Friday April 25th 2014

‘Masculine & Feminine Confidence’ Archives

How To Respond To Your Ex’s “No Contact” Rule

How To Respond To Your Ex’s “No Contact” Rule

You decided to end a relationship that was not meeting your needs, was emotionally suffocating, deeply troubled (too many arguments and fights) or simply moving too fast in terms of the level of closeness or commitment you are comfortable with, and the next thing you know - your ex has completely cut you off. They unfriended you, blocked you, [...]

Who Should Initiate Contact – Dumper Or Dumpee?

Who Should Initiate Contact – Dumper Or Dumpee?

Shouldn't the dumper be the one to initiate reconciliation? I get asked this question quite a lot, and thought a longer response might help clarify a few things. Although I've often used the words "dumper" and "dumpee" myself, I'm convinced that "dumper" and "dumpee" labels oversimplify the break-up and reconciliation process. "Dumper" [...]

Should Religion Be A Relationship Deal-Breaker?

Should Religion Be A Relationship Deal-Breaker?

Does religion matter in terms of who you are attracted to, date, love or marry? Before I answer that question, a little background on where I'm coming from might help. I'm East African, and Ugandan to be specific. Anyone who knows anything about East Africa and the Horn -- Uganda, Kenya, Tanzania, Somalia, Ethiopia, Eritrea, Rwanda and [...]

How Do I Attract A Good Woman?

How Do I Attract A Good Woman?

Question: I read your article "How To Spot A Good Woman" but have found it hard to find or attract one. That's not because I think that there are no good women out there, but because in my experience good women are hard to find here in Seattle. I've never really been good with women. I'm not terrible at it either. I can go to a club and easily [...]

Should A Woman Make The First Move?

Should A Woman Make The First Move?

Question: Is it okay for a woman to make the first move? What's the best time frame between contacts? How do I change things from me calling him to him calling me? The Love Doctor's Answer: In my opinion, it is okay for a woman to make the first move. Just as women don't like being the sole initiator, men really don’t like it either. And many [...]

Why She Left You For Another Guy [Pt. 4]

Why She Left You For Another Guy [Pt. 4]

Continued from Pt. 3. Boredom can kill a relationship faster than you can say “Honey, what's wrong?" It doesn't matter that you think the person shouldn't be bored, if she (or he) is bored, there'll be no "happiness" for you either. A bored partner, if you're open minded, not only puts your stagnation into its proper perspective, they also [...]

Signs You Or Your Partner Is Emotionally Immature

Signs You Or Your Partner Is Emotionally Immature

Emotional maturity is not something most of us consciously look for in a partner. For many of us, it’s not even a priority in the qualities we look for. We kind of take it for granted that if you’re attracted to someone, then everything will fall into place. If the relationship is casual and not expected to grow into something long term, [...]

Why Do Women Always Fall For The Bad Boy? — Pt 1

Why Do Women Always Fall For The Bad Boy? — Pt 1

Why do women always fall for the bad boys and leave the good guys?" This is a puzzle that bugs the hell out of so many guys. The theory out there -- usually advanced by frustrated guys complaining about the "jerks" who get the women they can't have and those who constantly worry that a "bad boy" might steal away the woman they love and they [...]

5 Tips On Breaking Up Amicably

5 Tips On Breaking Up Amicably

Amicable break-ups where there are no lingering resentments are rare, but they do happen. Here are some quick tips on how to have one. 1. Plan time to have the break-up talk. If possible, do it over a period of time to allow both of you to process your feelings, ask all the questions you may have, and say your goodbyes. 2. Be open and [...]

From Seduction To Attraction To A Relationship

From Seduction To Attraction To A Relationship

One of the most frequesntly asked questions about the art of seduction is why it works for some people and not others. But before I can answer that question, I want to point out that there are two kinds of seduction. The one in which the art of seduction connotes sex appeal or sexual enticement using a specific series of smooth fast talking [...]

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