‘One Way Love’ Archives
What’s The Best Way To Get My Ex To Talk To Me?
Question: I am finding myself in a situation where my ex flies into a range every time I ask her why we broke up. She just came out from the blue one evening after we returned from a friend's house and said, " I can't do this anymore. This relationship is sucking the life out of me."We had not had a fight or argument that day or even days before [...]
Why Someone You Love Doesn’t Want You: Pt.3
In part 2 of Why The Man or Woman You Love Doesn’t Want You, I briefly touched on why it’s important to learn to be excited about what IS. This is not easy when you have expectations of others and are always worrying and overanalyzing their every word and action. Just think about it. Every time you’ve felt rejected and unwanted by someone [...]
Help! I Like Him But Not Sexually Attracted
Question: I' m seeing a guy who has almost all the qualities I look in a man but he is too nice and too needy. At first I enjoyed the attention. He was always buying me stuff, always attentive and there for me but now everything he does gets on my nerves. I want a strong and confident guy with a backbone but it seems that these days all the guys [...]
Why Is My Ex So Cold Towards Me?
Question: Me and my ex boyfriend of 2 years are both in our late 30s. Everything was good and then he became very moody, started ignoring me, got upset with me for no reason and wouldn’t talk to me. When I asked him what was going on he told me he didn’t want to be with me anymore. I was completely devastated and asked him why. He told me he [...]
How Do I Stop Acting Needy and Pushing Too Hard?
Question: I'm currently in a long distance relationship. We live in different countries. We met on a dating site and kept in contact via email, text and phone for 4 months. We met in person for the first time last month and it was instant fireworks. Since meeting in person, our relationship has changed a lot; some of it is for the better but most [...]
On And Off Again Relationship – When It Is Time To Give Up?
I receive email questions from men and women, young and old, and from all walks of life who are in relationship that is neither moving forward nor behind, that is on-again and off-again, or one in which one or both people are in some ways hurting each other but the attraction and chemistry is so strong that they can’t imagine life without him [...]
Why The End Of A Relationship Hurts So Much
Are you hurting because of a break-up? Do you feel like your world has come to an end? Can’t get over an old love? You are not weak or a loser and there is nothing wrong with you. According to a resent research published on Science Daily (Aug. 27, 2010), the events that end up being most important in our lives, the events that bring us [...]
If Someone Loved You They Would Change For You
Experts agree that the reasons we so easily choose the “wrong people” are varied and complex. After a lifetime with automatic pilot set on “seeking acceptance” and working hard to get people to love you, you may be so accustomed to offering up who you are and your power to win acceptance and love that you are not choosing well. The [...]
Does Our Relationship Have A Future Or Am I Wasting My Time?
Question: We’ve been going out for 2 years now. About six weeks ago I told him I wanted more out of the relationship. He got upset and said he needed his space. Last week he fell ill and I took care of him. We had sex. We’re back to the way the relationship was. When I call he calls the next day. When I do not call (I usually call after two [...]
If You Love Someone Should You Tell Them?
Some of you will say "Yes. absolutely" but most of you will probably say, "No! It'll scare them way." There is "secret code" out there which says if you tell someone how you feel, it'll drive them away. So everyone is holding their feelings close to the chest, literally. But guess what? The very people holding tightly on to their feelings are [...]
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