Friday August 28th 2015

‘Moving On’ Archives

Will Absence Make Your Ex’s Heart Grow Fonder?

Will Absence Make Your Ex’s Heart Grow Fonder?

Dee Asked: Hi Yangki!, I’m a first timer on this blog and I have a really serious question: What happened to the saying “Absence makes the heart grow fonder”? The Love Doctor's Response: It is a serious question indeed, thank you for asking...(: I believe so many people have the "Absence makes the heart grow fonder” thing so wrong, [...]

10 Top Indicators You’ll Get Back Your Ex

10 Top Indicators You’ll Get Back Your Ex

Question: I bumped into my ex-girlfriend and she’s even more beautiful than when we were dating. We had a mutual breakup so there were no bad feelings between us. She asked me if I wanted to catch up over coffee and I said yes. We just talked about what we have both been up to, laughed at some old time stories and generally had a great [...]

How To Tell Someone Loves You Or Just Needs You

How To Tell Someone Loves You Or Just Needs You

So many of us use the word "love" when we really mean "need". I have many of my clients who come to me with a broken heart, "I really love him/her" but when we analyze what he or she really means, the person realizes that what they really meant was, "I really need him/her" What's the difference? Have you had crush on or "fallen in love" with [...]

How to Talk to Your Ex About The Break-Up (Pt. 1)

How to Talk to Your Ex About The Break-Up (Pt. 1)

In my article: No.1 Reason You're Not Making Progress With Your Ex, I talked about how trying to explain yourself or reason with your ex instead of addressing/talking to his/her underlying emotions stalls any progress towards reconciliation, and hurts the chances of you getting your ex back. The No.2 main reason why things don't seem to be [...]

No.1 Relationship Mistake Men and Women Make

No.1 Relationship Mistake Men and Women Make

I want to say right from the beginning that I’m one of those people who believes that we don’t “look for and find love" but rather, the love already in us attracts the love of another. But for the sake of this article, I’ll go with the common notion that men and women “look for and find love". Other than the flawed approach to [...]

How Do I Know It’s Time To Move On?

How Do I Know It’s Time To Move On?

Question: Yangki, how do I know it's the right time to give up and move on? I did NC for 5 weeks but felt really bad  because she's a good woman who doesn't deserve to be treated like that, and my family really likes her. Even when I was in NC and my mother was very ill, she went to hospital to visit her and afterwards my whole family thought [...]

Why You Still Can’t Get Over Your Ex – Pt. 1

Why You Still Can’t Get Over Your Ex – Pt. 1

Does contact with an ex you still have feelings for prevent you from moving on? Most people will say, YES! Being too close or spending time with an ex prevents you from moving on. The best thing to do if you want to move on is completely disconnect yourself from your ex and have nothing to do with him/her. But as many of you have found [...]

Rebound Sex Or Revenge Sex?

Rebound Sex Or Revenge Sex?

While having sex to cope with a break-up, get over an ex, or get back at an ex is popular advice given to dumpees, researchers at the University of Missouri point out that it's not always beneficial. Using a longitudinal study, researchers over the course of eight months interviewed 170 college students who had gone through a recent breakup. [...]

Chasing A Fantasy Vs. Attracting Love

Chasing A Fantasy Vs. Attracting Love

What could be more perfect than a man with a touch that can transform even a handshake into a sensual caress; the suave sophisticate who knows all the little romantic cafés and bistros in town; the free spirit who waltzes you to romantic "exotic places" just because he feels like it; a giving man for whom no jewellery, car or house is too [...]

Your Ex’s Perception Of You Is His/Her Perception

Your Ex’s Perception Of You Is His/Her Perception

Many of you who read my articles, blog and eBooks know that I’m not a fan of game-playing, deception, tricks or manipulation. But once in a while I get that one odd person who writes me complaining about my lack of  “a tight game” or “enough tricks” . Such was a case a week ago when I received an email from one very unsatisfied [...]

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