‘Masculine & Feminine Confidence’ Archives
Why You Love People Who Can’t Love You Back
Question: I respect your advice but I believe that "you can't love another person until you love yourself" mumbo jumbo is misguided and I think creates more problems in relationships than it solves. The whole point of being in a relationship is to love the other person. That love is not supposed to be directed at yourself but toward the person you [...]
One [POWERFUL] Reason To Play Hard To Get
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Playing hard to get -- which some of us love to do and which in my humble opinion every man and woman should at least do or know how to do -- is a relationship dynamic based of the Law of Scarcity. The Law of Scarcity says, “scarcity determines the value of an item” meaning that, items are more valuable to us when their availability is [...]
Why She Doesn’t Want To Talk To You
One of my very favourite pastimes is watch people interact with each other. The other day, I was at a party and saw this really gorgeous woman flash an enticing smile in the direction on a group of guys looking at her as she walked in. A few minutes later, a well-dressed guy, a drink in hand, sauntered over to the woman and said “Hi”. I was [...]
Do Guys Lose Interest If You Reveal Too Much?
Question: I read your blog: The "Rules" and Playing Dating Mind Games. While I agree with some things you say, I do not think that women should be open and forthcoming in the first few dates. I’ve been out on great first few dates with a number of great guys but nothing that lasted for more than 3- 4 dates. The last guy I went out with was [...]
How To Show A Guy You’re Attracted To Him
Question: I am an intelligent and independent woman but I can’t seem to master how to approach men without appearing desperate. All the articles and books I read say relax, be confident, have the right attitude and the rest will fall into place, but when I catch a guy looking at me or checking me out, I just get really shy and nervous. What do [...]
Increasing Likeability Without Losing Yourself
I think it's safe to say that we're so interconnected that we need each other to survive. But just how much have we given thought to what this really means? How much do we need others? How much do they need us? Why do we even have relationships? The times I've had people tell me I am acting like "I don't need anyone/others" or called me the [...]
Attract Women – How To Make Her Laugh
Ask a group of women what qualities they look for in a guy, and “a sense of humor” is bound to show up on top of the list. It’s no wonder that most guys think “making her laugh” is a good way to impress her. They become instant comedians, entertainers and clowns all in attempt to try to impress women with how funny they are. In their [...]
That Special Connection You Had With Your Ex
"We looked into each other's eyes and made a connection" "We had a special connection, it's like we knew each other" "I've never felt anything like this with anyone else" "He/she is like nobody I have ever met" These are some o the words many of my clients use to describe the relationship they had with their ex -- and I believe them [...]
Why Do Women Think I’m Creepy?
Question: I've been looking at your articles and really like your unique and fresh perspective on sexual energy and masculine and feminine confidence. But there's one issue I experience that I need some insight into. I've been the nice guy before, who's often told "I like you as a friend." I realized that by avoiding sending out sexual vibes [...]
How Do I Tell My Ex I Don’t Want To Lose Her?
Question: My ex broke up with me and everything I've tried just gets her really angry with me. I never cheated or treated her mean in the 1.5 years we were together. We never had any major fights either but one day she just told me she doesn't see a future for us. I asked her to explain it but she said she didn't feel about me the way she wants [...]
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