Friday September 19th 2014

‘Playing Hard To Get’ Archives

Why She’s Not Into You But So Into Him

Why She’s Not Into You But So Into Him

In my post “Can A Man With Zero Chance Of Attracting Women Find Love?” Patrick asked: “Yangki, I understand that it’s impossible to attract every woman I want. But can you please explain the sexual imprint a little more. Examples?” The Love Doctor’s Answer: I tried in the article you're refferring to: The Truth Dating and Seduction [...]

Toxic Niceness — Are You Are Being Played?

Toxic Niceness — Are You Are Being Played?

Have you had someone say very nice things about you and instead of it making you feel "good', you feel really uncomfortable and even feel like throwing up? There's a name for it. Toxic nicenesss. It starts with a flattering compliment, usually telling you what a great individual you are, how different you are from anyone else and how much [...]

Who Should Initiate Contact – Dumper Or Dumpee?

Who Should Initiate Contact – Dumper Or Dumpee?

Shouldn't the dumper be the one to initiate contact? I get asked this question quite a lot, and thought a longer response might help clarify a few things. Although I've often used the words "dumper" and "dumpee" myself, I'm convinced that "dumper" and "dumpee" labels oversimplify the break-up and reconciliation process. "Dumper" and [...]

Does My Ex Still Have Feelings For Me?

Does My Ex Still Have Feelings For Me?

Question: Three weeks ago I contacted my ex about some important documents. I went to pick up the documents and we ended up going out for dinner. A month ago she wouldn't return any of my calls. We have had many phone conversation mostly about business, family and mutual friends. When we talk I’m cheerful, confident and relaxed because I want [...]

10 Mistakes To Avoid If You Want Your Ex Back

10 Mistakes To Avoid If You Want Your Ex Back

If you still have strong feelings for your ex, it's only natural to want to fight to get him or her back. But contrary to what you might think, getting your ex to contact you, respond to your text/call, or even go out with you is not the hardest part of getting your ex back. The hardest part is making sure things start of with a better [...]

What To Do When Your Ex Is Playing Mind Games

What To Do When Your Ex Is Playing Mind Games

A client asked me the other day, “What would you do if your ex was playing mind games?” The “Love Coach” in me wanted to go straight to “advice mode” but then I remembered that I wasn’t always a love doctor. There was a time in my life when I did some things that were not so “loving”, and I write about this in my Dating Your [...]

How Do I Attract A Good Woman?

How Do I Attract A Good Woman?

Question: I read your article "How To Spot A Good Woman" but have found it hard to find or attract one. That's not because I think that there are no good women out there, but because in my experience good women are hard to find here in Seattle. I've never really been good with women. I'm not terrible at it either. I can go to a club and easily [...]

Why “Bad Girls” Get The Men “Good Girls” Want

Why “Bad Girls” Get The Men “Good Girls” Want

One of the biggest mistakes that many women make with men is WAITING for him to make the first move. But while you are waiting, some other proactive woman has snatched him right from under your watch. Even worse the men who "make the move" on you are those you wish would not -- those who make you feel insulted just because they approached you. But [...]

Is My Ex Emotionally Unavailable?

Is My Ex Emotionally Unavailable?

Question: My boyfriend of 2 years broke up with me two weeks ago. This is the third time we've broken up in two years. He says I'm too needy and clingy and that he can not give me what I want. I know I was clingy and needy before and have two boyfriends break up with me because of it but I worked on my neediness after he broke up with me the [...]

Is There Someone Else Or Am I Jumping to Conclusions?

Is There Someone Else Or Am I Jumping to Conclusions?

Question: I started seeing this guy a month ago. He says he is falling for me and I really like him. We email back and forth and talk everyday. But this is where it gets tricky. He only calls me during the day at work when I’m busy and only have a few minutes to talk. I’ve told him to call me at home in the evenings or nights, he says he’ll [...]

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