Friday March 27th 2015

‘Playing Hard To Get’ Archives

4 Ways To Find Out If Someone Wants To Be Exclusive

4 Ways To Find Out If Someone Wants To Be Exclusive

It’s a well known fact that if things are  moving along nicely and you are comfortable with each other, you both should know if you want to be exclusive without having to say it. But what if you are ready to move into exclusivity and he doesn't make a move or she doesn't seem to be thinking about it even after you've dated for at least a year, [...]

Will He Leave Her If He Thinks He’s Losing Me?

Will He Leave Her If He Thinks He’s Losing Me?

Question: I'm 31 and have been dating a 44 yr old man for six months. He is still legally married and does all the other obligations of a husband and father to his kids but he hasn't had an intimate relationship with his wife for over a year. In the beginning he talked all the time about filing for a divorce but lately he seems to be [...]

Sexual Imprint – Why Some Men Are More Attractive

Sexual Imprint – Why Some Men Are More Attractive

In my post “Can A Man With Zero Chance Of Attracting Women Find Love?” Patrick asked: “Yangki, I understand that it’s impossible to attract every woman I want. But can you please explain the sexual imprint a little more. Examples?” The Love Doctor’s Answer: I tried in the article you're refferring to: The Truth Dating and Seduction [...]

You Are NOT Needy and Clingy If…

You Are NOT Needy and Clingy If…

Many of us do not know that we are needy and clingy, let alone can accept that we are. If anyone even remotely suggested that we are needy or cling, we'd get defensive about it. But if your desire to get closer to someone only makes the other person want distance, chances are you are needy and clingy. You may not be needy all the time and to [...]

How To Do Contact Without Scaring Off Your Ex Ex (Pt. 2)

How To Do Contact Without Scaring Off Your Ex Ex (Pt. 2)

In Part 1 (I highly recommend you read it before continuing to Pt. 2), I explained that: 1. There is nothing wrong with wanting to contact your ex, or even wanting to spend time with him/her. 2. What scares off an ex who still wants to be in contact with you is NOT that you are contacting him/her. What scares your ex is the unhealthy and [...]

Why It’s Taking Too Long To Get Back Your Ex – Pt. 1

Why It’s Taking Too Long To Get Back Your Ex – Pt. 1

This is probably the kind of article you will not enjoy reading because it's not about how many contacts you should be having with your ex, or what "right words" to say to your ex to make him/her take you back. And if you are one of "those people" who believes that others are responsible for the way you feel, for what they make you do, and for [...]

Communicating With Your Ex Post Break-Up – Pt 1

Communicating With Your Ex Post Break-Up – Pt 1

"Communication problems" seems to be the catch-all phrase for every relationship problem, and is often sighted as the main cause of the collapse of many relationships. I'm the first to admit that we relationship counselors, therapists and coaches are partly responsible for this. Many of us become "experts" with no or very little training in [...]

What To Do When Your Ex Is Playing Mind Games

What To Do When Your Ex Is Playing Mind Games

A client asked me the other day, “What would you do if your ex was playing mind games?” The “Love Coach” in me wanted to go straight to “advice mode” but then I remembered that I wasn’t always a love doctor. There was a time in my life when I did some things that were not so “loving”, and I write about this in my Dating Your [...]

How Much Contact Is Too Much Contact?

How Much Contact Is Too Much Contact?

Question: She’s 46, I’m 33. We’ve been having really great dates and getting closer slowly.  I’m falling for her an she said she was very  attracted to me. But I think I may have also started acting a little needy and contacted her too much because on one date she said her ex-husband was too insecure and needy and she’s not looking [...]

5 Common Signs A Man Or Woman Is Playing You

5 Common Signs A Man Or Woman Is Playing You

Question: I met him on one of my business trips. I’m 43, he’s 34. The chemistry was instant and strong. He asked for my number and he immediately called me. Soon after that we started seeing each other every other every, spending some nights at my place and some nights at his. We both have very busy lives but we always found time to be with [...]

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