Monday September 1st 2014

‘Mind Games’ Archives

How To Get Your Ex To Start Initiating Contact

How To Get Your Ex To Start Initiating Contact

After receiving many comments and email questions asking if "limited contact" is the same as "pressure-free contact" (which I advocate in my eBook Dating Your Ex), I thought it best to write a brief post to explain the difference. First of all the two are not the same. 1. Quantity vs. Quality Limited Contact (LC) is about quantity. [...]

3 Key Behaviours That Earn Your Ex’s Trust – Pt 3

3 Key Behaviours That Earn Your Ex’s Trust – Pt 3

Continued from - Pt. 2 3. Consistency I always advice my clients not to be too concerned about whether an ex responds to a text, email or call immediately or responds a week later, but to look at the consistency of their positions as this is a better indicator of whether you are making progress - or being played. Whether or not someone [...]

10 Mistakes To Avoid If You Want Your Ex Back

10 Mistakes To Avoid If You Want Your Ex Back

If you still have strong feelings for your ex, it's only natural to want to fight to get him or her back. But contrary to what you might think, getting your ex to contact you, respond to your text/call, or even go out with you is not the hardest part of getting your ex back. The hardest part is making sure things start of with a better [...]

4 Steps – Maintaining Contact Without Scaring Off Your Ex (Pt. 2)

4 Steps – Maintaining Contact Without Scaring Off Your Ex (Pt. 2)

In Part 1 (I highly recommend you read it before continuing to Pt. 2), I explained that: 1. There is nothing wrong with wanting to contact your ex, or even wanting to spend time with him/her. 2. What scares off an ex who still wants to be in contact with you is NOT that you are contacting him/her. What scares your ex is the unhealthy and [...]

Why Experts Are Wrong About Giving Your Ex Space

Why Experts Are Wrong About Giving Your Ex Space

Question: Yangki, I've read many of your articles and you seem to advocate not giving your ex space. Why is that? Almost all experts say giving someone space is healthy for all relationships. I just wonder what you base your advice on? The Love Doctor's Answer: If you read my articles more carefully, you will actually see that I'm all for [...]

Woman On Woman – Why Men Love Girl Catfights

Woman On Woman – Why Men Love Girl Catfights

Meow! Catfights are part of the feline charm -- or so they say. Keeping up with the slinky charm, I can be catty when the mood is right. But I'd rather go at it with the guys than with the girls. Why the preference? Guys go for the kill. Girls on the other hand, scratch, slap, pull hair and run away. Then they come back and scratch, slap, pull [...]

Sending and Picking Up Sexual Signals

Sending and Picking Up Sexual Signals

Have you ever had a friend describe a really "hot" blind date to you, and you get all excited and eager to meet this wonder person only to come face to face with the person and zero, nothing, no sparks. The person is all that, but you are just not digging him/her. Or found yourself so powerfully attracted to someone with whom you have nothing [...]

Communicating With Your Ex Post Break-Up – Pt 2

Communicating With Your Ex Post Break-Up – Pt 2

Click here to read Pt 1 Building a strong emotional bond goes beyond "good communication skills". Building a strong emotional bond is about emotional intimacy. Intimacy! Now, that's a word that scares many of us, including the "experts". Why? Because you can't talk about "intimacy" without talking about vulnerability and the possibility [...]

Make Someone Fall In Love In 30 Minutes or Less!

Make Someone Fall In Love In 30 Minutes or Less!

Yeah-right! If you clicked on this article hoping to find magic words to say to make someone instantly fall in love with you, or some kind of love spell to cast on that not-so-interested man or woman, I am sorry to disappoint you. I am old school on this one: You can't hurry love. No, you just have to wait. Love don't come easy. It's a game [...]

Read This If You Suspect Your Ex Is A Narcissist

Read This If You Suspect Your Ex Is A Narcissist

Have you noticed that men and women who are overly self-absorbed, aggressive, forceful, opinionated, love the sound of their own voice and have an air of superiority simply because they have good looks, success, skill or "luck" in a particular area of life populate the ranks of frustrated singles, unhappy spouses and loners, while average looking [...]

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