Saturday August 1st 2015

‘Mind Games’ Archives

Why She Left You For Another Guy [Pt. 4]

Why She Left You For Another Guy [Pt. 4]

Continued from Pt. 3. Boredom can kill a relationship faster than you can say “Honey, what's wrong?" It doesn't matter that you think the person shouldn't be bored, if she (or he) is bored, there'll be no "happiness" for you either. A bored partner, if you're open minded, not only puts your stagnation into its proper perspective, they also [...]

Dating A Girl Vs. Dating A Woman [So Spot On]

Dating A Girl Vs. Dating A Woman [So Spot On]

Are you a girl or a woman? Guys, are you dating a girl or a woman? Find Out...! Girls leave their schedule wide-open and wait for a guy to call and make plans. Grown women make their own plans and nicely tell the guy to get in where he fits in. Girls want to control the man in their life. Grown women know that if he's truly hers, he [...]

Who Should Initiate Contact – Dumper Or Dumpee?

Who Should Initiate Contact – Dumper Or Dumpee?

Shouldn't the dumper be the one to initiate contact? I get asked this question quite a lot, and thought a longer response might help clarify a few things. Although I've often used the words "dumper" and "dumpee" myself, I'm convinced that "dumper" and "dumpee" labels oversimplify the break-up and reconciliation process. "Dumper" and [...]

Why Experts Are Wrong About Giving Your Ex Space

Why Experts Are Wrong About Giving Your Ex Space

Question: Yangki, I've read many of your articles and you seem to advocate not giving your ex space. Why is that? Almost all experts say giving someone space is healthy for all relationships. I just wonder what you base your advice on? The Love Doctor's Answer: If you read my articles more carefully, you will actually see that I'm all for [...]

How Soon Is Too Soon To Say “I Love You!”

How Soon Is Too Soon To Say “I Love You!”

The exchange of the words "I love you" mark a big milestones in any relationship.  But both men and women sometimes find it difficult to say "I love you" because they are afraid of what the other might say. A client told me he had tried many times to say the words but somehow could not bring himself to say them. When he finally said "I love [...]

Do Guys Lose Interest If You Reveal Too Much?

Do Guys Lose Interest If You Reveal Too Much?

Question: I read your blog: The "Rules" and Playing Dating Mind Games. While I agree with some things you say, I do not think that women should be open and forthcoming in the first few dates. I’ve been out on great first few dates with a number of great guys but nothing that lasted for more than 3- 4 dates. The last guy I went out with was [...]

Building Emotional Momentum With Your Ex

Building Emotional Momentum With Your Ex

Continued from: Risking Too Much With Low Contact... If you are frustrated because of clicking "continue reading"... you are not getting this emotional momentum thing. You might as well just skip the next part. You just won't get it. For the rest of you who are really "getting it"... continuity in your conversations is the key to emotional [...]

FaceBook or Online Affair Is Just As Devastating

FaceBook or Online Affair Is Just As Devastating

Researchers at Texas Tech University have found that although the stages of coping with online infidelity are unique, the infidelity itself creates similar emotional experiences for the partner who was cheated on. "This is very important because there is a line of thought that if the infidelity was discovered online, or confined to online [...]

He Just Got Scared… and Dumped You!

He Just Got Scared… and Dumped You!

When you spend more than half of your day listening to men and women talk about their relationships, you start to see things a little differently from the average man or woman, who for the most part only hears or sees one side of the story. So when I hear "men are intimidated by a successful woman" blanket statement, I'm like, "what a load of [...]

Should You Ask About Your Partner’s Sexual Past

Should You Ask About Your Partner’s Sexual Past

Every man or woman at one time or the other has to deal with this sticky situation. Should you ask, how do you ask, when is the best time to ask -- and if you are asked about your sexual past, how much should you tell. Given the way things are today, a significant number of the men and women who enter relationships bring sexual histories into [...]

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