Thursday March 5th 2015

‘Playing Hard To Get’ Archives

The Right And Wrong Way To Play Hard To Get

The Right And Wrong Way To Play Hard To Get

Playing-hard-to-get is -- without any doubt -- one of the most effective ways of being "cool" in the dating ritual. But not everyone knows how to PLAY. Some men and women play naturally, others have taken time to relearn how to play but the majority of men and women JUST DON'T GET IT! More technically it goes like this: 1. Those who think [...]

Who Should Initiate Contact – Dumper Or Dumpee?

Who Should Initiate Contact – Dumper Or Dumpee?

Shouldn't the dumper be the one to initiate contact? I get asked this question quite a lot, and thought a longer response might help clarify a few things. Although I've often used the words "dumper" and "dumpee" myself, I'm convinced that "dumper" and "dumpee" labels oversimplify the break-up and reconciliation process. "Dumper" and [...]

The Secret Reason Your Ex Is Mean To You

The Secret Reason Your Ex Is Mean To You

Some break-ups are amicable and others are so nass-teey. Some people stay friends after a breakup, and others want to forget they ever knew each other's name. Then there are exes that say you are going to remain friends, but then they start acting really cold and mean? S/he sees you and quickly walks away or ignores you altogether, or s/he [...]

Why Love Always, Always Comes Back

Why Love Always, Always Comes Back

A client who had played mind games with her boyfriend was talking about how much she regrets what she had done and how she wishes she could take it back when out of no where she asked me "Do you believe in karma?" I didn't know exactly where she was going with the question, so I said, "Explain karma?" She said "Karma... like in if you do [...]

How To Make Yourself Special To Someone

How To Make Yourself Special To Someone

When it comes to relationships, there will always be another man or woman waiting to take your place. That's something you have no control over. The secret to making sure that you remain the man or woman he or she wants to  be with is to set yourself apart as one-of-a-kind. Whether one admits it or not, we human beings take “pride” in [...]

10 Signs You’re In A Relationship Vs. Casual Dating

10 Signs You’re In A Relationship Vs. Casual Dating

Question: If you are dating someone for 2 months and then she decides to end things, could this be considered a "break up" ?  We had sex, if that makes any difference. The Love Doctor's Answer: Good question. Now... let's get "sex" out of the way first... (; Some 40 or so years ago, the moment you had sex with someone, you were officially [...]

No.2 Relationship Mistake Men and Women Make

No.2 Relationship Mistake Men and Women Make

If you've made Love Mistake No 1, chances are that you’re also making Love Mistake No 2. That is, you act out of FEAR - and are controlled by fear - instead of acting out of love and have love direct all your words, actions and behaviours. What’s the difference? The difference is like night and day. Most people don’t even realize [...]

The “Rules” and Playing Mind Games With Men

The “Rules” and Playing Mind Games With Men

You’ve heard them; don’t approach him first, don’t flirt, don’t look friendly, don’t pick up the phone when he calls, wait four days before you call him back, never ever accept spontaneous invitations, act like you’re not interested, don’t show him you like him, don’t let him hold your hand until on the third date, don’t [...]

How To Do Contact Without Scaring Off Your Ex (Pt. 1)

How To Do Contact Without Scaring Off Your Ex (Pt. 1)

Will you scare off your ex? The answer is yes... if you are thinking about it constantly. If the thought of contacting your ex or taking any action to get back with your ex brings up fears of driving or pushing him/her further away, you are right to be worried that you will scare and/or push him/her further away. I know it's not the most [...]

5 Things Your Ex Does That Don’t Make Sense

5 Things Your Ex Does That Don’t Make Sense

Why did my ex do this, and why is he/she doing that, are questions almost everyone who leaves a comment on my blog, or signs up for coaching wants the answer to. But while some of the things your ex did or does are easy to explain, others can't be explained. This is because there are so many reasons why people do the things they do. Most people [...]

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