Sunday September 21st 2014

‘Flirting’ Archives

Do Guys Lose Interest If You Reveal Too Much?

Do Guys Lose Interest If You Reveal Too Much?

Question: I read your blog: The "Rules" and Playing Dating Mind Games. While I agree with some things you say, I do not think that women should be open and forthcoming in the first few dates. I’ve been out on great first few dates with a number of great guys but nothing that lasted for more than 3- 4 dates. The last guy I went out with was [...]

From Seduction To Attraction To A Relationship

From Seduction To Attraction To A Relationship

One of the most frequesntly asked questions about the art of seduction is why it works for some people and not others. But before I can answer that question, I want to point out that there are two kinds of seduction. The one in which the art of seduction connotes sex appeal or sexual enticement using a specific series of smooth fast talking [...]

A Real Man Is Not Afraid To Show Emotion

A Real Man Is Not Afraid To Show Emotion

Does crying make you more or less of a man? This is one of those age-old questions which get taken for granted and has never been fully answered, until now... Crying has always been believed to be a sign of femininity and a trait that should be left to women. In cultures where "Macho" or "Alpha Male" are considered a symbol of masculinity [...]

Why She Doesn’t Want To Talk To You

Why She Doesn’t Want To Talk To You

One of my very favourite pastimes is watch people interact with each other. The other day, I was at a party and saw this really gorgeous woman flash an enticing smile in the direction on a group of guys looking at her as she walked in. A few minutes later, a well-dressed guy, a drink in hand, sauntered over to the woman and said “Hi”. I was [...]

Why Women Call And Text Men

Why Women Call And Text Men

There was once a time when men were expected to make the first moves in courtship, but research suggests it is now women who take the lead, relentlessly pursuing lovers with phone calls and texts. A study of mobile phone traffic indicates that women are more intent than men on having a romantic relationship. "It's the first really strong [...]

Interested Or Deceptively Flirting?

Interested Or Deceptively Flirting?

When it comes to assessing the romantic playing field -- who might be interested in whom -- men and women were shown to be equally good at gauging men's interest during an Indiana University study involving speed dating -- and equally bad at judging women's interest. Researchers expected women to have a leg up in judging romantic interest, [...]

Do You Trust Your Gut First Impressions?

Do You Trust Your Gut First Impressions?

First impressions are important, and they usually contain a healthy dose both of accuracy and misperception. But do people know when their first impressions are correct? They do reasonably well, according to a study in the current Social Psychological and Personality Science (published by SAGE). The research team, led by Jeremy Biesanz of the [...]

Less Facebook Is Better For Your Relationship

Less Facebook Is Better For Your Relationship

Most men and women today would rather use Facebook to get in tough with a boy/girlfriend, partner or even ex they want back. But a study on couples who communicate using Facebook has warned of the strain that Facebook could be putting on relationships. Oxford University psychologists found husbands and wives who kept in touch using social media [...]

“You’re Hot and Sexy” Conversation Starters

“You’re Hot and Sexy” Conversation Starters

It’s so common to hear the words “personality is more important than looks” and I personally have a reputation for touting personality over looks when it comes to choosing a long term partner. That’s not to say that I don’t think physical attraction should play a part in choosing a mate. It makes no sense dating someone you’re not [...]

How Do I Show Men I’m Available But Not Easy?

How Do I Show Men I’m Available But Not Easy?

Question: I write to you because I was very impressed by your e-book that I found very well-written and informative. I am well educated, Ph.D., intelligent, blonde petite and I’ve been told I’m quite attractive. I take excellent care of myself and always look good when I go out especially to the beach with my bikini. I also enjoy the [...]

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