Friday February 3rd 2012

‘Distance Relationships’ Archives

How Can I Make My Boyfriend Physically Attracted To Me?

How Can I Make My Boyfriend Physically Attracted To Me?

Question: I know this sounds crazy. My boyfriend is not physically attracted to me. We met on an internet dating site. Our first in person was in a coffee shop and as soon as I drove up to meet him he gave me this terribly disapproving look. I immediately felt unattractive and inadequate although I’m in great shape and dress attractively. I was [...]

Why Just Sending Your Ex Texts Is Not Enough

Why Just Sending Your Ex Texts Is Not Enough

If you've been reading my blog and have my eBooks, by now you know I'm all for keeping contact with your ex, if you want him or her back. You cut off contact you cut the connection. Trying to recover that connection later on will be much harder than you can imagine. But just mere contact for the sake of contact isn't enough to keep the [...]

Online Dating – Should I Tell Her I Find Her Physically Attractive?

Online Dating – Should I Tell Her I Find Her Physically Attractive?

Question: My situation is complicated. We met online and had planned to meet for the first time next month. But from the start I noticed that she kept putting herself down about her “looks”.  At first I thought she was trying not to raise my expectations too high, but then she kept doing it constantly. I tried to ignore it but the more she [...]

Are You Difficult To Love or Easy To Love?

Are You Difficult To Love or Easy To Love?

One of the things I love about what I do is the sheer number of people I come in contact with on a daily basis. Most people who seek my help are mostly hurting people but even in their hurt, it’s so easy to spot men and women who are so easy to love and like, and those that one has to really struggle to like. The difference between easy to [...]

An Ex Is An Ex For A Reason And THE Reason Is…

An Ex Is An Ex For A Reason And THE Reason Is…

At some point in our relationships, all of us meet resistance and all of us have “rough patches.”  Most rough patches occur when some apparent difference arises between what we want and what we have, or what we want to happen and what is actually happening. When this happens, it’s almost natural to always think the other person is the [...]

My Ex Thinks We’re Friends But I Want Him Back

My Ex Thinks We’re Friends But I Want Him Back

Question: Thank you so much for your honest and direct approach. My ex and I broke up 6 months ago, we were together for 3 years. The first two months were hard for both of us but after many talks we agreed to being friends. We were good friends before dating and we both wanted to preserve the friendship. We talk every other day and get along [...]