Friday November 28th 2014

‘Flirting’ Archives

How Do I Show I Like Him Without Chasing Him?

How Do I Show I Like Him Without Chasing Him?

Question: We went out on three dates and he seemed really so into me but I think he lost interest because I acted shy and awkward around him. The last time we went out, he made some remark about sometimes letting my hair down and live a little. The next day we spoke on the phone briefly and since then it’s been two weeks and I’ve not heard [...]

Is He Shy Or Just Likes Me As A Friend

Is He Shy Or Just Likes Me As A Friend

Question: I loved your article, The Best Men Are Often Too Shy To Chase Women - They Need A Little Help From You. It’s the best I’ve read on shy men. I met a guy I’m very attracted to; 38, divorced with no kids. I’m 40 divorced with one son. He and my brother-in- law co-own an investment firm. One day my brother-in-law jokingly [...]

When Does a Friend Become a Romantic Interest?

When Does a Friend Become a Romantic Interest?

Question: I recently met a guy on an online dating site. We chatted for three weeks and in all that time not once did I feel that butterflies in the stomach feeling. When he told me he was going to call me, two days before we spoke for the first time, I forgot about it until the phone rang. He said he was nervous but I was as calm as can be. When [...]

A Real Man Is Not Afraid To Show Emotion

A Real Man Is Not Afraid To Show Emotion

Does crying make you more or less of a man? This is one of those age-old questions which get taken for granted and has never been fully answered, until now... Crying has always been believed to be a sign of femininity and a trait that should be left to women. In cultures where "Macho" or "Alpha Male" are considered a symbol of masculinity [...]

Why Women Call And Text Men They’re Interested In

Why Women Call And Text Men They’re Interested In

There was a time when men were expected to make the first moves in courtship, but research suggests it is now women who take the lead, relentlessly pursuing lovers with phone calls and texts. A study of mobile phone traffic indicates that women are more intent than men on having a romantic relationship. "It's the first really strong evidence [...]

From Seduction To Attraction To A Relationship

From Seduction To Attraction To A Relationship

One of the most frequesntly asked questions about the art of seduction is why it works for some people and not others. But before I can answer that question, I want to point out that there are two kinds of seduction. The one in which the art of seduction connotes sex appeal or sexual enticement using a specific series of smooth fast talking [...]

5 Bad Boy Traits Women Find Irresistible – Pt 2

5 Bad Boy Traits Women Find Irresistible – Pt 2

Continued from Part 1 The sex appeal of a bad boy is real, so real that once we women go "BAD" it's really hard for us to go "NICE" -- BUT of course there has to be more to the boy than badness for badness sake. Regardless of what we women say we want from the men in our lives, and regardless of what society tells us to want, on some deep [...]

Interested Or Deceptively Flirting?

Interested Or Deceptively Flirting?

When it comes to assessing the romantic playing field -- who might be interested in whom -- men and women were shown to be equally good at gauging men's interest during an Indiana University study involving speed dating -- and equally bad at judging women's interest. Researchers expected women to have a leg up in judging romantic interest, [...]

It’s Your Body That Is The Giveaway

It’s Your Body That Is The Giveaway

It's not facial expression that gives away what you're thinking, it's your body, says a new research. Yes, your body is talking -- and saying things about you that you may not want others to know! "Much like speakers blaring at maximum volume, the quality of the facial signal becomes degraded and noisy," says Dr Aviezer. In the study, [...]

Do Guys Lose Interest If You Reveal Too Much?

Do Guys Lose Interest If You Reveal Too Much?

Question: I read your blog: The "Rules" and Playing Dating Mind Games. While I agree with some things you say, I do not think that women should be open and forthcoming in the first few dates. I’ve been out on great first few dates with a number of great guys but nothing that lasted for more than 3- 4 dates. The last guy I went out with was [...]

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