Saturday July 4th 2015

‘Moving On’ Archives

Why You Still Can’t Get Over Your Ex – Pt. 2

Why You Still Can’t Get Over Your Ex – Pt. 2

Continued from Pt. 1 For some of us, staying close to an ex after a break-up is not even an option. Things ended so badly that neither party wants anything to do with the other. But for others, the relationship ended and there is no animosity, yet staying close is a daily struggle. Staying close to an ex after a relationship has ended is [...]

Why It Feels Like Your Ex Has All The Power

Why It Feels Like Your Ex Has All The Power

This is an excerpt from an exchange with a commenter that I thought might be of interest to anyone who thinks that using NC Rule and letting your ex do all the initiating contact somehow transfers "power" back to you. Think again! Commenter: I don't think the author understands the NC rule. NC is not a mind game or a trick. NC is a [...]

Why Love Always, Always Comes Back

Why Love Always, Always Comes Back

A client who had played mind games with her boyfriend was talking about how much she regrets what she had done and how she wishes she could take it back when out of no where she asked me "Do you believe in karma?" I didn't know exactly where she was going with the question, so I said, "Explain karma?" She said "Karma... like in if you do [...]

Having Second Thoughts About Breaking Up?

Having Second Thoughts About Breaking Up?

Question: My ex was shocked and very upset when I broke up with him. He said he had no idea things were that bad. For months I tried to tell him I was not happy with the way things were between us but he always dismissed it and didn't want to talk about the relationship. I finally broke up with him, once I realized how miserable I would [...]

I’m Losing My Boyfriend – What Should I Do Pt.1

I’m Losing My Boyfriend – What Should I Do Pt.1

Question: My boyfriend and I have been together a good 5 years. But the last one and half years have been really hard on both of us. I started to sense that he was checking out of the relationship by noticing small things like I was the only one who called, the only one who made plans for the weekends, the only one who initiated talks on our [...]

When Your Ex Doesn’t Know What She Wants

When Your Ex Doesn’t Know What She Wants

Question: After 1 month of NC and 1 month of limited contact, I successfully got my ex back. We had been broken up for over 6 months. Things were good for about a month but then they started going straight down hill again. She says we just can’t be together and has started dating other guys. But at the same time she says she loves me and cries [...]

Help! I Can’t Get Closure From My Ex

Help! I Can’t Get Closure From My Ex

Question: Me and my ex boyfriend of 2 years are both in our late 30s. Everything was good and then he became very moody, started ignoring me, got upset with me for no reason and wouldn’t talk to me. When I asked him what was going on he told me he didn’t want to be with me anymore. I was completely devastated and asked him why. He told me he [...]

Can I Get Back My Ex If He Lost Feelings For Me?

Can I Get Back My Ex If He Lost Feelings For Me?

Question: My ex and I broke up amicably after dating for a year and a half. We had small fights here and there but in general it was a great relationship. Were each other's best friend. He says that I'm a good person but he lost feelings for me. We broke up before and we tried to make it work, but I could see his heart was not there. He says he [...]

Can I Get Him Back After I Pushed Him Away?

Can I Get Him Back After I Pushed Him Away?

Question: I was doing no contact not because I was playing a game, I was honestly trying to move on. He sent me several texts wondering why I have ignored him but I did not respond. I also know he called because I saw the missed call. But after two months I still wasn't over him, so I sent him a text. I did not say I missed him or anything, just [...]

How To Stop Over Analyzing Your Relationship

How To Stop Over Analyzing Your Relationship

An attractive co-worker or even perfect stranger says “hi” to you and you automatically start obsessing and analyzing every little body language. Why did she touch her hair; what does it mean if she also uncrosses her arms; is there a future for the relationship etc. A guy you’ve gone out with only three times isn’t acting like his [...]

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