Wednesday July 30th 2014

‘Moving On’ Archives

Communicating With Your Ex Post Break-Up – Pt 1

Communicating With Your Ex Post Break-Up – Pt 1

"Communication problems" seems to be the catch-all phrase for every relationship problem, and is often sighted as the main cause of the collapse of many relationships. I'm the first to admit that we relationship counselors, therapists and coaches are partly responsible for this. Many of us become "experts" with no or very little training in [...]

The Secret Reason Your Ex Is Mean To You

The Secret Reason Your Ex Is Mean To You

Some break-ups are amicable and others are so nass-teey. Some people stay friends after a breakup, and others want to forget they ever knew each other's name. Then there are exes that say you are going to remain friends, but then they start acting really cold and mean? S/he sees you and quickly walks away or ignores you altogether, or s/he [...]

4 Must-Dos Before You Give Up On Your Ex – Pt 1

4 Must-Dos Before You Give Up On Your Ex – Pt 1

I receive so many blog questions, and also work with so many men and women who are in relationships where on an average day, they fluctuate between should I stay or should I go, should I fight for him/her or should I give up. One day they write me telling me they do not think the relationship is going any where, they are not happy, they do not [...]

Why Love Always, Always Comes Back

Why Love Always, Always Comes Back

A client who had played mind games with her boyfriend was talking about how much she regrets what she had done and how she wishes she could take it back when out of no where she asked me "Do you believe in karma?" I didn't know exactly where she was going with the question, so I said, "Explain karma?" She said "Karma... like in if you do [...]

Why You Still Can’t Get Over Your Ex – Pt. 1

Why You Still Can’t Get Over Your Ex – Pt. 1

Does contact with an ex you still have feelings for prevent you from moving on? Most people will say, YES! Being too close or spending time with an ex prevents you from moving on. The best thing to do if you want to move on is completely disconnect yourself from your ex and have nothing to do with him/her. But as many of you have found [...]

15 Self-Help Practices That’ll Get Back Your Ex – Pt. 1

15 Self-Help Practices That’ll Get Back Your Ex – Pt. 1

Brains left a comment on my post: How To Stop Over Analyzing Your Relationship... "I tend to over analyze things but that is because I want to understand it and be able to come up with a sensible solution. I don't see anything wrong with that". I responded with: "You don't see anything wrong because there is nothing wrong if your analysis [...]

Why You Should Forgive Already

Why You Should Forgive Already

Forgiveness has been on my mind lately. No, I am not hurting. And I have forgiven all I need to forgive, and hopefully have been forgiven for all the wrongs I've done to others. Hearing about and seeing so many relationships destroyed by emotional hurt and so many good and loving people kept apart by the struggle to forgive the other, may be the [...]

What Your Ex Was Too Afraid To Tell You

What Your Ex Was Too Afraid To Tell You

Ever had someone break-up with you, and although they said it was "the reason" for the break-up, somewhere deep inside you knew there was more to it? Well, I've been in this field long enough (probably too long) and I've heard it all. It's not always what they tell you it is... but you probably already knew that, didn't you? Let's tell it [...]

Why Is My Ex So Cold Towards Me?

Why Is My Ex So Cold Towards Me?

Question: Me and my ex boyfriend of 2 years are both in our late 30s. Everything was good and then he became very moody, started ignoring me, got upset with me for no reason and wouldn’t talk to me. When I asked him what was going on he told me he didn’t want to be with me anymore. I was completely devastated and asked him why. He told me he [...]

Can You Tell Who Is Less Likely To Betray You?

Can You Tell Who Is Less Likely To Betray You?

Intelligent people are more likely to trust others, while those who score lower on measures of intelligence are less likely to do so, says a new study. Researchers based their finding on an analysis of the General Social Survey, a nationally representative public opinion survey carried out in the United States every one to two years. The [...]

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