‘Mind Games’ Archives
What To Do When Your Ex Is Playing Mind Games
A client asked me the other day, “What would you do if your ex was playing mind games?” The “Love Coach” in me wanted to go straight to “advice mode” but then I remembered that I wasn’t always a love doctor. There was a time in my life when I did some things that were not so “loving”, and I write about this in my Dating Your [...]
Why The Opposite Sex Don’t Treat You As “Special”
Question: You write in one of your articles that “we teach people how they treat us”. I somehow get what it means but do not know how it relates to my love life. I’ve been in several relationships but all ended because I felt that I was doing all the work in the relationship with not much input from the men. What hurt me most is that the [...]
Do You Trust Your Gut First Impressions?
First impressions are important, and they usually contain a healthy dose both of accuracy and misperception. But do people know when their first impressions are correct? They do reasonably well, according to a study in the current Social Psychological and Personality Science (published by SAGE). The research team, led by Jeremy Biesanz of the [...]
If You Love Someone Should You Tell Them?
Some of you will say "Yes. absolutely" but most of you will probably say, "No! It'll scare them way." There is "secret code" out there which says if you tell someone how you feel, it'll drive them away. So everyone is holding their feelings close to the chest, literally. But guess what? The very people holding tightly on to their feelings are [...]
How To Stop The Silent Treatment
Question: We got in a heated argument but after realizing that it was about nothing important, I apologized. We had sex afterwards. Next morning, I woke up and found him already up and about to leave for work. I said good morning but no response. I asked him what was wrong and he said he had an important meeting that morning. At lunch time, I [...]
Sometimes Rejection Can Be A Good Thing
Many of you who read my articles, blog and eBooks know that I’m not a fan of game-playing, deception, tricks or manipulation. But once in a while I get that one or two odd person(s) who probably don’t know about what I’m all about and reject me for not having “a tight game” or “enough tricks” or for "being in cahoot with men against [...]
10 Riskiest Get Your Ex Back Moves [BE WARNED]
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If you still have strong feelings for your ex, it's only natural to want to fight to get him or her back. But contrary to what you might think, getting your ex to contact you, respond to your text/call, or even go out with you is not the hardest part of getting your ex back. The hardest part is making sure things start of with a better [...]
The Average Time It Takes To Get Back Your Ex
Whenever I'm asked for time frames concerning when one gets an ex back, my heart sinks. Why? Because every time we try to make love work in a specific way, at a specific time, in a specific sequence, it’s almost always certain that it’ll backfire on us -- and I can't tell you how many times I've seen it backfire on so many men and [...]
Why She’s Not Into You But So Into Him
In my post “Can A Man With Zero Chance Of Attracting Women Find Love?” Patrick asked: “Yangki, I understand that it’s impossible to attract every woman I want. But can you please explain the sexual imprint a little more. Examples?” The Love Doctor’s Answer: I tried in the article you're refferring to: The Truth Dating and Seduction [...]
How To Get Your Man To Behave Selflessly!
Apparently there is a sure-fire way to get your man to behave selflessly. Invite over your attractive friends and few other males... Men put on their best behaviour when attractive ladies are close by. When the scenario is reversed however, the behaviour of women remains the same. These findings were published February 2, 2012, in the [...]
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