Thursday January 29th 2015

‘Mind Games’ Archives

The Risk You’re Taking With Low Or Limited Contact

The Risk You’re Taking With Low Or Limited Contact

Continued from: LC Hurting Your Chances... In my previous article I made it very clear that whether to do "no contact, "low contact", "high contact" and whatever else is your choice, and yours alone. Your relationship. Your heart. Your life! So please don't bombard me with passive aggressive "what do you have against giving your ex space?" [...]

How To Take It Slow And Get Your Ex Back

How To Take It Slow And Get Your Ex Back

Much of the resistance most people trying to get their ex back encounter, or the pulling away they experience from their ex comes from bad timing. The most common timing mistakes are: 1. Pushing too hard, moving too quickly, and getting far ahead of your ex's feelings for you. 2. Asking to get back together when your ex is not [...]

Catching and Holding Your Ex’s Attention

Catching and Holding Your Ex’s Attention

Continued from: Building Forward Momentum With Your Ex... By now it should be obvious that emotional momentum is not about how often to contact your ex. The "when to contact your ex" isn't even important. What's important is your ability to hold your ex's attention -- thoughts, feelings, emotions and imagination. This is what will make [...]

Trigger Emotions That Make Him Want More Of You

Trigger Emotions That Make Him Want More Of You

This may sound like an old wives' tale, but believe me, it works! Traditionally there are two ways to get a man to do something: one way is telling him what you want in clear logical terms and politely asking for his participation. The other way is creating a particular feeling in him that stimulates him into action. You can choose to use [...]

Do You Know How Your Ex Feels? (Pt. 3)

Do You Know How Your Ex Feels? (Pt. 3)

Click here to read Pt. 2 Bottom line, relationships start with a feeling, are sustained by feelings and end because of how one or both people feel. If you can't get this very basic fact, you might as well say goodbye to your boyfriend/girlfriend or the ex you're trying to get back. Not only are you wasting your time, energy and money, but [...]

The No.1 Reason You Act Needy and Clingy

The No.1 Reason You Act Needy and Clingy

"I'm giving him/her his/her space" is the excuse most men and women give for not contacting their ex. This so overused excuse is usually qualified with "I don't want to come across as needy" or "I don't want to push him/her away." On a superficial level, it sounds oh-so caring. You care so much about your ex that you do not want to "bother" [...]

Rebound Sex Or Revenge Sex?

Rebound Sex Or Revenge Sex?

While having sex to cope with a break-up, get over an ex, or get back at an ex is popular advice given to dumpees, researchers at the University of Missouri point out that it's not always beneficial. Using a longitudinal study, researchers over the course of eight months interviewed 170 college students who had gone through a recent breakup. [...]

Building Forward Momentum With Your Ex

Building Forward Momentum With Your Ex

Continued from: Risking Too Much With Low Contact... If you are frustrated because of clicking "continue reading"... you are not getting this emotional momentum thing. You might as well just skip the next part. You just won't get it. For the rest of you who are really "getting it"... continuity in your conversations is the key to emotional [...]

8 Tips For Instant Natural Sexual Confidence – Pt 1

8 Tips For Instant Natural Sexual Confidence – Pt 1

Many of us are so hung up on looking sexy, feeling sexy and of course delivering “power performances” in the bedroom. We spend so much money on plastic surgery, designer clothes and the gym. We also spend so much time peering though sex manuals, mastering seduction techniques and on pornographic scavenger hunts. But ironically we are not [...]

Fear Of Commitment: Your Relationship Is Not Hopeless

Fear Of Commitment: Your Relationship Is Not Hopeless

In an attempt to understand a partner's fear of commitment, we seek information to help us stay hopeful, but in the process of information seeking, it's too easy to be completely derailed -- and completely confused by all the conflicting information out there. I don't know about you, but much of the available information on fear of commitment [...]

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