Saturday March 28th 2015

‘Playing Hard To Get’ Archives

How Long Before Your Ex Starts Missing You?

How Long Before Your Ex Starts Missing You?

Question: Yangki, are there instances where an ex will miss you because you are out of their life? If so, in your experience do these exes come back? How long before they start missing you? The Love Doctor's Answer: Almost all exes miss you when you are no longer in their lives. It's just one of those things. You share some part of your life [...]

Should You Tell Your Ex You Want Him/Her Back?

Should You Tell Your Ex You Want Him/Her Back?

If you want to successfully get back your ex, timing is extremely important. In my article, "How To Take It Slow And Get Your Ex Back", I highlighted the need to constantly ask yourself "Do my ex's words and actions show that he/she feels for me the way I feel for him/her?" Asking yourself this question is one way of making sure that you are [...]

Is My Ex Emotionally Unavailable?

Is My Ex Emotionally Unavailable?

Question: My boyfriend of 2 years broke up with me two weeks ago. This is the third time we've broken up in two years. He says I'm too needy and clingy and that he can not give me what I want. I know I was clingy and needy before and have two boyfriends break up with me because of it but I worked on my neediness after he broke up with me the [...]

Does Acting Aloof Make You More Attractive?

Does Acting Aloof Make You More Attractive?

Question: I’ve been with a guy for a year and a few months. He’s very sweet and charming but can also be so cold and distant to a point where I resent him because then I want him so bad. This is when I do everything I know how to draw him closer but when he responds, I lose interest and start acting cold and aloof. He then becomes more [...]

OMG! Read This If Your Ex Hasn’t Contacted You!

OMG! Read This If Your Ex Hasn’t Contacted You!

Has it been 3 days since your ex contacted you? That's not good. This means it's over for good. I don't think he/she will ever contact you again. He/she has moved on. May be he/she's playing hard to get. Nah, he/she met someone else and is ignoring you. I don't think he/she even loved you at all. All this time he/she has been playing you. How [...]

How To Get Your Ex To Start Initiating Contact

How To Get Your Ex To Start Initiating Contact

After receiving many comments and email questions asking if "limited contact" is the same as "pressure-free contact" (which I advocate in my eBook Dating Your Ex), I thought it best to write a brief post to explain the difference. First of all the two are not the same. 1. Quantity vs. Quality Limited Contact (LC) is about quantity. [...]

I’m Losing My Boyfriend – What Should I Do? Pt. 2

I’m Losing My Boyfriend – What Should I Do? Pt. 2

Continues from Pt 1 When we’re threatened with the possibility of losing someone we love, we often don't see the things in front of us including how our own words and actions may be more self-destructing than helpful. This is especially true when you feel like what you worked hard to build (and keep) is slipping through your fingers and [...]

The Secret Reason Your Ex Is Mean To You

The Secret Reason Your Ex Is Mean To You

Some break-ups are amicable and others are so nass-teey. Some people stay friends after a breakup, and others want to forget they ever knew each other's name. Then there are exes that say you are going to remain friends, but then they start acting really cold and mean? S/he sees you and quickly walks away or ignores you altogether, or s/he [...]

15 Self-Help Practices That’ll Get Back Your Ex – Pt. 2

15 Self-Help Practices That’ll Get Back Your Ex – Pt. 2

Continued from Pt. 1... If you find yourself over-analyzing your ex's every word or action, to the point that you are afraid to say anything or take action, or think its best to avoid your ex because you'll mess things up -- you have a serious problem with self-trust. Self trust -- the ability to take action based on your belief in yourself [...]

Is My Co-Worker Flirting Or Leading Me On?

Is My Co-Worker Flirting Or Leading Me On?

Question: She’s 36 and I am 31 and we work for the same company.  We went out for a couple of dates and both times had a great time. There was a lot of passionate kissing but no sex involved.  I asked her if she’d like to go out for a third date and she said she’ll think about it. To cut the long story short, that was three weeks ago. She [...]

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