Thursday September 9th 2010

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To find someone who will love you for no reason, and to shower that person with reasons, that is the ultimate happiness. ~Robert Brault

‘Jealousy’ Archives

Is There Someone Else in His Life Or Am I Jumping to Wrong Conclusions?

Is There Someone Else in His Life Or Am I Jumping to Wrong Conclusions?

Question: I started seeing this guy a month ago. He says he is falling for me and I really like him. We email back and forth and talk everyday. But this is where it gets tricky. He only calls me during the day at work when I’m busy and only have a few minutes to talk. I’ve told him to call me at home in the evenings or nights, he says he’ll [...]

I Overreacted How Do I Get Her To Trust Me Again?

I Overreacted How Do I Get Her To Trust Me Again?

Question:  She canceled on our date last minute saying there was something she needed to do and would tell me later. I called her friends and discovered she was with her ex. I sent her a text telling her I knew who she was with.  She texted back, “I’ll talk to you later.”   I sent her a text "Why did you not tell me it was him?" No [...]

How Facebook May Be Ruining Your Relationship

How Facebook May Be Ruining Your Relationship

As if maintaining a relationship isn’t difficult enough, now, human sexuality researcher and PhD candidate at the University of Guelph in Canada, Amy Muise, says Facebook contributes to relationship jealousy reports Discover News. The study, published in the CyberPsychology and Behaviour journal was inspired by stories Muise heard from [...]

She’s My Perfect Woman The Only Problem Is That She’s Married (Dilema)

She’s My Perfect Woman The Only Problem Is That She’s Married (Dilema)

Question: I found my soul mate. She's perfect! Only problem is...she's married.  Every time we say goodbye after a few stolen hours together my heart breaks knowing she is going back to her husband.  The three of us work for the same company.  I can’t move to another state or find another job that pays as good. This little secret is [...]

My Jealousy Is Ruining My Relationship How Can I Control Myself?

My Jealousy Is Ruining My Relationship How Can I Control Myself?

Question: Our relationship started on a strong friendship foundation. There was a real connection. But now we're fighting all the time. I have worked with many therapists to try to control my jealousy but it only gets better for a while then it’s a problem again. Now he does not want to be sexually intimate with me. He says that because of [...]

Why Men Get Jealous Over Sex & Women Over Emotions

Why Men Get Jealous Over Sex & Women Over Emotions

While it has been noted that women cannot digest emotional infidelity and men fail to accept sexual infidelity, new research has suggested that this difference in jealousy goes beyond gender differences.  The researchers said that such differences have more to do with how two people are attached in a relationship. Research has documented that [...]

Can I Ask My Ex If She Is Seeing Someone Else And If She Is What Do I Do?

Can I Ask My Ex If She Is Seeing Someone Else And If She Is What Do I Do?

Question: I am inspired by your answers. I don't know if my situation will work out. We had an informal, non-date dinner where I attempted to find out what is going on in my ex's life. She said she does not want to give me false hope. “You know I am dating again” or "going out on dates", I forget the exact words. My question is: Can I ask her [...]