Tuesday July 22nd 2014

‘Mind Games’ Archives

The Average Time It Takes To Get Back Your Ex

The Average Time It Takes To Get Back Your Ex

Whenever I'm asked, "How long does it take to get my ex back?", my heart sinks. Why? Because every time we try to make love work in a specific way, at a specific time, in a specific sequence, it’s almost always certain that it’ll backfire on us -- and I can't tell you how many times I've seen it backfire on so many men and women. You can [...]

Why Women Call And Text Men

Why Women Call And Text Men

There was once a time when men were expected to make the first moves in courtship, but research suggests it is now women who take the lead, relentlessly pursuing lovers with phone calls and texts. A study of mobile phone traffic indicates that women are more intent than men on having a romantic relationship. "It's the first really strong [...]

Should You Tell Your Ex You Want Him/Her Back?

Should You Tell Your Ex You Want Him/Her Back?

If you want to successfully get back your ex, timing is extremely important. In my article, "How To Take It Slow And Get Your Ex Back", I highlighted the need to constantly ask yourself "Do my ex's words and actions show that he/she feels for me the way I feel for him/her?" Asking yourself this question is one way of making sure that you are [...]

What To Do When Your Ex Is Playing Mind Games

What To Do When Your Ex Is Playing Mind Games

A client asked me the other day, “What would you do if your ex was playing mind games?” The “Love Coach” in me wanted to go straight to “advice mode” but then I remembered that I wasn’t always a love doctor. There was a time in my life when I did some things that were not so “loving”, and I write about this in my Dating Your [...]

What To Do When You Can’t Fix Your Relationship

What To Do When You Can’t Fix Your Relationship

Love is not supposed to hurt and relationships were never designed for us to suffer or struggle. But why do many of us struggle with relationships? When you fall in love, you want to believe that a loving connection will always be present in your relationship. You want the good times to last forever, but when the other person does not [...]

Cheater Alert: That Friend Isn’t Just A Friend

Cheater Alert: That Friend Isn’t Just A Friend

Oct. 2, 2013 — New research by Albright College associate professor of psychology Susan Hughes, Ph.D., has found that men and women alter their voices when speaking to lovers versus friends and that such variations can potentially be used to detect infidelity. "It's not just that we change the sound of our voice, but that others can easily [...]

What To Do When Your Ex Is Sending Mixed Signals

What To Do When Your Ex Is Sending Mixed Signals

Trying to get your ex back is a difficult process -- no question about it. One of the most difficult things is dealing with the inconsistent and sometimes contracting information or signals from your ex. For example: After the break-up your ex says that the two of you can be "just friends", but then adds that you should not expect anything more [...]

Why It’s Taking Too Long To Get Back Your Ex – Pt. 1

Why It’s Taking Too Long To Get Back Your Ex – Pt. 1

This is probably the kind of article you will not enjoy reading because it's not about how many contacts you should be having with your ex, or what "right words" to say to your ex to make him/her take you back. And if you are one of "those people" who believes that others are responsible for the way you feel, for what they make you do, and for [...]

Do Guys Lose Interest If You Reveal Too Much?

Do Guys Lose Interest If You Reveal Too Much?

Question: I read your blog: The "Rules" and Playing Dating Mind Games. While I agree with some things you say, I do not think that women should be open and forthcoming in the first few dates. I’ve been out on great first few dates with a number of great guys but nothing that lasted for more than 3- 4 dates. The last guy I went out with was [...]

Does My Girlfriend Want To Break Up With Me?

Does My Girlfriend Want To Break Up With Me?

Question: Love Doctor I really need your help. Lately my girlfriend of four months and I have been having some relationship problems. It began when I complained that she was spending too much time at work during the week and wanting to hang out with her friends more than she does with me. Looking back, may be I should not have complained but I [...]

 Page 1 of 16  1  2  3  4  5 » ...  Last »