Wednesday November 26th 2014

‘Playing Hard To Get’ Archives

Are Women Too Picky Or Choosing More Carefully?

Are Women Too Picky Or Choosing More Carefully?

A friend sent me a link to Lori Gottlieb article in wowowow.com. Just in case you’re wondering what all the wowos mean, it’s a women on the Web website. The article is a recap of her new book which reveals why you may be wrong about Mr. Right. Ms. Gottlieb writes, “You can’t just order up the perfect husband á la carte. I’ll take a [...]

Steal The Power From Your Ex With NC Rule?

Steal The Power From Your Ex With NC Rule?

This is an excerpt from an exchange with a commenter that I thought might be of interest to anyone who thinks that using NC Rule and letting your ex do all the initiating contact somehow transfers "power" back to you. Think again! Commenter: I don't think the author understands the NC rule. NC is not a mind game or a trick. NC is a [...]

10 Mistakes To Avoid If You Want Your Ex Back

10 Mistakes To Avoid If You Want Your Ex Back

If you still have strong feelings for your ex, it's only natural to want to fight to get him or her back. But contrary to what you might think, getting your ex to contact you, respond to your text/call, or even go out with you is not the hardest part of getting your ex back. The hardest part is making sure things start of with a better [...]

No.1 Relationship Mistake Men and Women Make

No.1 Relationship Mistake Men and Women Make

I want to say right from the beginning that I’m one of those people who believes that we don’t “look for and find love" but rather, the love already in us attracts the love of another. But for the sake of this article, I’ll go with the common notion that men and women “look for and find love". Other than the flawed approach to [...]

No.2 Relationship Mistake Men and Women Make

No.2 Relationship Mistake Men and Women Make

If you've made Love Mistake No 1, chances are that you’re also making Love Mistake No 2. That is, you act out of FEAR - and are controlled by fear - instead of acting out of love and have love direct all your words, actions and behaviours. What’s the difference? The difference is like night and day. Most people don’t even realize [...]

How to Make A Commitment Phobe Want Commit

How to Make A Commitment Phobe Want Commit

Many relationships today end because one person wants commitment and the other is afraid to commit. The one who wants commitment is left feeling unwanted while the one who is afraid of commitment goes from one relationship to another and even keeps on leaving and returning to relationships with an ex because he or she won't commit to a long-term [...]

It’s Your Body That Is The Giveaway

It’s Your Body That Is The Giveaway

It's not facial expression that gives away what you're thinking, it's your body, says a new research. Yes, your body is talking -- and saying things about you that you may not want others to know! "Much like speakers blaring at maximum volume, the quality of the facial signal becomes degraded and noisy," says Dr Aviezer. In the study, [...]

Rebound Sex Or Revenge Sex?

Rebound Sex Or Revenge Sex?

While having sex to cope with a break-up, get over an ex, or get back at an ex is popular advice given to dumpees, researchers at the University of Missouri point out that it's not always beneficial. Using a longitudinal study, researchers over the course of eight months interviewed 170 college students who had gone through a recent breakup. [...]

Do Guys Lose Interest If You Reveal Too Much?

Do Guys Lose Interest If You Reveal Too Much?

Question: I read your blog: The "Rules" and Playing Dating Mind Games. While I agree with some things you say, I do not think that women should be open and forthcoming in the first few dates. I’ve been out on great first few dates with a number of great guys but nothing that lasted for more than 3- 4 dates. The last guy I went out with was [...]

Is My Ex Emotionally Unavailable?

Is My Ex Emotionally Unavailable?

Question: My boyfriend of 2 years broke up with me two weeks ago. This is the third time we've broken up in two years. He says I'm too needy and clingy and that he can not give me what I want. I know I was clingy and needy before and have two boyfriends break up with me because of it but I worked on my neediness after he broke up with me the [...]

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