‘Masculine & Feminine Confidence’ Archives
Why Do Women Think I’m Creepy?
Question: I've been looking at your articles and really like your unique and fresh perspective on sexual energy and masculine and feminine confidence. But there's one issue I experience that I need some insight into. I've been the nice guy before, who's often told "I like you as a friend." I realized that by avoiding sending out sexual vibes [...]
How To Talk Dirty and Seductively Naughty
Some of you who read my article: How A Short Below-Average Looking 40 yo. Man Fails To Attract Beautiful Women wrote to me complaining that the article didn’t go far enough on how to artfully mix being sexual, natural and playful in away that amplifies sexual chemistry and creates sexual attraction. I heard you and will attempt to [...]
Are Men Funnier Than Women?
We've all heard that men are generally funnier than women, but is there some substance behind the stereotype i.e. are men actually funnier than women or are they simply perceived as such? In their work that appears online in Psychonomic Bulletin & Review, Laura Mickes and her team, from the University of California, and Robert Mankoff [...]
Erectile Problem: Having Trouble Getting It UP?
Ditch your shared friends or ditch the "overly friendly" girlfriend/spouse! Yes, you read it right. Your so-called "shared friends" may have something to do with your erectile problem - that's if you believe in "scientific studies." According to a study published on August 8 in the current issue of the American Journal of Sociology, a man whose [...]
How A Strong Successful Woman Can Attract A Good Man
Question: I’m sure you’ve been asked this question many times. I’m a successful independent career woman with everything I want except for a stable relationship with a loving man. At one time I worked with a love coach who told me that men unless they are feminine energy men lose "respect" (translate attraction) for successful women [...]
The “Rules” and Playing Mind Games With Men
You’ve heard them; don’t approach him first, don’t flirt, don’t look friendly, don’t pick up the phone when he calls, wait four days before you call him back, never ever accept spontaneous invitations, act like you’re not interested, don’t show him you like him, don’t let him hold your hand until on the third date, don’t [...]
Why We Love Them: Shy Men and Women Are Sexy
Count me in... I also think that confident (I-know-who- I-am type) men and women who are a little shy (not anxiety type shy, but "modest" shy)... and easily get embarrassed are so cool. A September 2011 study published on the online issue of the Journal of Personality and Social Psychology has it that time and again, results showed people who [...]
The Woman Who “Stole” Your Man’s Heart
When I wrote my article: Why Men Fantasize About Angelina Jolie And What You Can Learn From Her, I got a lot of verbal beating from guys but mostly from women... and I'm not even counting the hate emails from Jolie-haters. Regardless of which camp you vow allegiance to, I think that there is an important message (and it's getting louder and [...]
A New Type of Masculinity Or Simply BS?
Question: Upfont, I know the statistics, studies and all of that stuff, I just want to know if I'm on the right track or may be I just don't get it. I'm a 37 year old masculine attractive man but I've never been in a relationship for more than a few weeks. I could be wrong but I think the reason why women don’t find me attractive is because [...]
Who Wants To Date A Nerd With A Job Ad! [So Cool!]
“They don’t know how to dance, they don’t know how to dress, they don’t even know how to talk”, say McDermott’s daughters who went to school with engineers. So Mr. Jim McDermott, chief human capital officer of the United States Nuclear Regulatory Commission decided he’d do something about it. ”When we’re hiring, we say, [...]













