Thursday September 3rd 2015

‘Sexual Confidence and Attraction’ Archives

Older Women Younger Men – Should They Date?

Older Women Younger Men – Should They Date?

The sitcom Cougar Town starring Courtney Cox is meant to empower women or at least that's what the show is said to do. It stars Courtney Cox's character (Jules Cobb) a recently divorced forty-something single mother who upon discovering that all the men her age are either married, emotionally unavailable, gay or dating younger women reluctantly [...]

10 Signs You’re In A Relationship Vs. Casual Dating

10 Signs You’re In A Relationship Vs. Casual Dating

Question: If you are dating someone for 2 months and then she decides to end things, could this be considered a "break up" ?  We had sex, if that makes any difference. The Love Doctor's Answer: Good question. Now... let's get "sex" out of the way first... (; Some 40 or so years ago, the moment you had sex with someone, you were officially [...]

Tips For Interracial Relationships & Cultural Differences

Tips For Interracial Relationships & Cultural Differences

Question: I don’t know if you address this sort of thing or even answer questions related to interracial and intercultural dating but I thought I’d ask anyway. I’m 34, never married, medical doctor currently working and living in East Africa. I met an African woman (also medical doctor) and have fallen deeply in love. I know she loves me [...]

From Seduction To Attraction To A Relationship

From Seduction To Attraction To A Relationship

One of the most frequesntly asked questions about the art of seduction is why it works for some people and not others. But before I can answer that question, I want to point out that there are two kinds of seduction. The one in which the art of seduction connotes sex appeal or sexual enticement using a specific series of smooth fast talking [...]

The Perfect Balance For Your Relationship (Part 1)

The Perfect Balance For Your Relationship (Part 1)

"She bosses me around. Where is my respect?" "He's cold, insensitive and emotionally unavailable" "I just wish she was more feisty in bed". "He easily gets upset about small things". These are some of the complaints men and women have about their partners, and in some cases the reason a relationship ends. Many feel that something [...]

How Can I Hold On To My Boyfriend?

How Can I Hold On To My Boyfriend?

Question: Thank you for everything you're doing. This is by far the best advice site and blog on authentic relationships. My story in brief is that for 3 years I have been hiding my true feelings, lying about who I’m with and where I’ve been and generally playing mind games with this one man whom I love very much. I just don’t know how to [...]

Sexual Healing — Making Peace With Our Sexed Being

Sexual Healing — Making Peace With Our Sexed Being

Our present obsession with "holy" bonking (ooops... sorry, Sacred Sex) has become yet another obsession that borders the absurd. In our frantic effort to justify why we should have more sex (with some emotion) in our lives, we've managed yet again to climb to another level of hypocrisy. As if it is not enough that many people secretly enjoy [...]

Why We Love Them: Shy Men and Women Are Sexy

Why We Love Them: Shy Men and Women Are Sexy

Count me in... I also think that confident (I-know-who- I-am type) men and women who are a little shy (not anxiety type shy, but "modest" shy)... and easily get embarrassed are so cool. A September 2011 study published on the online issue of the Journal of Personality and Social Psychology has it that time and again, results showed people who [...]

Why Can’t I Love Him As Much As He Loves Me?

Why Can’t I Love Him As Much As He Loves Me?

Question: I have to add to the voices that have commended you on your work, Yangki. For me reading your blog has been a life changing experience that has left me feeling differently about relationships in general. I was in a relationship with a man who loved me more than I loved him, and although this should have made me happy, I constantly felt [...]

Without That Sexual Spark You’re Just Friends

Without That Sexual Spark You’re Just Friends

Everyone loves a good kiss - or at lease most men and women do. Guilty! I will not deny that I've dumped a guy or two just because I did not like the way he kissed. You might want to read my article: What His Kissing Style Says About Him. But what if someone is so wonderful in all the other areas but when it comes to kissing... well... that's [...]

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