‘Flirting’ Archives
How To Get Your Man To Behave Selflessly!
Apparently there is a sure-fire way to get your man to behave selflessly. Invite over your attractive friends and few other males... Men put on their best behaviour when attractive ladies are close by. When the scenario is reversed however, the behaviour of women remains the same. These findings were published February 2, 2012, in the [...]
How To Talk Dirty and Seductively Naughty
Some of you who read my article: How A Short Below-Average Looking 40 yo. Man Fails To Attract Beautiful Women wrote to me complaining that the article didn’t go far enough on how to artfully mix being sexual, natural and playful in away that amplifies sexual chemistry and creates sexual attraction. I heard you and will attempt to [...]
Is He Into Me Or Is It Too Early To Tell?
Question: I'm 28 and he's 37. We met at a bar. The chemistry was instant and before long we were talking about things we've never told anyone else. I felt that we made a strong emotional connection and really saw into each other's soul. By the end of the night we were kissing and making out with some heavy petting. We exchanged phone numbers and [...]
Why Men Overestimate Women’s Interest
The more attracted you are, the more likely you are to be wrong about a man or woman's interest, says a new study that will appear in an upcoming issue of Psychological Science, a journal published by the Association for Psychological Science. The study involved 96 male 103 female undergraduates, who were put through a "speed-meeting" exercise [...]
From Seduction To Attraction To A Relationship
One of the most frequesntly asked questions about the art of seduction is why it works for some people and not others. But before I can answer that question, I want to point out that there are two kinds of seduction. The one in which the art of seduction connotes sex appeal or sexual enticement using a specific series of smooth fast talking [...]
Do You Trust Your Gut First Impressions?
First impressions are important, and they usually contain a healthy dose both of accuracy and misperception. But do people know when their first impressions are correct? They do reasonably well, according to a study in the current Social Psychological and Personality Science (published by SAGE). The research team, led by Jeremy Biesanz of the [...]
The Sound Of A Woman In Love – She’s Into You
Flirtation may seem largely visual - the preening, the coy eye contact - but voice plays a role, too. Lowering your voice may be a means of demonstrating attraction, says Susan Hughes, assistant professor of psychology at Albright College in Reading, Pa., in a study, "Vocal and Physiological Changes in Response to the Physical Attractiveness of [...]
How Do I Show Like Him Without Looking Like I’m Chasing Him?
Question: We went out on three dates and he seemed really so into me but I think he lost interest because I acted shy and awkward around him. The last time we went out, he made some remark about sometimes letting my hair down and live a little. The next day we spoke on the phone briefly and since then it’s been two weeks and I’ve not heard [...]
When Does Attraction Become Sexual Attraction?
Question: I recently met a guy on an online dating site. We chatted for three weeks and in all that time not once did I feel that butterflies in the stomach feeling. When he told me he was going to call me, two days before we spoke for the first time, I forgot about it until the phone rang. He said he was nervous but I was as calm as can be. When [...]
“You’re Hot and Sexy” Conversation Starters
It’s so common to hear the words “personality is more important than looks” and I personally have a reputation for touting personality over looks when it comes to choosing a long term partner. That’s not to say that I don’t think physical attraction should play a part in choosing a mate. It makes no sense dating someone you’re not [...]













