Friday October 24th 2014

‘Mind Games’ Archives

4 Types of Exes Easier To Get Back (Part. 1)

4 Types of Exes Easier To Get Back (Part. 1)

There so many factors that determine whether or not two people CAN or WILL get back together after breaking up. The most important one of course being whether your ex still loves you, or not. But as discussed in many of my articles and eBook, one person can love another very much, but still not want to be in a relationship with that [...]

The “Rules” and Playing Mind Games With Men

The “Rules” and Playing Mind Games With Men

You’ve heard them; don’t approach him first, don’t flirt, don’t look friendly, don’t pick up the phone when he calls, wait four days before you call him back, never ever accept spontaneous invitations, act like you’re not interested, don’t show him you like him, don’t let him hold your hand until on the third date, don’t [...]

8 Simple Rules For Contacting Your Ex

8 Simple Rules For Contacting Your Ex

When trying to get your ex back, acting aggressive, needy, pushy, angry or irrational, especially at the onset of the process is usually unwise: emotions flare up, problems multiply and smaller problems become much larger problems. What may have been manageable at the beginning becomes much more intractable. Below are 8 rules for contacting [...]

How To Maintain Contact Without Scaring Off Your Ex Ex (Pt. 2)

How To Maintain Contact Without Scaring Off Your Ex Ex (Pt. 2)

In Part 1 (I highly recommend you read it before continuing to Pt. 2), I explained that: 1. There is nothing wrong with wanting to contact your ex, or even wanting to spend time with him/her. 2. What scares off an ex who still wants to be in contact with you is NOT that you are contacting him/her. What scares your ex is the unhealthy and [...]

If You Love Someone Should You Tell Them?

If You Love Someone Should You Tell Them?

Some of you will say "Yes. absolutely". But most of you will probably say, "No! It'll scare them way." There is an open "secret" out there which says if you tell someone how you feel, it'll drive them away. So everyone is holding their feelings close to the chest, literally. But guess what? The very people holding tightly on to their feelings [...]

6 Psychological Reasons People Use No Contact

6 Psychological Reasons People Use No Contact

This post  is inspired by a comment on my post “What Do You Do When Your Ex Is Playing Mind Games?” HowToGetOverYourEx wrote: "I’ve said it and will say it again no contact is a mind game. Many say they’re using it to heal but secretly they’re hoping it’ll make an ex want to come back. I’ve confronted some of them directly [...]

You Are NOT Needy and Clingy If…

You Are NOT Needy and Clingy If…

Many of us do not know that we are needy and clingy, let alone can accept that we are. If anyone even remotely suggested that we are needy or cling, we'd get defensive about it. But if your desire to get closer to someone only makes the other person want distance, chances are you are needy and clingy. You may not be needy all the time and to [...]

How To Make Yourself Special To Someone

How To Make Yourself Special To Someone

When it comes to relationships, there will always be another man or woman waiting to take your place. That's something you have no control over. The secret to making sure that you remain the man or woman he or she wants to  be with is to set yourself apart as one-of-a-kind. Whether one admits it or not, we human beings take “pride” in [...]

How Open Are You To Receiving His/Her Love?

How Open Are You To Receiving His/Her Love?

Many of you reading my articles may have noticed that I rarely talk about my personal or private life. One, I'm a sort of a introvert-extrovert (if there is such a thing), and two, I try as much as possible not to let "me" get in the way of my trying to help others. But once in a while, after hearing about the personal struggles of my clients [...]

What To Do When Your Ex Is Playing Mind Games

What To Do When Your Ex Is Playing Mind Games

A client asked me the other day, “What would you do if your ex was playing mind games?” The “Love Coach” in me wanted to go straight to “advice mode” but then I remembered that I wasn’t always a love doctor. There was a time in my life when I did some things that were not so “loving”, and I write about this in my Dating Your [...]

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