Hurting Your Chances?

Is Limited Or Low Contact Hurting Your Chances?

Many of us know that in the initial stages of trying to get your ex back, sending too many texts or calling them frequently is a major turn off. It therefore makes sense to try to control the number of times you contact your ex. Controlling the number of times you contact your ex is what has come to be known as "minimal contact", "limited [...]

What To Do When Your Ex Is Playing Mind Games

What To Do When Your Ex Is Playing Mind Games

A client asked me the other day, “What would you do if your ex was playing mind games?” The “Love Coach” in me wanted to go straight to “advice mode” but then I remembered that I wasn’t always a love doctor. There was a time in my life when I did some things that were not so “loving”, and I write about this in my Dating Your [...]

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