Thursday October 30th 2014

‘Mind Games’ Archives

8 Tips For Instant Natural Sexual Confidence – Pt 1

8 Tips For Instant Natural Sexual Confidence – Pt 1

Many of us are so hung up on looking sexy, feeling sexy and of course delivering “power performances” in the bedroom. We spend so much money on plastic surgery, designer clothes and the gym. We also spend so much time peering though sex manuals, mastering seduction techniques and on pornographic scavenger hunts. But ironically we are not [...]

Should I Stop Contact To Give My Ex Space?

Should I Stop Contact To Give My Ex Space?

Question: Hi Love Doctor, my ex and I broke up in May due to what she calls my trying too hard to make her love me. She said she loved me but was not sure if she wanted to be with me because I’ve never made her want me. She felt suffocated and wanted some time away from me. To give her the space she wanted, I went “no contact” for 6 weeks. [...]

The Secret Reason Your Ex Is Mean To You

The Secret Reason Your Ex Is Mean To You

Some break-ups are amicable and others are so nass-teey. Some people stay friends after a breakup, and others want to forget they ever knew each other's name. Then there are exes that say you are going to remain friends, but then they start acting really cold and mean? S/he sees you and quickly walks away or ignores you altogether, or s/he [...]

How to Make Your Ex Realize What He/She Lost

How to Make Your Ex Realize What He/She Lost

Most, if not all of us, want someone who has rejected us to realize just how much they've lost. Some exes do indeed realize just how important we're in their lives. But sometimes however good boy/girlfriend material you are, you can't persuade your ex that you have all the qualities he/she is looking for in a partner.In the beginning of the [...]

How To Take It Slow And Get Your Ex Back

How To Take It Slow And Get Your Ex Back

Much of the resistance most people trying to get their ex back encounter, or the pulling away they experience from their ex comes from bad timing. The most common timing mistakes are: 1. Pushing too hard, moving too quickly, and getting far ahead of your ex's feelings for you. 2. Asking to get back together when your ex is not [...]

Does Your Long Distance Relationship Have A Chance?

Does Your Long Distance Relationship Have A Chance?

A man and a woman formed a romantic relationship as pen pals. They fell in love and decided to finally meet in person. The woman said, "I will be wearing a red scarf". When the young man arrived at the meeting place, there she was, in her red scarf, waiting. She was not at all what he had expected. She was much older and much shorter than he [...]

How To Get Your Ex To Start Initiating Contact

How To Get Your Ex To Start Initiating Contact

After receiving many comments and email questions asking if "limited contact" is the same as "pressure-free contact" (which I advocate in my eBook Dating Your Ex), I thought it best to write a brief post to explain the difference. First of all the two are not the same. 1. Quantity vs. Quality Limited Contact (LC) is about quantity. [...]

5 Reasons To Maintain Contact With Your Ex

5 Reasons To Maintain Contact With Your Ex

Communication is one of the top causes, if not, "the" top cause of break-ups. It's no surprise that "communicating with your ex" is one of the biggest challenges post break-up-- and also the most polarizing when it comes to how to get one's ex back. Some people believe no communication will make their ex miss them and want to come back. Others, [...]

The Right And Wrong Way To Play Hard To Get

The Right And Wrong Way To Play Hard To Get

Playing-hard-to-get is -- without any doubt -- one of the most effective ways of being "cool" in the dating ritual. But not everyone knows how to PLAY. Some men and women play naturally, others have taken time to relearn how to play but the majority of men and women JUST DON'T GET IT! More technically it goes like this: 1. Those who think [...]

The “Rules” and Playing Mind Games With Men

The “Rules” and Playing Mind Games With Men

You’ve heard them; don’t approach him first, don’t flirt, don’t look friendly, don’t pick up the phone when he calls, wait four days before you call him back, never ever accept spontaneous invitations, act like you’re not interested, don’t show him you like him, don’t let him hold your hand until on the third date, don’t [...]

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