Saturday November 1st 2014

‘Playing Hard To Get’ Archives

How Many Times A Week Should I Contact My Ex?

How Many Times A Week Should I Contact My Ex?

Question: Yangki, my ex broke up with me over six months ago because he said I was needy and clingy. I worked hard and have filled my life with things I love, and I'm very busy most of the time. We started chatting again a month and half ago, and things were great in the beginning. But for the last couple of weeks he's been telling me he feels [...]

Why It’s Taking Too Long To Get Back Your Ex – Pt. 1

Why It’s Taking Too Long To Get Back Your Ex – Pt. 1

This is probably the kind of article you will not enjoy reading because it's not about how many contacts you should be having with your ex, or what "right words" to say to your ex to make him/her take you back. And if you are one of "those people" who believes that others are responsible for the way you feel, for what they make you do, and for [...]

Find Out If He Or She Wants To Be Exclusive

Find Out If He Or She Wants To Be Exclusive

It’s a well known fact that if things are  moving along nicely and you are comfortable with each other, you both should know if you want to be exclusive without having to say it. But what if you are ready to move into exclusivity and he doesn't make a move or she doesn't seem to be thinking about it even after you've dated for at least a year, [...]

How To Respond To Your Ex’s “No Contact” Rule

How To Respond To Your Ex’s “No Contact” Rule

You decided to end a relationship that was not meeting your needs, was emotionally suffocating, deeply troubled (too many arguments and fights) or simply moving too fast in terms of the level of closeness or commitment you are comfortable with, and the next thing you know - your ex has completely cut you off. They unfriended you, blocked you, [...]

10 Mistakes To Avoid If You Want Your Ex Back

10 Mistakes To Avoid If You Want Your Ex Back

If you still have strong feelings for your ex, it's only natural to want to fight to get him or her back. But contrary to what you might think, getting your ex to contact you, respond to your text/call, or even go out with you is not the hardest part of getting your ex back. The hardest part is making sure things start of with a better [...]

Does She Love You Or Are You Wasting Your Time?

Does She Love You Or Are You Wasting Your Time?

Question: Three months, two dates every week and many expensive gifts but we’ve never been alone, just the two of us. It’s always one high-end party after another. Money is not a problem. I do quite well and take pleasure in making my woman happy. I also like her friends and they like me but it'd be nice to once in a while go out on a normal [...]

8 Simple Rules For Contacting Your Ex

8 Simple Rules For Contacting Your Ex

When trying to get your ex back, acting aggressive, needy, pushy, angry or irrational, especially at the onset of the process is usually unwise: emotions flare up, problems multiply and smaller problems become much larger problems. What may have been manageable at the beginning becomes much more intractable. Below are 8 rules for contacting [...]

How To Maintain Contact Without Scaring Off Your Ex Ex (Pt. 2)

How To Maintain Contact Without Scaring Off Your Ex Ex (Pt. 2)

In Part 1 (I highly recommend you read it before continuing to Pt. 2), I explained that: 1. There is nothing wrong with wanting to contact your ex, or even wanting to spend time with him/her. 2. What scares off an ex who still wants to be in contact with you is NOT that you are contacting him/her. What scares your ex is the unhealthy and [...]

My Ex Says He Loves Me But Will Not Commit

My Ex Says He Loves Me But Will Not Commit

Question: I read your posts " Is It Me Or is My Ex Emotionally Unavailable?" and I have a few questions to ask. How do you know it's about you and how do you know you are with an unavailable partner? I was with my ex-boyfriend for 2 years. We were happy for the first 2 months, after that I was unhappy. This is where I made a mistake, I started [...]

You Are NOT Needy and Clingy If…

You Are NOT Needy and Clingy If…

Many of us do not know that we are needy and clingy, let alone can accept that we are. If anyone even remotely suggested that we are needy or cling, we'd get defensive about it. But if your desire to get closer to someone only makes the other person want distance, chances are you are needy and clingy. You may not be needy all the time and to [...]

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