Monday April 27th 2015

‘Mind Games’ Archives

8 Signs Your Ex Does NOT Want You Back

8 Signs Your Ex Does NOT Want You Back

If you still love your ex and there is a possibility that you might get back together, my advice is to do everything within your power to get back your ex. This is not an easy task, and those trying to get their ex back know that it's a dance of two steps forward and one step back. In these times, persistence and having a good plan pays off big [...]

Will No Contact Make Your Ex Miss You?

Will No Contact Make Your Ex Miss You?

Comment: Yangki, I think that No Contact works if you wait long enough for both you and your ex to remember the good times at the beginning of your relationship, more easily than you remember the bad times at the end. Like John, I acted very needy and desperate at the end and she threatened to report me to the authorities if I didn't stop [...]

Rebound Sex Or Revenge Sex?

Rebound Sex Or Revenge Sex?

While having sex to cope with a break-up, get over an ex, or get back at an ex is popular advice given to dumpees, researchers at the University of Missouri point out that it's not always beneficial. Using a longitudinal study, researchers over the course of eight months interviewed 170 college students who had gone through a recent breakup. [...]

10 Signs Of A Loser Mentality [Relationship Killers]

10 Signs Of A Loser Mentality [Relationship Killers]

I happen to believe that we all are good "enough" just the way we are. Sure, we all have room to improve and be better human beings, partners, lovers, etc. but deep life changing transformation begins with recognizing that we were never meant to be perfect. However, "loser" does describe a certain mentality that men and women bring to a date, [...]

The “Rules” and Playing Mind Games With Men

The “Rules” and Playing Mind Games With Men

You’ve heard them; don’t approach him first, don’t flirt, don’t look friendly, don’t pick up the phone when he calls, wait four days before you call him back, never ever accept spontaneous invitations, act like you’re not interested, don’t show him you like him, don’t let him hold your hand until on the third date, don’t [...]

3 Ways Being Friends Can Get Back Your Ex

3 Ways Being Friends Can Get Back Your Ex

You've all read it somewhere: "Don't be friends with your ex", and many of you have probably told your ex "we can't be friends" because you think that being friends with your ex will ruin your chances of getting back together. There is truth to all the above statements. Some people are just too toxic together, even as friends. And if you don't [...]

Read This If You Suspect Your Ex Is A Narcissist

Read This If You Suspect Your Ex Is A Narcissist

Have you noticed that men and women who are overly self-absorbed, aggressive, forceful, opinionated, love the sound of their own voice and have an air of superiority simply because they have good looks, success, skill or "luck" in a particular area of life populate the ranks of frustrated singles, unhappy spouses and loners, while average looking [...]

Why Your Ex’s Mixed Signals Can Be A Good Thing

Why Your Ex’s Mixed Signals Can Be A Good Thing

Trying to get your ex back is a difficult process -- no question about it. One of the most difficult things is dealing with the inconsistent and sometimes contracting information or signals from your ex. For example: After the break-up your ex says that the two of you can be "just friends", but then adds that you should not expect anything more [...]

4 Must-Dos Before You Give Up On Your Ex – Pt 3

4 Must-Dos Before You Give Up On Your Ex – Pt 3

Please read 4 Must-Dos Before You Give Up On Your Ex - Pt 2 to fully appreciate the steps you need to take to get back your ex. 3 - Manage your communications effectively. Your ex not only wants to know that you know what you are doing, he/she wants to be convinced that the relationship will work. He/she wants to know that there will be a [...]

How To Take It Slow And Get Your Ex Back

How To Take It Slow And Get Your Ex Back

Much of the resistance most people trying to get their ex back encounter, or the pulling away they experience from their ex comes from bad timing. The most common timing mistakes are: 1. Pushing too hard, moving too quickly, and getting far ahead of your ex's feelings for you. 2. Asking to get back together when your ex is not [...]

A Simple Change That’ll Transform Your Love Life

A Simple Change That’ll Transform Your Love Life

We know the odds - we've watched our parents, neighbors, grandparents, teachers, ministers, politicians, siblings and relationship coaches divorce - but for some reason we still think we can do things differently. Are we really that optimistic by nature or is it just some ill-fate determined to torture the human race? This is what I found out [...]

How To Do Contact Without Scaring Off Your Ex Ex (Pt. 2)

How To Do Contact Without Scaring Off Your Ex Ex (Pt. 2)

In Part 1 (I highly recommend you read it before continuing to Pt. 2), I explained that: 1. There is nothing wrong with wanting to contact your ex, or even wanting to spend time with him/her. 2. What scares off an ex who still wants to be in contact with you is NOT that you are contacting him/her. What scares your ex is the unhealthy and [...]

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