Sunday April 19th 2015

‘Playing Hard To Get’ Archives

Should You Tell Your Ex You Want Him/Her Back?

Should You Tell Your Ex You Want Him/Her Back?

If you want to successfully get back your ex, timing is extremely important. In my article, "How To Take It Slow And Get Your Ex Back", I highlighted the need to constantly ask yourself "Do my ex's words and actions show that he/she feels for me the way I feel for him/her?" Asking yourself this question is one way of making sure that you are [...]

Does Acting Aloof Make You More Attractive?

Does Acting Aloof Make You More Attractive?

Question: I’ve been with a guy for a year and a few months. He’s very sweet and charming but can also be so cold and distant to a point where I resent him because then I want him so bad. This is when I do everything I know how to draw him closer but when he responds, I lose interest and start acting cold and aloof. He then becomes more [...]

How To Do Contact Without Scaring Off Your Ex Ex (Pt. 2)

How To Do Contact Without Scaring Off Your Ex Ex (Pt. 2)

In Part 1 (I highly recommend you read it before continuing to Pt. 2), I explained that: 1. There is nothing wrong with wanting to contact your ex, or even wanting to spend time with him/her. 2. What scares off an ex who still wants to be in contact with you is NOT that you are contacting him/her. What scares your ex is the unhealthy and [...]

How To Respond To Your Ex’s “No Contact” Rule

How To Respond To Your Ex’s “No Contact” Rule

You decided to end a relationship that was not meeting your needs, was emotionally suffocating, deeply troubled (too many arguments and fights) or simply moving too fast in terms of the level of closeness or commitment you are comfortable with, and the next thing you know - your ex has completely cut you off. They unfriended you, blocked you, [...]

Should I Propose After Dating For 2 Years?

Should I Propose After Dating For 2 Years?

Question: My boyfriend and I have been together for a little over two years now. Our relationship is great in that we do not fight or have bad arguments. He has introduced me to his family and to his friends and they know me as his girl. But I feel like we are neither here nor there. I’ve given him all the nonverbal hints that I want him to [...]

How Your Ex Feel About You Contacting Him/Her

How Your Ex Feel About You Contacting Him/Her

If you've been reading my blog and have my eBooks, by now you know I'm all for keeping contact with your ex, if you want him or her back. You cut off contact, you cut the connection. Trying to recover that connection later on will be much harder than you can imagine. But just mere contact for the sake of contact isn't enough to keep the [...]

OMG! Read This If Your Ex Hasn’t Contacted You!

OMG! Read This If Your Ex Hasn’t Contacted You!

Has it been 3 days since your ex contacted you? That's not good. This means it's over for good. I don't think he/she will ever contact you again. He/she has moved on. May be he/she's playing hard to get. Nah, he/she met someone else and is ignoring you. I don't think he/she even loved you at all. All this time he/she has been playing you. How [...]

I’m Losing My Boyfriend – What Should I Do? Pt. 2

I’m Losing My Boyfriend – What Should I Do? Pt. 2

Continues from Pt 1 When we’re threatened with the possibility of losing someone we love, we often don't see the things in front of us including how our own words and actions may be more self-destructing than helpful. This is especially true when you feel like what you worked hard to build (and keep) is slipping through your fingers and [...]

How To Get Your Ex To Start Initiating Contact

How To Get Your Ex To Start Initiating Contact

After receiving many comments and email questions asking if "limited contact" is the same as "pressure-free contact" (which I advocate in my eBook Dating Your Ex), I thought it best to write a brief post to explain the difference. First of all the two are not the same. 1. Quantity vs. Quality Limited Contact (LC) is about quantity. [...]

The Secret Reason Your Ex Is Mean To You

The Secret Reason Your Ex Is Mean To You

Some break-ups are amicable and others are so nass-teey. Some people stay friends after a breakup, and others want to forget they ever knew each other's name. Then there are exes that say you are going to remain friends, but then they start acting really cold and mean? S/he sees you and quickly walks away or ignores you altogether, or s/he [...]

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