‘Distance Relationships’ Archives
Why She Doesn’t Want To Talk To You
One of my very favourite pastimes is watch people interact with each other. The other day, I was at a party and saw this really gorgeous woman flash an enticing smile in the direction on a group of guys looking at her as she walked in. A few minutes later, a well-dressed guy, a drink in hand, sauntered over to the woman and said “Hi”. I was [...]
Why “Bad Girls” Get The Men “Good Girls” Want
One of the biggest mistakes that many women make with men is WAITING for him to make the first move. But while you are waiting, some other proactive woman has snatched him right from under your watch. Even worse the men who "make the move" on you are those you wish would not -- those who make you feel insulted just because they approached you. But [...]
Self-Sabotage – Why Your Ex Is Resisting You
At some point in our relationships, all of us meet resistance and all of us have “rough patches.” Most rough patches occur when some apparent difference arises between what we want and what we have, or what we want to happen and what is actually happening. When this happens, it’s almost natural to always think the other person is the [...]
My Ex Thinks We’re Friends But I Want Him Back
Question: Thank you so much for your honest and direct approach. My ex and I broke up 6 months ago, we were together for 3 years. The first two months were hard for both of us but after many talks we agreed to being friends. We were good friends before dating and we both wanted to preserve the friendship. We talk every other day and get along [...]
When Does a Friend Become a Romantic Interest?
Question: I recently met a guy on an online dating site. We chatted for three weeks and in all that time not once did I feel that butterflies in the stomach feeling. When he told me he was going to call me, two days before we spoke for the first time, I forgot about it until the phone rang. He said he was nervous but I was as calm as can be. When [...]
Are You Difficult To Love or Easy To Love?
One of the things I love about what I do is the sheer number of people I come in contact with on a daily basis. Most people who seek my help are mostly hurting people but even in their hurt, it’s so easy to spot men and women who are so easy to love and like, and those that one has to really struggle to like. The difference between easy to [...]
Why Your Ex Thinks You’re Needy And Clingy
If the person you are in a relationship with says "I need some space" or "I need time to find myself" or "Let's just be friends" or "We should see other people" or "Don't call me, I'll call you" or anything that suggests they are trying to pull away, it doesn't always mean they no longer love you. It usually means you're acting needy and being [...]
Is It a “Break-Up” If You Dated For Only 2 Months?
Question: If you are dating someone for 2 months and then she decides to end things, could this be considered a "break up" ? We had sex, if that makes any difference. The Love Doctor's Answer: Good question. Now... let's get "sex" out of the way first... ): Some 20 or so years ago, the moment you had sex with someone, you were officially [...]
Why Maintaining Contact With Your Ex Is Crucial
Communication is one of if not "the" top cause of break-ups. It's no surprise that "communicating with your ex" is one of the biggest challenges post break-up-- and also the most polarizing when it comes to how to get one's ex back. Some people believe no communication will make their ex miss them and want to come back. Others, like myself, [...]
Why Women Call And Text Men, Study Finds
There was once a time when men were expected to make the moves in courtship but research suggests it is now women who take the lead, relentlessly pursuing lovers with phone calls and texts. A study of mobile phone traffic indicates that women are more intent than men on having a romantic relationship. "It's the first really strong evidence [...]
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