‘Relationship Dynamics’ Archives
How To Stop Over Thinking And Overanalyzing Your Relationship
An attractive co-worker or even perfect stranger says “hi” to you and you automatically start obsessing and analyzing every little body language. Why did she touch her hair; what does it mean if she also uncrosses her arms; is there a future for the relationship etc. A guy you’ve gone out with only three times isn’t acting like his [...]
Help! I’m In Love With Two Women At The Same Time
Question: We have been happily married for 9 years and have two wonderful children. Four months ago I ran into my high school sweetheart and my first love and now my life has been turned upside down. My feelings for her have not changed at all. Don’t get me wrong, I love my wife very much. She is my soul mate. We have a good marriage [...]
Strange Bedfellows – Why Are You With Him or Her?
There are some relationships that make you think, "why are you even together?" As an outsider, it seems so obvious to you that the relationship is toxic and each person is better of with someone else. But it's not so obvious to the person in the relationship - and may have not been so obvious to you when you were in a relationship that others [...]
Behind Your Partner Or Ex’s Words: What They Definitely Don’t Want You To Know
One of the things I do and - I’ve long discovered - frustrates some of my clients is my insistence on “What exactly did he/she say, when, why and how did he/she say it?” Most respond with “I can’t remember the exact words… but I think he/she meant…” Some other responses include “Is it really that important?” or “It’s [...]
One More Reason To See Him Or Her: People Lie More Via Email Study Says
Not many people enjoy lying, and even less people enjoy admitting to it. But try as we might, most of us have had to do it at one point or another. There are several complex explanations for why humans fib, but a group of researchers recently found that our weapon of choice may play a role in altering the truth. A study published in the Journal [...]
Recipe For A Crazy Hot Sex Life [Women Only]
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All relationships need nurturing in order to thrive. This nurturing extends to your sex life as well. Sadly, for most women (and men) this is the part of the relationship that they are least likely to pay much attention to and one most still feel embarrassed to admit they’re not doing too well in. A good majority are let down by the all often [...]
One Strong Indicator Of Satisfaction In A Romantic Relationship
In My article “How To Get Close To Someone You Love”, I wrote about how you can get closer to the person you love by spending time and effort inspiring and helping each other achieve a "you," an "I," and a "we." A study by UC Berkeley researchers found that the use of “we” language is a natural outgrowth of a sense of partnership, of [...]
Barriers To Love – When It Is Too Good To Be True
I was first introduced to Second Life by a man who wanted help getting his ex wife back. He told me from the moment they met they both instantly knew they were meant to be together. A week after they met, he proposed and she said yes. Although it was a private wedding, it was the wedding of their dreams. Wedding night sex, the morning [...]
It’s Been Said Sex Sells But It’s More Like Sex Fixes Everything
It's been said sex sells but it's more like sex fixes everything: horniness, loneliness, frustration, sadness, a headache, work stress, boredom, emotional vulnerability, low self esteem, guilt, a fight (especially that one!) etc. Things that have nothing at all to do with sex, let alone making love. For many couples, sex is the "default [...]
If Someone Loved You They Would Change For You
Experts agree that the reasons we so easily choose the “wrong people” are varied and complex. After a lifetime with automatic pilot set on “seeking acceptance” and working hard to get people to love you, you may be so accustomed to offering up who you are and your power to win acceptance and love that you are not choosing well. The [...]
