Sunday November 23rd 2014

‘Mind Games’ Archives

How To Do Contact Without Scaring Off Your Ex (Pt. 1)

How To Do Contact Without Scaring Off Your Ex (Pt. 1)

Will you scare off your ex? The answer is yes... if you are thinking about it constantly. If the thought of contacting your ex or taking any action to get back with your ex brings up fears of driving or pushing him/her further away, you are right to be worried that you will scare and/or push him/her further away. I know it's not the most [...]

Dating A Girl Vs. Dating A Woman [So Spot On]

Dating A Girl Vs. Dating A Woman [So Spot On]

Are you a girl or a woman? Guys, are you dating a girl or a woman? Find Out... so spot on! Girls leave their schedule wide-open and wait for a guy to call and make plans. Grown women make their own plans and nicely tell the guy to get in where he fits in. Girls want to control the man in their life. Grown women know that if he's [...]

Men More Willing To Take Risks When In Love

Men More Willing To Take Risks When In Love

In my article:  Why Do Women Always Fall For The Bad Boy?, I mentioned that one of the most attractive traits of the "Bad Boy" is his ability to take risks -- say what so many men wish they could say, do what so many men are afraid to do and take a woman to places so many men only dream of. And when he loves a woman, he drives her crazy in [...]

Is Your Ex Taking Advantage Of You?

Is Your Ex Taking Advantage Of You?

Question: Yangki, please be honest with me because right now I need someone to be honest with me. When we first met my now ex came across as so loving and caring and would ask about how I feel and be concerned about my health and well-being. I have some medical issues that are serious. As time went on, I found myself irritated by him being [...]

How To Fight For Your Relationship

How To Fight For Your Relationship

Lately, I've been getting more and more emails from men and women who say my advice has helped them move things to a point where they are in regular contact with their ex, and things even seem to be heading towards getting back together. But for some unknown reason, their ex is still confused about how they feel and what they want. Many of the [...]

5 Common Signs A Man Or Woman Is Playing You

5 Common Signs A Man Or Woman Is Playing You

Question: I met him on one of my business trips. I’m 43, he’s 34. The chemistry was instant and strong. He asked for my number and he immediately called me. Soon after that we started seeing each other every other every, spending some nights at my place and some nights at his. We both have very busy lives but we always found time to be with [...]

How To Respond To Your Ex’s “No Contact” Rule

How To Respond To Your Ex’s “No Contact” Rule

You decided to end a relationship that was not meeting your needs, was emotionally suffocating, deeply troubled (too many arguments and fights) or simply moving too fast in terms of the level of closeness or commitment you are comfortable with, and the next thing you know - your ex has completely cut you off. They unfriended you, blocked you, [...]

6 Psychological Reasons People Use No Contact

6 Psychological Reasons People Use No Contact

This post  is inspired by a comment on my post “What Do You Do When Your Ex Is Playing Mind Games?” HowToGetOverYourEx wrote: "I’ve said it and will say it again no contact is a mind game. Many say they’re using it to heal but secretly they’re hoping it’ll make an ex want to come back. I’ve confronted some of them directly [...]

How To Do Contact Without Scaring Off Your Ex Ex (Pt. 2)

How To Do Contact Without Scaring Off Your Ex Ex (Pt. 2)

In Part 1 (I highly recommend you read it before continuing to Pt. 2), I explained that: 1. There is nothing wrong with wanting to contact your ex, or even wanting to spend time with him/her. 2. What scares off an ex who still wants to be in contact with you is NOT that you are contacting him/her. What scares your ex is the unhealthy and [...]

The “Rules” and Playing Mind Games With Men

The “Rules” and Playing Mind Games With Men

You’ve heard them; don’t approach him first, don’t flirt, don’t look friendly, don’t pick up the phone when he calls, wait four days before you call him back, never ever accept spontaneous invitations, act like you’re not interested, don’t show him you like him, don’t let him hold your hand until on the third date, don’t [...]

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