‘Masculine & Feminine Confidence’ Archives
The “New Man” In The Making – Repackaging Masculinity Or Simply BS?
Question: Upfont, I know the statistics, studies and all of that stuff, I just want to know if I'm on the right track or may be I just don't get it. I'm a 37 year old masculine attractive man but I've never been in a relationship for more than a few weeks. I could be wrong but I think the reason why women don’t find me attractive is because [...]
I’m Tired Of Being The Perfect Woman Only To Be Dumped
Question: I'm 38, not married and I really want to be. I'm trying to meet suitable and I’m successful in the initial stage, but my relationships never last. As soon as I sense the slightest indication disinterest or withdrawal, I get really anxious and insistently call asking men why they haven’t called me or if I have done something to upset [...]
Overconfident Men And Women Are Not Actually That Confident
Have you noticed that men and woman who are overly aggressive, forceful, opinionated, love the sound of their own voice and have an air of superiority simply because they have good looks, success, skill or "luck" in a particular area of life populate the ranks of frustrated singles, unhappy spouses and loners while average looking others of [...]
Why Is That When I Try To Show Sexual Interest In A Woman I Come Off As “Creepy?”
Question: I've been looking at your articles and really like your unique and fresh perspective on secual energy and masculine and feminine confidence. But there's one issue I experience that I need some insight into. I've been the nice guy before, who's often told "I like you as a friend." I realized that by avoiding sending out sexual vibes [...]
Is It Okay For A Woman To Make The First Move?
Question: Is it okay for a woman to make the first move? What's the best time frame between contacts? How do I change things from me calling him to him calling me? The Love Doctor's Answer: In my opinion, it is okay for a woman to make the first move. Just as women don't like being the sole initiator, men really don’t like it either. And many [...]
Moving It From Seduction To Attraction To A Relationship
One of the most frequesntly asked questions about the art of seduction is why it works for some people and not others. But before I can answer that question, I want to point out that there are two kinds of seduction. The one in which the art of seduction connotes sex appeal or sexual enticement using a specific series of smooth fast talking [...]
How To Talk Dirty and Seductively Naughty With Sophisticated Sass
Some of you who read my article: How A Short Below-Average Looking 40 yo. Man Fails To Attract Beautiful Women wrote to me complaining that the article didn’t go far enough on how to artfully mix being sexual, natural and playful in away that amplifies sexual chemistry and creates sexual attraction. I heard you and will attempt to [...]
Every Relationship I Get In I Destroy It By Worrying That The Person Will Leave Me
Question: I'm 28 and have never had a serious or long term relationship. This summer I met a wonderful guy online and after a few chats we met in person. He says he is attracted to me and I admit I am very attracted to him and find decent and good qualities in him. The hardest thing is to not overanalyze his every action to see if he is reacting [...]
How To Show A Guy You Like Him More Than As Just A Friend
Question: I am an intelligent and independent woman but I can’t seem to master how to approach men without appearing desperate. All the articles and books I read say relax, be confident, have the right attitude and the rest will fall into place, but when I catch a guy looking at me or checking me out, I just get really shy and nervous. What do [...]
The “Rules” and Playing Dating Mind Games
You’ve heard them; don’t approach him first, don’t flirt, don’t look friendly, don’t pick up the phone when he calls, wait four days before you call him back, never ever accept spontaneous invitations, act like you’re not interested, don’t show him you like him, don’t let him hold your hand until on the third date, don’t [...]
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