Thursday July 30th 2015

‘Moving On’ Archives

Why Does My Ex Text When I Stop Texting Her?

Why Does My Ex Text When I Stop Texting Her?

Question: My ex dumped me almost a year to the day, but we continued to be friends. Two weeks ago, she stopped responding to my texts. I called her and she called back 2 days later. I asked if we were okay and she said we were okay. But when I texted her later she did not respond. I sent another text the next day and no response. I assumed she [...]

A Lesson On Love Worth Learning

A Lesson On Love Worth Learning

A fable about a young pup and a very old dog conveys a lesson on love worth learning. Every day the pup chased his tail frantically while the old dog watched with lazy amusement. The pup wanted the old dog to be his friend but the wise old dog just told him to come back when he knew who he was and what he wanted. The pup continued to spend so [...]

4 Ways to Move On After a Break-Up

4 Ways to Move On After a Break-Up

Whilst breaking up is hard for everyone regardless of whether you've been going out for one week, one month or one year, how we chooses to move on after the break up is different for each individual, and for each relationship. Personally, I do not think there is one best decision that works for everyone. I've seen one decision that worked for [...]

On-And-Off Again Relationship – Time To Give Up?

On-And-Off Again Relationship – Time To Give Up?

I receive email questions from men and women, young and old, and from all walks of life who are in a relationship that on-again and off-again. Both people are in some ways hurting each other but the attraction and chemistry is so strong that they can’t imagine life without the other. It is as if they're locked in what I call “madness for [...]

Communicating With Your Ex Post Break-Up – Pt 2

Communicating With Your Ex Post Break-Up – Pt 2

Click here to read Pt 1 Building a strong emotional bond goes beyond "good communication skills". Building a strong emotional bond is about emotional intimacy. Intimacy! Now, that's a word that scares many of us, including the "experts". Why? Because you can't talk about "intimacy" without talking about vulnerability and the possibility [...]

Are Women Too Picky Or Choosing More Carefully?

Are Women Too Picky Or Choosing More Carefully?

A friend sent me a link to Lori Gottlieb article in wowowow.com. Just in case you’re wondering what all the wowos mean, it’s a women on the Web website. The article is a recap of her new book which reveals why you may be wrong about Mr. Right. Ms. Gottlieb writes, “You can’t just order up the perfect husband á la carte. I’ll take a [...]

Don’t Believe Everything Your Ex Says On Facebook

Don’t Believe Everything Your Ex Says On Facebook

Question: Ever since we broke up over 2mos ago, my ex has been posting love quotes on her status updates. Most of them are about moving on and loving again. I haven't posted anything on Facebook about her or the breakup. So yesterday she posts something about never being more in love this time round. Well, it's been only 3 weeks since we broke up. [...]

10 Signs You Are Obsessed With Your Ex

10 Signs You Are Obsessed With Your Ex

If you are here reading this, chances are you still have strong feelings for your ex, and want him or her back. I'm the first one to say, if you still love someone, then fight for your relationship. Too many people give up just because getting your ex back is hard. But sometimes, we hold onto someone or something for all the wrong reasons. And [...]

10 Silly Mind Games Your Ex Is Playing

10 Silly Mind Games Your Ex Is Playing

A mind or mental game is nothing more than good old manipulation to get you to do what someone wants you to do, but suspects or knows that you will not do willingly or unreservedly -- and for good reason. The whole purpose is to try to mess with your otherwise sane and reasonable head. Here is the thing: If it feels like a mind game, it [...]

Why You Still Can’t Get Over Your Ex – Pt. 3

Why You Still Can’t Get Over Your Ex – Pt. 3

Continued from Pt 2... Until you have been THERE -- stripped of knowing, of having and of labels (friend, boy/girlfriend, partner, fiance/fiancée, husband/wife etc), you will always have a hard time letting go of what you think you have. You will always have a hard time letting go what you think you know (beliefs, opinions, views, thoughts, [...]

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