Thursday July 31st 2014

‘Mind Games’ Archives

Does My Ex Really Want Me Back?

Does My Ex Really Want Me Back?

Question: My ex wants me back after 6 months of no contact. No phone-calls, no e-mails, no nothing. I tried contacting her a couple of times but no response. I assumed she had moved on and worked hard to moving on with my life. I even met someone but we are not serious, just seeing each other once in a while. I loved my ex very much and still [...]

Have You Dumped This Guy? [Me Too!]

Have You Dumped This Guy? [Me Too!]

He opened the door to a sparsely furnished one bedroom apartment. It was clean, tidy and smelt good, but it was obvious -- this was a guy of very modest means. I was raised dirt poor and material things have never been an issue with me (owning two pairs of shoes, and eating three meals a day is "living rich" as far as I am concerned), but I was [...]

Communicating With Your Ex Post Break-Up – Pt 1

Communicating With Your Ex Post Break-Up – Pt 1

"Communication problems" seems to be the catch-all phrase for every relationship problem, and is often sighted as the main cause of the collapse of many relationships. I'm the first to admit that we relationship counselors, therapists and coaches are partly responsible for this. Many of us become "experts" with no or very little training in [...]

The Secret Reason Your Ex Is Mean To You

The Secret Reason Your Ex Is Mean To You

Some break-ups are amicable and others are so nass-teey. Some people stay friends after a breakup, and others want to forget they ever knew each other's name. Then there are exes that say you are going to remain friends, but then they start acting really cold and mean? S/he sees you and quickly walks away or ignores you altogether, or s/he [...]

4 Must-Dos Before You Give Up On Your Ex – Pt 1

4 Must-Dos Before You Give Up On Your Ex – Pt 1

I receive so many blog questions, and also work with so many men and women who are in relationships where on an average day, they fluctuate between should I stay or should I go, should I fight for him/her or should I give up. One day they write me telling me they do not think the relationship is going any where, they are not happy, they do not [...]

4 Reasons To Maintain Contact With Your Ex

4 Reasons To Maintain Contact With Your Ex

Communication is one of the top causes, if not, "the" top cause of break-ups. It's no surprise that "communicating with your ex" is one of the biggest challenges post break-up-- and also the most polarizing when it comes to how to get one's ex back. Some people believe no communication will make their ex miss them and want to come back. Others, [...]

Why Love Always, Always Comes Back

Why Love Always, Always Comes Back

A client who had played mind games with her boyfriend was talking about how much she regrets what she had done and how she wishes she could take it back when out of no where she asked me "Do you believe in karma?" I didn't know exactly where she was going with the question, so I said, "Explain karma?" She said "Karma... like in if you do [...]

How Open Are You To Receiving His/Her Love?

How Open Are You To Receiving His/Her Love?

Many of you reading my articles may have noticed that I rarely talk about my personal or private life. One, I'm a sort of a introvert-extrovert (if there is such a thing), and two, I try as much as possible not to let "me" get in the way of my trying to help others. But once in a while, after hearing about the personal struggles of my clients [...]

15 Self-Help Practices That’ll Get Back Your Ex – Pt. 1

15 Self-Help Practices That’ll Get Back Your Ex – Pt. 1

Brains left a comment on my post: How To Stop Over Analyzing Your Relationship... "I tend to over analyze things but that is because I want to understand it and be able to come up with a sensible solution. I don't see anything wrong with that". I responded with: "You don't see anything wrong because there is nothing wrong if your analysis [...]

Why You Still Can’t Get Over Your Ex – Pt. 1

Why You Still Can’t Get Over Your Ex – Pt. 1

Does contact with an ex you still have feelings for prevent you from moving on? Most people will say, YES! Being too close or spending time with an ex prevents you from moving on. The best thing to do if you want to move on is completely disconnect yourself from your ex and have nothing to do with him/her. But as many of you have found [...]

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