Tuesday March 3rd 2015

‘Playing Hard To Get’ Archives

10 Silly Mind Games Your Ex Is Playing

10 Silly Mind Games Your Ex Is Playing

A mind or mental game is nothing more than good old manipulation to get you to do what someone wants you to do, but suspects or knows that you will not do willingly or unreservedly -- and for good reason. The whole purpose is to try to mess with your otherwise sane and reasonable head. Here is the thing: If it feels like a mind game, it [...]

Communicating With A Long Distance Ex

Communicating With A Long Distance Ex

No question about it, when it comes to getting your ex, being in the same city or country makes things a little easier. Besides it being easier to get your ex to see you and go out on dates, spending time in each other's presence tends to make two people feel more connected to each other than in non-face-to-face communication. While researching [...]

Is My Ex Scared Of Her Feelings For Me?

Is My Ex Scared Of Her Feelings For Me?

Question: My now ex and I started dating about three months ago but last week she told me she didn’t want to continue the relationship. This all came as a shock to me. We never had any fights or major disagreements but the last few weeks before she broke it off, I noticed she was distant. Having had the time to look back, she started [...]

How To Respond To Your Ex’s “No Contact” Rule

How To Respond To Your Ex’s “No Contact” Rule

You decided to end a relationship that was not meeting your needs, was emotionally suffocating, deeply troubled (too many arguments and fights) or simply moving too fast in terms of the level of closeness or commitment you are comfortable with, and the next thing you know - your ex has completely cut you off. They unfriended you, blocked you, [...]

Trigger Emotions That Make Him Want More Of You

Trigger Emotions That Make Him Want More Of You

This may sound like an old wives' tale, but believe me, it works! Traditionally there are two ways to get a man to do something: one way is telling him what you want in clear logical terms and politely asking for his participation. The other way is creating a particular feeling in him that stimulates him into action. You can choose to use [...]

How To Move Your Relationship Forward Faster

How To Move Your Relationship Forward Faster

How often have you met someone you’re so in love with and you wish, dream and pray that he or she is the person you’ll spend the rest of your days on earth with, then for some reason something happens inside of you and you find yourself rushing the relationship to a premature ending? My guess is quite a few times. And if you’re reading [...]

Is Limited Or Low Contact Hurting Your Chances?

Is Limited Or Low Contact Hurting Your Chances?

Many of us know that in the initial stages of trying to get your ex back, sending too many texts or calling them frequently is a major turn off. It therefore makes sense to try to control the number of times you contact your ex. Controlling the number of times you contact your ex is what has come to be known as "minimal contact", "limited [...]

The Right And Wrong Way To Play Hard To Get

The Right And Wrong Way To Play Hard To Get

Playing-hard-to-get is -- without any doubt -- one of the most effective ways of being "cool" in the dating ritual. But not everyone knows how to PLAY. Some men and women play naturally, others have taken time to relearn how to play but the majority of men and women JUST DON'T GET IT! More technically it goes like this: 1. Those who think [...]

Who Should Initiate Contact – Dumper Or Dumpee?

Who Should Initiate Contact – Dumper Or Dumpee?

Shouldn't the dumper be the one to initiate contact? I get asked this question quite a lot, and thought a longer response might help clarify a few things. Although I've often used the words "dumper" and "dumpee" myself, I'm convinced that "dumper" and "dumpee" labels oversimplify the break-up and reconciliation process. "Dumper" and [...]

The Secret Reason Your Ex Is Mean To You

The Secret Reason Your Ex Is Mean To You

Some break-ups are amicable and others are so nass-teey. Some people stay friends after a breakup, and others want to forget they ever knew each other's name. Then there are exes that say you are going to remain friends, but then they start acting really cold and mean? S/he sees you and quickly walks away or ignores you altogether, or s/he [...]

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