Saturday August 29th 2015

‘Playing Hard To Get’ Archives

No.1 Relationship Mistake Men and Women Make

No.1 Relationship Mistake Men and Women Make

I want to say right from the beginning that I’m one of those people who believes that we don’t “look for and find love" but rather, the love already in us attracts the love of another. But for the sake of this article, I’ll go with the common notion that men and women “look for and find love". Other than the flawed approach to [...]

10 Ways To Spot A Loser [Relationship Killers]

10 Ways To Spot A Loser [Relationship Killers]

I happen to believe that we all are good "enough" just the way we are. Sure, we all have room to improve and be better human beings, partners, lovers, etc. but deep life changing transformation begins with recognizing that we were never meant to be perfect. However, "loser" does describe a certain mentality that men and women bring to a date, [...]

The Right And Wrong Way To Play Hard To Get

The Right And Wrong Way To Play Hard To Get

Playing-hard-to-get is -- without any doubt -- one of the most effective ways of being "cool" in the dating ritual. But not everyone knows how to PLAY. Some men and women play naturally, others have taken time to relearn how to play but the majority of men and women JUST DON'T GET IT! More technically it goes like this: 1. Those who think [...]

Why You Still Can’t Get Over Your Ex – Pt. 1

Why You Still Can’t Get Over Your Ex – Pt. 1

Does contact with an ex you still have feelings for prevent you from moving on? Most people will say, YES! Being too close or spending time with an ex prevents you from moving on. The best thing to do if you want to move on is completely disconnect yourself from your ex and have nothing to do with him/her. But as many of you have found [...]

Rebound Sex Or Revenge Sex?

Rebound Sex Or Revenge Sex?

While having sex to cope with a break-up, get over an ex, or get back at an ex is popular advice given to dumpees, researchers at the University of Missouri point out that it's not always beneficial. Using a longitudinal study, researchers over the course of eight months interviewed 170 college students who had gone through a recent breakup. [...]

Will No Contact Make Your Ex Miss You?

Will No Contact Make Your Ex Miss You?

Comment: Yangki, I think that No Contact works if you wait long enough for both you and your ex to remember the good times at the beginning of your relationship, more easily than you remember the bad times at the end. Like John, I acted very needy and desperate at the end and she threatened to report me to the authorities if I didn't stop [...]

HELP! I Overanalyze My Ex’s Actions – Pt. 3

HELP! I Overanalyze My Ex’s Actions – Pt. 3

Continued from Pt. 2... When you do not trust yourself, you will most likely give up before you're even started, or give up just when your chances are starting to look good. But when you have trust in yourself, you not only act purposefully, you also move forward purposefully, confidently and assuredly. So how does one develop this [...]

How Do I Attract A Good Woman?

How Do I Attract A Good Woman?

Question: I read your article "How To Spot A Good Woman" but have found it hard to find or attract one. That's not because I think that there are no good women out there, but because in my experience good women are hard to find here in Seattle. I've never really been good with women. I'm not terrible at it either. I can go to a club and easily [...]

I Told Him How I Felt And He Pulled Away

I Told Him How I Felt And He Pulled Away

Question: I read your posts " Is It Me Or is My Ex Emotionally Unavailable?" and I have a few questions. How do you know it's about you and how do you know you are with an unavailable partner? I was with my ex-boyfriend for 2 years. We were happy for the first 2 months, after that I was unhappy. This is where I made a mistake, I started [...]

Does My Ex Still Have Feelings For Me?

Does My Ex Still Have Feelings For Me?

Question: Three weeks ago I contacted my ex about some important documents. I went to pick up the documents and we ended up going out for dinner. A month ago she wouldn't return any of my calls. We have had many phone conversation mostly about business, family and mutual friends. When we talk I’m cheerful, confident and relaxed because I want [...]

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