Friday May 29th 2015

‘Playing Hard To Get’ Archives

10 Signs Your Boyfriend Or Girlfriend Is Selfish

10 Signs Your Boyfriend Or Girlfriend Is Selfish

Have you ever been out on a date and your date was rude to a service person and even though you were first so strongly attracted to him/her, the attraction suddenly went down a few notches? May be you have an ex who you still have very strong feelings for but you just can’t bring yourself to go back into the relationship because you feel your [...]

4 Ways To Find Out If Someone Wants To Be Exclusive

4 Ways To Find Out If Someone Wants To Be Exclusive

It’s a well known fact that if things are  moving along nicely and you are comfortable with each other, you both should know if you want to be exclusive without having to say it. But what if you are ready to move into exclusivity and he doesn't make a move or she doesn't seem to be thinking about it even after you've dated for at least a year, [...]

Communicating With Your Ex Post Break-Up – Pt 1

Communicating With Your Ex Post Break-Up – Pt 1

"Communication problems" seems to be the catch-all phrase for every relationship problem, and is often sighted as the main cause of the collapse of many relationships. I'm the first to admit that we relationship counselors, therapists and coaches are partly responsible for this. Many of us become "experts" with no or very little training in [...]

Will He Leave Her If He Thinks He’s Losing Me?

Will He Leave Her If He Thinks He’s Losing Me?

Question: I'm 31 and have been dating a 44 yr old man for six months. He is still legally married and does all the other obligations of a husband and father to his kids but he hasn't had an intimate relationship with his wife for over a year. In the beginning he talked all the time about filing for a divorce but lately he seems to be [...]

Why It’s Taking Too Long To Get Back Your Ex – Pt. 1

Why It’s Taking Too Long To Get Back Your Ex – Pt. 1

This is probably the kind of article you will not enjoy reading because it's not about how many contacts you should be having with your ex, or what "right words" to say to your ex to make him/her take you back. And if you are one of "those people" who believes that others are responsible for the way you feel, for what they make you do, and for [...]

You Are NOT Needy and Clingy If…

You Are NOT Needy and Clingy If…

Many of us do not know that we are needy and clingy, let alone can accept that we are. If anyone even remotely suggested that we are needy or cling, we'd get defensive about it. But if your desire to get closer to someone only makes the other person want distance, chances are you are needy and clingy. You may not be needy all the time and to [...]

5 Common Signs A Man Or Woman Is Playing You

5 Common Signs A Man Or Woman Is Playing You

Question: I met him on one of my business trips. I’m 43, he’s 34. The chemistry was instant and strong. He asked for my number and he immediately called me. Soon after that we started seeing each other every other every, spending some nights at my place and some nights at his. We both have very busy lives but we always found time to be with [...]

Should I Propose After Dating For 2 Years?

Should I Propose After Dating For 2 Years?

Question: My boyfriend and I have been together for a little over two years now. Our relationship is great in that we do not fight or have bad arguments. He has introduced me to his family and to his friends and they know me as his girl. But I feel like we are neither here nor there. I’ve given him all the nonverbal hints that I want him to [...]

How Much Contact Is Too Much Contact?

How Much Contact Is Too Much Contact?

Question: She’s 46, I’m 33. We’ve been having really great dates and getting closer slowly.  I’m falling for her an she said she was very  attracted to me. But I think I may have also started acting a little needy and contacted her too much because on one date she said her ex-husband was too insecure and needy and she’s not looking [...]

Should You Tell Your Ex You Want Him/Her Back?

Should You Tell Your Ex You Want Him/Her Back?

If you want to successfully get back your ex, timing is extremely important. In my article, "How To Take It Slow And Get Your Ex Back", I highlighted the need to constantly ask yourself "Do my ex's words and actions show that he/she feels for me the way I feel for him/her?" Asking yourself this question is one way of making sure that you are [...]

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