Monday July 6th 2015

‘Mind Games’ Archives

Don’t Dump A Commitment Phobe Before You Read This!

Don’t Dump A Commitment Phobe Before You Read This!

Having personally suffered from severe commitment phobia for many years, I know that being in love with someone who is afraid of commitment is not fun at all. But does someone's fear of commitment always have to be the end of a relationship? In real life, some people are not really meant to be together, and sometimes when you've tried [...]

Interested Or Deceptively Flirting?

Interested Or Deceptively Flirting?

When it comes to assessing the romantic playing field -- who might be interested in whom -- men and women were shown to be equally good at gauging men's interest during an Indiana University study involving speed dating -- and equally bad at judging women's interest. Researchers expected women to have a leg up in judging romantic interest, [...]

My Ex Thinks We’re Friends But I Want Him Back

My Ex Thinks We’re Friends But I Want Him Back

Question: Thank you so much for your honest and direct approach. My ex and I broke up 6 months ago, we were together for 3 years. The first two months were hard for both of us but after many talks we agreed to being friends. We were good friends before dating and we both wanted to preserve the friendship. We talk every other day and get along [...]

Sending and Picking Up Sexual Signals

Sending and Picking Up Sexual Signals

Have you ever had a friend describe a really "hot" blind date to you, and you get all excited and eager to meet this wonder person only to come face to face with the person and zero, nothing, no sparks. The person is all that, but you are just not digging him/her. Or found yourself so powerfully attracted to someone with whom you have nothing [...]

If He Cared So Much For You Why Did He Leave?

If He Cared So Much For You Why Did He Leave?

Question: Yangki, I understand what you are saying about relationships sometimes having bumps. That I get. My ex abruptly ended the relationship 2 months ago. No hints or warnings that something was wrong he just dropped the "I love you but not in love with you" bomb one evening before we went to bed. I was stunned since I thought we had a good [...]

How To Make Yourself Special To Someone

How To Make Yourself Special To Someone

When it comes to relationships, there will always be another man or woman waiting to take your place. That's something you have no control over. The secret to making sure that you remain the man or woman he or she wants to  be with is to set yourself apart as one-of-a-kind. Whether one admits it or not, we human beings take “pride” in [...]

You Will NOT Get Back Your Ex Doing THIS

You Will NOT Get Back Your Ex Doing THIS

Clients have said to me, "I don't understand. I did everything right. I wasn't needy and clingy at all. I didn't contact him/her, he/she contacted me first. I didn't initiate contact, he/she initiated all the contacts. And I never told him/her how I feel, I acted like I didn't care." "So what don't you understand?", I ask. "Why he/she still [...]

10 Signs You’re In A Relationship Vs. Casual Dating

10 Signs You’re In A Relationship Vs. Casual Dating

Question: If you are dating someone for 2 months and then she decides to end things, could this be considered a "break up" ?  We had sex, if that makes any difference. The Love Doctor's Answer: Good question. Now... let's get "sex" out of the way first... (; Some 40 or so years ago, the moment you had sex with someone, you were officially [...]

8 Tips For Instant Natural Sexual Confidence – Pt 2

8 Tips For Instant Natural Sexual Confidence – Pt 2

Continued from Part 1 Sexual charisma is like a MAGNET. If you've got it, you'll draw people to you. So how does one get sexual charisma? 1) DEVELOP A SEX-POSITIVE ATTITUDE Unlearn your guilt about your sexual body and sexual desires. Give yourself the permission to really celebrate what you have inside of yourself and develop the [...]

Why He/She Treats You Like You Are NOT Special

Why He/She Treats You Like You Are NOT Special

Question: You write in one of your articles that “we teach people how they treat us”. I somehow get what it means but do not know how it relates to my love life. I’ve been in several relationships but all ended because I felt that I was doing all the work in the relationship with not much input from the men. What hurt me most is that the [...]

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